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Branam14 · December 2015

Hello! My husband and but have been married a year now. We think I may be pregnant but not sure yet. Having symptoms and went and had a faint pink line for positive about a week ago but its hard for me to get pregnant so we are skeptical. I took two more dollar store tests and they said negative. So we are gonna try another in about week. I dunno if this OK to post here but we are living in a travel trailer just big enough for us and can hardly take of ourselves. I'm worried that we won't be able to take care of our precious angel if we are pregnant. Does anyone have any advice. I'm so worried!!! It brought me to tears this morning.

smmatt08 · December 2015

Branam14 said:

Hello! My husband and but have been married a year now. We think I may be pregnant but not sure yet. Having symptoms and went and had a faint pink line for positive about a week ago but its hard for me to get pregnant so we are skeptical. I took two more dollar store tests and they said negative. So we are gonna try another in about week. I dunno if this OK to post here but we are living in a travel trailer just big enough for us and can hardly take of ourselves. I'm worried that we won't be able to take care of our precious angel if we are pregnant. Does anyone have any advice. I'm so worried!!! It brought me to tears this morning.

QFP

DCHokiemom · December 2015

No, it's not ok to post this here.

Megzb510 · December 2015

It's against TOU to ask if you are pregnant. Test once a week and go to your dr if you don't get your period for 60 days.

Also, this is a *trying* to get pregnant board. You telling us about how you are in tears over being pregnant isn't going to go over well here.

Branam14 · December 2015

What's qfp

Branam14 · December 2015

And I am very new. I don't know where anything is quite yet. So I'm sorry if I offended anyone.

izza2 · December 2015

Branam14 said:

Hello! My husband and but have been married a year now. We think I may be pregnant but not sure yet. Having symptoms and went and had a faint pink line for positive about a week ago but its hard for me to get pregnant so we are skeptical. I took two more dollar store tests and they said negative. So we are gonna try another in about week. I dunno if this OK to post here but we are living in a travel trailer just big enough for us and can hardly take of ourselves. I'm worried that we won't be able to take care of our precious angel if we are pregnant. Does anyone have any advice. I'm so worried!!! It brought me to tears this morning.

Really? This has to be the worst drive-by I've seen yet.

Let's just come on to a TTC board, say we're pregnant, and talk about how we're in tears over it -- and not out of sheer happiness.

MrsDho11 · December 2015

Image: https://media3.giphy.com/media/QrvRiHPzlVY6Q/giphy.gif

I believe that covers most of my range of emotions at this post.

Megzb510 · December 2015

Branam14 said:
What's qfp

It's means quoted for posterity. A lot of these types of posts go south because you aren't supposed to post this here. People then try to delete the posts but you've been quoted so it'll stay in the thread now.

This post is considered really, really rude for this board, where women are trying to get pregnant and you say you are sad about being pregnant.

babymish · December 2015

This is awful, I'm finding is really difficult impossible to muster u anything constructive for this.

babymish · December 2015

simcal18 · December 2015

Branam14 said:

And I am very new. I don't know where anything is quite yet. So I'm sorry if I offended anyone.

*** Removed for TOU violation***

smmatt08 · December 2015

babymish said:
This is awful, I'm finding is really difficult impossible to muster u anything constructive for this.

I was at a complete loss for words also which is why all I did was "QFP." It didn't deserve much more of my attention.

NamelessAria · December 2015

OP I understand your confusion if you saw a faint line, then BFNs. And I even understand your worries about your ability to provide for a baby if you are pregnant.

What I don't understand is why you'd post this on a trying to get pregnant board instead of a pregnancy board or a general life concerns board. I'm not sure where I would have posted this but definitely not on a trying to get pregnant board where many women have been struggling to have a baby for a very long time and would give anything to just simply be pregnant.

I also don't understand how you'd know it's hard for you to get pregnant if you haven't been trying... which given your concerns for your ability to provide for your possible baby, it sounds as if you weren't trying.

Like others have said: this post isn't going to go over well. Prepare yourself for that. Just don't delete the post because it's rude and, I promise you, it will only make people more upset.

Prepare yourself - Prepare yourself Negative reactions are coming

Prepare yourself - Prepare yourself Negative reactions are coming

PeggyOlsonFTW · December 2015

MamaPerkins · December 2015

OP if you read this and are pregnant I'd like you to know I understand the fear that goes into providing for a new baby. My second pregnancy was unplanned, I was married to an addict that chose many things over his family. I was breastfeeding and thought I was covered so the positive pregnancy test was very scary. We had a 6 month old and I was our sole provider. I'm writing all this to let you know that it will be ok. My daughter is now 4, she is an amazing blessing. I cannot imagine my life without her and I regret the way I reacted when I found out I was pregnant.
There are many programs that will help you survive and provide for child. I wish you the best of luck and please PM me if you have any questions or need to talk.

BumpAdmin · December 2015

This thread has been closed. Please do not post pictures of your pregnancy test and ask the Community if you are pregnant. Instead, please visit our 1st Trimester board to discuss early possible pregnancy symptoms and the thread pinned to the top of this board called, “What does a positive pregnancy test really look like?” where members are permitted to display their pregnancy tests.

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