WTO Wednesday

m6agua · December 2015

Month/Cycle:

CD:

WAYDTGKU:

R/R/CS:

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you?

ShallowSeas · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 13/14

CD: 11

WAYDTGKU: all the things

R/R/CS: FW started last night!! I'm ready to get the cycle done and over with. Obviously I want to be pregnant this cycle, but if that's not gonna happen then I wanna hurry up and start AF so I can start tx with the RE. I'm feeling very impatient.

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you? The worst way I've dumped someone was had my friend do it over the phone...I was also 13 at the time, so that really doesn't count. As an adult I've never dumped someone is a horrible way. When I was living with my ex, he came home out of the blue one day saying, "I'm not able to treat you the way you deserve to be treated. I have issues with myself I need to work on" which was CLEARLY a bullshit line. He also suggested that one of us move out and 'separate' for a little bit. I looked for an apartment the next day, moved out as soon as it was available, only to discover that he had started spending time with a girl he's known for years. I ended that relationship real quick. I started dating DH shortly after so it all worked out

iceandsnowflakes29 · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 2

CD: 13

WAYDTGKU: going crazy. See below.

R/R/CS: Um. I really need someone to talk me off a ledge here. I have a *gut* feeling that I am either

A) not ovulating
Or

ovulating late in my cycle with a LPD. Last month I charted half my cycle wad felt really confidant that I o'ed and then 3 days later started my period. I'm breastfeeding still and I can't help but fear it is jacking things up. I know they sat "you're regular til you're not" but my past charts all have O days between CDs 20 -23. Blahhhhhh! AND I think my CD 11 +OPK was a false surge. BASICALLY I'M GOING CRAZAY.

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you?

I dumped a guy before going out on a date with the new boyfriend. I was a teenager. I know that's pretty mean but I would never do something like that now lol.

Chart below:

iceandsnowflakes29 · December 2015

I have no clue how I got a smiley in my first post. To further feed the crazy here is an old chart. (The CH are wrong on it )

kfair001 · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 2/2 (only 1 OPK & BBT)

CD: 9

WAYDTGKU: OPK, BBT, BD ED starting today

R/R/CS: Looks like my temp is back to normal this morning. I figured that yesterday was just a weird one off. DH and I were supposed to start BD ED last night but we both ended up working late and just weren't able to make it happen. Tonight it is! TMI - but we both need it!

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you? The worst way that I have dumped somebody was when I was 19 and it was over voicemail. I had just met my now DH and I just knew that I had to be with him. Didn't even want to wait to get a hold of the ex, I was too focused on moving on. Looking back it kind of sounds like a jerk move but we weren’t together very long (4 months tops) and I was a kid!! AND it looks like I made the right decision because it all worked out.

m6agua · December 2015

@iceandsnowflakes29 I would say just HIO and see what your chart does. Your still early in Charting and once you get a few charts you'll see what's your normal. It's the whole picture not the individual data points. Also I am guessing BF does have an effect in your cycles

Month/Cycle: 4/4

CD: 14

WAYDTGKU: NTNP this cycle

R/R/CS: I scheduled an appointment with a counselor tomorrow to talk about all the loss in my life. I hope it goes well.

GTKY: i was dating a guy senior year/summer after HS. His dad ran the ferry that goes between Wisconsin & Michigan. He really wanted to take me. So we went for the day with the stipulation of talking. We drove 45 minutes home and I dumped him when he dropped me at home. Part of the reason was I had seen an old flame the week before at the fireworks with friends and the feelings came back. That old flame is DH.

LittleMissTimeLord · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 3/3

CD: 15

WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPK, PNV, CM

R/R/CS: Well this FW is turning out to be different than my last couple. I've gotten used to a very short LH surge and a clear temperature shift. Now I've had a slow shift and two days of +OPKs. At this point I'm confused about if/when I ovulated. Hopefully I'll see the higher temperatures continue, but for now I'm just mad my chart doesn't look like the last two.

Edited to add: The last two cycles I've seen a +OPK on the day of ovulation. With the longer surge this time I was expecting that would be different and that I would ovulate the second day of +OPK, but it looks like if I but in another temp tomorrow equal to today's that it's telling me I ovulated the same day as my +OPK again. Y U SO TRICKY, UTERUS?!

GTKY: My first thought was when I broke up with one of the many middle school boyfriends I had. I actually found an old diary recently so this one's fresh in my memory. I was dating Gary but it really wasn't working out (insomuch as holding hands and passing notes can be working out), and I had a crush on Jake. At the dance Jake asked me if I wanted to dance and since I had a boyfriend I said I couldn't. Then my friend told me to dance with Jake and she would handle Gary. So I danced with Jake and my friend found Gary down the hall and told him that we were over and I liked Jake now. He wrote me a note the next day telling me I was a total bitch. Ah, young love.

Lecool · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 2/2

CD: 14

WAYDTGKU: Temping, CM, HIO

R/R/CS: My temp looks like it's on the rise, and I've had EWCM, so looks like O day is near. I feel a little guilty about knowing this information from temping, because DH still isn't on board, and thinks I should "stop obsessing, it will happen when it happens". I ignore that advice - because it isn't my personality to be so passive about it and I know that isn't how this whole thing works. But knowing this info makes me feel like I'm tricking him into having sex with me or something. Not that he minds. Once I've completed a full cycle temping, I plan on showing him my chart and explaining the birds & the bees to him. He's a logical person, so I think seeing the science experiment that is TTC will make him more understanding.

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you?

The day before our high school orientation, my very first boyfriend dumped me via Myspace. Apparently, he didn't want to be tied down now that we were going to be big high schoolers. I wasn't that broken up about it, but I did get some satisfaction from the fact that he didn't date a single person from then until graduation.

housewifehobbyist · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 5/5

CD: 9

WAYDTGKU: just HIO, kinda NTNP

R/R/CS: *TW-CP mentioned* I came down with a bad depressive episode after my cp earlier this month. I have a history with depression and I guess hormones + bad news = major depression for me. It's especially tough with the holidays and all the parties and things going on that I have to struggle through. I don't want to add extra stress and disappointment to this month so I'm taking it easy and not tracking fertility this time around and just having sex when we want to, if we get KU great, if not we can start fresh in January. I didn't want to make a whole new post about it, but any stories of how taking a break did you well would be appreciated!

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you? When I was 20 and in my first "adult" relationship I was dating this guy who was 25, handsome, well eduacted, and came from old east coast money. I was so impressed by him I missed so many warning signs. About six months into the relationship he starts saying horrible racist things very casually at dinner. I was so shocked and horrified I just excused myself to the restroom, left the restaurant through a back door, and broke up with him via text the next day.

smmatt08 · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 2/2

CD: 17

WAYDTGKU: PNVs, CM, not much else right now since we are still NTNP

R/R/CS: TMI: I think I have a yeast infection so I probably need to make a doctor’s appointment. Not too happy about that!

GTKY: I dumped my high school boyfriend via email, I was 14. My college boyfriend dumped me in the middle of finals week!

shaami1986 · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 5/6

CD: 3

WAYDTGKU: Temping vaginally and I swear I'm going to follow through with it this time and not chicken out because I'm scared of finding out something bad. Going to start BD EOD beginning after AF and probably go to ED when I am closer to expected O.

R/R/CS: I love my mother and I believe her intentions are good, but she needs to learn boundaries. Example, if she doesn't like or approve of something she will make passive aggressive comments to make me feel embarrassed, guilty or wrong for liking or choosing it. She doesn't know we are TTC #2 now but she always makes comments about how she doesn't think that we should, it would take away from what we can do for and give to DS. Her most recent comment "Children aren't trophies you know". How am I almost 30 years old and still worried about my mother being upset with me for not doing everything in my life how she wants me to?

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you?

When I was 16 I was good friends with a guy who asked me to go to prom. In my mind that was us going as friends, in his mind, I had just confirmed that we were in a relationship. This became clear when he basically attacked my face with his mouth on the dance floor...I was really uncomfortable and weirded out, so I bolted and left with other friends. The guy was so mad at me for "dumping" him at prom that he stole my shoes (you know how girls take them off to dance in flip flops) and refused to give them back.

Before I met DH I had been dating a guy for about 6 months. We went to dinner for my birthday and he told me that he had been talking to a guy at work who lived "an alternative lifestyle" and he wanted to have a relationship in which I was his "main relationship" but he saw other women as well. To answer your next question, no, it didn't go both ways, I was supposed to just be with him. I said no thank you and he said that this was very important to him, so we broke up...before our entrees even came....at my birthday dinner. I met DH a few months later so I dodged a bullet and it all worked out haha

kfair001 · December 2015

@Lecool, So funny you say that. My DH is the same. "It'll happen when it happens", and "you just have to be patient". Doesn't he know I don't have patients??

Also, with the tricking DH into sex, haha. I sometimes feel the same. I feel like I'm withholding information from him but he does not seem to have a problem with it at all!

sldp123 · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 6/6

CD: 14

WAYDTGKU: Temping, OPK, PNV, but still missing the major piece, haha

R/R/CS: I think today might be O day, I'm not sure though. I think I missed my surge. I was out of Wondos so I bought some $ store OPKs over the weekend. Well the Wondfos came yesterday, so when I got home for whatever reason I felt like I needed to test with both. The $ store looked almost positive, but the Wondfo was super light. But when I tested this morning with both again, they were both even lighter than yesterday. I don't typically get an obvious positive on OPKs, so I always count my darkest as positive and it lines up with my temps, so now I'm thinking that was yesterday's $ store test. But now I'm just questioning my whole life because if I hadn't ever bought the $ store tests, I would have never known. Meanwhile, all of that is just to say that we haven't had sex lately because of DH's SA and us both being sick, so it probably doesn't matter anyway. I just want to know if I O'd so I can know when to expect AF so I can hurry up and get my CD3 testing done.

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you? I don't really have a good story. There was one time in middle school when I was grounded and not allowed to talk on the phone. I had my BFF break up with my boyfriend for me, she was going to do it over the weekend, but I had no way to contact her to find out if she had actually done it. I remember thinking if I ran into him at the grocery store or something over the weekend, I wouldn't even know if we were still a couple, lol.

shaami1986 · December 2015

@Lecool and @kfair001 I feel the same way, like I am tricking him, but after the first month when I shared the information with him, he got so nervous knowing that he "had to do it" because it was "the right time" that he got incredibly gun shy. So, he knows we are trying but I just don't tell him "ok, this is for the win cause I'm ovulating soon". I think it is really common for men to get nervous when they know about the timing. I'm not sure why exactly, but I have heard from a lot of women that they do.

_darth · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 5/5

CD: 12

WAYDTGKU: You know. Peeing on things.

R/R/CS: I ordered a colour sensor yesterday for an arduino based OP strip reader. Will post the layout and code when I am done, if anyone is interested.

GTKY: I... was dating this guy for a couple of months, without much enthusiasm before deciding that I should probably sleep with him, mostly out of boredom. Okay, please understand that I haven't seen that many penises at the time, and his was just so... weird looking - like a small handful of peanuts in a flesh sock. And he was just so irrationally proud of it. So, I maybe laughed for longer than social norms dictate, and maybe I then said "Okay, we're done here. Put your pants back on." and maybe I stopped taking his phone calls. Yes, I am a bitch. But it was *really* weird looking.

Edit for clarity: Did not sleep with guy. Laughed at penis, then left forever.

Lecool · December 2015

@DarthFuriosa "like a small handful of peanuts in a flesh sock." I'M DYING.

PJpeppercorn · December 2015

****question and CS****

Month/Cycle: 7/2 (IUD out in April, cycle started last month after extended breastfeeding)

CD: 24

WAYDTGKU: all of it and BD ED after +OPK

R/R/CS: I've always had a temp rise on the day of or the day after my +OPK. I'm a big tester and start testing two to three times a day when I start getting EWCM because I feel like my surge is kind of short. I had my first positive OPK yesterday morning and yesterday from around 4-8pm I had (what I thought was) aching O pain on one side. I really thought I'd have a temp rise and this morning, no rise and another positive OPK. Does this seem like maybe just a fake-out surge?

I know, I know, just wait and see and HIO! Lol With this long cycle I'm just so looking forward to being in the TWW and in that period where there is nothing I can do vs. feeling maybe there's something more I can and should do.

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you?

I ended an engagement after being together for years. It just wasn't right and in the end the best thing for both of us. I tried to be very kind about it but I'm sure he didn't see it that way at first.

virginiaham · December 2015

@iceandsnowflakes29 I don't see anovulatory in your last cycle. It looks biphasic to me and the CHs look pretty accurate. Why are you thinking the CHs are wrong? Keep HIO and see what your chart does this cycle. I've definitely been there with the going crazy.

= B/) minus the /. That emoji has gotten me, too!

Month/Cycle: 4/3

CD: 36

WAYDTGKU: All of it, using my last OPK on the day I was supposed to test for my TWW.

R/R/CS: No sign of AF so I can move...back to WTO. Ugh my heart goes out to all of you who are spending an inordinate amount of time here in WTO. H keeps asking me if he is watering the desert. He is ready for me to see a doc like, now.

GTKY: I guess over voicemail. We were long-distance and had just had a huge fight right before he was about to deploy to Iraq, ending in him hanging up on me. For the next few days he didn't call, he wouldn't answer and he would hang up if he accidentally answered. I thought that was his way of breaking up with me and there was no way I was going to spend a year+ deployment hanging around for that and no way I was going to go silently in the night. It sounds awful but it turns out he was quite an asshole and it was a huge favor to both of us.

PJpeppercorn · December 2015

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mom2adoodle · December 2015

@PJpeppercorn I'm going to be a nuisance and say HIO and temp it out

I had fake out lh surges last cycle and boy was that frustrating. Fingers crossed for you. But based on your chart I wouldn't be surprised if you O'd yesterday or even today.

PJpeppercorn · December 2015

@virginiaham -- ugh! Sorry you have to be here for so long! Fingers crossed something happens for you soon!

mom2adoodle · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 3/2 after loss

CD: 26 (curse you long cycles!!!)

WAYDTGKU: Pnv, preseed, bd ed, temping, checking cm, waiting wishing

R/R/CS: Still crossing my fingers on O yesterday or two days ago. Also, looking at my past chart it's amazing how wack my cycle was last month after my chemical! I'm happy my body seems to be adjusting now. Emphasis on "seems."

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you?

My first real break up was terrible. Basically he said he "wanted to be free" and slept with another girl. Cool beans.

PJpeppercorn · December 2015

@mom2adoodle thanks! You're right about waiting it out and I HOPE you're right about today or tomorrow!

sarah0985 · December 2015

@severmilli12 fx'ed for you. If not, good luck with the RE.
@iceandsnowflakes29 it's still so early in your cycle, don't stress just yet. I have heard breastfeeding changes things so that could be it. (No experience with that though)
@m6agua good luck. Talking things out can do wonders. I hope it helps you in the ways you need.
@Lecool noticing your cm certainly isn't tricking your husband. I've noticed it for years. It'd be odd if you didn't notice it IMO.
@housewifehobbyist I don't have any stories of breaks although we did consider it at one point and then opted against it. I hope it helps you though.
@smmatt08 ugh! Just ugh. I'm sorry about that. I hate those.
@shaami1986 what are you afraid will be wrong? Is it irrational fear or do you have a history of something? As I read on here, don't borrow trouble unless there's a cause.
@DarthFuriosa oh my! I laughed at your dump story! Haha
@PJpeppercorn you may just o tomorrow. You already stated the advice I'd give. Hio and wait. Haha
@virginiaham I've o'd late in the 30's of one cycle. Don't throw in the towel yet!

sarah0985 · December 2015

***chart stalk and questions please*** Month/cycle: 8/7 Cd: 21 Waydtgku: sex, cm, and temping to confirm O R/r/cs: So yesterday I was having sharp pains around my ovary (a usual occurrence for me that I do not associate exclusively with ovulation but last month lined up with it correctly) I said I expected a high temp today which I did get. I put in my temp and it gave me cross hairs for 5 days ago. (Not trusting it. Included that chart) Then, (possibly tmi) today when I had a bm and wiped, it felt like watery/slippery cm but I couldn't pinpoint where it was coming from if that makes sense. If I put that CM in FF for today it removes my crosshairs. (I put both charts attached) Question A. What do you constitute as cm? I know it says you can check after a bm but does it mean when you wipe or to check internally after bm? (Thank God for you ladies. There's just no one else I could possibly ask these questions!) Question B. Should I put the watery cm or remove it and make a note and see what happens? (I definitely don't trust the crosshairs 5 days ago) Gtky: It was the guy I dated before my husband. I had begun to suspect him of lying and cheating. So in my dramatic 22-year-old heart broken self, told him to call me when he decided to be an honest person. We didn't live together but I had a ton of stuff at his place. I moved all my stuff out. 1 week later another women moved in with him to "stay for awhile" while she looked for a place to stay. I wish I could say that was the end. That was only the first awful dump or be dumped situation. Went back to him 2-3 months later, actually eventually moved in him with him for over a year. It took me moving 9,000 miles away to end it. It finally ended for good 9 months after I left, when I called and said I wasn't coming home. 4 years and a phone call was it. He hung up on me and that was it. (Insert eye-roll at former dumb-ass young self)
ETA: Not as bad as some of yours but really all that I have. Any of my others were generic break-ups.

MamaMunn · December 2015

@housewifehobbyist. I'm so sorry about your loss. I don't have an advice, I just wanted to offer some creepy internet hugs.

@shaami1986 Sorry about your mother! My MIL is kind of the same way and it takes all that I have not to tell her off every single time she says something.

@DarthFuriosa Your posts always make me laugh. That weird looking penis story...omg!

Month/Cycle: 3/2

CD: 29

WAYDTGKU: Well we've moved more into NTNP this cycles. We've just been traveling so much and have been so busy that there hasn't been many chances to HIO. My chart looks like a mess because of this and I don't think I've ovulated yet, so we'll see

R/R/CS: I've come to the conclusion that I'm totally okay with this not being our cycle. There is just too much going on this month and I'm moving the day after Christmas. I feel like I'm already being pulled in 12 different directions!

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you? In high school I had a boyfriend who said he loved me after only dating for 2 weeks. That really freaked me out so I just stopped answering his calls. After like a week he just decided to show up at my house...awkward.

PJpeppercorn · December 2015

@sarah0985 I think once you have a few high temps it will put the crosshairs in the right place. Can you put in some fake high temps the next couple days and see? Also-- I usually get a day of wet EWCM after my temp rise.

mom2adoodle · December 2015

@sarah0985 I'm with you that I'm not trusting your CH. Unless you always O super early? I had the same issue with CH way earlier than I expected but then FF took them away after more temps and a fertile cm patch.

As for the cm, keep an eye on it today. I can always tell what my cm is by checking my underwear and tissue after wiping. It's definitely hard to decipher between cm sometimes so I feel you! Let's see what the cm gods bring you today and tomorrow. That'll be more telling. Good luck.

beary67 · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 2/2

CD: 12

WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPKs, CM

R/R/CS: None today

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you? In high school, my boyfriend dumped me over the phone because he said he needed to focus on football. The next week, he got a concussion during a game and then the following week got another concussion during a game and was not able to play for the rest of the season. Karma?? In all seriousness--I know concussions are a big deal and have long term effects, so I hope he is ok!

_darth · December 2015

@Ally989 Happy to be of service.

JustBored10 · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 2/2

CD: 16

WAYDTGKU: Sex, OPK's, CM and Cervix tracking

R/R/CS: I am thinking yesterday was my O day. My mucus is drying up and my cervix was still soft but low last night. It was high and I had EWCM Monday. My underarms and sides of my breast began to get sore yesterday and is increasing today.

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you?

When I was younger my ex turned 21 and I was still 19. He would be with me all week long but then all the sudden it was Friday and he would not contact me till Sunday (basically he was dumping me every weekend to go party at the bars). I remember showing up to a party he was at one night, finding him with another girl and smacked him across the face.

shaami1986 · December 2015

@sarah0985 No I don't have any history or "reason" to worry, I am just a natural worst case scenario control freak worrier, so in my mind, if I start temping I will find out that I am not actually ovulating. I know, it is irrational, its just me haha

@DarthFuriosa You win at life, I love you, be my friend haha I can't even with the skin sack of peanuts and the irrational pride!

sarah0985 · December 2015

@shaami1986 I understand. I was the same. I was having super irregular (up to 45 days) cycles and was convinced it was because I wasn't ovulating as well. Turns out, I just ovulate later than "normal." I hope you can temp successfully this cycle and all is okay!

vampirina · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 2/2

CD: 10

WAYDTGKU:

R/R/CS: DH is coming home from his work trip! So our house is going to be all ^^^^

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you?

I've never really been dumped or dumped another! I was kind of dating a guy who kept trying to dump me, but I was like "WE WERE NEVER TOGETHER!" He thought I was in love with him or something, but we only went out like twice. It was very, very weird. Otherwise, DH is my one and only serious relationship!

sarah0985 · December 2015

@PJpeppercorn I don't know why I didn't think of that! If I put in 2 high temps tomorrow and the day after it puts crosshairs yesterday! Will wait and see what happens!
@mom2adoodle I'm typically a late O but also irregular so no real norm for me. It's already late in the day for me where I live and haven't had any other discharge of any kind. I even wore colored underwear today so I could check. I think I'll leave the watery cm as I'll just assume that it was cm. thank you ladies!

MissAmeliaPond · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 4

CD: 15

WAYDTGKU: all the things

R/R/CS: DH told me last night right before we were about to HIO that he might have to fly out of state tomorrow or Friday, or possibly Monday. I was so mad! He KNOWS this is FW... I felt so betrayed. My body is being really unpredictable this month with fertile CM 3 days earlier than expected, and I kind of suspect I might O tomorrow or Friday, so I was pushing him to push for his trip to be Monday, but everything is still up in the air. As of this morning it sounds like he won't have to fly tomorrow, at least, but Friday is still a possibility. I really hope the other people involved agree on Monday because then we'd be able to definitely cover all of FW. I'm just sad at the prospect of not having great timing this month, and it's already month 4. I know it's not that long into the grand scheme of trying, but it's still a struggle. I don't know how people keep doing this - I'm almost ready to give up. My emotions can't take it!

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you? I mean... most of my serious relationships prior to DH have ended in blow out fights (that I would so rather not discuss). However, I was casually dating this one guy in college who was super duper cute and sweet, but one day he sent me a text with the word phenomenal spelled something like "fenominal", and I kind of stopped responding to his texts after that... I'm a bad person. He didn't deserve that, but I was 21, so how much can you expect?

shaami1986 · December 2015

@sarah0985 my shortest cycle has been 25 days and my longest has been 32 and, even though I can't confirm it, it seems like my O has been as early as cd 11 and as late as cd 19 or 20. So, hopefully I can get some peace of mind with the temping. I'm rationalizing that even if I see that I'm not ovulating, I will at least know that there is something going on and try to get it taken care of. I also keep reminding myself that all the "normal" stats for cycle days and O days are just guidelines and that we can't be like clockwork at all times if we aren't fem bots haha

strickland8052 · December 2015

DarthFuriosa - Your story.... "We're done here." and the description....dying!

Month/Cycle: 2/2 (1 AL)

CD: 14

WAYDTGKU: Currently benched. Counting the days until AF, so we can try again.

R/R/CS: I'm pretty sure I o'ed yesterday. I probably should head to the TWW, but I don't wanna. Since I am benched, it feels more like WTO for next month's O (even though I know I got to wait for AF first. Can I just stay here for another month?

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you?

My first college boyfriend wouldn't answer his phone for two weeks. I figured that was his way of breaking up with me, so I changed my FB status to single. He called in tears 2 minutes later. Whatever...he was an arse.

Before DH and I started officially dating, I was kinda seeing a guy in the Army. My heart was really with DH, but it didn't seem like he was interested so I was trying to move on. Army guy seemed really into me, but suddenly stopped answering my calls (flashback to first college boyfriend time!). DH then finally expressed his interest in me, so we started dating and I figured Army guy was over it anyway. Well... a couple of days later, Army guy called me frantically, saying that he had been wanting to call me so bad, but his phone broke. He was in training out in the field for days and had no way of calling me or getting my number and that he was sooooo sorry. He then asked me if we were still on for some plans we had made that following weekend. I had to tell him that I had started seeing someone else. This guy was a really nice guy, so I felt sooooooo bad. Fortunately, we are both happily married now (to other people), so all is well.

par_mach_kai · December 2015

Month/Cycle: 2/2

CD: 11

WAYDTGKU: Temping, OPKs, PNV, HIO

R/R/CS: Just starting to get antsy about the big O day and starting to HIO. I usually ovulate around CD 15-17 (never really temped before, but according to my OPKs, assuming I O 24 hours later).

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you? I think the worst times have been when you are with someone, he's calling you, you're calling him, you see each other a lot. And then crickets. Without explanation. I would rather someone tell me straight to my face, "hey I'm just not interested in you." The times when a guy has told me that was (while initially awkward) fantastic because then I wouldn't have to obsess. Of course I was really lucky because I started dating future DH when I was 22 and then married at 24, so maybe if I was older and had that sort of thing happen to me, I would have gotten the picture more clearly & quickly.

picklesplease · December 2015

@DarthFuriosa - Holy crap! I'm still laughing about it looked "like a handful of peanuts in a flesh sock." So funny!

Month/Cycle: 4/4

CD: 16

WAYDTGKU: We're doing all of the things. Temping, CM, Pre-seed, OPKs, BD ED now that I've started my FW.

R/R/CS: Nothing too much right now. The English department had a gift exchange this morning and my gift came from a good friend of mine. She gave me a bottle of wine and a hangover kit, since she doesn't know I'm TTC and figured I'd be "hammered by 4:30 on Friday afternoon." I guess I will hang on to the bottle (it's a good wine) and get hammered when AF decides to show her face.

I'm also a little worried. My OPKs have been negative since CD10, but I've had EWCM three times since then. My temps haven't spiked, so I'm not sure. FF and OvaGraph have given me the "green light" and this is supposed to be FW, but I'm not sure. Maybe I missed my LH surge and didn't realize it? I guess we'll just have to see what happens. The TWW is going to be tense...Merry Christmas to me.

I'm not sure how to post my chart, or I'd ask for someone to take a look at my chart. I fail...

GTKY: Hump day dump day. What's the worst way you have dumped someone, or someone has dumped you?

Oh Lord. When I was 25 years old, I had started dating a guy that I had known since high school. We reconnected the August before and were an "official" couple by December. In July, about two weeks after my birthday, which only HIS friends attended, mine were "too busy." (Some friends they were...) Well, two weeks went by and I had just finished hell week at a job I had just started in April. I was worn out, unhappy, and just in a shitty mood anyway. As I was leaving work for the night, he texted me to meet up with him and his friends for a beer. When I met up with them, he wouldn't acknowledge me and continued to make plans with his friends for the end of August to go floating down a river and drink. When I asked when they would be doing this, and if I was invited, he told me, "You wouldn't want to come anyway."

I said fine and told him I needed to go home. He offered to walk me out to my car (which he never did - looking back on it, he was a total asshole). He opened my car door and told me that he was going back to grad school and "wouldn't have time for a relationship." When I reacted with surprise, he said that he had wanted to break up with me since May, but didn't want to ruin my birthday. He then asked me to give him back the iPod Touch he had given me for my birthday present because he had bought it for himself since he knew he was going to break up with me anyway. I told him to f*ck off, got back in my car, and drove away. I'm incensed just thinking about it. I found out about a week later that he had started seeing some chick from his grad school classes.

picklesplease · December 2015

Here goes. I think this is right...

<a href="https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/60bf47/" style="font-size:smaller;" >
<img src="https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/60bf47//thumb.png" />
<br /> My Ovulation Chart</a>

[url=https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/60bf47/][img]https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/60bf47//thumb.png[/img]
My Ovulation Chart[/url]

Edited: NOPE...

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