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UO Thursday 12/3

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Re: UO Thursday 12/3

  • swflJD said:

    I TOTALLY agree with you ladies!  Snow is the absolute WORST!  DH and I lived in Northeast Ohio our first year of marriage, and I was absolutely miserable (I'm from the South, and had never had to deal with it before.).  It was to the point where I would only go outside to get in my car and drive to work and back, and I refused to go anywhere else until it melted.  That's how we ended up in Florida where 65-70 degrees is considered a "cool" day.  If I never saw another snowflake for the rest of my life, I could die happy!


       
    Oh I feel your pain...I live in North central ohio...have my whole life...I've always hates sboe, even as a child. DH won't leave though so I'm stuck here. And I thank God for my garage every single day lol
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  • I'm going to jump on the Christmas decoration train and say I really can't stand those colored lights that are mostly blue and purple. They just look weird to me and I am not a fan. Also, the red flamed candles people put in their windows look strangely demonic to me. In my opinion, the whole point of Christmas lights outside is to mimic the sparkle of freshly fallen snow so the white lights framing a house or accenting a tree/bushes looks magical vs tacky.

    The red flamed candles terrify me!! My grandma had some and I wouldn't go upstairs when she had them in the windows...still won't actually.
  • I see no reason every year why we must have a 7 hour (yes 7 :| ) Christmas party for work. DH always feels obligated to go and I agree bc he's on pretty good terms with the president of the company, but 7 hours?! It eats up my entire Saturday.

    It's a formal party so I spend all day getting ready. Then it's 45 mins from the house. From 5 to 6 is a cocktail/appetizer/picture/find your table hour. 6-7 is dinner. 7-8:30ish is people getting awards from throughout the year and really cheesy speeches we all hate (although I do get a 5 year service award this year with a gift card so go me). Casino games from 8:30 to 10:30 - you get drawing entries for prizes based on the amount of chips you have at the end. Then the rest of the time is chip counting/prize drawing. And they're good prizes I'll hand it to you. I could really use the $1500 visa gift card someone won last year. But omg cut the party time in half. I'll be sleeping at the table or in the car this year by the end.

    And I swear if someone even mentions after party to DH I will scream. This whole 7 hour period we have an open bar (which will be so much fun for me...) and by the end everyone seems to think it's such a great idea to go out another 2 hours and drink.
  • H0neyC0mbH0neyC0mb member
    edited December 2015
    Having been given a very generic, very easy to nn name, I fully support names were the nickname has to be entirely made up.

    My uo is kids having tons of toys. The longer we've been married the more minimalistic we've become. We've just found having less stuff helps us focus on what we actually like to do. Besides for the first few years everything is a toy. At least that's how my daycare kids have been. :) I understand a few main toys. Idk maybe my opinion will change once I've got my own kid.

    Edit: It took me six attempts to post. So annoying.
  • jenl1681 said:

    Elf on the Shelf.....


    I thought the whole point of the elf was to keep your kid's behavior good?!? Why then do most parents have their elf causing trouble?? This just confuses me, as I'm sure it does your child. And why the daily need to post it on facebook? We get it, I'm sure you have an Pinterest board dedicated solely to your elf, here's your "Mom of the Year" award. 

    Ya know what our elf did yesterday? Sat on the flipping shelf. Ya know what he's doing today? Yep, sitting on the same shelf because I forgot to move him. Tomorrow you ask? I'm going to put him in the Christmas tree. 
    I never got this either. My step sister has one and she never has it causing trouble - one day it brought out a Christmas movie to watch and some hot cocoa for everyone. Today it's chilling in the Christmas tree. I don't have an issue with stuff like that, I just feel like the ones where they make messes and get into trouble are contradictory.
  • @lalala2004 I agree that sending out postcards with names and faces on them is a bit much; it seems very much like harassment or some leftover Puritanism. However, I appreciate being able to look up an area to see possible offenders/ concentration of offenders (which Megan's Law provides). DH and I were able use this information along with other things like school district, taxes, etc. to make an informed decision when we bought a house. Regarding the situation you encountered, it's possible that it was a relationship, but it's also possible that it was rape. One could also make the argument that someone as young as 13 cannot actually consent to sexual contact with someone because they're not developed enough to understand the weight of the decision. (Which is one reason why there are age stipulations in the first place).
    The charge wasn't sexual assault, it was indecency with a minor. He wasn't at the age of consent either. I certainly wouldn't excuse what he did, it just doesn't seem like the type of offense should follow you for the rest of your life.
    lalala2004 I agree, I always thought it was weird that in my state if you urinate in public you're on the sex offender list. With college campuses and other night life areas this happens. It's fine to give them a ticket but why such a harsh punishment that will follow you around for non harmful crime? 
  • Sometimes I don't believe recycling is real..like it's all a conspiracy to make you think you're helping the environment by sorting your trash but it all just ends up in the landfill.


  • I hope all the rabbits get eaten by coyotes/wolves/hawks/eagles this winter. My dog caught one last night and was covered with fleas

  • yogahh said:
    I like a nickname, but only for SOME names,
    For example, one of our boys names is Bennett, nn Ben.
    I have always loved the name Ben, but not a big fan of Benjamin. But I am not sure that Ben alone is a good "stand alone" name.
    Some nicknames are odd to be though. Someone used the name Elizabeth before as an example. No offense to anyone, but Betsy and LIbby? How do they come from Elizabeth? It doesnt make sense to me? My mom goes by Beth, and I understand Liz.
    I had a friend in high school who was named Elizabeth who went by Libby when she was young, but I just saw on FB that she is now going by...wait for it...Sabet. I just have no idea. She was always a quirky person and hated that her name was so traditional. 

    Everyone loves to think of the weird nicknames my son will have since his name itself sounds like a nn. His name is Renzo, and no, it is not short for Lorenzo or Firenzo or any of the other crazy things people come up with. Some of the nns people have proposed: Renny (we do call him this from time to time), Ren, Zo, Rod (his initials) etc. But honestly, all of my nicknames growing up had nothing to do with my name and were mostly based on my personality and what I was into. To this day, my mother calls me Gert or Gertrude because, and I quote, "One day you jumped into the pool and didn't want to let go of your floatie so you scrunched up your nose so water wouldn't go in and it just looked like a Gert face" Yup, that is how nns are born, people!
    This is how nicknames should work.  In my extended family everyone has several nns depending on who's speaking.  The only name based ones are from when my younger cousin invented a language and renamed everyone (she's so special). 
  • This is how nicknames should work.  In my extended family everyone has several nns depending on who's speaking.  The only name based ones are from when my younger cousin invented a language and renamed everyone (she's so special). 
    Exactly. The more I think about it, we all have really weird nns in my family. We call my older sister Care Bear (I really don't know why), I am either Gert or Boba Fett (again, I am not sure why), and my younger sister is Weebot. We also lovingly call each other Fart Face and Bucket Head. We also have "code names" for certain friends and family, which I think comes from all of us being nurses and needing to talk about patients, but never using real names. But not one of these code names or nns has anything to do with our given names. At school I was called Lil' Gerbie because I apparently looked like the Gerber baby (I have always had a baby face)

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  • nerdymama15nerdymama15 member
    edited December 2015
    I agree with the whole sex offender thing can be a bit harsh.  i.e. one of DH's former co-workers was 19 and his girlfriend was 17 (they were a couple before he was 18 so it's not like a 19 year old went and picked up a 17 year old)  and they were getting it on when her parents walked in on them  Her parents pressed charges and now he has a status of sexual offender that follows him around for the rest of his life and he is in his 30s now.  In cases like that it is ridiculous!

    Edit b/c I forgot some stuff:

    Snow:  I like it only if it stays in the yard!  I live in the south and whenever we get snow EVERYTHING shuts down.  I work from  home so I don't have to worry about traveling, but my DH does and I worry about him until he gets home.  My previous job whenever it snowed, they would close the store and send everyone home pretty much as soon as the first few flakes fell. 

    Blow up Christmas decor:  I'm torn with this one.  I both dislike and like them.  I like the traditional ones.  I'm not a fan of the ones that have nothing to do with Christmas (i.e. Star Wars, Frozen, Minions).  And one or two is okay but over that it gets tacky.




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  • kami09 said:
    This is a random story that goes along with @lalala2004 post... I randomly looked at the Megan's Law website a few weeks ago. Turns out there was a man (who transitioned into a woman while in prison) who had raped a 7 year old a few years back in my town. I live in an extremely small town. I almost puked. I guess I will keep going and say that my UO is that anyone who rapes a child should be shot. Screw prison- especially because they get out and can do it again.

    I just had to sit through a jury case (I'm on jury duty) that was a rape of a child. Mother didn't even give a shit. It was her BF and the girl was only 8. Makes me absolutely homicidal. The little girl had extensive injuries God love her soul.

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  • yogahh said:
    mrstmoose said:
    I don't like the icicle Christmas lights that people hang from their houses (along with the awful blow up crap). Please, keep it simple and traditional.  
    A few towns over, people get REALLY into decorating. Is this what you mean by simple and traditional?
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    ( I am making DH take me to tour it this year. I cant wait! )
    This looks like my house. Complete with the blow up snowman lmao. I do it for DD bc she loves it so much. Before her I just did simple decor with wreaths on the window.
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  • bshurdy said:

    I don't understand when parents purposefully give their child a nick name. Like, naming a child Jackson, but calling him Jack. Why not just name him Jack?


    My husband goes by a nickname, and I feel like it constantly creates confusion. 
    If we have a girl I'm naming her abigail just to call her Abby. You just gave me one of those "huh, why not just name her Abby" kind of moments..
  • Sometimes I don't believe recycling is real..like it's all a conspiracy to make you think you're helping the environment by sorting your trash but it all just ends up in the landfill.


    LOL! You could have left it just at the first sentence. Oh geez too funny!
  • @yogahh not crazy enough for the stalker, ey?
  • @TXmamatobe just reminded me of another UO I have.

    Several people have asked me what "theme" the baby's nursery will be. I love a good themed party, but I hate the idea that everything needs a theme. The theme is bedroom and nursery. I don't like themed decorating like nautical... fruit in the kitchen... ducks in the bathroom. I'm a bigger fan of tasteful decor in cohesive colors. Sure certain people have styles like, rustic, traditional, or contemporary, but I don't think a specific theme is necessary or even appealing when decorating. 

    No offense to anyone but I feel the same about weddings. You're having a party and the theme is wedding. I was actually in a 1920's themed wedding this past summer. The best part is that my bridesmaid dress can be used as a future Halloween costume. How perfect is that?
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  • @yogahh not crazy enough for the stalker, ey?
    Dont make me go all stalker chic on you!

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  • My UO... I hate the song "Mary Did You Know?" In the last week I've heard several people say that it's their favorite Christmas song and I judge them... harshly. 
    Singer: Mary did you know your baby was going to be different.... special even?
    Mary: Well yeah... I had an inclination when I found out via angel that I was pregnant despite being a virgin.
    I dislike that song too. It, along with about 6 others, are on my "list' of songs to thumbs down when they come on one of my Pandora stations, no matter who sings it. Also, it's possible I have 4 different Christmas Pandora stations...


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  • My UO... I hate the song "Mary Did You Know?" In the last week I've heard several people say that it's their favorite Christmas song and I judge them... harshly. 
    Singer: Mary did you know your baby was going to be different.... special even?
    Mary: Well yeah... I had an inclination when I found out via angel that I was pregnant despite being a virgin.
    I dislike that song too. It, along with about 6 others, are on my "list' of songs to thumbs down when they come on one of my Pandora stations, no matter who sings it. Also, it's possible I have 4 different Christmas Pandora stations...

    Maybe we should start a hated xmas song thread ;)
    Mine is "Simply Having a Wonderful Christmastime". 
    Its like nails on a chalkboard...

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  • It seriously drives me nuts when people call their kids "mami" or "papi". I know it's a cultural thing that a lot of Mexicans do (I am Mexican), but I hate it and IMO it's as if they are programming/encouraging these kids to reproduce ASAP.
  • yogahh said:
    My UO... I hate the song "Mary Did You Know?" In the last week I've heard several people say that it's their favorite Christmas song and I judge them... harshly. 
    Singer: Mary did you know your baby was going to be different.... special even?
    Mary: Well yeah... I had an inclination when I found out via angel that I was pregnant despite being a virgin.
    I dislike that song too. It, along with about 6 others, are on my "list' of songs to thumbs down when they come on one of my Pandora stations, no matter who sings it. Also, it's possible I have 4 different Christmas Pandora stations...

    Maybe we should start a hated xmas song thread ;)
    Mine is "Simply Having a Wonderful Christmastime". 
    Its like nails on a chalkboard...
    I hate that one too!

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  • yogahh said:
    @yogahh not crazy enough for the stalker, ey?
    Dont make me go all stalker chic on you!
    You fashionista! I feel like stalker chic includes fab trench coats and cool camo, but only you'd know for sure. :p

  • yogahh said:
    My UO... I hate the song "Mary Did You Know?" In the last week I've heard several people say that it's their favorite Christmas song and I judge them... harshly. 
    Singer: Mary did you know your baby was going to be different.... special even?
    Mary: Well yeah... I had an inclination when I found out via angel that I was pregnant despite being a virgin.
    I dislike that song too. It, along with about 6 others, are on my "list' of songs to thumbs down when they come on one of my Pandora stations, no matter who sings it. Also, it's possible I have 4 different Christmas Pandora stations...

    Maybe we should start a hated xmas song thread ;)
    Mine is "Simply Having a Wonderful Christmastime". 
    Its like nails on a chalkboard...


    Not down with the "Christmas Shoes" song. Sorry about it.
  • wsgjmw1 said:
    yogahh said:
    My UO... I hate the song "Mary Did You Know?" In the last week I've heard several people say that it's their favorite Christmas song and I judge them... harshly. 
    Singer: Mary did you know your baby was going to be different.... special even?
    Mary: Well yeah... I had an inclination when I found out via angel that I was pregnant despite being a virgin.
    I dislike that song too. It, along with about 6 others, are on my "list' of songs to thumbs down when they come on one of my Pandora stations, no matter who sings it. Also, it's possible I have 4 different Christmas Pandora stations...

    Maybe we should start a hated xmas song thread ;)
    Mine is "Simply Having a Wonderful Christmastime". 
    Its like nails on a chalkboard...


    Not down with the "Christmas Shoes" song. Sorry about it.
    This is me after hearing that song
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  • yogahh said:
    wsgjmw1 said:
    yogahh said:
    My UO... I hate the song "Mary Did You Know?" In the last week I've heard several people say that it's their favorite Christmas song and I judge them... harshly. 
    Singer: Mary did you know your baby was going to be different.... special even?
    Mary: Well yeah... I had an inclination when I found out via angel that I was pregnant despite being a virgin.
    I dislike that song too. It, along with about 6 others, are on my "list' of songs to thumbs down when they come on one of my Pandora stations, no matter who sings it. Also, it's possible I have 4 different Christmas Pandora stations...

    Maybe we should start a hated xmas song thread ;)
    Mine is "Simply Having a Wonderful Christmastime". 
    Its like nails on a chalkboard...


    Not down with the "Christmas Shoes" song. Sorry about it.
    This is me after hearing that song
    funny crying i love you please matt barnes
    My song I can't stand is the "Baby, it's cold outside"....  all I can think is that guy is trying to date rape her.
  • yogahh said:





    My UO... I hate the song "Mary Did You Know?" In the last week I've heard several people say that it's their favorite Christmas song and I judge them... harshly. 
    Singer: Mary did you know your baby was going to be different.... special even?
    Mary: Well yeah... I had an inclination when I found out via angel that I was pregnant despite being a virgin.

    I dislike that song too. It, along with about 6 others, are on my "list' of songs to thumbs down when they come on one of my Pandora stations, no matter who sings it. Also, it's possible I have 4 different Christmas Pandora stations...


    Maybe we should start a hated xmas song thread ;)
    Mine is "Simply Having a Wonderful Christmastime". 
    Its like nails on a chalkboard...


    Mine is...ALL OF THEM...I hate christmas music so much! Makes me grouchy.

    Hey look...I bet that's an UO all on its own lol
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