Pregnant after recently giving birth

LilLauren17 · November 2015

gardeniagirlknits said:

LilLauren17 said:

Lulucooks said:

LilLauren17 said:
Well I'm not on the app often. I'm sorry ladies. I don't read others questions and I don't quite understand the community on this app. I didn't mean to affend anyone, but you don't have to be rude. Again. Sorry if I affend anyone. That wasn't my intentions. I wish you all the best. I don't think hurting another moms feelings is the right route. Just tell me to go to another forme. Thanks.
Did you not read the replies on your own questions? Otherwise why post them.

Again, louder this time
NOT EVERYONE HERE IS A MOM
It's hurtful to keep saying it

hunnybunny17 said:
How many times do you have to be told it's against the Terms of Use to ask us if you're pregnant before you get it? There's nothing we can tell you that hasn't been said before in your other posts on your August BMB: we can't tell you if you're pregnant, no +HPT means you're not pregnant if this time, if you think you're pregnant take a test, PMS and pregnancy symptoms are nearly identical, and the only way to know if you're late or might be late is to chart your BBT to confirm ovulation.

Also like PPs said, you're not going to find "mommy input" here. The majority of us are trying for our first. I'd save the mommy references for your BMB, for when you ask if you're pregnant next month, again.

LittleMissTimeLord said:

Lulucooks said:

Congrats on your super fertility, I guess.... perhaps go wave it in others faces

MRSCORKER said:

Mlight28 said:
Sorry, @AmMcc12 !! Didn't realize you had the googles! Too bad they are broken though. Hope they get fixed soon, preferably before my TWW so I can come ask you if I'm pregnant.

AmMcc12 said:

I'm sorry my uterus goggles seem to be on the frits.

Mlight28 said:
I'm not a mommy, I always love that reminder, especially going on 9 months of trying to become one. Thanks for coming here to brag that you might be pregnant again after your recent birth. That's really nice.
Also, no one here has uterus goggles. No idea if you are pregnant.

izza2 said:
For one -- mothers aren't the only ones who can tell you to wait a week and test again. I don't know why you'd come on a TTC board (where many members are still TFAF), and ask for "mommy advice". But, you're getting a blood test tomorrow, so what are you looking for, exactly? We can't tell you if you're pregnant, if that's what you're going for, and it's against the TOU to ask anyways.

Ally989 said:
It's against TOU to ask if your pregnant. Also a lot of people here have never been pregnant or "mommies" before so I'm not sure what type of input your looking from us.

ETA: ugh auto correct

Ally989 said:

LilLauren17 said:
Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies
QFP

tripledaggerWed95976 said:

LilLauren17 said:
Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies
If you want some "mommy input" you shouldn't post this in "TRYING to get pregnant".. Some of the women on this forum have never been pregnant. If you want "mommy input" that's what the trimester forums are for. Also, I'm not sure what type of input you are looking for especially since you are getting blood work tomorrow anyway.... Not trying to be rude, just a bit confused
But thank you ladies, for kicking a woman while she's down. I didn't understand the rules, and I don't understand the groups on this app either. Kind words explaining to me would've been nicer. If you saw my question, which was obviously in the wrong group, and you knew that, just tell me in a nice way I'm in the wrong group. You're all grown women. I wish you all the best of luck. I'll pray for you.
While your down? I'd hardly consider myself "down" if I was so lucky as to have a newborn at home right now. While your down... Huh. Lol. If that's your "down"... You've got it made lady. Go. Just go.

Good bye. This question is closed and doesn't need your input. Good luck. I'll be praying for you.

gardeniagirlknits · November 2015

Don't need your prayers thanks.

WitandWhimsy · November 2015

LilLauren17 said:

gardeniagirlknits said:

LilLauren17 said:

Lulucooks said:

LilLauren17 said:
Well I'm not on the app often. I'm sorry ladies. I don't read others questions and I don't quite understand the community on this app. I didn't mean to affend anyone, but you don't have to be rude. Again. Sorry if I affend anyone. That wasn't my intentions. I wish you all the best. I don't think hurting another moms feelings is the right route. Just tell me to go to another forme. Thanks.
Did you not read the replies on your own questions? Otherwise why post them.

Again, louder this time
NOT EVERYONE HERE IS A MOM
It's hurtful to keep saying it

hunnybunny17 said:
How many times do you have to be told it's against the Terms of Use to ask us if you're pregnant before you get it? There's nothing we can tell you that hasn't been said before in your other posts on your August BMB: we can't tell you if you're pregnant, no +HPT means you're not pregnant if this time, if you think you're pregnant take a test, PMS and pregnancy symptoms are nearly identical, and the only way to know if you're late or might be late is to chart your BBT to confirm ovulation.

Also like PPs said, you're not going to find "mommy input" here. The majority of us are trying for our first. I'd save the mommy references for your BMB, for when you ask if you're pregnant next month, again.

LittleMissTimeLord said:

Lulucooks said:

Congrats on your super fertility, I guess.... perhaps go wave it in others faces

MRSCORKER said:

Mlight28 said:
Sorry, @AmMcc12 !! Didn't realize you had the googles! Too bad they are broken though. Hope they get fixed soon, preferably before my TWW so I can come ask you if I'm pregnant.

AmMcc12 said:

I'm sorry my uterus goggles seem to be on the frits.

Mlight28 said:
I'm not a mommy, I always love that reminder, especially going on 9 months of trying to become one. Thanks for coming here to brag that you might be pregnant again after your recent birth. That's really nice.
Also, no one here has uterus goggles. No idea if you are pregnant.

izza2 said:
For one -- mothers aren't the only ones who can tell you to wait a week and test again. I don't know why you'd come on a TTC board (where many members are still TFAF), and ask for "mommy advice". But, you're getting a blood test tomorrow, so what are you looking for, exactly? We can't tell you if you're pregnant, if that's what you're going for, and it's against the TOU to ask anyways.

Ally989 said:
It's against TOU to ask if your pregnant. Also a lot of people here have never been pregnant or "mommies" before so I'm not sure what type of input your looking from us.

ETA: ugh auto correct

Ally989 said:

LilLauren17 said:
Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies
QFP

tripledaggerWed95976 said:

LilLauren17 said:
Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies
If you want some "mommy input" you shouldn't post this in "TRYING to get pregnant".. Some of the women on this forum have never been pregnant. If you want "mommy input" that's what the trimester forums are for. Also, I'm not sure what type of input you are looking for especially since you are getting blood work tomorrow anyway.... Not trying to be rude, just a bit confused
But thank you ladies, for kicking a woman while she's down. I didn't understand the rules, and I don't understand the groups on this app either. Kind words explaining to me would've been nicer. If you saw my question, which was obviously in the wrong group, and you knew that, just tell me in a nice way I'm in the wrong group. You're all grown women. I wish you all the best of luck. I'll pray for you.
While your down? I'd hardly consider myself "down" if I was so lucky as to have a newborn at home right now. While your down... Huh. Lol. If that's your "down"... You've got it made lady. Go. Just go.

Good bye. This question is closed and doesn't need your input. Good luck. I'll be praying for you.

Except it isn't closed. You cannot dictate how people respond to you on a public forum.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

gardeniagirlknits said:
Don't need your prayers thanks.

Obviously you do if you think I'm lucky. Am I lucky do have my son? Absolutely. But you don't know that I'm struggling with postpartum depression. I'm also a cancer survivor who is going for her yearly MRI and blood work soon, that I am stressing about. Don't say anything unless you know, and you don't. So I don't need your input. Thanks.

Lulucooks · November 2015

gardeniagirlknits said:

LilLauren17 said:

Lulucooks said:

LilLauren17 said:
Well I'm not on the app often. I'm sorry ladies. I don't read others questions and I don't quite understand the community on this app. I didn't mean to affend anyone, but you don't have to be rude. Again. Sorry if I affend anyone. That wasn't my intentions. I wish you all the best. I don't think hurting another moms feelings is the right route. Just tell me to go to another forme. Thanks.
Did you not read the replies on your own questions? Otherwise why post them.

Again, louder this time
NOT EVERYONE HERE IS A MOM
It's hurtful to keep saying it

hunnybunny17 said:
How many times do you have to be told it's against the Terms of Use to ask us if you're pregnant before you get it? There's nothing we can tell you that hasn't been said before in your other posts on your August BMB: we can't tell you if you're pregnant, no +HPT means you're not pregnant if this time, if you think you're pregnant take a test, PMS and pregnancy symptoms are nearly identical, and the only way to know if you're late or might be late is to chart your BBT to confirm ovulation.

Also like PPs said, you're not going to find "mommy input" here. The majority of us are trying for our first. I'd save the mommy references for your BMB, for when you ask if you're pregnant next month, again.

LittleMissTimeLord said:

Lulucooks said:

Congrats on your super fertility, I guess.... perhaps go wave it in others faces

MRSCORKER said:

Mlight28 said:
Sorry, @AmMcc12 !! Didn't realize you had the googles! Too bad they are broken though. Hope they get fixed soon, preferably before my TWW so I can come ask you if I'm pregnant.

AmMcc12 said:

I'm sorry my uterus goggles seem to be on the frits.

Mlight28 said:
I'm not a mommy, I always love that reminder, especially going on 9 months of trying to become one. Thanks for coming here to brag that you might be pregnant again after your recent birth. That's really nice.
Also, no one here has uterus goggles. No idea if you are pregnant.

izza2 said:
For one -- mothers aren't the only ones who can tell you to wait a week and test again. I don't know why you'd come on a TTC board (where many members are still TFAF), and ask for "mommy advice". But, you're getting a blood test tomorrow, so what are you looking for, exactly? We can't tell you if you're pregnant, if that's what you're going for, and it's against the TOU to ask anyways.

Ally989 said:
It's against TOU to ask if your pregnant. Also a lot of people here have never been pregnant or "mommies" before so I'm not sure what type of input your looking from us.

ETA: ugh auto correct

Ally989 said:

LilLauren17 said:
Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies
QFP

tripledaggerWed95976 said:

LilLauren17 said:
Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies
If you want some "mommy input" you shouldn't post this in "TRYING to get pregnant".. Some of the women on this forum have never been pregnant. If you want "mommy input" that's what the trimester forums are for. Also, I'm not sure what type of input you are looking for especially since you are getting blood work tomorrow anyway.... Not trying to be rude, just a bit confused
But thank you ladies, for kicking a woman while she's down. I didn't understand the rules, and I don't understand the groups on this app either. Kind words explaining to me would've been nicer. If you saw my question, which was obviously in the wrong group, and you knew that, just tell me in a nice way I'm in the wrong group. You're all grown women. I wish you all the best of luck. I'll pray for you.
While your down? I'd hardly consider myself "down" if I was so lucky as to have a newborn at home right now. While your down... Huh. Lol. If that's your "down"... You've got it made lady. Go. Just go.

I had the same thoughts, I'd love to have a newborn now.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

WitandWhimsy said:

LilLauren17 said:

gardeniagirlknits said:

LilLauren17 said:

Lulucooks said:

LilLauren17 said:
Well I'm not on the app often. I'm sorry ladies. I don't read others questions and I don't quite understand the community on this app. I didn't mean to affend anyone, but you don't have to be rude. Again. Sorry if I affend anyone. That wasn't my intentions. I wish you all the best. I don't think hurting another moms feelings is the right route. Just tell me to go to another forme. Thanks.
Did you not read the replies on your own questions? Otherwise why post them.

Again, louder this time
NOT EVERYONE HERE IS A MOM
It's hurtful to keep saying it

hunnybunny17 said:
How many times do you have to be told it's against the Terms of Use to ask us if you're pregnant before you get it? There's nothing we can tell you that hasn't been said before in your other posts on your August BMB: we can't tell you if you're pregnant, no +HPT means you're not pregnant if this time, if you think you're pregnant take a test, PMS and pregnancy symptoms are nearly identical, and the only way to know if you're late or might be late is to chart your BBT to confirm ovulation.

Also like PPs said, you're not going to find "mommy input" here. The majority of us are trying for our first. I'd save the mommy references for your BMB, for when you ask if you're pregnant next month, again.

LittleMissTimeLord said:

Lulucooks said:

Congrats on your super fertility, I guess.... perhaps go wave it in others faces

MRSCORKER said:

Mlight28 said:
Sorry, @AmMcc12 !! Didn't realize you had the googles! Too bad they are broken though. Hope they get fixed soon, preferably before my TWW so I can come ask you if I'm pregnant.

AmMcc12 said:

I'm sorry my uterus goggles seem to be on the frits.

Mlight28 said:
I'm not a mommy, I always love that reminder, especially going on 9 months of trying to become one. Thanks for coming here to brag that you might be pregnant again after your recent birth. That's really nice.
Also, no one here has uterus goggles. No idea if you are pregnant.

izza2 said:
For one -- mothers aren't the only ones who can tell you to wait a week and test again. I don't know why you'd come on a TTC board (where many members are still TFAF), and ask for "mommy advice". But, you're getting a blood test tomorrow, so what are you looking for, exactly? We can't tell you if you're pregnant, if that's what you're going for, and it's against the TOU to ask anyways.

Ally989 said:
It's against TOU to ask if your pregnant. Also a lot of people here have never been pregnant or "mommies" before so I'm not sure what type of input your looking from us.

ETA: ugh auto correct

Ally989 said:

LilLauren17 said:
Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies
QFP

tripledaggerWed95976 said:

LilLauren17 said:
Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies
If you want some "mommy input" you shouldn't post this in "TRYING to get pregnant".. Some of the women on this forum have never been pregnant. If you want "mommy input" that's what the trimester forums are for. Also, I'm not sure what type of input you are looking for especially since you are getting blood work tomorrow anyway.... Not trying to be rude, just a bit confused
But thank you ladies, for kicking a woman while she's down. I didn't understand the rules, and I don't understand the groups on this app either. Kind words explaining to me would've been nicer. If you saw my question, which was obviously in the wrong group, and you knew that, just tell me in a nice way I'm in the wrong group. You're all grown women. I wish you all the best of luck. I'll pray for you.
While your down? I'd hardly consider myself "down" if I was so lucky as to have a newborn at home right now. While your down... Huh. Lol. If that's your "down"... You've got it made lady. Go. Just go.

Good bye. This question is closed and doesn't need your input. Good luck. I'll be praying for you.
Except it isn't closed. You cannot dictate how people respond to you on a public forum.

It is. People have helped me understand the app. It's done and over with. Thanks.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

Lulucooks said:

gardeniagirlknits said:

LilLauren17 said:

Lulucooks said:

LilLauren17 said:
Well I'm not on the app often. I'm sorry ladies. I don't read others questions and I don't quite understand the community on this app. I didn't mean to affend anyone, but you don't have to be rude. Again. Sorry if I affend anyone. That wasn't my intentions. I wish you all the best. I don't think hurting another moms feelings is the right route. Just tell me to go to another forme. Thanks.
Did you not read the replies on your own questions? Otherwise why post them.

Again, louder this time
NOT EVERYONE HERE IS A MOM
It's hurtful to keep saying it

hunnybunny17 said:
How many times do you have to be told it's against the Terms of Use to ask us if you're pregnant before you get it? There's nothing we can tell you that hasn't been said before in your other posts on your August BMB: we can't tell you if you're pregnant, no +HPT means you're not pregnant if this time, if you think you're pregnant take a test, PMS and pregnancy symptoms are nearly identical, and the only way to know if you're late or might be late is to chart your BBT to confirm ovulation.

Also like PPs said, you're not going to find "mommy input" here. The majority of us are trying for our first. I'd save the mommy references for your BMB, for when you ask if you're pregnant next month, again.

LittleMissTimeLord said:

Lulucooks said:

Congrats on your super fertility, I guess.... perhaps go wave it in others faces

MRSCORKER said:

Mlight28 said:
Sorry, @AmMcc12 !! Didn't realize you had the googles! Too bad they are broken though. Hope they get fixed soon, preferably before my TWW so I can come ask you if I'm pregnant.

AmMcc12 said:

I'm sorry my uterus goggles seem to be on the frits.

Mlight28 said:
I'm not a mommy, I always love that reminder, especially going on 9 months of trying to become one. Thanks for coming here to brag that you might be pregnant again after your recent birth. That's really nice.
Also, no one here has uterus goggles. No idea if you are pregnant.

izza2 said:
For one -- mothers aren't the only ones who can tell you to wait a week and test again. I don't know why you'd come on a TTC board (where many members are still TFAF), and ask for "mommy advice". But, you're getting a blood test tomorrow, so what are you looking for, exactly? We can't tell you if you're pregnant, if that's what you're going for, and it's against the TOU to ask anyways.

Ally989 said:
It's against TOU to ask if your pregnant. Also a lot of people here have never been pregnant or "mommies" before so I'm not sure what type of input your looking from us.

ETA: ugh auto correct

Ally989 said:

LilLauren17 said:
Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies
QFP

tripledaggerWed95976 said:

LilLauren17 said:
Hello ladies. I recently gave birth to the cutest baby boy (: on August 14th 2015. I've had two periods during this time. One September 25-30 and the other October 24-November 1. The hubby and I DTD, unprotected but pulled out, the 7th, 10th, and 14th of November. I've had some bright red/pink spotting, the week after the 7th. Now I'm nauseous a lot, headaches, more pimples popping up:/ and moody. I've also had some hot flashes. My cervix has been high, hard and kinda open, to high soft and closed, and today it's SUPER high, can barely reach it, really soft and closed. My one app says AF is due the 24th, the other says December 1st. I've taken a couple pregnancy tests. Some negative som with a super super faint line, that I don't know if it's a evap or not. I'm going to get a blood test tomorrow. Would just like some mommy input! Thanks ladies
If you want some "mommy input" you shouldn't post this in "TRYING to get pregnant".. Some of the women on this forum have never been pregnant. If you want "mommy input" that's what the trimester forums are for. Also, I'm not sure what type of input you are looking for especially since you are getting blood work tomorrow anyway.... Not trying to be rude, just a bit confused
But thank you ladies, for kicking a woman while she's down. I didn't understand the rules, and I don't understand the groups on this app either. Kind words explaining to me would've been nicer. If you saw my question, which was obviously in the wrong group, and you knew that, just tell me in a nice way I'm in the wrong group. You're all grown women. I wish you all the best of luck. I'll pray for you.
While your down? I'd hardly consider myself "down" if I was so lucky as to have a newborn at home right now. While your down... Huh. Lol. If that's your "down"... You've got it made lady. Go. Just go.

I had the same thoughts, I'd love to have a newborn now.

I'm not saying I'm not. But you ladies don't know what else is going on either. I understand everyone has problems, and rough patches in their life which is why ALL OF US should be kind to one another because we DONT know their stories

hunnybunny17 · November 2015

LilLauren17 said:

Don't need your prayers thanks.
Obviously you do if you think I'm lucky. Am I lucky do have my son? Absolutely. But you don't know that I'm struggling with postpartum depression. I'm also a cancer survivor who is going for her yearly MRI and blood work soon, that I am stressing about. Don't say anything unless you know, and you don't. So I don't need your input. Thanks.

@gardeniagirlknits was just declared cancer free not even a couple weeks ago, so I think she has some semblance on the cancer front. We only know as much as you tell as, and vice versa.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

hunnybunny17 said:

LilLauren17 said:

gardeniagirlknits said:
Don't need your prayers thanks.
Obviously you do if you think I'm lucky. Am I lucky do have my son? Absolutely. But you don't know that I'm struggling with postpartum depression. I'm also a cancer survivor who is going for her yearly MRI and blood work soon, that I am stressing about. Don't say anything unless you know, and you don't. So I don't need your input. Thanks.

@gardeniagirlknits was just declared cancer free not even a couple weeks ago, so I think she has some semblance on the cancer front. We only know as much as you tell as, and vice versa.

Exactly, which is way we should all be nice to one another. And congrats on being cancer free. That is amazing news

Lulucooks · November 2015

It's not very nice to come into a group of women who are TTC, some who may *never* see a BFP and wave your possible in their faces. To call them "mommies" over and over. To say you will "pray" for them. To continue to figure wag that we are somehow in the wrong.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

Lulucooks said:
It's not very nice to come into a group of women who are TTC, some who may *never* see a BFP and wave your possible in their faces. To call them "mommies" over and over. To say you will "pray" for them. To continue to figure wag that we are somehow in the wrong.

I'm done explaining that I didn't understand the groups.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

LilLauren17 said:

Lulucooks said:
It's not very nice to come into a group of women who are TTC, some who may *never* see a BFP and wave your possible in their faces. To call them "mommies" over and over. To say you will "pray" for them. To continue to figure wag that we are somehow in the wrong.
I'm done explaining that I didn't understand the groups.

And I will continue to pray for them. I am a believer in God and I will pray they will concive.

PrimRoseMama · November 2015

1) Your post is insensitive. You know your BMB & it would have been far more polite to ask there & not bother with a community you aren't even going to try to learn the rules before bumbling through.

2) How is having a newborn & being possibly pregnant being "down"? Your situation is the very definition of "up & awesome" on this board. If you would bother to look outside yourself, you would be able to see that.

3) Are you not on birth control if you have other health concerns like CANCER? If you didn't want to get pregnant there are tons of methods to avoid. Your throwing out the cancer thing is kind of a red herring to gain sympathy after you've done an unkind, insensitive thing-- like potentially waving your fecundity in the faces of those that want what you have. If you are concerned about cancer then do your best to prevent until you get a clean PET scan. Don't try to finger-wag people here. It's just uncalled for.

None of this contributes positively to our community here. None of it is kind from you. I would believe you were sorry if you could just apologize & stop playing dumb.

gardeniagirlknits · November 2015

Don't need your congratulations either thanks

@Lulucooks and @WitandWhimsy and @hunnybunny17 thanks for lookin out ladies. ((hugs))

Lulucooks · November 2015

LilLauren17 said:

Lulucooks said:
It's not very nice to come into a group of women who are TTC, some who may *never* see a BFP and wave your possible in their faces. To call them "mommies" over and over. To say you will "pray" for them. To continue to figure wag that we are somehow in the wrong.
I'm done explaining that I didn't understand the groups.

Do you understand common sense?
It's common sense that not everyone who tries to get pregnant will, so to refer to them as "mommies" is hurtful.
It's common sense to realize that strangers on the internet can't tell you if you're pregnant
It's common sense that you look around and learn how to use a forum you wish to join
You know enough about TTC culture that you used the term which shall not be named, so I'm guessing you aren't as unaware as you claim, but rather want to finger wag and make everyone feel bad.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

gardeniagirlknits said:
Don't need your congratulations either thanks

@Lulucooks and @WitandWhimsy and @hunnybunny17 thanks for lookin out ladies. ((hugs))

PrimRoseMama said:
1) Your post is insensitive. You know your BMB & it would have been far more polite to ask there & not bother with a community you aren't even going to try to learn the rules before bumbling through.

2) How is having a newborn & being possibly pregnant being "down"? Your situation is the very definition of "up & awesome" on this board. If you would bother to look outside yourself, you would be able to see that.

3) Are you not on birth control if you have other health concerns like CANCER? If you didn't want to get pregnant there are tons of methods to avoid. Your throwing out the cancer thing is kind of a red herring to gain sympathy after you've done an unkind, insensitive thing-- like potentially waving your fecundity in the faces of those that want what you have. If you are concerned about cancer then do your best to prevent until you get a clean PET scan. Don't try to finger-wag people here. It's just uncalled for.

None of this contributes positively to our community here. None of it is kind from you. I would believe you were sorry if you could just apologize & stop playing dumb.

I've been dealing with cancer for 6 years now.

Lulucooks · November 2015

LilLauren17 said:

LilLauren17 said:

Lulucooks said:
It's not very nice to come into a group of women who are TTC, some who may *never* see a BFP and wave your possible in their faces. To call them "mommies" over and over. To say you will "pray" for them. To continue to figure wag that we are somehow in the wrong.
I'm done explaining that I didn't understand the groups.
And I will continue to pray for them. I am a believer in God and I will pray they will concive.

God won't get me pregnant, my Fiance ejaculating in my vagina will.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

Lulucooks said:

LilLauren17 said:

LilLauren17 said:

Lulucooks said:
It's not very nice to come into a group of women who are TTC, some who may *never* see a BFP and wave your possible in their faces. To call them "mommies" over and over. To say you will "pray" for them. To continue to figure wag that we are somehow in the wrong.
I'm done explaining that I didn't understand the groups.
And I will continue to pray for them. I am a believer in God and I will pray they will concive.
God won't get me pregnant, my Fiance ejaculating in my vagina will.

Yep. You know how it works.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

PrimRoseMama said:
1) Your post is insensitive. You know your BMB & it would have been far more polite to ask there & not bother with a community you aren't even going to try to learn the rules before bumbling through.

2) How is having a newborn & being possibly pregnant being "down"? Your situation is the very definition of "up & awesome" on this board. If you would bother to look outside yourself, you would be able to see that.

3) Are you not on birth control if you have other health concerns like CANCER? If you didn't want to get pregnant there are tons of methods to avoid. Your throwing out the cancer thing is kind of a red herring to gain sympathy after you've done an unkind, insensitive thing-- like potentially waving your fecundity in the faces of those that want what you have. If you are concerned about cancer then do your best to prevent until you get a clean PET scan. Don't try to finger-wag people here. It's just uncalled for.

None of this contributes positively to our community here. None of it is kind from you. I would believe you were sorry if you could just apologize & stop playing dumb.

Tell me again how I'm playing dumb. Cancer ruined my high school experience. I've had every scan. I will say I got lucky and found it early, but I still dealt with it for years and will have to be checked for the rest of my life. If you want to comment on my health, and how I'm "playing dumb" by saying something as serious as that, message me and we'll talk. You have NO REASON to comment on my health and say I'm lying about it. I am damn proud of all my scars, all the MRIs and CTs and bone scans and needles and surgeries I've gone through. I've already apologized for this thread, if you would've read it. Now tell me one more time, how I'm playing dumb mrs.

PrimRoseMama · November 2015

LilLauren17 said:

gardeniagirlknits said:
Don't need your congratulations either thanks

@Lulucooks and @WitandWhimsy and @hunnybunny17 thanks for lookin out ladies. ((hugs))

PrimRoseMama said:
1) Your post is insensitive. You know your BMB & it would have been far more polite to ask there & not bother with a community you aren't even going to try to learn the rules before bumbling through.

2) How is having a newborn & being possibly pregnant being "down"? Your situation is the very definition of "up & awesome" on this board. If you would bother to look outside yourself, you would be able to see that.

3) Are you not on birth control if you have other health concerns like CANCER? If you didn't want to get pregnant there are tons of methods to avoid. Your throwing out the cancer thing is kind of a red herring to gain sympathy after you've done an unkind, insensitive thing-- like potentially waving your fecundity in the faces of those that want what you have. If you are concerned about cancer then do your best to prevent until you get a clean PET scan. Don't try to finger-wag people here. It's just uncalled for.

None of this contributes positively to our community here. None of it is kind from you. I would believe you were sorry if you could just apologize & stop playing dumb.
I've been dealing with cancer for 6 years now.

Cancer sucks balls. I've lost many to it. All the more reason that you should be more aware of your health & fertility.

Your cancer situation does not excuse you behaving poorly on this board. Not understanding the rules doesn't excuse you from the consequences of not observing the rules. Namely, posters that contribute regularly & support one another (vs. Breeze in complaining they could be pregnant?) are allowed to be annoyed by your posts.

Believe in God all you want & pray for whatever, but the "I'll pray for you" business sounds smug, & condescending coming from someone with a newborn & possible pregnancy. It's like praying that the starving will find a sandwhich while you munch a subway hoagie in their face & shrug. That's the exact tone you're striking now & it's so rude. Please, just apologize & go away.

Save your prayers & lectures for another group. You are SOL here.

The more you talk, the more smug & self-satisfied you sound.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

PrimRoseMama said:

LilLauren17 said:

gardeniagirlknits said:
Don't need your congratulations either thanks

@Lulucooks and @WitandWhimsy and @hunnybunny17 thanks for lookin out ladies. ((hugs))

PrimRoseMama said:
1) Your post is insensitive. You know your BMB & it would have been far more polite to ask there & not bother with a community you aren't even going to try to learn the rules before bumbling through.

2) How is having a newborn & being possibly pregnant being "down"? Your situation is the very definition of "up & awesome" on this board. If you would bother to look outside yourself, you would be able to see that.

3) Are you not on birth control if you have other health concerns like CANCER? If you didn't want to get pregnant there are tons of methods to avoid. Your throwing out the cancer thing is kind of a red herring to gain sympathy after you've done an unkind, insensitive thing-- like potentially waving your fecundity in the faces of those that want what you have. If you are concerned about cancer then do your best to prevent until you get a clean PET scan. Don't try to finger-wag people here. It's just uncalled for.

None of this contributes positively to our community here. None of it is kind from you. I would believe you were sorry if you could just apologize & stop playing dumb.
I've been dealing with cancer for 6 years now.
Cancer sucks balls. I've lost many to it. All the more reason that you should be more aware of your health & fertility.

Your cancer situation does not excuse you behaving poorly on this board. Not understanding the rules doesn't excuse you from the consequences of not observing the rules. Namely, posters that contribute regularly & support one another (vs. Breeze in complaining they could be pregnant?) are allowed to be annoyed by your posts.

Believe in God all you want & pray for whatever, but the "I'll pray for you" business sounds smug, & condescending coming from someone with a newborn & possible pregnancy. It's like praying that the starving will find a sandwhich while you munch a subway hoagie in their face & shrug. That's the exact tone you're striking now & it's so rude. Please, just apologize & go away.

Save your prayers & lectures for another group. You are SOL here.

The more you talk, the more smug & self-satisfied you sound.

Again, I've already said sorry not saying it again. I'm also not on here enough to know what SOL means. And you're the one commenting on my thread, how about you go away. Thanks.

gardeniagirlknits · November 2015

LilLauren17 said:

gardeniagirlknits said:
Don't need your congratulations either thanks

@Lulucooks and @WitandWhimsy and @hunnybunny17 thanks for lookin out ladies. ((hugs))

PrimRoseMama said:
1) Your post is insensitive. You know your BMB & it would have been far more polite to ask there & not bother with a community you aren't even going to try to learn the rules before bumbling through.

2) How is having a newborn & being possibly pregnant being "down"? Your situation is the very definition of "up & awesome" on this board. If you would bother to look outside yourself, you would be able to see that.

3) Are you not on birth control if you have other health concerns like CANCER? If you didn't want to get pregnant there are tons of methods to avoid. Your throwing out the cancer thing is kind of a red herring to gain sympathy after you've done an unkind, insensitive thing-- like potentially waving your fecundity in the faces of those that want what you have. If you are concerned about cancer then do your best to prevent until you get a clean PET scan. Don't try to finger-wag people here. It's just uncalled for.

None of this contributes positively to our community here. None of it is kind from you. I would believe you were sorry if you could just apologize & stop playing dumb.
I've been dealing with cancer for 6 years now.

From one survivor to another... I'm calling you out on playing the cancer card. Yup. Just happened.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

gardeniagirlknits said:

LilLauren17 said:

gardeniagirlknits said:
Don't need your congratulations either thanks

@Lulucooks and @WitandWhimsy and @hunnybunny17 thanks for lookin out ladies. ((hugs))

PrimRoseMama said:
1) Your post is insensitive. You know your BMB & it would have been far more polite to ask there & not bother with a community you aren't even going to try to learn the rules before bumbling through.

2) How is having a newborn & being possibly pregnant being "down"? Your situation is the very definition of "up & awesome" on this board. If you would bother to look outside yourself, you would be able to see that.

3) Are you not on birth control if you have other health concerns like CANCER? If you didn't want to get pregnant there are tons of methods to avoid. Your throwing out the cancer thing is kind of a red herring to gain sympathy after you've done an unkind, insensitive thing-- like potentially waving your fecundity in the faces of those that want what you have. If you are concerned about cancer then do your best to prevent until you get a clean PET scan. Don't try to finger-wag people here. It's just uncalled for.

None of this contributes positively to our community here. None of it is kind from you. I would believe you were sorry if you could just apologize & stop playing dumb.
I've been dealing with cancer for 6 years now.
From one survivor to another... I'm calling you out on playing the cancer card. Yup. Just happened.

I can pull it all I want. I should be damn proud of what I've been through, as should you. I will yell it to the world.

Lulucooks · November 2015

LilLauren17 said:

PrimRoseMama said:

LilLauren17 said:

gardeniagirlknits said:
Don't need your congratulations either thanks

@Lulucooks and @WitandWhimsy and @hunnybunny17 thanks for lookin out ladies. ((hugs))

PrimRoseMama said:
1) Your post is insensitive. You know your BMB & it would have been far more polite to ask there & not bother with a community you aren't even going to try to learn the rules before bumbling through.

2) How is having a newborn & being possibly pregnant being "down"? Your situation is the very definition of "up & awesome" on this board. If you would bother to look outside yourself, you would be able to see that.

3) Are you not on birth control if you have other health concerns like CANCER? If you didn't want to get pregnant there are tons of methods to avoid. Your throwing out the cancer thing is kind of a red herring to gain sympathy after you've done an unkind, insensitive thing-- like potentially waving your fecundity in the faces of those that want what you have. If you are concerned about cancer then do your best to prevent until you get a clean PET scan. Don't try to finger-wag people here. It's just uncalled for.

None of this contributes positively to our community here. None of it is kind from you. I would believe you were sorry if you could just apologize & stop playing dumb.
I've been dealing with cancer for 6 years now.
Cancer sucks balls. I've lost many to it. All the more reason that you should be more aware of your health & fertility.

Your cancer situation does not excuse you behaving poorly on this board. Not understanding the rules doesn't excuse you from the consequences of not observing the rules. Namely, posters that contribute regularly & support one another (vs. Breeze in complaining they could be pregnant?) are allowed to be annoyed by your posts.

Believe in God all you want & pray for whatever, but the "I'll pray for you" business sounds smug, & condescending coming from someone with a newborn & possible pregnancy. It's like praying that the starving will find a sandwhich while you munch a subway hoagie in their face & shrug. That's the exact tone you're striking now & it's so rude. Please, just apologize & go away.

Save your prayers & lectures for another group. You are SOL here.

The more you talk, the more smug & self-satisfied you sound.
Again, I've already said sorry not saying it again. I'm also not on here enough to know what SOL means. And you're the one commenting on my thread, how about you go away. Thanks.

SOL is a normal everyday phrase.....

gardeniagirlknits · November 2015

Fine. Yell it to the world. But don't use it to get yourself out of a hole you put yourself in. That's not normal. I don't earn my friends by shouting my struggles. I earn my friends by listening to theirs.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

gardeniagirlknits said:
Fine. Yell it to the world. But don't use it to get yourself out of a hole you put yourself in. That's not normal. I don't earn my friends by shouting my struggles. I earn my friends by listening to theirs.

Exactly.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

Lulucooks said:

LilLauren17 said:

PrimRoseMama said:

LilLauren17 said:

gardeniagirlknits said:
Don't need your congratulations either thanks

@Lulucooks and @WitandWhimsy and @hunnybunny17 thanks for lookin out ladies. ((hugs))

PrimRoseMama said:
1) Your post is insensitive. You know your BMB & it would have been far more polite to ask there & not bother with a community you aren't even going to try to learn the rules before bumbling through.

2) How is having a newborn & being possibly pregnant being "down"? Your situation is the very definition of "up & awesome" on this board. If you would bother to look outside yourself, you would be able to see that.

3) Are you not on birth control if you have other health concerns like CANCER? If you didn't want to get pregnant there are tons of methods to avoid. Your throwing out the cancer thing is kind of a red herring to gain sympathy after you've done an unkind, insensitive thing-- like potentially waving your fecundity in the faces of those that want what you have. If you are concerned about cancer then do your best to prevent until you get a clean PET scan. Don't try to finger-wag people here. It's just uncalled for.

None of this contributes positively to our community here. None of it is kind from you. I would believe you were sorry if you could just apologize & stop playing dumb.
I've been dealing with cancer for 6 years now.
Cancer sucks balls. I've lost many to it. All the more reason that you should be more aware of your health & fertility.

Your cancer situation does not excuse you behaving poorly on this board. Not understanding the rules doesn't excuse you from the consequences of not observing the rules. Namely, posters that contribute regularly & support one another (vs. Breeze in complaining they could be pregnant?) are allowed to be annoyed by your posts.

Believe in God all you want & pray for whatever, but the "I'll pray for you" business sounds smug, & condescending coming from someone with a newborn & possible pregnancy. It's like praying that the starving will find a sandwhich while you munch a subway hoagie in their face & shrug. That's the exact tone you're striking now & it's so rude. Please, just apologize & go away.

Save your prayers & lectures for another group. You are SOL here.

The more you talk, the more smug & self-satisfied you sound.
Again, I've already said sorry not saying it again. I'm also not on here enough to know what SOL means. And you're the one commenting on my thread, how about you go away. Thanks.
SOL is a normal everyday phrase.....

Not where I'm from, so tell me what it means.

WitandWhimsy · November 2015

I'm so lost by this train wreck of a thread.

PrimRoseMama · November 2015

LilLauren17 said:

PrimRoseMama said:
1) Your post is insensitive. You know your BMB & it would have been far more polite to ask there & not bother with a community you aren't even going to try to learn the rules before bumbling through.

2) How is having a newborn & being possibly pregnant being "down"? Your situation is the very definition of "up & awesome" on this board. If you would bother to look outside yourself, you would be able to see that.

3) Are you not on birth control if you have other health concerns like CANCER? If you didn't want to get pregnant there are tons of methods to avoid. Your throwing out the cancer thing is kind of a red herring to gain sympathy after you've done an unkind, insensitive thing-- like potentially waving your fecundity in the faces of those that want what you have. If you are concerned about cancer then do your best to prevent until you get a clean PET scan. Don't try to finger-wag people here. It's just uncalled for.

None of this contributes positively to our community here. None of it is kind from you. I would believe you were sorry if you could just apologize & stop playing dumb.
Tell me again how I'm playing dumb. Cancer ruined my high school experience. I've had every scan. I will say I got lucky and found it early, but I still dealt with it for years and will have to be checked for the rest of my life. If you want to comment on my health, and how I'm "playing dumb" by saying something as serious as that, message me and we'll talk. You have NO REASON to comment on my health and say I'm lying about it. I am damn proud of all my scars, all the MRIs and CTs and bone scans and needles and surgeries I've gone through. I've already apologized for this thread, if you would've read it. Now tell me one more time, how I'm playing dumb mrs.

Um, I never said you were playing dumb about your cancer situation or history. I said you were playing dumb about the rules & how you seem to be unable to understand how this entire post is a slap in the face to those that are TTC.

I'm not entirely sure how you feel entitled to act indignant when I didn't say anything about your cancer problems other than cancer sucks. You have been going on about how you "didn't know" about the site Terms of Service. You've had access to that since you were pregnant & participated on the BMBs. So to not know how it goes over here is willful ignorance.

The rest of your over reaction here stems from poor reading comprehension. Yikes.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

PrimRoseMama said:

LilLauren17 said:

PrimRoseMama said:
1) Your post is insensitive. You know your BMB & it would have been far more polite to ask there & not bother with a community you aren't even going to try to learn the rules before bumbling through.

2) How is having a newborn & being possibly pregnant being "down"? Your situation is the very definition of "up & awesome" on this board. If you would bother to look outside yourself, you would be able to see that.

3) Are you not on birth control if you have other health concerns like CANCER? If you didn't want to get pregnant there are tons of methods to avoid. Your throwing out the cancer thing is kind of a red herring to gain sympathy after you've done an unkind, insensitive thing-- like potentially waving your fecundity in the faces of those that want what you have. If you are concerned about cancer then do your best to prevent until you get a clean PET scan. Don't try to finger-wag people here. It's just uncalled for.

None of this contributes positively to our community here. None of it is kind from you. I would believe you were sorry if you could just apologize & stop playing dumb.
Tell me again how I'm playing dumb. Cancer ruined my high school experience. I've had every scan. I will say I got lucky and found it early, but I still dealt with it for years and will have to be checked for the rest of my life. If you want to comment on my health, and how I'm "playing dumb" by saying something as serious as that, message me and we'll talk. You have NO REASON to comment on my health and say I'm lying about it. I am damn proud of all my scars, all the MRIs and CTs and bone scans and needles and surgeries I've gone through. I've already apologized for this thread, if you would've read it. Now tell me one more time, how I'm playing dumb mrs.
Um, I never said you were playing dumb about your cancer situation or history. I said you were playing dumb about the rules & how you seem to be unable to understand how this entire post is a slap in the face to those that are TTC.

I'm not entirely sure how you feel entitled to act indignant when I didn't say anything about your cancer problems other than cancer sucks. You have been going on about how you "didn't know" about the site Terms of Service. You've had access to that since you were pregnant & participated on the BMBs. So to not know how it goes over here is willful ignorance.

The rest of your over reaction here stems from poor reading comprehension. Yikes.

I asked one question on here while pregnant. And no one answered... Yikes.

hunnybunny17 · November 2015

LilLauren17 said:
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Again, I've already said sorry not saying it again. I'm also not on here enough to know what SOL means. And you're the one commenting on my thread, how about you go away. Thanks.

QBF because I'm mobile now
@PrimRoseMama is a regular poster in this community. She's here giving support to these ladies through this difficult process TTC. It's rude of YOU to tell her to go away when she helps so many of us here. You give support to get support.

Threads don't ever get closed except by a mod.

SOL = sh*t out of luck

LilLauren17 · November 2015

hunnybunny17 said:
LilLauren17 said:
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Again, I've already said sorry not saying it again. I'm also not on here enough to know what SOL means. And you're the one commenting on my thread, how about you go away. Thanks.

QBF because I'm mobile now
@PrimRoseMama is a regular poster in this community. She's here giving support to these ladies through this difficult process TTC. It's rude of YOU to tell her to go away when she helps so many of us here. You give support to get support.

Threads don't ever get closed except by a mod.

SOL = sh*t out of luck

Alright. The only thing I feel bad about is my original post, if it offended anyone. I've said sorry. That's it. Done.

PrimRoseMama · November 2015

LilLauren17 said:

*trimming quote tree*

I've been dealing with cancer for 6 years now.

From one survivor to another... I'm calling you out on playing the cancer card. Yup. Just happened.

I can pull it all I want. I should be damn proud of what I've been through, as should you. I will yell it to the world.

@LilLauren17 : do you pull the cancer-card when you do rude things on the regular? Like, if you cut someone off in traffic or step on someone's foot? How about when you cut in line or interrupt someone?

"Sorry! But you should know I have been dealing with cancer for 6 years. That means I don't have to answer for anything I do that is thoughtless or hurts other people!"

There really isn't much anyone can do to one-up a cancer survivor...

So do you do this often?

LilLauren17 · November 2015

PrimRoseMama said:

LilLauren17 said:

*trimming quote tree*

I've been dealing with cancer for 6 years now.
From one survivor to another... I'm calling you out on playing the cancer card. Yup. Just happened.

I can pull it all I want. I should be damn proud of what I've been through, as should you. I will yell it to the world.

@LilLauren17 : do you pull the cancer-card when you do rude things on the regular? Like, if you cut someone off in traffic or step on someone's foot? How about when you cut in line or interrupt someone?

"Sorry! But you should know I have been dealing with cancer for 6 years. That means I don't have to answer for anything I do that is thoughtless or hurts other people!"

There really isn't much anyone can do to one-up a cancer survivor...

So do you do this often?

Oh yeah daily. If there's one item left at a store and someone wants it, I just pull the cancer card and I get. Duh. -_-

No I don't.

PrimRoseMama · November 2015

LilLauren17 said:

hunnybunny17 said:
LilLauren17 said:
» show previous quotes
Again, I've already said sorry not saying it again. I'm also not on here enough to know what SOL means. And you're the one commenting on my thread, how about you go away. Thanks.

QBF because I'm mobile now
@PrimRoseMama is a regular poster in this community. She's here giving support to these ladies through this difficult process TTC. It's rude of YOU to tell her to go away when she helps so many of us here. You give support to get support.

Threads don't ever get closed except by a mod.

SOL = sh*t out of luck
Alright. The only thing I feel bad about is my original post, if it offended anyone. I've said sorry. That's it. Done.

Honestly, you should feel bad copping attitude with any regular on here. You made a bad decision & as such deserve any ass-chewing you get. It's extra-repugnant to bring cancer into it to me. So, yeah your OP isn't the only thing you should be apologizing for.

You have no right to waltz in here & treat anyone like you have. You've been particularly rude to me. I'm a big girl & I can deal, but you should apologize to gardengirlknits for presumptions about her own history & talking down to her like you did. If you want to talk being kind-- then you kind of need to practice what you preach, yes?

I'm upset with you because you are acting like we should just "get over it". That we are somehow in the wrong when you have behaved poorly-- not any of us.

That's like taking a dump on someone else's front lawn then complaining you've got poop on your shoes because you stepped in it & it smells.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

PrimRoseMama said:

LilLauren17 said:

hunnybunny17 said:
LilLauren17 said:
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Again, I've already said sorry not saying it again. I'm also not on here enough to know what SOL means. And you're the one commenting on my thread, how about you go away. Thanks.

QBF because I'm mobile now
@PrimRoseMama is a regular poster in this community. She's here giving support to these ladies through this difficult process TTC. It's rude of YOU to tell her to go away when she helps so many of us here. You give support to get support.

Threads don't ever get closed except by a mod.

SOL = sh*t out of luck
Alright. The only thing I feel bad about is my original post, if it offended anyone. I've said sorry. That's it. Done.
Honestly, you should feel bad copping attitude with any regular on here. You made a bad decision & as such deserve any ass-chewing you get. It's extra-repugnant to bring cancer into it to me. So, yeah your OP isn't the only thing you should be apologizing for.

You have no right to waltz in here & treat anyone like you have. You've been particularly rude to me. I'm a big girl & I can deal, but you should apologize to gardengirlknits for presumptions about her own history & talking down to her like you did. If you want to talk being kind-- then you kind of need to practice what you preach, yes?

I'm upset with you because you are acting like we should just "get over it". That we are somehow in the wrong when you have behaved poorly-- not any of us.

That's like taking a dump on someone else's front lawn then complaining you've got poop on your shoes because you stepped in it & it smells.

Never said any of you are in the wrong, just this has gone way out of hand and you ladies don't have a right to be rude to me either. I've said sorry, I understand now, I wish the ladies luck, I'm not rubbing anything I'm anyone's face, but I'm also not going to sit here and take anything from anyone. I am also a big girl. I'm sorry for the posts. I don't know what else you ladies want. I can't do anything else. Everyone looks big on a computer screen, but remember that behind these screens are humans that have feelings as well. Goes both ways for me and for you all. I'm sorry. And yes I'd like to move on and get over it. There's no need to continue to bash me. No reason.

PrimRoseMama · November 2015

LilLauren17 said:

PrimRoseMama said:

LilLauren17 said:

hunnybunny17 said:
LilLauren17 said:
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Again, I've already said sorry not saying it again. I'm also not on here enough to know what SOL means. And you're the one commenting on my thread, how about you go away. Thanks.

QBF because I'm mobile now
@PrimRoseMama is a regular poster in this community. She's here giving support to these ladies through this difficult process TTC. It's rude of YOU to tell her to go away when she helps so many of us here. You give support to get support.

Threads don't ever get closed except by a mod.

SOL = sh*t out of luck
Alright. The only thing I feel bad about is my original post, if it offended anyone. I've said sorry. That's it. Done.
Honestly, you should feel bad copping attitude with any regular on here. You made a bad decision & as such deserve any ass-chewing you get. It's extra-repugnant to bring cancer into it to me. So, yeah your OP isn't the only thing you should be apologizing for.

You have no right to waltz in here & treat anyone like you have. You've been particularly rude to me. I'm a big girl & I can deal, but you should apologize to gardengirlknits for presumptions about her own history & talking down to her like you did. If you want to talk being kind-- then you kind of need to practice what you preach, yes?

I'm upset with you because you are acting like we should just "get over it". That we are somehow in the wrong when you have behaved poorly-- not any of us.

That's like taking a dump on someone else's front lawn then complaining you've got poop on your shoes because you stepped in it & it smells.
Never said any of you are in the wrong, just this has gone way out of hand and you ladies don't have a right to be rude to me either. I've said sorry, I understand now, I wish the ladies luck, I'm not rubbing anything I'm anyone's face, but I'm also not going to sit here and take anything from anyone. I am also a big girl. I'm sorry for the posts. I don't know what else you ladies want. I can't do anything else. Everyone looks big on a computer screen, but remember that behind these screens are humans that have feelings as well. Goes both ways for me and for you all. I'm sorry. And yes I'd like to move on and get over it. There's no need to continue to bash me. No reason.

QFP.

No one has been rude to you.

AT ALL.

We are entitled to our feelings of hurt, annoyance & anger when someone disregards the established norms of our community. We aren't bashing you. We are telling you to move on & stop rubbing salt in the wound.

Your pleas for "omg but MY FEELINGS MATTER" make it seem like your feelings are the only ones that should matter. An apology isn't "I'm sorry BUT ZOMG YALL ARE SO MEAN! Stop responding."

So no, you've not actually apologized. You've done the "I'm sorry, BUT..." Thing, then tried to derail the thread by boo-hoo-ing about cancer, then tried to get saucy with me & now you are back to kumbyaya let's all hug it out. Nopity nope.

You apologize: nothing justifies your attitude. That's it. No more crying when no one is being rude to you.

If you are pregnant & want to be: congrats. Have fun on your new BMB.

If your pregnant & don't want to be: talk to your H & your OB about your options.

If you are just having weird post-partum cycles (hey, I'm on month 15 of that so it happens) & you are not pregnant-- I suggest lurking TONS if you want to continue participate here.

LilLauren17 · November 2015

PrimRoseMama said:

LilLauren17 said:

PrimRoseMama said:

LilLauren17 said:

hunnybunny17 said:
LilLauren17 said:
» show previous quotes
Again, I've already said sorry not saying it again. I'm also not on here enough to know what SOL means. And you're the one commenting on my thread, how about you go away. Thanks.

QBF because I'm mobile now
@PrimRoseMama is a regular poster in this community. She's here giving support to these ladies through this difficult process TTC. It's rude of YOU to tell her to go away when she helps so many of us here. You give support to get support.

Threads don't ever get closed except by a mod.

SOL = sh*t out of luck
Alright. The only thing I feel bad about is my original post, if it offended anyone. I've said sorry. That's it. Done.
Honestly, you should feel bad copping attitude with any regular on here. You made a bad decision & as such deserve any ass-chewing you get. It's extra-repugnant to bring cancer into it to me. So, yeah your OP isn't the only thing you should be apologizing for.

You have no right to waltz in here & treat anyone like you have. You've been particularly rude to me. I'm a big girl & I can deal, but you should apologize to gardengirlknits for presumptions about her own history & talking down to her like you did. If you want to talk being kind-- then you kind of need to practice what you preach, yes?

I'm upset with you because you are acting like we should just "get over it". That we are somehow in the wrong when you have behaved poorly-- not any of us.

That's like taking a dump on someone else's front lawn then complaining you've got poop on your shoes because you stepped in it & it smells.
Never said any of you are in the wrong, just this has gone way out of hand and you ladies don't have a right to be rude to me either. I've said sorry, I understand now, I wish the ladies luck, I'm not rubbing anything I'm anyone's face, but I'm also not going to sit here and take anything from anyone. I am also a big girl. I'm sorry for the posts. I don't know what else you ladies want. I can't do anything else. Everyone looks big on a computer screen, but remember that behind these screens are humans that have feelings as well. Goes both ways for me and for you all. I'm sorry. And yes I'd like to move on and get over it. There's no need to continue to bash me. No reason.
QFP.

No one has been rude to you.

AT ALL.

We are entitled to our feelings of hurt, annoyance & anger when someone disregards the established norms of our community. We aren't bashing you. We are telling you to move on & stop rubbing salt in the wound.

Your pleas for "omg but MY FEELINGS MATTER" make it seem like your feelings are the only ones that should matter. An apology isn't "I'm sorry BUT ZOMG YALL ARE SO MEAN! Stop responding."

So no, you've not actually apologized. You've done the "I'm sorry, BUT..." Thing, then tried to derail the thread by boo-hoo-ing about cancer, then tried to get saucy with me & now you are back to kumbyaya let's all hug it out. Nopity nope.

You apologize: nothing justifies your attitude. That's it. No more crying when no one is being rude to you.

If you are pregnant & want to be: congrats. Have fun on your new BMB.

If your pregnant & don't want to be: talk to your H & your OB about your options.

If you are just having weird post-partum cycles (hey, I'm on month 15 of that so it happens) & you are not pregnant-- I suggest lurking TONS if you want to continue participate here.

No I am sorry. I've already said. I don't think I'll continue to be a participate on here, which I'm sure will make you ladies happy. I don't know what is going on with my body, which is why I asked a question, I just made the mistake of asking on the wrong board. I'm trying to get the hang of the postpartum body and cervix checks, which I just read about, very interesting. And as you said yourself. We are entitled to our feelings being hurt. I don't think anyone of you are big and bad behind a computer screen, same for me as well. But, good night. (If it's night were you are, which I'm assuming it is?) and I wish you happiness.

BumpAdmin · November 2015

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