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Stabby Saturday 10/24

susanb15susanb15 member
in November 2015 Moms
didn't see one for this weekend so I am starting the stab-fest. Add yours.

*I have cried about 4 times now today. The stabby feeling in my pelvis is above and beyond the usual pain I have had the past few weeks down there already.
*I am annoyed and wanting to stab my husband who has spent today doing groceries and 5 hours of video gaming. Meanwhile, I have done laundry, exercised, put away the groceries, prepped dinner, and other picking up around the house. I get that he wants to relax, but so do I... ugh.
*I am tired of incessant questions about babies. I have a personality and life that doesn't include the growing girl inside of me. You can ask about me, too (&not just how I feel )

2.5 weeks until EDD. I can't stinking wait.
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  • WeirdAliceWeirdAlice member
    I am overly stabby today X(

    -DD was up sick all night I had to wash at least 2 sheets and all her bedding bc of her puking, but she had no fever and was in a decent mood for the most part.

    -neither of us got to bed until 6AM then I still couldn't sleep, so I haven't been to bed yet.

    -found my boyfriends IG, was going to add him since we were talking about it a few days ago but found him asking "cuties and hotties" to video chat him, call him text him, and "kinky rp" him. so now I'm trying to figure out how to bring it up to him without breaking down, iv already mentally prepared for the worse to happen just in case, but confrontation is my weak spot. Lucky him he is not here right now.

    -the sound of anyone's voice, people looking at me, even being in the same room as me makes me want to throat punch them (except DD she is the only one i can tolerate).
    I'm fed up with everything today.
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  • KeHill08KeHill08 member
    People that think it's their job to tell me what I should and shouldn't do while pregnant and how I will be feeling at a certain time. Lets just let me decide how I feel. Also when people try telling me what I have to do and shouldn't do once baby is here. Let me be the mom to my baby and if I need advice, well... I'll ask my mom, not you. Those people really make me stabby.
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  • oliarnmom1517oliarnmom1517 member
    edited October 2015
    My step brother is making me stabby today.. Today is the year anniversary of the lose of my cat who I owned for 15 years.. I owned her for her entire life from birth till death.. I have been having a rough day and I went to my moms to help clean and we found her first collar that she got out of and I got a little emotional and he had the nerve to tell me to "stop crying like a bitch" ... Needless to say he got cussed out and my dog then decided I needed protecting and tried to bite him.. Good dog Wall-E.. No I didn't let him bite him I caught him before he started to run at my step brother because I don't need everybody saying I have a bad dog.. My brothers dog did jump and hit him in the balls though.. Made me feel better.. However I haven't cried as much as I thought I would today.. I will say my husband did promise to take me to Texas Roadhouse tonight to make me feel better..


    Edit to add that I am usually not this emotional.. I was ok until we found the collar and I think part of it was hormones but him telling me that just pushed me over the edge...
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  • japostolovajapostolova member
    I think I am feeling more than stabby...maybe enraged this Saturday. I am 37 weeks pregnant packing and moving to our new place. My brothers in law came over this morning to help my husband pack. What happened was they ate some pizza drank some beers and left. I found my husband sitting on the couch watching football. Umm... How are we suppose to move when I have a toddler attached to one leg and am slowly going all the packing? Wouldn't it occur to him I need help? Wouldn't it occur to his family who lives 10 mins away we might need help today?? Just beyond annoyed w their usual bs. MIL was " busy" as usual so no she didn't stop by to offer any assistance either
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  • Lsager424Lsager424 member
    Today is my SIL's birthday. My SIL is a word that starts with a c and ends with a t. DH is making me go to her birthday party. It's a keg party. It's outdoors. I happen to be almost 39 weeks pregnant. And 33. And it's 35 degrees out. I really want to tell him to go scratch, but he is so good to me... Stabby, stabby, stabby.
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  • PetitNightingalePetitNightingale member
    Thank you so much for starting this. 

    I am stabby because I am slipping back into my depression. And the best advice most people have for me is "suck it up" well fucking gee, thank you because I haven't tried that already. I am a crying, gross, whiny mess and I feel like I can't talk to anyone about it without them writing me off. 

    I am also stabby because I mentioned dating to someone and they went "Oh, you're going to be a single mother. No one is going to want you which is a shame, you're so pretty."

    Um. Fuck you please. I do not need the idea that I'm going to die alone and unloved swirling around in my head right now, it's difficult enough not having an SO to rely on. In a moment of absurd weakness, I called my baby's father. Horrible idea. I now feel worse and am going to continue to eat ice cream, listen to Taylor Swift and cry. 
    Do unto others. 
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  • hanray2010hanray2010 member
    So mad today husband has done nothing but bitch all weekend and tell.me how sick he's feeling (by the way it's less than a man cold) I told him I have no sympathy so suck it dd is going to be 3 in 2 months and still doesn't sleep through the night so of course I'm the only one that can get up with her and I'm in some serious pain tonight
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  • hanray2010hanray2010 member
    Also dd told me tonight she's tired of me freaking out sorta funny but sorta stabby
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  • ZoeH3ZoeH3 member
    These BH are making me beyond stabby.
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  • eamarateamarat member
    Public restrooms.
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  • kmkrushikmkrushi member
    Migraines and rain!
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  • merrypottermerrypotter member
    Moving from a third floor apartment while 36 and a half weeks pregnant... I don't know what we were thinking.
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  • livvielove15livvielove15 member
    The fact that the father of my child is wishing our dd comes before Thanksgiving (edd is Nov. 27th) just cause he will be in town for the holiday... Little does he know he will be sitting at my parents house bonding with her because I refuse to have her passed around to everyone at just a couple weeks or less. He is SO inconsiderate.
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  • HeatherFaye718HeatherFaye718 member
    Work made me stabby today. I just recently requested part time hours. I'll be 36 weeks on Monday and I work as a barista at a very busy coffee shop. It's an incredibly active job. I'm impressed I've made it this long.

    Well I got up at 4:30am to go in for my 8 hour shift. They sent my home after 3 hours. It takes me 40 minutes to get thete! I was livid. I've decided that if they do it again then I'm not coming back.
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  • mrsaragonmrsaragon member
    Work makes me stabby. I told them I could work until November 1st to make sure I could get the whole commission period in. Hours got cut in half this past week and this upcoming week I work one day. 5 hours.
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  • rubirubi89rubirubi89 member
    WHY IS THERE STILL NO BLUE BELL ICE CREAM IN THIS HELL HOLE???!! WHYYYYY??
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  • sacrazysacrazy member
    My husband has been trying to help out more around the house, so he did the dishes yesterday. Unfortunately I now need to rewash half of them because they still have food caked on them. I don't think he even rinsed them out at all, just stuck them in the dishwasher and that's it. Sooo frustrating, so I'm going to show them to him once he decides to wake up. Hopefully then he'll understand why I rinse and scrub them.
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  • emzcatemzcat member
    We made plans (Saturday) to go to Ikea to get a dresser for baby's room ( we've planned this several weekends but have yet to make it). This involved borrowing my mothers jeep and driving an hour to the store. Mom decided she wanted to take us to lunch before going. After eating, SO and mom ganged up on me about not going because they were so tired and "we will go tomorrow (today)."

    It's 1145 and SO is still sleeping. Bet we don't go today!! Sooo stabby!!!!! I just want his nursery done. Not much time left!
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  • rachswirachswi member
    My body is making me stabby today. It's not wanting to function today. I'm so uncomfortable.

    Also it makes me stabby when people come up to me and say "you look really uncomfortable. You must be ready for him to be out of you." What part of that is okay? I know I look uncomfortable because I am, but it makes it worse when it's pointed out.
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  • kmd91kmd91 member
    petreann said:

    Stabby that im 9 months pregnant and my MIL keeps asking me to accompany her different places. No, i don't with to go to a parade and stand up for 2+ hours with you, no i would not like to go to the store with you and i no certainly don't want to go to family dinner tonight with you and your sisters. i just wanna stay home curled up in bed in my pajamas and watch movies!

    What is making me stabby right now is the exact opposite of this, haha. I'm stabby that I'm cooped up in this house with nothing really to do to make the days pass faster until my due date. Days when I actually get out and about fly by, but these days of hanging out doing nothing drive me insane because they feel like they last forever.
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  • logarithm3logarithm3 member
    helsbels222 said:

    How is it possible that I have to pee right after I peed? It's making me so stabby. Get off the bladder LO!

    I'm with you in this one! Usually when you just left the house :)
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  • shayshayshahshayshayshah member
    I'm stabby at the prescribed burn near my house that has got out of control! My house stinks of smoke, my throat and lungs hurt, I have nowhere else to stay until it's gone and I worry for all the kangaroos and wildlife who's being pushed out onto the roads and near houses because some %^€<& didn't control their burn.
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  • kwaldykwaldy member
    My dog has made me stabby. He's sweet, but God dang.... his bark is the most obnoxious thing in the world. We got him a bark collar, and it has helped significantly. But about two weeks ago, the battery died and it didn't take him long to find his voice again and walk around the house barking for no reason at all. I finally ordered the special (and expensive) battery on amazon prime today. Hopefully they get here soon. I'm losing my sanity.
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  • Kristi4938Kristi4938 member
    This insomnia is making me SO stabby!!! Between the constant peeing, heat, and anxiety due to tapering off my meds, I get almost zero sleep, and nothing at this point helps. Tempted to up my meds to all be the anxiety but I'm 38 weeks and I don't want her to have withdrawals. We are so close!
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  • rachswirachswi member
    kmd91 said:

    TMI about my bowels to follow, feel free to skip this.

    But I have been sooo constipated my whole pregnancy. Now though for the past couple days I cannot stop pooping. I know some women who have experienced this before going into labor so it's kinda got me wondering. But I'm stabby at myself for letting myself get all symptom spotty, cause I know it'll just make these last couple weeks drag on in the likely event I'm just noticing things because I'm looking just like when you're TTC.

    I'm the same! Every time my belly tightens a little bit I go, "ooh! Is this it?!?" I wonder if the days I feel extra pain and pressure in my pelvis means he's working his way out and I'll have my water break soon.

    I need to occupy my mind a little more so I stop misreading LO's hiccups and such. These last 3 weeks need to hurry up so I can meet my little man!
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  • mrsaragonmrsaragon member
    I'm feeling extra stabby tonight too. Maybe even murder-y. My DH WILL NOT STOP SNORING. The past few weeks have been particularly annoying, but it's now a mixture of snoring, sounding like he has an air leak and moaning. And he refuses to do anything about it to try to help it, not even rolling over onto his side. Doesn't help my dogs snore too. The couch should be a temporary sanctuary but I have a chinchilla downstairs and that nocturnal rodent is annoying the shit out of me too with her chewing and teeth grinding. I've never felt so close to loosing my mind as I am right this moment.
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  • oliarnmom1517oliarnmom1517 member
    mrsaragon said:

    I'm feeling extra stabby tonight too. Maybe even murder-y. My DH WILL NOT STOP SNORING. The past few weeks have been particularly annoying, but it's now a mixture of snoring, sounding like he has an air leak and moaning. And he refuses to do anything about it to try to help it, not even rolling over onto his side. Doesn't help my dogs snore too. The couch should be a temporary sanctuary but I have a chinchilla downstairs and that nocturnal rodent is annoying the shit out of me too with her chewing and teeth grinding. I've never felt so close to loosing my mind as I am right this moment.


    That's exactly why the hamster is downstairs.. My little guy likes to do interpretative dances to the squeaking of the hamster wheel.. At 3am... Ummmmm no that is mommies sleeping time not dance class...
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