April 2016 Moms

Anyone feeling movement yet?

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Re: Anyone feeling movement yet?

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  • Yes u thought I was going crazy when I felt it but guess it's normal this is baby #3 for me
  • @jayleigh68 @kimmecakes I've been spending time on other boards more as well. It's become pretty toxic around here. My child knows how to graciously concede an argument better than some of the adults in this BMB. 1st tri is nice, and (though I hope you have no reason to be there) the ladies at pregnancy after a loss are lovely and very supportive. I hope to see you both at one of those, hopefully the former. :)

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  • 1st tri is nice

    :-/
    Amanda

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  • Maybe I should clarify: 1st tri is nicer than here.
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  • If you look at the bolded part above it was confirmed by simultaneous ultrasound.
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  • DougalMcGDougalMcG member
    edited September 2015
    I really don't give a flying F what people do or do not feel in their utes, but I did just want to point out that the fraudulent "vaccines cause autism" study was conducted by a dude who was in cahoots with a group of trial lawyers and basically just wanted money. Got to give the NIH a bit more respect than that. They've got nothing to gain from a claim like that. Carry on my friends.
  • So, you scream "SCIENCE!" and I produce two research articles where medical and research professionals (sciencey folk, for sure) do not disregard maternal perception of fetal movement as early as 7 weeks (which is still 2 full and 3 full weeks earlier than both OP and myself) and you STILL believe you know better...that doesn't sound very scientific to me.
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  • I didn't scream science. I'm asking legitimate questions and pointing out potential flaws with the study. I didn't read the study, no time right now. Did it say how many women or what percentage felt movement in the first trimester?

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  • I realize you didn't specifically scream science, others did. Apologies if it seemed directed at you. I am no longer in front of my computer so I can not speak to specifics. It did indicate that it was a small portion of women who felt the movement early, and that perception ranged in accuracy from woman to woman from 0-90(something)% accuracy. I didn't post this to fuel the fire, it was in response to a specific request from one poster, which is why I tagged her in it. I hope if nothing else I hope that it illustrates that we perceive to be true is not always true. And, at the very least I hope that it will at least stop the derogatory responses from some on this thread. I consider myself to be an educated person. I took the time to research this because so many said it was impossible. However, that is not what I found.
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  • DougalMcG said:

    I really don't give a flying F what people do or do not feel in their utes, but I did just want to point out that the fraudulent "vaccines cause autism" study was conducted by a dude who was in cahoots with a group of trial lawyers and basically just wanted money. Got to give the NIH a bit more respect than that. They've got nothing to gain from a claim like that. Carry on my friends.

    My point is that you can't trust one single study because you don't know the motivation behind the research.
    ETA: Anyone with a basic statistics course under her belt can tell you that numbers can easily be manipulated to say whatever the researcher wants them to say.

    There were two separate studies cited, decades apart.
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  • You guys really don't like when people disagree with you, do you? I hope you take comfort in your "common sense" being more valuable than the opinion of (published) medical professionals. Though, I think that was the original complaint about us...
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  • Thanks @cmerribury I'll see you on the first trimester boards ;) maybe more like minded folk there ;)
  • That sounded vaguely threatening @KDHB13
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  • PeggyOlsonFTWPeggyOlsonFTW member
    edited September 2015
    Not at all. Genuinely curious. ETA: if you guys think they're nicer, I'd like to see their replies.

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    BFP #3 11/2015, CP
    BFP #4 1/2016, DD born 10/2016




  • I have no intention of bringing up this topic again, I've found the evidence I needed and I hope it provided comfort to those who were repeatedly called uneducated idiots on this thread. What I meant when I said they were nicer is that since I've been over there I haven't seen any of them attacking one another as I do over here. Every time someone has created a thread one of the core women in this group comes along and polices her. If you all feel you are in the right, you are entitled to that. However, you've made this place an unsafe and unfriendly place for a lot of women. Some of them first time moms. I'm not sure why there seems to be such a movement to bring other women down. (But I'm sure this, like every other opinion that runs counter to that of said core group will be laughed at and belittled. That's your right, but overall none of you seem like very nice people to me, and I think that counts a lot more than being right on an Internet thread.)
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  • If you look it wasn't me who asked this question, just supportive of the young lady that did.
    It's not just this thread that I have noticed cranky replies on.
    On other posts some replies were rude, aggressive and frankly upsetting to see.
    I just really don't know where some people get off on being so blunt.
    Are mums not known for sugar coating there words??
    You can be opinionated in a nice way without putting others down.
    I'll stick with pink and fluffy for my kids as I know they will treat others how they would like to be treated. Minding your manners cost nothing.
  • You're welcome @mccartra, I'm glad you found it helpful.
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  • To those of you being condescending in your responses ~ are you always such b*tches or are your hormones to blame? How about you realize that this may be the first pregnancy for some people and questions that may sound dumb to you are just things on another person's mind? Also, I am fairly certain none of you rude ones are doctors (I'm certain you would have mentioned it otherwise), so stop acting like you can give medical advice based on your googling capability. Probably the same aholes that don't vaccinate (yep I went there).

    @KimmyAshworth Who cares if it's 'real' or not, either way I'm happy you're enjoying your pregnancy
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