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  • Everycol0rEverycol0r member
    jsassy said:


    letyourheartbeyourguide said:

    Everycol0r said:


    I can explain.

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  • LulucooksLulucooks member
    This is a BBS isn't it??
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  • Knottie67973395Knottie67973395 member
    I was absolutely terrified to get pregnant, until I was ready. Am I still a little nervous? Absolutely! I think for first time mom's it's normal. I see all these women around me complaining about this or that during their pregnancy so it does add to making me a little nervous. Some people are different than others. I've always been scared to be pregnant, but that doesn't mean I am not excited or that I do not want it. If you are ready, it doesn't mean it won't be scary, just make sure you are on the same page like the others have said.
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  • paisleybrownpaisleybrown member
    MandyBeeSLP said:

    I think I am mostly anxious about how much having kids will change life for my husband and I. I really want kids, and I want more than one so I want to get started. But, I will kinda miss being spontaneous and all the things that every parent I know warns me will change once I have kids. I had to overcome that in order to be ready. 

    @mandybeeslp, This is very relatable. I have a stepson, so I'm very aware of the strain a child can potentially have on a relationship. Babies are needy and that time and energy has to come from somewhere. I've wanted a baby for so many years, but I've also become accustomed to certain freedoms in the absence of functioning ovaries.

    I feel that I am being realistic about the challenges of having a baby and changing the dynamic in our home, which creates nervousness and anxiety. Considering all these challenges, I still cannot wait for a baby. I am excited and impatient at the prospect of conceiving. All that excitement and desire, however, doesn't remove all the fears and worries I have.


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  • yogahhyogahh member
    MamaBish said:
    I am going to quote my response from last week to @onefootinthebayou
    Here is the thread if you are interested :) 
    https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/comment/87530197 

    MamaBish said:
    I actually felt this way a little bit, not to the extreme that you are saying, but I did not want to be pregnant. Even when I was pregnant, I hated it. It was uncomfortable and I did not enjoy being sick all the time. 

    My story is a bit of a downer but here it is in a nutshell: I lost her when I was 28 weeks pregnant. I carried her for 6/7 months and I had to give birth anyway and it was all for basically nothing. I got to hold her briefly, and got a couple photos, but that's it. My whole experience was awful.

    I don't say this to scare you, but to show you that even though I hated pregnancy, and even though I went through this traumatic experience, here I am. TTC for another child. Even after all that, I know it will be worth it because even though I only got to hold her for a short time, and even though it didn't turn out the way we wanted it to, it was amazing to see her. To see this adorable little thing that we created. 

    I want that feeling of awe again. And I will go through hell to get it.

    I go to therapy to deal with my loss and I will go to therapy to deal with pregnancy fears if and when I get pg again as my fears this time will be way worse than the first time. I commend you for being honest about this, too many people like to pretend that pregnancy is all puppies and rainbows. It's ok to be afraid.

    I didn't know your story, and this broke my heart to read. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.

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  • MamaBishMamaBish member
    yogahh said:

    I didn't know your story, and this broke my heart to read. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss.

    Thank you so much
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  • 11chicago1111chicago11 member
    I am not trying to start any drama just pointing out my opinion. This girl need support.  Not a bunch of people telling her what she should or should not do.  More like supporting her to make her own decision. 
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  • letyourheartbeyourguideletyourheartbeyourguide member
    11chicago11 said:

    I am not trying to start any drama just pointing out my opinion. This girl need support.  Not a bunch of people telling her what she should or should not do.  More like supporting her to make her own decision. 

    Please stop trying to derail this thread. People are giving the OP support and advice. No one is being mean. You seem to be the only one being critical here.
      

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  • 11chicago1111chicago11 member
    I just stated my opinion. 

    OP I with you luck but since this club of girls want to high-jack your post talking about me I am out.  And please notice in every post it is the same club of "mean girls". 

    OP  - I hope you get the support you are looking for.....
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  • WinchestertoPittsburghWinchestertoPittsburgh member
    Good support comes the form of giving someone your honest opinion, not blowing smoke up their ass and telling them that everything is going to be ok. Making a good decision comes from hearing all sides of opinions on a subject.
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