Good toys for babies?

LiveNLove44 · August 2015

brokenoven said:

Hey Prezmosbabe! I don't post on the bump anymore ever since the mass exodus but I come to stalk those that haven't moved over to the other place. You have come way too far and have had way too many struggles to sit her and listen to these women. They don't understand that a woman who has spent hundreds of thousands of dollars to conceive and went through much heartache and pain will have a very different experience with pregnancy and parenting. You cherish and treasure every moment because you know that you almost didn't get that chance. You cry just looking at your child and tell them every day how lucky you are to be their mama. You have a desire to be the best you can possibly be and you don't take motherhood for granted. You have a heightened sense of how precious your babies life really is. Prezmos babe these women don't know you. your baby will be very lucky. She will see a lion for the first time in her own back yard and not at the zoo. She will have friends from all walks of life from every country and never take a meal for granted. For christmas she will hand out food coloring books and school supplies to kids in those third world countries like you do. Buy your baby as many toys as you want and don't ever sit here and let these women tell you your overlooking anything or they you are unreasonable. I think you should stop posting here all together. These women in this thread are a perfect example of why women who are pregnant after infertility don't typically join these groups. They are too petty and get joy from trying to steal the joy and happiness of pregnancy and parenting from excited ladies. Come join us at the other place and let these women argue amongst themselves. They have clearly stated this is entertainment for them. That might be the saddest thing I have ever heard.
Ok, I'm sorry, but you keep mentioning 'the other place' and I'm beginning to feel like you are a ghost or something
I know the place she's talking about, and there are some freaking amazing ladies there. I find it offensive that she assumes none of us have spent thousands to get pregnant, and don't cherish our babies. The jokes made were not about the OP, they were about the insane freak out she had in response to suggestions. And the entertainment comments are a quote from the TOU. Nothing in that post was relevant to this thread. So many on this thread have suffered. Go to the DS. They won't put up with this behavior either.
@BrooklynBroussard you are more than just a little bit ridiculous . Women at the place I speak of are above and beyond the likes of you. They have had to much pain to be so petty about something like a flippin toy suggestion thread! Don't presume to know how a group of woman that have struggled and probably cried along with Prezmos babe for years and years will respond to her inquires. What people there won't put up with is someone attacking another's parenting choices. You don't come in and claim someone is going to pass off moments in raising a child with electronics or toys especially when the person clearly stated that their child doesn't have a single toy. What is wrong with wanting a god damn chew teething you or a christmas present? You can't give a suggestion without an opinion about what's necessary or not? It's not a meltdown to express that you think something that someone else posted was rude. It's not unreasonable to explain why you think the persons comment was rude. It definitely was rude what the knot woman said. I think so , Przemosbabe thinks so and so did several other users. Just because you don't agree doesn't make you right. Do have the ability to comprehend that?! Do you? Why don't you focus on that child you have coming along? You have a lot of growing up to do before that child comes since you clearly can't accept that there are many people in the world who will always feel different than you do. Bless that poor child of yours little heart. Lol. You are nothing but a bored internet bully judging by many of your posts. There is help out there for you.

This is horribly inappropriate. Please stop.

Birdee212 · August 2015

::takes earrings off::

How dare you assume that none of us have struggled with infertility because we either didn't participate on your previous board or that we're all too fucking lighthearted to take pregnancy seriously! Do you have any idea how long I've wanted this baby thinking I couldn't ever get pregnant, and if I did, that it would be so malformed that I couldn't carry to term?!

I'm genuinely sorry that you have had to go through so many treatments and procedures for so many years to conceive but it is so sanctimonious, ugly, and smug to hold your personal experience over our heads (repeatedly, I might add) like a trump card. It's insulting.

OP, the tone of this board obviously doesn't gel with what you'd like it to be but maybe if you browbeat us some more, we'll concede to never post a gif or joke or incredulous remark ever again and only respond to the specific question with a specific answer that's to the poster's liking.

Excuse us for having a sense of humor about anything and calling a spade a spade. We must not want our babies enough.

MirandaC1984 · August 2015

brokenoven said:

Hey Prezmosbabe! I don't post on the bump anymore ever since the mass exodus but I come to stalk those that haven't moved over to the other place. You have come way too far and have had way too many struggles to sit her and listen to these women. They don't understand that a woman who has spent hundreds of thousands of dollars to conceive and went through much heartache and pain will have a very different experience with pregnancy and parenting. You cherish and treasure every moment because you know that you almost didn't get that chance. You cry just looking at your child and tell them every day how lucky you are to be their mama. You have a desire to be the best you can possibly be and you don't take motherhood for granted. You have a heightened sense of how precious your babies life really is. Prezmos babe these women don't know you. your baby will be very lucky. She will see a lion for the first time in her own back yard and not at the zoo. She will have friends from all walks of life from every country and never take a meal for granted. For christmas she will hand out food coloring books and school supplies to kids in those third world countries like you do. Buy your baby as many toys as you want and don't ever sit here and let these women tell you your overlooking anything or they you are unreasonable. I think you should stop posting here all together. These women in this thread are a perfect example of why women who are pregnant after infertility don't typically join these groups. They are too petty and get joy from trying to steal the joy and happiness of pregnancy and parenting from excited ladies. Come join us at the other place and let these women argue amongst themselves. They have clearly stated this is entertainment for them. That might be the saddest thing I have ever heard.

This was totally warranted. A private message wouldn't have sufficed. Instead you chose to make your own assumptions about a group of women you don't know. Congratulations you now have the most offensive post in this thread. Good on you.

DeeGreer · August 2015

WHAT THE FUCK IS HAPPENING? @brokenoven your comments are literally cringe worthy and so much more offensive and uncalled for than anything that was posted in this thread.

CaitLewis15 · August 2015

brokenoven said:

Hey Prezmosbabe! I don't post on the bump anymore ever since the mass exodus but I come to stalk those that haven't moved over to the other place. You have come way too far and have had way too many struggles to sit her and listen to these women. They don't understand that a woman who has spent hundreds of thousands of dollars to conceive and went through much heartache and pain will have a very different experience with pregnancy and parenting. You cherish and treasure every moment because you know that you almost didn't get that chance. You cry just looking at your child and tell them every day how lucky you are to be their mama. You have a desire to be the best you can possibly be and you don't take motherhood for granted. You have a heightened sense of how precious your babies life really is. Prezmos babe these women don't know you. your baby will be very lucky. She will see a lion for the first time in her own back yard and not at the zoo. She will have friends from all walks of life from every country and never take a meal for granted. For christmas she will hand out food coloring books and school supplies to kids in those third world countries like you do. Buy your baby as many toys as you want and don't ever sit here and let these women tell you your overlooking anything or they you are unreasonable. I think you should stop posting here all together. These women in this thread are a perfect example of why women who are pregnant after infertility don't typically join these groups. They are too petty and get joy from trying to steal the joy and happiness of pregnancy and parenting from excited ladies. Come join us at the other place and let these women argue amongst themselves. They have clearly stated this is entertainment for them. That might be the saddest thing I have ever heard.
Ok, I'm sorry, but you keep mentioning 'the other place' and I'm beginning to feel like you are a ghost or something
I know the place she's talking about, and there are some freaking amazing ladies there. I find it offensive that she assumes none of us have spent thousands to get pregnant, and don't cherish our babies. The jokes made were not about the OP, they were about the insane freak out she had in response to suggestions. And the entertainment comments are a quote from the TOU. Nothing in that post was relevant to this thread. So many on this thread have suffered. Go to the DS. They won't put up with this behavior either.
@BrooklynBroussard you are more than just a little bit ridiculous . Women at the place I speak of are above and beyond the likes of you. They have had to much pain to be so petty about something like a flippin toy suggestion thread! Don't presume to know how a group of woman that have struggled and probably cried along with Prezmos babe for years and years will respond to her inquires. What people there won't put up with is someone attacking another's parenting choices. You don't come in and claim someone is going to pass off moments in raising a child with electronics or toys especially when the person clearly stated that their child doesn't have a single toy. What is wrong with wanting a god damn chew teething you or a christmas present? You can't give a suggestion without an opinion about what's necessary or not? It's not a meltdown to express that you think something that someone else posted was rude. It's not unreasonable to explain why you think the persons comment was rude. It definitely was rude what the knot woman said. I think so , Przemosbabe thinks so and so did several other users. Just because you don't agree doesn't make you right. Do have the ability to comprehend that?! Do you? Why don't you focus on that child you have coming along? You have a lot of growing up to do before that child comes since you clearly can't accept that there are many people in the world who will always feel different than you do. Bless that poor child of yours little heart. Lol. You are nothing but a bored internet bully judging by many of your posts. There is help out there for you.

Um, that post made me dust off my never-before-used 'report' button. That's an insanely, aggressively hurtful personal attack. So not ok.

jefinley1 · August 2015

Ya, I think this thread has officially crossed into very offensive realm. To any of our wonderful ladies who have been on a journey to get to our lovely BMB, please know I am so sorry you would have to read a comments like this. I can only imagine how deeply hurtful it would be to you especially.

You're all wonderful and I love your input. Please don't be put off contributing simply because of some people who obviously are working through some things that have nothing to do with us, or infertility for that matter. A couple of these more recent comments really upset me, so I can only imagine how it would effect those to whom this issue is even more personal.

@BrooklynBroussard I think the only reason you're being singled out is because of your positive, honest, and lighthearted energy that so many obviously really enjoy. Being able to relate to so many women so enthusiasticly regardless of your individual experience demonstrates a strength of character that goes beyond what a superior attitude, ingnorant condescension, and grandstanding ever could.

MariahOBrien · August 2015

brokenoven said:

BrooklynBroussard said:

MariahOBrien said:

brokenoven said:
Hey Prezmosbabe! I don't post on the bump anymore ever since the mass exodus but I come to stalk those that haven't moved over to the other place. You have come way too far and have had way too many struggles to sit her and listen to these women. They don't understand that a woman who has spent hundreds of thousands of dollars to conceive and went through much heartache and pain will have a very different experience with pregnancy and parenting. You cherish and treasure every moment because you know that you almost didn't get that chance. You cry just looking at your child and tell them every day how lucky you are to be their mama. You have a desire to be the best you can possibly be and you don't take motherhood for granted. You have a heightened sense of how precious your babies life really is. Prezmos babe these women don't know you. your baby will be very lucky. She will see a lion for the first time in her own back yard and not at the zoo. She will have friends from all walks of life from every country and never take a meal for granted. For christmas she will hand out food coloring books and school supplies to kids in those third world countries like you do. Buy your baby as many toys as you want and don't ever sit here and let these women tell you your overlooking anything or they you are unreasonable. I think you should stop posting here all together. These women in this thread are a perfect example of why women who are pregnant after infertility don't typically join these groups. They are too petty and get joy from trying to steal the joy and happiness of pregnancy and parenting from excited ladies. Come join us at the other place and let these women argue amongst themselves. They have clearly stated this is entertainment for them. That might be the saddest thing I have ever heard.
Ok, I'm sorry, but you keep mentioning 'the other place' and I'm beginning to feel like you are a ghost or something
I know the place she's talking about, and there are some freaking amazing ladies there. I find it offensive that she assumes none of us have spent thousands to get pregnant, and don't cherish our babies. The jokes made were not about the OP, they were about the insane freak out she had in response to suggestions. And the entertainment comments are a quote from the TOU. Nothing in that post was relevant to this thread. So many on this thread have suffered. Go to the DS. They won't put up with this behavior either.
@BrooklynBroussard you are more than just a little bit ridiculous . Women at the place I speak of are above and beyond the likes of you. They have had to much pain to be so petty about something like a flippin toy suggestion thread! Don't presume to know how a group of woman that have struggled and probably cried along with Prezmos babe for years and years will respond to her inquires. What people there won't put up with is someone attacking another's parenting choices. You don't come in and claim someone is going to pass off moments in raising a child with electronics or toys especially when the person clearly stated that their child doesn't have a single toy. What is wrong with wanting a god damn chew teething you or a christmas present? You can't give a suggestion without an opinion about what's necessary or not? It's not a meltdown to express that you think something that someone else posted was rude. It's not unreasonable to explain why you think the persons comment was rude. It definitely was rude what the knot woman said. I think so , Przemosbabe thinks so and so did several other users. Just because you don't agree doesn't make you right. Do have the ability to comprehend that?! Do you? Why don't you focus on that child you have coming along? You have a lot of growing up to do before that child comes since you clearly can't accept that there are many people in the world who will always feel different than you do. Bless that poor child of yours little heart. Lol. You are nothing but a bored internet bully judging by many of your posts. There is help out there for you.

Holy shit, what? Nope, nope nope nope. You are being malicious and rude at this point. You are not helping this situation, you're hindering. Please stop, seriously. This is not okay.

leighann1 · August 2015

What. Is. Happening???

J1D · August 2015

**Removed for TOU Violation**

MirandaC1984 · August 2015

If we ignore them will they disappear to the other place forever?

leighann1 · August 2015

@J1D

And ditto.

casserole27 · August 2015

Totally uncalled for. Not ok and this group won't stand for it.
@BrooklynBroussard hasn't done anything to deserve being attacked and I hope she knows we all love and back her up. I am sure youve already been reported by a lot of us. And that's all the acknowledgment I think is deserved we don't need to feed a drama monster.

CaitLewis15 · August 2015

@brooklynbroussard, I already reported her. I've never done that before now, but that post was so malicious and insulting to the group as a whole. I can't believe the condescension and privileged arrogance of the post. Not everyone can spend thousands to conceive their baby, and have taken them to 'over half the world' before they are 5. My baby probably also won't see lions in her backyard anytime soon. Hope she can look past that and see that I still love her, despite these obvious short comings.

Anyway, this ridiculous thread needs to be shut down. And dusting off another username to continue to attack someone else just pushed me beyond. Make it stop.

MariahOBrien · August 2015

This is some ridiculous and freaky fucking shit. @BumpAdmin please shut this down. This shouldn't be tolerated.

tate62610 · August 2015

I reported as well. Good riddance

J1D · August 2015

@CaitLewis15 I'm fairly certainly my little love ode will cause this thread to get closed sooner rather than later.

And I never even got to talk about sock monkies

My nephew loved their long legs and I thought it was a great toy for him.

tate62610 · August 2015

@J1D please join the fb group @amberrmariee20 can help if you send your email. That way you're still around if you get the boot.

leighann1 · August 2015

@BrooklynBroussard

I am so angry on your behalf right now. @BumpAdmin please shut this down. @brokenoven is being horrible.

MariahOBrien · August 2015

@BrooklynBroussard Please don't let this heinous attack get to you. I know it's awful and shitty and you didn't deserve one ounce of it, but just know that someone who is willing to go to such lengths to harass someone shouldn't and won't be tolerated. Please just try to relax and enjoy your evening. We will be here for you if you need anything. I'm sorry this happened.

tate62610 · August 2015

Yeah just take a little break. Don't let people like that make you cry. That's exactly what she was trying to do. She doesn't know you so don't place any value in her words. Chin up buttercup

przemosbabe · August 2015

BrooklynBroussard said:

You guys..... I didn't say anything that przemosbabe 's new user name said. Should I report? I straight up posted a gif. I didn't even weight in on the topic! I'm honestly feeling harassed! All those things she accused me of are nothing I said!

@BrooklynBroussard, It's pretty easy to simply click someone's profile name and look at the date they joined and their posts to see if the profile is new or not. I have expressed my issues with you, to you personally with no problem. I don't think anything of you good or bad I just don't respect your opinions or things that you post. I don't argue on threads or come back to defend myself over 99% of the time. I don't know what your deal is but I've already moved from the issue I had with that said person, and I really don't know why it's being dragged on, but I personally don't find this entertaining and this is not what I use this forum for. To everyone else, I don't understand why someone can't post on a thread without simply answering the question that was asked, and it irritates me, but that is the nature of the internet and that's fine, but it is also fine for me to express my offense at those posts. I also know of many women who had to go through a lot to get pregnant who do not like regular pregnancy groups for one reason or another. It's not meant to be offensive to those that are in this group, it's just how different people are. That's why there is a ' pregnant after infertility' group. Fortunately I have actually only had an issue with two people in this group and find it helpful most of the time. @LiveNLove44 I most certainly do not care about the comments of a bunch of people on the internet who are trying to tell me my feelings of being offended are invalid. Who are you or anyone else to tell someone else how they should or shouldn't feel? You are entitled to your opinion as I am entitled to mine, but I don't "have" to care about your opinion. In what world do you live in where that makes sense? As I already said, I am not part of the "sisterhood". I don't come here to make friends. I come here to give and receive advise about pregnancy. If I make a few friends on the way, that's good, but if I don't I'm not going to cry. I don't care to argue or defend myself about my opinion and there is nothing wrong with that. This meme pretty much sums up how I feel about you what you had to say about not fitting in lol. Honestly @BumpAdmin can you please shut this down? I'm sick of getting notifications from women who want to argue and argue. The issue with the poster who offended me has already been ended.

DeeGreer · August 2015

@BrooklynBroussard I'm so sorry. I agree with @jefinley1 that the hostility is coming from some deep seated issues that have nothing to do with anyone here, and the fact that you are well liked. I commend you for taking the high road and I'm sorry it got so ridiculously out of hand.

leighann1 · August 2015

brokenoven said:

Removed for TOU violation

naka92 · August 2015

BrooklynBroussard said:

I'm sure I'll regret saying this later, but all those awful things said has officially brought me to tears. I didn't say a single offensive thing to this person. I'm going to sign off the bump for tonight, because this person has torn me to shreds for sport. Thank you my Oct15 ladies I know you didn't have to risk it to defend me, but you did anyways. You guys are the best, and you definitely have my loyalty. It's touching, and I really needed it seeing as I'm sitting here crying over someone who is a well known troll. I just don't know how many times someone can insult me for trying to joke and be silly. As for the person who ignored my pragmatic responses and decided to try to tear apart everything about me: I sincerely hope this never happens to you. Nobody deserves it.

Would a gif of a cute bunny help? You dont deserve to be in tears. All you did was try to lighten the mood on a thread derailing into nastiness.. You're way too good a person to be in tears.

LET HIM LOVE YOU.

tate62610 · August 2015

Those earrings came off tonight, ladies

I love our supportive group

BumpAdmin · August 2015

Hi there,

Due to the topic of this thread, we will be closing it from all further comments.

Please be advised that continuing to create threads related to this will be grounds for warning and/or removal from The Bump forums.

We thank you for your understanding.

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