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DavidH&DanielleP · July 2015

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CMDD · July 2015

I just don't get it- why would we need a fb group if we're all here? What's the point?

LeighPA · July 2015

But where else can a woman be free to dig up people's addresses and phone numbers and even their parents' phone number and threaten to kick their ass? I'm sure you can all agree, only a private group offers that luxury. Right?

nik6499 · July 2015

LeighPA said:
But where else can a woman be free to dig up people's addresses and phone numbers and even their parents' phone number and threaten to kick their ass? I'm sure you can all agree, only a private group offers that luxury. Right?

It's the Internet. Facebook provides people with your full name, you can discover a wealth of public information on the Internet with someone's name. But hey it's ok to get all butt hurt about someone finding out who you are on the Internet when you talk crap about their miscarriage in your private group. But hey don't want to impact your ability to be a victim here, proceed.

LeighPA · July 2015

Cute. Almost as cute as you guys pretending not to be complete wastes of space here in public where everyone can see.

You do know that threatening to beat someone's ass IS a crime, right? And since the offender does live only 15 minutes from the intended victim, and there are screenshots, it wouldn't be that hard to track the moron down.

Buh-bye booboo.

CMDD · July 2015

@leighpa you sound like a scary psychopath! Seriously. Put down the phone and go live your life.

BostonBaby1 · July 2015

LeighPA said:
But where else can a woman be free to dig up people's addresses and phone numbers and even their parents' phone number and threaten to kick their ass? I'm sure you can all agree, only a private group offers that luxury. Right?

I'm sure that that would also be a great place to talk about another woman's miscarriages (for example, mine,) without the entire board jumping down your throats. I think it would be natural that her friends would be protective and obviously anything said would be a JOKE. I personally think that it is reprehensible to discuss my losses on your Facebook page and expect that nobody is going to bring it back to me. And with regards to getting the police involved, that is absolutely ludicrous. There is a huge difference between an actual or perceived threat and a JOKE.

And just as an FYI, I personally regarding your MO as below
Par.

BostonBaby1 · July 2015

LeighPA said:
Cute. Almost as cute as you guys pretending not to be complete wastes of space here in public where everyone can see.

You do know that threatening to beat someone's ass IS a crime, right? And since the offender does live only 15 minutes from the intended victim, and there are screenshots, it wouldn't be that hard to track the moron down.

Buh-bye booboo.

Please check TOU again. Name-calling is not allowed neither is prohibiting another ones enjoyment of the board.

CMDD · July 2015

@leighpa you're using a fb group to discuss women's losses from this group?!?! What is wrong with you??

littlebean1222 · July 2015

Less clear things up. Someone asked why Bostonbaby was on the board not being pregnant, did not know that she had a loss. I informed her that you were pregnant when you joined and had a loss, never making fun of it or you because that's insane. I mentioned the issue was that you have an awfully lot of RUDE opinions which guess what? You do. Other certified psycho friends of yours decided to post me and another girls facebook information to Try to track us down and do what????? Attack pregnant women ????? If anyone would really like to track me down feel free to message me and Id be happy to give you my address.

All you have done is confirm that you're all crazy and need jobs, real life friends or therapy.

Ps @beccachartier , the other psycho who posted my facebook information, used to post on the FB page that everyone on here was making fun of the fact that her son was diagnosed with Down syndrome and had just as much to say about how nasty some of the girls on here were

So before you make threats attacking pregnant women for no reason, why don't you read the actual post and stop spreading rumors that I or anyone else was making fun of or even discussed someone else's loss. It was mentioned once and let go.

ChiccoBeanz · July 2015

1. Before you try to incite a riot online, you should ACTUALLY read what the comments said. NO ONE threatened to beat anyone's ass. We aren't stupid in our group...But you guys should review your comments...That are attached to your public fb profiles. I don't even have FB and I know how it works...

2. How do you get upset about people discussing your group when your FB group discusses people yourselves.

3. Why be mad that people can find your personal info when YOU and yours put it out there.

4. Your fb profiles are public, who's fault is that?

5. Did you ladies think you could sit around and talk crap about people and their losses without it getting out?

6. You're hypocrites

7. The fact that you thought it was OK to use this forum to take people's personal information and share it with other members on another site is disgusting, immature, and I'm sure is against TOU.

8.The fact that you guys sit around playing victims because people don't agree with your opinions, or they give you information in a manner you don't care for, then go to your FB group to bash them is sad. You're an adult. Act like one. If you don't like the way someone phrases something to you via written words on an internet forum, just ask them to clarify if it was meant to come across that way go from there. But pretending to be bullied, to act like children from a lifetime movie just caused more drama. Or you don't see that?

BostonBaby1 · July 2015

And seriously, I would suggest that you check with a lawyer as to what constitutes a threat. You will find that no threat has been made. the assertion that one has been made is even ludicrous.

littlebean1222 said:
Less clear things up. Someone asked why Bostonbaby was on the board not being pregnant, did not know that she had a loss. I informed her that you were pregnant when you joined and had a loss, never making fun of it or you because that's insane. I mentioned the issue was that you have an awfully lot of RUDE opinions which guess what? You do. Other certified psycho friends of yours decided to post me and another girls facebook information to Try to track us down and do what????? Attack pregnant women ????? If anyone would really like to track me down feel free to message me and Id be happy to give you my address.

All you have done is confirm that you're all crazy and need jobs, real life friends or therapy.

Ps @beccachartier , the other psycho who posted my facebook information, used to post on the FB page that everyone on here was making fun of the fact that her son was diagnosed with Down syndrome and had just as much to say about how nasty some of the girls on here were

So before you make threats attacking pregnant women for no reason, why don't you read the actual post and stop spreading rumors that I or anyone else was making fun of or even discussed someone else's loss. It was mentioned once and let go.

I literally need a dictionary and a compass to get through what you just wrote. I never even mentioned your name. I had no idea that you were the one that posted about me on Facebook, nor do I care. By the way, not only do I have a job but I also have a life and a ton of friends (who are not psychotic as you assert.) I don't honestly care whether or not you think I'm rude or what you think about me. Nobody has threatened to track you down, I think you are the one that needs therapy and possibly an intervention.

littlebean1222 · July 2015

@Jonesy288 I have a screen shot of someone threatening to beat someone's ass, so yes. They did. And your point number 7 should be directed to the women your defending because that's who did it. As said, I will hand out my address to anyone. It's just psychotic to post other people's info to hunt them down. You can't even defend that sorry but you just can't.

littlebean1222 · July 2015

@magburt didn't say she lives so close to Alice that she could kick her ass in person? Because I have the post saved to my phone. It's not ludicrous. And not that I care what you think about me but no one discussed your loss. I told her you were pregnant when you joined, which is true ... And information she did not know. Have fun with your internet friends. I have a real life and real friends to worry about and not editing every word of a post that I'm not even sure why I'm writing it

CMDD · July 2015

Okay so I was out of the loop bc I am not in the fb group and would never choose to be now that I know what it's about. After reading all this it seems like the people who formed a fb group should leave and just stick to that group.

Wouldn't that be the best solution? It sounds like the fb group is a place to talk badly about people on this page and who has time for that? If this page isn't for you or you need to go to another page to discuss someone instead of asking them here then you shouldn't be here.

BostonBaby1 · July 2015

littlebean1222 said:
Less clear things up. Someone asked why Bostonbaby was on the board not being pregnant, did not know that she had a loss. I informed her that you were pregnant when you joined and had a loss, never making fun of it or you because that's insane. I mentioned the issue was that you have an awfully lot of RUDE opinions which guess what? You do. Other certified psycho friends of yours decided to post me and another girls facebook information to Try to track us down and do what????? Attack pregnant women ????? If anyone would really like to track me down feel free to message me and Id be happy to give you my address.

All you have done is confirm that you're all crazy and need jobs, real life friends or therapy.

Ps @beccachartier , the other psycho who posted my facebook information, used to post on the FB page that everyone on here was making fun of the fact that her son was diagnosed with Down syndrome and had just as much to say about how nasty some of the girls on here were

So before you make threats attacking pregnant women for no reason, why don't you read the actual post and stop spreading rumors that I or anyone else was making fun of or even discussed someone else's loss. It was mentioned once and let go.

Are you talking to me here? Who are you talking to? You're using the third person and then you switch to second person. Plus, nobody made any threats here. If you have "screenshots," why don't you just go back to the thread where the person (or myself, whoever it is in your mind has made a threat that does not exist) and hit the report button like you are supposed to do?

*FYI- I do not have your personal information. I have absolutely no idea what you were talking about. You should also note that I have absolutely no desire to find out anything about you, including your personal information. Please stop instigating a situation that does not exist.

ChiccoBeanz · July 2015

@littlebean1222 No one in the group of women I'm defending does my point number 7, hence why I wrote it. We have proof that you ladies do that in screenshots. You even tried to clarify that with in explanation, which doesn't matter. You don't give out someone's personal info to someone else who isn't aware of it and then proceed to bash them. Taking info from here to FB is against TOU. Period. It is especially worse since @Bostonbaby1 is NOT a bully. Look of the definition and then read her comments again.

Again, it is foolish to sit around and bash ppl in your kumbaya circle and think it wouldn't get out. Especially if your personal info is plastered all over the internet. I'm not saying anyone making threats is right. I'm saying you guys need to be more responsible. As for the threats, I didn't see them. I looked again and didn't find them. So if I'm wrong, I'll admit that and I apologize, but you guys need to really own up to what you guys were doing. It's out in the open now, and @Bostonbaby1 deserves an apology. People like you ladies are way worse than the "bullies". Pretending to be "supportive" on 1 forum, and then talking crap about people and their misfortune on another is deplorable.

I usually don't get into these debates/arguments, at least not to argue, but this one is ridiculous.

ETA for typos

ChiccoBeanz · July 2015

CMDD said:

Okay so I was out of the loop bc I am not in the fb group and would never choose to be now that I know what it's about. After reading all this it seems like the people who formed a fb group should leave and just stick to that group. Wouldn't that be the best solution? It sounds like the fb group is a place to talk badly about people on this page and who has time for that? If this page isn't for you or you need to go to another page to discuss someone instead of asking them here then you shouldn't be here.

ALL OF THIS

BostonBaby1 · July 2015

littlebean1222 · July 2015

@BostonBaby1 you were not the one posting information or making threats. That was @magburt and @beccachartier so if I was unclear about that then there, it's clear. I'm sure we will not agree ever on what actually happened so I'm just going to leave it at that.

Beckah31 · July 2015

fmraglio · July 2015

BostonBaby1 said:

EDIT because my phone is dumb.
Boston these people AREN'T worth your time. Seriously. They are rude and dramatic and thrive off of playing the victim card. Forget about them, we all love you and we're all that matters. These fake ladies can go deal with their problems on FB and leave everyone else alone. Glad I never ended up joining that the FB group after this mess. It's disgusting.

BostonBaby1 · July 2015

* never mind

BostonBaby1 · July 2015

Jonesy288 said:
@littlebean1222 No one in the group of women I'm defending does my point number 7, hence why I wrote it. We have proof that you ladies do that in screenshots. You even tried to clarify that with in explanation, which doesn't matter. You don't give out someone's personal info to someone else who isn't aware of it and then proceed to bash them. Taking info from here to FB is against TOU. Period. It is especially worse since @Bostonbaby1 is NOT a bully. Look of the definition and then read her comments again.

Again, it is foolish to sit around and bash ppl in your kumbaya circle and think it wouldn't get out. Especially if your personal info is plastered all over the internet. I'm not saying anyone making threats is right. I'm saying you guys need to be more responsible. As for the threats, I didn't see them. I looked again and didn't find them. So if I'm wrong, I'll admit that and I apologize, but you guys need to really own up to what you guys were doing. It's out in the open now, and @Bostonbaby1 deserves an apology. People like you ladies are way worse than the "bullies". Pretending to be "supportive" on 1 forum, and then talking crap about people and their misfortune on another is deplorable.

I usually don't get into these debates/arguments, at least not to argue, but this one is ridiculous.

ETA for typos

I do not need an apology. I definitely don't need validation on my life from these people. But I appreciate your support.

Marchmellow2 · July 2015

littlebean1222 said:
@BostonBaby1 you were not the one posting information or making threats. That was @magburt and @beccachartier so if I was unclear about that then there, it's clear. I'm sure we will not agree ever on what actually happened so I'm just going to leave it at that.

Who is giving you screenshots of the supposed threats? Why don't it tell that person to come and speak for herself?

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fmraglio · July 2015

@aebxo How is looking up someones info that is PUBLIC on the Internet a threat? No where did she say she was going to kick anyone's ass, she only stated the person lived near her and how easy that info was to find. Which it is because anything that is on the Internet is a Google search away, so maybe people shouldn't make their info so accessible.

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BostonBaby1 · July 2015

aebxo said:
Please tell me more about how there were never any threats made (joking or not).

Obviously that is photo shopped. If it was from here than you could easily hit the report button.

And honestly, I think that you should all focus more on your babies/weddings and less on my miscarriages.

It's honestly very cruel for you to be discussing it and I hope that none of you have to go through the multiple losses that I've gone through.

yl1m32015 · July 2015

I honestly don't even know what's happening here, but @BumpAdmin please step in before this goes any further.

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fmraglio · July 2015

@aebxo And why is your phones tool bar on the bottom of the supposed post? Obviously it's a fake pic. Next time double check your work before you post photoshopped pics.

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fmraglio · July 2015

aebxo said:
Here it is again

Tool bar on the bottom nothing on the top like a normal screen shot.

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