Update on Real Hard Question/unsual symtoms-should i be concerned?

ErinLily44 · July 2015

Just wanted to say a huge thank you first to all of you who sent me your prayers yesterday.

Had another scan today and the doctor has confirmed. There is no heart beat on my baby but I will still have to give birth to it. I am so heartbroken and have no idea how to get through it. Really sad and struggling to speak about it but thought I should let you know

mak1020 · July 2015

I am so sorry for you're loss. I'm sending prayers your way.

anorthro · July 2015

Oh I'm so so sorry. I wish there was something to say that would make it ok. You and your family are in my thoughts and I wish you all the best with the tough road ahead.

TrinityJoy · July 2015

I am heartbroken for you. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this amazingly difficult time.

LiveNLove44 · July 2015

Oh @ErinLily44, I couldn't be more sorry to hear that update. Nothing can prepare us for that kind of pain. I will be praying for strength and serenity as you carry your LO until his/her birthday. I hope for you to have strength around you and people to whom you can go for comfort. There are many groups in our area that support mothers and fathers through experiences such as this, and I encourage you to seek something like that in your area. Hugs

midge519 · July 2015

I'm so sorry you're going through this :-( my sister went through it last year and the best advice I have is to see if there is a group with your local hospital that will help with handling the remains. My sister had her son cremated and didn't have to pay anything

naka92 · July 2015

I am so, so sorry

We're here if you need to talk/vent/rage. Cant even imagine what you must be going through, so all I can do is offer my support.

ChariZae · July 2015

So sorry to see this update. Praying for you and your family.

mdandrea1436 · July 2015

So sorry to hear this I was rooting for you and your baby

ErinLily44 · July 2015

@MelMel92 Thank you all. All I can say at the moment is that I just want to cry. I'm dreading having to explain this to my toddler but like I said I can only cry now

gograce · July 2015

I'm so sorry, @ErinLily44. I'm praying for you, and that you and your baby's father will be able to support each other through this difficult time.

gabrielafrnqyepez · July 2015

o momma im in absolute tears, im so sorry this happened, there is nothing that any one can do or say to take away the pain and heart ache you must be going thru, be strong. have faith you sound like a strong woman. my heart goes out to you.

ameares721 · July 2015

I am so sorry for your loss and knowing what lies ahead for you. I'm praying you get through this with all the help and support you need. I hope you find answers as to what may have happened so this doesn't happen again.

brittanispears · July 2015

I'm sorry for your loss. But just know that it wasn't anything you did. Be sure to surround yourself with your loved ones so they can give you the support you need. Take care

beckles112 · July 2015

I'm so sorry! I've been thinking about you all morning. I'll continue to keep you in my prayers during this time.

shannond21228 · July 2015

I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine what you are going through. I hope you can find some sort of support group in your area to help you through this. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

jennylynn103 · July 2015

I am so sorry.

Littlehummingbird · July 2015

I'm so sorry to hear this. I'll be thinking about you!

DeeGreer · July 2015

My heart is breaking for you. Please take care of yourself and do allow yourself time to grieve. I'm sending you love and light and all the best wishes. There's quite a few of us who have angel babies so please don't hesitate to reach out.

intheversa · July 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss. Just take the time you need to get through this. Don't worry about the father, tell him when you're ready. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers and make sure that you surround yourself with loved ones who can help you through this.

SarahAnne1101 · July 2015

I'm so sorry. Words can't express it. Praying for all of you.

batmom05 · July 2015

I'm so sorry. My heart is absolutely breaking for you! I was so hoping that it was a fluke and you would go to your appointment today and everything would be just fine.

I know that what you are preparing to face feels impossible. Take the time you need to grieve and be sure to take care of yourself. A friend of mine went through something similar last year and Now I Lay Me Down To Sleep was able to come out and take some pictures of her and her son. I know that it was tremendous in the healing process. I'm not sure if something like this exists where you live, but it might be worth looking in to.

By all means, please feel free to reach out if you need to talk/vent/cry. I'm sure the moms here will be happy to lend an ear.

MamaOwl15 · July 2015

I'm so sorry to hear this! I would also encourage you to seek out a support group and find out if your hospital will make arrangements for burial or cremation.
My angel baby was able to be buried in an "interment of angels" ceremony offered by a local funeral home. I found this offered some closure and aided in my healing.

As a fellow toddler mom, my heart goes out to you. I can't imagine having to explain this to my own toddler. You'll find your way, I'm sure, but for now, it's OK to just cry. Everyone deals with grief their own way, and you're not only grieving, but dealing with hormones and all that too.

bethforeman · July 2015

I know words can't help what you're going through, but I am so sorry! I'm praying for you and your family!

MandahGirly · July 2015

I know that sorry isn't enough and that many of us can't even imagine what you are going through but I hope you find the support from family and friends that you need at this time.

bgriest · July 2015

I'm so, so sorry to hear that. I know nothing that I, or anyone else, says will help or make you feel better. My heart is broken for you. If you need anyone to talk to or vent to or cry to we are all here for you.

VioletandRose · July 2015

I can't even begin to imagine how you're feeling. So, so very sorry. God bless you, please stay strong and do whatever you need to do to get through this.

mandy903 · July 2015

I'm so sorry to hear this. I'll be praying for you and your family. I know it's excruciating. Take all the time you need to heal and grieve. Feel free to reach out to others who have lost. (((Hugs)))

J1D · July 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss!

baconlady · July 2015

Deeply and sincerely sorry for your loss. I have a huge knot in my throat . Thoughts and prayers continue to be with you and your family .

MrsN092714 · July 2015

Can't imagine the pain your heart is in. I am so sorry for you and can only hope you have a good support system to lean on at this hard time. Sending you strength...

bbiutmcph · July 2015

I'm so sorry. I am thinking of you and your family.

babybumb1229 · July 2015

I'm praying for you and your family in this very hard time I'm so sorry for your loss..

jkarayusuf · July 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss.

cbolton19 · July 2015

I am so sorry. Thinking about you and your little ones.

Rikki_5 · July 2015

I can't imagine a more devastating experience. I am hoping that you pull through this and stay strong. Will be praying for you and your family. please take care of yourself...my heart is breaking for you as I am reading this.

Birdee212 · July 2015

I'm so sorry. I can't even imagine. We are here for you.

laceyjaep · July 2015

I am so very sorry that you have to go through this. I will be praying for your physical and emotional healing and for your family.

alinic916 · July 2015

So sorry to hear this. Was thinking about you this morning. Will say a prayer for you and your family.

SweetnSassy23 · July 2015

I'm sorry you received such sad news. Explaining it to your toddler and the baby's dad will be very tough. Please be kind to yourself as your grieve. I hope your mom/friends will be a great support system.