How childish to repost something that I deleted. I removed what was so offensive to you guys, but you repost it? You don't see a point to my post...but you repost it? Why do you contradict yourself?
How childish to repost something that I deleted. I removed what was so offensive to you guys, but you repost it? You don't see a point to my post...but you repost it? Why do you contradict yourself?
It's very common on this forum to quote other people. That is why there is a button that says "quote."
I'm assuming that you're talking to me @HRojas77. I'm not quite sure how reposting what you originally posted is childish and I certainly don't see how in doing so I am contradicting myself?
I figured that tomorrow morning people will want to click on all the posts they missed tonight, especially the ones with a high number of comments. They will get there and see all these people commented to literally just the letter "K" and be completley lost.
The fact that you deleted what you originally posted and left us with a single letter, in my eyes, is very childish lol. You could have simply stated "alright, I get it guys, my mistake."
I am only trying to help the ladies who, like myself, enjoy keeping up with the boards. I'd be pissed if I didn't know what the OP stated the first time.
I'm not sure what you mean by this. Is that a demand or a request? In any case, I am not accustomed to taking orders from others (particularly strangers who have no authority over me whatsoever,) so I'll just say good night and goodbye to you.
You make no sense. I wanted to delete the "pointless post" that so many of you disliked...the site requires an entry, I put one letter. it means I was doing the right thing. The only reason anybody would need to repost it would be to see how many people attack me by morning. I am not the offender here.
I'm not sure what you mean by this. Is that a demand or a request? In any case, I am not accustomed to taking orders from others (particularly strangers who have no authority over me whatsoever,) so I'll just say good night and goodbye to you.
I just told you EXACTLY why I reposted it. Because people won't get the full story tomorrow morning. If you feel silly for posting your original post say THAT instead of acting like some sort of victim. No one has called you names. No one has attacked you. Just staahhppp.
I have been reading many posts about women saying that they feel no love for their unborn baby....so many women are saying the same thing!! It's making me cry:( I am 22 yes old and I am almost 20 weeks and I feel so much love for my baby...just looking at the little 10 week pictures of my baby makes me cry! I love baby! I read women saying that they resent their babies for taking their body shape away. .? It's not the babies fault! That's so sad:( please. I am so curious to know how other women don't feel love for their baby..is this a common thing for pregnant women? Is it hormones? do you feel for your unborn baby?
My original post...nothing is wrong with it. I stand by what I said. I know for a fact that I meant absolutely nothing wrong by it. So if you want to create drama with your Internet friends about it...then have at it. It makes no difference to my day.
Lmao okay last thing I'll say because you are exhausting, thankfully, and I'm finally getting sleepy. I have ZERO reason to lie about the reason I reposted. People will want to know so I helped them out. Finally, you delete your post, get mad at me for reposting it, and then you repost it again yourself saying you stand by it. Hey, I'm just happy to know that you finally understand what the word contradict means. Enjoy your night. :-h
At least I can leave this conversation knowing that I tried to leave peacefully but you drama seekers can't get enough. I'm glad this could fulfill your desiire to feel powerful behind your keyboard.
I have been reading many posts about women saying that they feel no love for their unborn baby....so many women are saying the same thing!! It's making me cry:( I am 22 yes old and I am almost 20 weeks and I feel so much love for my baby...just looking at the little 10 week pictures of my baby makes me cry! I love baby! I read women saying that they resent their babies for taking their body shape away. .? It's not the babies fault! That's so sad:( please. I am so curious to know how other women don't feel love for their baby..is this a common thing for pregnant women? Is it hormones? do you feel for your unborn baby?
My original post...nothing is wrong with it. I stand by what I said. I know for a fact that I meant absolutely nothing wrong by it. So if you want to create drama with your Internet friends about it...then have at it. It makes no difference to my day.
For the dang record no one said your original post was wrong (Minus a few bumpers who dug a little deeper into who you were referring to), simply that we needed more details to really understand what you were trying to say. Gracious! If you react this way to that kind of simple question you have a long road ahead as a parent. My five year old asks LITERALLY 15 questions every five minutes. Makes me repeat and explain myself numerous times a day. So you may want to take your defensiveness down a notch in preparation for that.
Soooooo why exactly if you are so bothered by all of us calling your post what it was, an attempt to stir the pot without providing all the facts from the site you are quoting are you constantly on her being defensive and continuing to dig at it? No one has attacked YOU. But I sort of feel like misquoting a PPD woman is sort of an attack on HER
I'm assuming that you're talking to me @HRojas77. I'm not quite sure how reposting what you originally posted is childish and I certainly don't see how in doing so I am contradicting myself?
I figured that tomorrow morning people will want to click on all the posts they missed tonight, especially the ones with a high number of comments. They will get there and see all these people commented to literally just the letter "K" and be completley lost.
The fact that you deleted what you originally posted and left us with a single letter, in my eyes, is very childish lol. You could have simply stated "alright, I get it guys, my mistake."
I am only trying to help the ladies who, like myself, enjoy keeping up with the boards. I'd be pissed if I didn't know what the OP stated the first time.
THIS. I was so confused. And find that some people just CREATE unnecessary drama for the sake of being a ripple in what has been a very enjoyable site to be apart of thus far. @abrading thank you for reposting what was originally written so the rest of us could follow along in this MUD....for entertainment purposes of course ;-)
Late to the party as usual, and I could be wrong, but it seemed like you tried to use your age to explain your blunder. That just seems silly to me. At 22, I imagine you've grown up using the internet. Its not hard to figure out the etiquette. I'm 21 and I've managed just fine on this forum. Age is not an excuse.
I just told you EXACTLY why I reposted it. Because people won't get the full story tomorrow morning. If you feel silly for posting your original post say THAT instead of acting like some sort of victim. No one has called you names. No one has attacked you. Just staahhppp.
@adbrading ... Thanks fOr reposting so us sleepyheads could get all caught up
I feel like OP knew her actions were wrong (quoting from another site and not giving all the info) thus the dirty delete and now she is upset because she is being called out. I've been reading along and I don't feel OP was attacked at all, but I do agree with PP that taking a woman's thoughts whom clearly needs help and posting it on a entirely different forum was wrong and in my opinion tackless. That's all I have say. Good morning you beautiful ladies, hope you all have a good day!
This is what happens when I go to bed early. I miss everything!
@HRojas77 you can't throw some sentences out without context and then explain yourself after the fact. This is a forum, not gchat - so there's not that conversational flow where you can explain yourself quickly. You're going to have dozens of women asking you for clarification as soon as you've hit the 'post' button.
You keep talking about women using the forum to feel powerful. I think that's a cheap cop-out and your repeating of it doesn't make it any more true. If you spend more than 5 minutes reading the posts on here, you'll see that we try to answer posters' questions and offer support if and when necessary. You posted something vague, people wanted clarification. That doesn't make anyone power-hungry to use their keyboard, it makes them involved...and in this case, confused.
Oh! I forgot.. I didn't read anything you ladies wrote but you can keep writing your hearts out on your computers...i don't care. You all keep it going =D>
Is anyone else annoyed that the title was changed to just one letter? I have fat finger syndrome when mobile bumping and whenever I click on it, I accidentally hit one of the pages I already read.
At least do us a solid, OP, and change it to a longer title.
Is anyone else annoyed that the title was changed to just one letter? I have fat finger syndrome when mobile bumping and whenever I click on it, I accidentally hit one of the pages I already read.
At least do us a solid, OP, and change it to a longer title.
I don't know what you asked originally but if you're looking for some reassurance about feeling detached from your yet-to-be, you're not alone and for anybody to even SUGGEST that your feelings aren't ok is probably not somebody you need to be listening to. Your feelings are your feelings. Period.
I don't feel much yet either, to be honest. I've had my moments. I personally am enjoying being pregnant. I think the kid is "cool", yeah. I get a kick out of the kid. But do I feel this "I would die for you immediately" kind of love right now? haha no, not even remotely yet.
And it's NORMAL. Most women i have spoken to said that feeling came for them after their baby was born. Some felt it earlier and that's amazing too but i am not one of them, many women i know were not those women and they're wonderful moms now. Not all of us are highly sentimental about this. And not all women are naturally governed by emotions. And that doesn't make us bad people or sick people. It makes us more logical than emotive. So what? We will feel it later, it WILL happen
I don't know what you asked originally but if you're looking for some reassurance about feeling detached from your yet-to-be, you're not alone and for anybody to even SUGGEST that your feelings aren't ok is absolutely asinine and not worth listening to.
I don't feel much yet either, to be honest. I've had my moments. I personally am enjoying being pregnant. I think the kid is "cool", yeah. I get a kick out of the kid. But do I feel this "I would die for you immediately" kind of love right now? haha no, not even remotely yet.
And it's NORMAL. Most women i have spoken to said that feeling came for them after their baby was born. Some felt it earlier and that's amazing too but i am not one of them, many women i know were not those women and they're wonderful moms now. Not all of us are highly sentimental about this. We will feel it later, it WILL happen
She was actually chastising people who didn't feel attached to their babies.
ICYM, OP read: HRojas77 said: I have been reading many posts about women saying that they feel no love for their unborn baby....so many women are saying the same thing!! It's making me cry:( I am 22 yes old and I am almost 20 weeks and I feel so much love for my baby...just looking at the little 10 week pictures of my baby makes me cry! I love baby! I read women saying that they resent their babies for taking their body shape away. .? It's not the babies fault! That's so sad:( please. I am so curious to know how other women don't feel love for their baby..is this a common thing for pregnant women? Is it hormones? do you feel for your unborn baby?
I don't know what you asked originally but if you're looking for some reassurance about feeling detached from your yet-to-be, you're not alone and for anybody to even SUGGEST that your feelings aren't ok is absolutely asinine and not worth listening to.
I don't feel much yet either, to be honest. I've had my moments. I personally am enjoying being pregnant. I think the kid is "cool", yeah. I get a kick out of the kid. But do I feel this "I would die for you immediately" kind of love right now? haha no, not even remotely yet.
And it's NORMAL. Most women i have spoken to said that feeling came for them after their baby was born. Some felt it earlier and that's amazing too but i am not one of them, many women i know were not those women and they're wonderful moms now. Not all of us are highly sentimental about this. We will feel it later, it WILL happen
She was actually chastising people who didn't feel attached to their babies.
Well then op, everything I just said is directed at the people you're chastising. Not you.
It is perfectly normal for women to not feel an awful lot during pregnancy. You'll find that a lot of very good women are not exactly like you. You're clearly a very emotional person and are likely driven by your feelings rather than your thoughts. Some of us are the opposite. Our feelings are in check and our thinking directs our actions and plans. Some people still are balanced between the two.. it's all a rich tapestry, blah blah...
It's great that you're having a highly emotional, bonding-session pregnancy. That's wonderful. But every woman is different and every experience is different. You need to learn to be more tolerant of people who aren't exactly like you before your kid starts talking.
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It's not that big of a deal to where you had to do that, but to each their own I guess.
Why is there so much MUD on the board tonight?! I just don't get the point.
I figured that tomorrow morning people will want to click on all the posts they missed tonight, especially the ones with a high number of comments. They will get there and see all these people commented to literally just the letter "K" and be completley lost.
The fact that you deleted what you originally posted and left us with a single letter, in my eyes, is very childish lol. You could have simply stated "alright, I get it guys, my mistake."
I am only trying to help the ladies who, like myself, enjoy keeping up with the boards. I'd be pissed if I didn't know what the OP stated the first time.
My original post...nothing is wrong with it. I stand by what I said. I know for a fact that I meant absolutely nothing wrong by it. So if you want to create drama with your Internet friends about it...then have at it. It makes no difference to my day.
Jamie
At least do us a solid, OP, and change it to a longer title.
This thread has actually gotten kind of funny.
Good luck @HRojas77, I just have a feeling you're going to need it.
I don't feel much yet either, to be honest. I've had my moments. I personally am enjoying being pregnant. I think the kid is "cool", yeah. I get a kick out of the kid. But do I feel this "I would die for you immediately" kind of love right now? haha no, not even remotely yet.
And it's NORMAL. Most women i have spoken to said that feeling came for them after their baby was born. Some felt it earlier and that's amazing too but i am not one of them, many women i know were not those women and they're wonderful moms now. Not all of us are highly sentimental about this. And not all women are naturally governed by emotions. And that doesn't make us bad people or sick people. It makes us more logical than emotive. So what? We will feel it later, it WILL happen
It is perfectly normal for women to not feel an awful lot during pregnancy. You'll find that a lot of very good women are not exactly like you. You're clearly a very emotional person and are likely driven by your feelings rather than your thoughts. Some of us are the opposite. Our feelings are in check and our thinking directs our actions and plans. Some people still are balanced between the two.. it's all a rich tapestry, blah blah...
It's great that you're having a highly emotional, bonding-session pregnancy. That's wonderful. But every woman is different and every experience is different. You need to learn to be more tolerant of people who aren't exactly like you before your kid starts talking.