7/1 WTF Wednesday

kayjay44 · July 2015

birdieMila · July 2015

My friend said : your life is so gonna change! No more sleeping out!
Getting up early! Puking and diapers. You are not gonna be able to do what and when you want anymore. And maybe you are gonna have a cry baby! Al night crying! Good luck to you!
OMG SHUT UP

birdieMila · July 2015

And then my mom was so suprised that everything is good with the baby ( had een us, everything fine, good growth and strong heartbeat! )
becaus i started with a very low hcg and it meassured behind
( aparently i just had a late ovulation! )
She is so convinced that i am stil gonna mc ( my last pregnancy ended with an mc )
Omg mom! What the hell!
Where the fuck is the possitive support??!!!

DaisyTortilla · July 2015

We haven't told anyone besides my parents about the pregnancy. Well hubby asked for a couple of hours off to go to the first ultrasound, his boss automatically guessed why he was coming along. Now his whole freaking work place knows! WTF!!! I thought women were the gossipy ones! I feel so uncomfortable with them knowing!

bredoll · July 2015

My hubby hasn't told his parents yet and I really want them to know. I love my ILs and this will be their first grandchild and possibly only one since we aren't deciding about more after we have one and see how it goes. Also, his sister is 30, still lives at home, has no social life and we are fairly certain that she has never had a boyfriend so we don't see her ever having children. When I try to ask when he wants to tell them he brushes it off. I know he wanted to wait until we had a good strong HB and saw the proper growth on the US, which we did so I don't know what his issue is and he won't talk to me about it. WTF!!!!

g0lightly8706 · July 2015

birdieMila said:
My friend said : your life is so gonna change! No more sleeping out!
Getting up early! Puking and diapers. You are not gonna be able to do what and when you want anymore. And maybe you are gonna have a cry baby! Al night crying! Good luck to you!
OMG SHUT UP

How awful! I cannot stand when people do this. My SIL who has a three year old is like this.. She went on and on about the horrors of raising a child and I just kept thinking 'do you even like your kid?!' Its so rude and annoying!

Kiek · July 2015

Why is my toddler being a little tyrant today? I don't know what it up with her? She's normally so pleasantly sassy but today she is just mad at the world. She's taking a nice early nap right now lol

kris10mac · July 2015

Why can people not actually READ an email?!? I sent you an email that consisted of all of two sentences. Two! And I get a response back from you with a question that is already addressed in that second sentence.

WTF?? Read, people.

ohbaby714 · July 2015

WTF toddler that I babysit. Why do you insist on spitting on everything, and then think it's funny?! So nasty!!

kayjay44 · July 2015

g0lightly8706 said:

My friend said : your life is so gonna change! No more sleeping out! Getting up early! Puking and diapers. You are not gonna be able to do what and when you want anymore. And maybe you are gonna have a cry baby! Al night crying! Good luck to you! OMG SHUT UP
How awful! I cannot stand when people do this. My SIL who has a three year old is like this.. She went on and on about the horrors of raising a child and I just kept thinking 'do you even like your kid?!' Its so rude and annoying!

Yeah, it's not that bad. Really, it's not that bad. Sure, there are times where I wish I could just do whatever I want, but those moments are few and far between and the good stuff far outweighs any of the negatives.

On a similar note, MIL is constantly saying (in front of DH and SIL) that she wishes she never had kids. It's horrible.

g0lightly8706 · July 2015

magnumJ said:

g0lightly8706 said:

My friend said : your life is so gonna change! No more sleeping out! Getting up early! Puking and diapers. You are not gonna be able to do what and when you want anymore. And maybe you are gonna have a cry baby! Al night crying! Good luck to you! OMG SHUT UP
How awful! I cannot stand when people do this. My SIL who has a three year old is like this.. She went on and on about the horrors of raising a child and I just kept thinking 'do you even like your kid?!' Its so rude and annoying!

Yeah, it's not that bad. Really, it's not that bad. Sure, there are times where I wish I could just do whatever I want, but those moments are few and far between and the good stuff far outweighs any of the negatives.

On a similar note, MIL is constantly saying (in front of DH and SIL) that she wishes she never had kids. It's horrible.

OMG! that's awful!! some of these MIL stories astonish me!

kayjay44 · July 2015

g0lightly8706 said:

magnumJ said:

g0lightly8706 said:

My friend said : your life is so gonna change! No more sleeping out! Getting up early! Puking and diapers. You are not gonna be able to do what and when you want anymore. And maybe you are gonna have a cry baby! Al night crying! Good luck to you! OMG SHUT UP
How awful! I cannot stand when people do this. My SIL who has a three year old is like this.. She went on and on about the horrors of raising a child and I just kept thinking 'do you even like your kid?!' Its so rude and annoying!

Yeah, it's not that bad. Really, it's not that bad. Sure, there are times where I wish I could just do whatever I want, but those moments are few and far between and the good stuff far outweighs any of the negatives.

On a similar note, MIL is constantly saying (in front of DH and SIL) that she wishes she never had kids. It's horrible.

OMG! that's awful!! some of these MIL stories astonish me!

My mother is particularly unique. She told me yesterday I had to send her an ultrasound picture because it's her "right." No lady, no one has a right to see inside my uterus.... ever.

inomniaparatus · July 2015

magnumJ said:

g0lightly8706 said:

magnumJ said:

g0lightly8706 said:

birdieMila said:
My friend said : your life is so gonna change! No more sleeping out!
Getting up early! Puking and diapers. You are not gonna be able to do what and when you want anymore. And maybe you are gonna have a cry baby! Al night crying! Good luck to you!
OMG SHUT UP
How awful! I cannot stand when people do this. My SIL who has a three year old is like this.. She went on and on about the horrors of raising a child and I just kept thinking 'do you even like your kid?!' Its so rude and annoying!

Yeah, it's not that bad. Really, it's not that bad. Sure, there are times where I wish I could just do whatever I want, but those moments are few and far between and the good stuff far outweighs any of the negatives.

On a similar note, MIL is constantly saying (in front of DH and SIL) that she wishes she never had kids. It's horrible.

OMG! that's awful!! some of these MIL stories astonish me!

My mother is particularly unique. She told me yesterday I had to send her an ultrasound picture because it's her "right." No lady, no one has a right to see inside my uterus.... ever.

Ok to be fair your mom's delivery was a little strong. It's definitely not her "right" but, on the other hand- I'm playing devil's advocate here, why wouldn't you show your mom? I mean, she's your mom! My mom also wants to see all sonogram pics and I text them to her, my mil, dad, step dad, show my grandparents, etc. She sounds like she just wants to be a part of it

kayjay44 · July 2015

inomniaparatus said:

g0lightly8706 said:

magnumJ said:

g0lightly8706 said:

My friend said : your life is so gonna change! No more sleeping out! Getting up early! Puking and diapers. You are not gonna be able to do what and when you want anymore. And maybe you are gonna have a cry baby! Al night crying! Good luck to you! OMG SHUT UP
How awful! I cannot stand when people do this. My SIL who has a three year old is like this.. She went on and on about the horrors of raising a child and I just kept thinking 'do you even like your kid?!' Its so rude and annoying!

Yeah, it's not that bad. Really, it's not that bad. Sure, there are times where I wish I could just do whatever I want, but those moments are few and far between and the good stuff far outweighs any of the negatives.

On a similar note, MIL is constantly saying (in front of DH and SIL) that she wishes she never had kids. It's horrible.

OMG! that's awful!! some of these MIL stories astonish me!

My mother is particularly unique. She told me yesterday I had to send her an ultrasound picture because it's her "right." No lady, no one has a right to see inside my uterus.... ever.
Ok to be fair your mom's delivery was a little strong. It's definitely not her "right" but, on the other hand- I'm playing devil's advocate here, why wouldn't you show your mom? I mean, she's your mom! My mom also wants to see all sonogram pics and I text them to her, my mil, dad, step dad, show my grandparents, etc. She sounds like she just wants to be a part of it

I totally meant MIL... not mom. Whoops! We don't share things with MIL because she posts them to FB without our knowledge. The woman is actually clinically crazy (to the point we don't trust her with our child alone). She also joys in constantly calling me a bad mom (to me and others), is a pathological liar, threatens to kill her self multiple times a year if she doesn't get her way (and my brother actually did kill himself, so it's a sensitive topic for us)... I'm sure I'll be sharing other wonderful stories as they come up.

mamaek · July 2015

magnumJ said:

inomniaparatus said:

magnumJ said:

g0lightly8706 said:

magnumJ said:

g0lightly8706 said:

birdieMila said:
My friend said : your life is so gonna change! No more sleeping out!
Getting up early! Puking and diapers. You are not gonna be able to do what and when you want anymore. And maybe you are gonna have a cry baby! Al night crying! Good luck to you!
OMG SHUT UP
How awful! I cannot stand when people do this. My SIL who has a three year old is like this.. She went on and on about the horrors of raising a child and I just kept thinking 'do you even like your kid?!' Its so rude and annoying!

Yeah, it's not that bad. Really, it's not that bad. Sure, there are times where I wish I could just do whatever I want, but those moments are few and far between and the good stuff far outweighs any of the negatives.

On a similar note, MIL is constantly saying (in front of DH and SIL) that she wishes she never had kids. It's horrible.

OMG! that's awful!! some of these MIL stories astonish me!

My mother is particularly unique. She told me yesterday I had to send her an ultrasound picture because it's her "right." No lady, no one has a right to see inside my uterus.... ever.

Ok to be fair your mom's delivery was a little strong. It's definitely not her "right" but, on the other hand- I'm playing devil's advocate here, why wouldn't you show your mom? I mean, she's your mom! My mom also wants to see all sonogram pics and I text them to her, my mil, dad, step dad, show my grandparents, etc. She sounds like she just wants to be a part of it

I totally meant MIL... not mom. Whoops! We don't share things with MIL because she posts them to FB without our knowledge. The woman is actually clinically crazy (to the point we don't trust her with our child alone). She also joys in constantly calling me a bad mom (to me and others), is a pathological liar, threatens to kill her self multiple times a year if she doesn't get her way (and my brother actually did kill himself, so it's a sensitive topic for us)... I'm sure I'll be sharing other wonderful stories as they come up.

She sounds charming!
Thought mine was bad. Yours takes the prize.

inomniaparatus · July 2015

magnumJ said:

inomniaparatus said:

magnumJ said:

g0lightly8706 said:

magnumJ said:

g0lightly8706 said:

birdieMila said:
My friend said : your life is so gonna change! No more sleeping out!
Getting up early! Puking and diapers. You are not gonna be able to do what and when you want anymore. And maybe you are gonna have a cry baby! Al night crying! Good luck to you!
OMG SHUT UP
How awful! I cannot stand when people do this. My SIL who has a three year old is like this.. She went on and on about the horrors of raising a child and I just kept thinking 'do you even like your kid?!' Its so rude and annoying!

Yeah, it's not that bad. Really, it's not that bad. Sure, there are times where I wish I could just do whatever I want, but those moments are few and far between and the good stuff far outweighs any of the negatives.

On a similar note, MIL is constantly saying (in front of DH and SIL) that she wishes she never had kids. It's horrible.

OMG! that's awful!! some of these MIL stories astonish me!

My mother is particularly unique. She told me yesterday I had to send her an ultrasound picture because it's her "right." No lady, no one has a right to see inside my uterus.... ever.

Ok to be fair your mom's delivery was a little strong. It's definitely not her "right" but, on the other hand- I'm playing devil's advocate here, why wouldn't you show your mom? I mean, she's your mom! My mom also wants to see all sonogram pics and I text them to her, my mil, dad, step dad, show my grandparents, etc. She sounds like she just wants to be a part of it

I totally meant MIL... not mom. Whoops! We don't share things with MIL because she posts them to FB without our knowledge. The woman is actually clinically crazy (to the point we don't trust her with our child alone). She also joys in constantly calling me a bad mom (to me and others), is a pathological liar, threatens to kill her self multiple times a year if she doesn't get her way (and my brother actually did kill himself, so it's a sensitive topic for us)... I'm sure I'll be sharing other wonderful stories as they come up.

Oh wow! I take back everything I said - she absolutely has no right to see your uterus! On a serious note though, I'm so sorry you have to deal with all that crazy!!

kayjay44 · July 2015

Another doozy from N15: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12593616/two-buns-in-the-oven#latest

wisco29 · July 2015

My mil is always telling me how horrible life will be, or how I won't be able to do this or that. The whole time I was pregnant with dd she reminded me how I couldn't drink wine!

But she wants grand babies she's really just a biotch who has to have control or something

kayjay44 · July 2015

Love it in solidarity, @wisco29

Jilly82 · July 2015

birdieMila said:

My friend said : your life is so gonna change! No more sleeping out! Getting up early! Puking and diapers. You are not gonna be able to do what and when you want anymore. And maybe you are gonna have a cry baby! Al night crying! Good luck to you! OMG SHUT UP

I HATE when people try to sue that scare tactic. I have a 22 month old. It is not bad at all. He sleeps through the night and is pretty tame during the day. It's totally doable

lovekat614 · July 2015

magnumJ said:

Another doozy from N15: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12593616/two-buns-in-the-oven#latest

LOL.. i can't

)

OrangeBliss · July 2015

kris10mac said:
Why can people not actually READ an email?!? I sent you an email that consisted of all of two sentences. Two! And I get a response back from you with a question that is already addressed in that second sentence.

WTF?? Read, people.

My husband works for IT for a university and he was just complaining about this last night! You are not alone. As a teacher, I understand the frustration, too!

christinam2014 · July 2015

So we told our immediate family pretty early on that we were pregnant. On father's day we found out that MIL told her mom (my DH grandma) about it then we sent a picture of our first ultrasound to all the immediate family and my MIL texts me and asks if she can tell one of her friends at work about it. What the hell! I know she is super excited but so are we and it's our news to tell. So I get my DH to talk to her about it and then she texts me back with an ok and a sad face. Don't make me feel bad because you can't keep your mouth shut about it!

CuriousKiddosMama · July 2015

Wtf is with this weather??? I'm so sick of rain

kayjay44 · July 2015

OrangeBliss said:

Why can people not actually READ an email?!? I sent you an email that consisted of all of two sentences. Two! And I get a response back from you with a question that is already addressed in that second sentence. WTF?? Read, people.
My husband works for IT for a university and he was just complaining about this last night! You are not alone. As a teacher, I understand the frustration, too!

Story of my life. I work in an in-house legal department. I swear to god no one reads our emails.

brushesnbrunch · July 2015

magnumJ said:

Another doozy from N15: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12593616/two-buns-in-the-oven#latest

That is a doozy! If I were the husband I would be livid

kris10mac · July 2015

magnumJ said:
Another doozy from N15: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12593616/two-buns-in-the-oven#latest

I totally need to lurk on other BMB boards of these are the kinds of gems that are out there.

mrs3615 · July 2015

wtf is with people not responding to emails. I know you are here in the office. RESPOND!!!

Additionally - wtf is with my SMIL who is miserable about everything???

And @magnumj - wtf is with your MIL is right. Holy. Moly.

kayjay44 · July 2015

@mrs3615 - I'm convinced that (S)MILs have to be miserable about everything. It's part of the job description.

wisco29 · July 2015

magnumJ said:
@mrs3615 - I'm convinced that (S)MILs have to be miserable about everything. It's part of the job description.

Unless you're making the entire day or thing about them then they love it. Center of attention or crabby biotches.

pbtoast · July 2015

magnumJ said:

Another doozy from N15: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12593616/two-buns-in-the-oven#latest

WHAT?! NO.

bookqueen · July 2015

mrs3615 said:
wtf is with people not responding to emails. I know you are here in the office. RESPOND!!!

Additionally - wtf is with my SMIL who is miserable about everything???

And @magnumj - wtf is with your MIL is right. Holy. Moly.

I'm totally feeling you on this. I'm changing my degree program and today was supposed to be my first day of classes...I got one of my papers sorted out but they still haven't changed me over yet! So I'm already into my new term and can't even take any classes yet. Ugh..

Edited to add: My point of this was that's it's all being done through email, lol.

kris10mac · July 2015

mrs3615 said:
wtf is with people not responding to emails. I know you are here in the office. RESPOND!!!

Ha! This was my WTF last week. And mine was about email yet again this week. Work email = the bane of my existence.

PumpkinTi · July 2015

magnumJ said:

Another doozy from N15: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12593616/two-buns-in-the-oven#latest

We considered if we have twins not telling EVERYONE and letting it be a surprise - but - what????? I couldn't read past the first page... please tell me she agreed to tell her husband????

moomee · July 2015

Christ Almighty. Poor guy. Lol

mrs3615 · July 2015

wisco29 said:

@mrs3615 - I'm convinced that (S)MILs have to be miserable about everything. It's part of the job description.
Unless you're making the entire day or thing about them then they love it. Center of attention or crabby biotches.

This is SO true!!! WTAF is up with that???

minivanmafia · July 2015

magnumJ said:

g0lightly8706 said:

My friend said : your life is so gonna change! No more sleeping out! Getting up early! Puking and diapers. You are not gonna be able to do what and when you want anymore. And maybe you are gonna have a cry baby! Al night crying! Good luck to you! OMG SHUT UP
How awful! I cannot stand when people do this. My SIL who has a three year old is like this.. She went on and on about the horrors of raising a child and I just kept thinking 'do you even like your kid?!' Its so rude and annoying!

Yeah, it's not that bad. Really, it's not that bad. Sure, there are times where I wish I could just do whatever I want, but those moments are few and far between and the good stuff far outweighs any of the negatives.

On a similar note, MIL is constantly saying (in front of DH and SIL) that she wishes she never had kids. It's horrible.

I agree with @MagnumJ 100%. The good stuff outweighs the bad stuff even on a daily basis.

...and girl, that is awful about your MIL.

:x

minivanmafia · July 2015

magnumJ said:

Another doozy from N15: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12593616/two-buns-in-the-oven#latest

Dude. WTH is wrong with people!?

kayjay44 · July 2015

N15. The gift that keeps on giving: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12594727/what-week-did-you-feel-the-baby-start-moving

mamaek · July 2015

magnumJ said:
N15. The gift that keeps on giving: https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12594727/what-week-did-you-feel-the-baby-start-moving

"Hope your daughters grow up and treat you like that bc you deserve it" LOL!!!
Who are these women?

mrs3615 · July 2015

wtf - why is it not 5:00pm.

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