So right now in the U.S. there is a huge thing going on about the Confederate flag & if it should be flown or not.
I truly like current events and the news. I also love debating (not fighting), and debate was one of my favorite subjects in school.
We are all grown here and I think it would be fun to have a place to talk and have MATURE debates about things going on in the news or around you. No reporting because someone's opinion is different than yours, this is adult time.
So let's see if we can get this going.
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That is also what the civil war was about. It was not over we want slaves and you don't. It was you're trying to make everyone follow one law and we don't like that. We don't want things to go back to how they were over in England.
It's also upsetting that all of this started over a shooting. I feel it's like if I wore a McDonalds uniform and killed a bunch of fat people everyone saying that McDonalds hates fat people and they support me killing fat people because they are fat.
State's rights were not mentioned by southern politicians until they reached out for allies overseas and were forced to find reasons other than slavery to bolster their cause.
To compare this to fat shaming is absolutely abominable and shows ignorance.
I feel the biggest issue here should be that there are still people being raised to hate others. Period. Not even over race, sexuality, size, ect. But there is still a massive amount of hatred being taught. Personally I feel like that is the biggest issue; not a flag.
Blaming the flag instead of the man, or the underlying issues is not going to solve anything. IMO.
read this article https://www.cnn.com/2015/06/24/us/confederate-flag-myths-facts/index.html
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I live in a southern state and proudly stand with people doing the right thing and taking it down. Sure it is historical...but so is a swastika flag...
Regardless of it's history, it is offensive and to quote my state's governor (a conservative republican governor) it is a "distraction".
This didn't start over a shooting in my opinion.
I'm from the Carolinas so this hits home for me. It's something I would see almost every day.
However, although the flag does not represent slavery to me, it is a symbol of racism to many others and is very hurtful especially in the light of the Charleston shootings.
For me, that's enough to want it down from display. There's no redeeming value for it to fly at this point.
Well, to better explain..I live in the country and lets just say the people in my neighborhood do qualify as rednecks. and I'm probably being nice by saying that.
I just love that CNN article so much that I need to point out that even Confederate General Robert E Lee was ready to lay down the flag. IT LOST!
It's the battle flag of Robert E. Lee's army unit
While it wasn't the Confederate states' official flag, the battle flag was flown by several Confederate Army units. The most notable among them was Gen. Robert E. Lee's Army of Northern Virginia.
And even Lee distanced himself from divisive symbols of a Civil War that his side lost.
"I think it wiser moreover not to keep open the sores of war," he wrote in a letter, declining an invitation by the Gettysburg Battlefield Memorial Association.
There were no flags flown at his funeral, Confederate or otherwise.
ETA - just kidding.. Kind of.
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You can still buy Nazi related things, because it's an important part of history. It nowhere near socially acceptable to flaunt it in public, but collecting it is a different story. I think that's the way the flag needs to go, BUT the fact that people are going about it they way they are and after recent events is disgusting. Vandalizing confederate monuments downtown as a way of protesting is also disgusting. It's a part of history and many people on both sides died for their beliefs. Both sides need to be remembered and respected, whether we agree with them or not.
Of course stripping state houses of their racist symbols will not stop racism, but it is a good start. There are reasons why Germans do not proudly fly the Nazi flag as a symbol of their heritage. Does it mean there are not anti-Semites in Germany? No. Does it mean that their views are not supported even obliquely by the government. Yes.
A bit of my background: I went to a small private school from 4th grade through 12th grade. Our mascot was the Rebel and we proudly flew the Confederate flag at football games, emblazoned it on shirts and waved it wildly at pep rallies. There were 3 black students out of 500. The N word and other derogatory terms were used frequently. Before I went to that school, I lived on military bases and had many friends of various races. My parents were not from the area and I had the opportunity to travel to more liberal parts of the country. Most of my classmates did not.
@rbradshaw77 to me there is a vast difference between gentlemen and redneck. by Redneck---here in my little corner of the world---, they are just not the sort of people that you want to be around. Very bigoted and rude, rude people. Certainly not ones you want your child to grow up like. I've never distinguished between southern gentleman and gentleman because to me..And here again these are JMHO's if you are a gentleman, then you are gentleman, no matter where you come from. I'm sure that the word has a different connotation where you are and one that is positive. Unfortunately, in my part of the world-however small it is, it's just not a positive word.
If you mean President Obama when you refer to the whack job whose opinion isn't in line with the majority of America I'd suggest you need a new source for your information. You may not like the man and may disagree with him but the fact remains that he has been elected by a pretty nice majority twice.
The president used "the "n" word" in a podcast discussion and not on television. Not that it matters. I don't think you'd be saying this if you'd heard the discussion for yourself. You can find it in full online, it's not all that long. Just google Marc Maron podcast Obama and you should be able to find it. I like to inform myself before speaking out about things like that.
2. This thread is NOT going to go down well. Cue the ban hammer.....
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@rbradshaw77 to me there is a vast difference between gentlemen and redneck. by Redneck---here in my little corner of the world---, they are just not the sort of people that you want to be around. Very bigoted and rude, rude people. Certainly not ones you want your child to grow up like. I've never distinguished between southern gentleman and gentleman because to me..And here again these are JMHO's if you are a gentleman, then you are gentleman, no matter where you come from. I'm sure that the word has a different connotation where you are and one that is positive. Unfortunately, in my part of the world-however small it is, it's just not a positive word.
In our corner of the world rednecks are your every day country boys. They drive big trucks, shoot things for fun and still manage to say yes ma'am and no ma'am. As someone that is actually in the state of SC I can promise you the media is portraying the way things are actually happening regarding the flags. I have yet to see a story about them burning the American flag on a confederate statue on Monday or spray painting "black lives matter" on a memorial to confedate soldiers. Regardless of what our opinions are, and I promise I'm not a "bigoted redneck", soldiers deserve to be respected and remembered no matter what they died for. Yes, the flag is disrespectful and it's reasons for flying are outdated, BUT people are acting no better than the flag they despise so much when they do those things. That's my only point here. Media doesn't tell you the whole story.
For the record: I wear camo, hunt, fish, and go mudding in 4-wheelers/4 wheel drive trucks so I think it's safe to say I have "redneck" tendencies if you must put a label on me.
And I don't see why this can't go over well? We're all adults and were having a mature conversation...and I didn't post this to be JUST about the flag, but instead about things going on all over.
In Germany it is illegal to display any nazi memorabilia or to even make nazi related jokes. I have spent quite some time in that country and they take very seriously what wrong occurred in their past and will do whatever it takes to prevent it from ever happening again.
All of their museums that we visited (which was a lot) own up to what happened - so while the memorabilia is historically relevant, they aren't flying the flag and using the excuse that its historical. Even in the BMW museum there is a solemn room admitting to the slave labor they employed during WWII.
I've never cried so much on a vacation, but I was so impressed by how the German government owns thier mistakes. We could learn a lot from them.
Take the flag down because that's what is right, not because of some douche faced idiot who decided to go shoot some people...
Start this idea over Sunday brunch, not over someone's loved ones casket.
Every major change needs a catalyst or two.
It was def a symbol of slavery and does nothing but add fuel to a steady fire that is going on in the U.S.
The confederate flag debate did not come into mainstream news because of the shooting but because this flag wasn't lowered to half staff- the only one not to be- this was found as a direct insult due to what the confederate flag widely represents.