So last night I felt a gush of liquid I had a sleepless night of anxiety and was told to go to the hospital by my doctors office since they close at noon on Fridays and didn't get my message until 1130. After finding out everything was fine and that I just had a small infection I had to go have routine ultrasound which turned out great, the hospital radiologist isn't allowed to comment on anything other than the fact that the baby's health which btw was great but when we got between the legs he said "I'm not seeing anything here if that means anything to you"(and winked) Yay a little GIRL!!! When I was finally able to call my boyfriend whose out of town with some friends(he was fine with me finding out) he hung up on me and got upset because we aren't having a boy
like seriously me and baby are both healthy and everything I had spent all day and night worrying about was nothing and you get upset over that ughh sorry for the essay ladies
Re: So angry I could hit someone
Married 9/28/13
DS born 11/12/15
EDD 8/13/18
*edited because of stupid autocorrect.
Married 9/28/13
DS born 11/12/15
EDD 8/13/18
Also, I think it really says something about his character that he hung up the phone on her, when she had just been through a scary ordeal at the hospital.
Sorry I have no tolerance for selfish man-children. You are allowed to feel your feels but you don't get to sh** on other people, no matter how soul-crushing it is to you to have a daughter. It's called being an adult.
@anikajoy I'm not saying it isn't stupid, but some people can't help that initial reaction of not getting what they were hoping for. Yes, he should have been happy everything was ok and the baby was healthy and fine. That part does make him an ass. I'm just saying sometimes people don't react the way we hope them to. I just don't think that's any reason for some of these comments.
Naturally, he wanted a boy. A son to carry his name, legacy... Yadda yadda. My daughter often brought up wanting a sister. (My son wants a boy) This wasn't exactly an ideal conversation for hubby. He would get upset at my daughter and I. (Not mad... Almost disappointed) It was as if he believed that if we talked about it being a girl, that would make the baby a girl. LOL He finally got a grip and came to terms that is really is a 50-50 shot. Talking, praying, dwelling on it wouldn't change baby's gender.
We found out 2wks ago that we're having a boy. While my daughter isn't thrilled, all he could do was smile (and get mildly emotional) at the appointment.
All in all, there isn't anything you can do to change baby's gender. This man has some serious issues. I'd be livid if I was treated like that! I'm so very happy that you and baby are healthy! That is so scary! And I'm sorry you went through that alone! Good luck to you on whatever you decide to do with your baby-daddy! Hugs!
I messed up this quoting sorry.
I'm happy you and your LO are okay and healthy! And congrats on your baby girl! But I can't agree with that enough ^^ yes it happens, my fiancé was mildly disappointed when we found out it was a girl but you know what that meant? He said damn we'll have to try again later, but that little girl is my princess so IDGAF how she pisses. And he kisses my belly and told her he loves her no matter what. Hanging up and throwing a bit** fit when something could have been terribly wrong is disgusting.