January 2016 Moms

Planned or unplanned?

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Re: Planned or unplanned?

  • l4rkl4rk member
    SullyN said:

    Planned! But our first was a definite surprise, I don't recommend the Nuva ring ;)

    Planned! But I DO recommend NuvaRing! I was on it for ten years without incident. Only became pregnant after I intentionally stopped using it.

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  • Not planned. I must've ovulated later than usual. I was just going by a standard calendar. Totally my fault because I should know that I don't always ovulate normally despite having a regular period. With DS, I conceived 2 days after my period ended!

    Surprised, but I really shouldn't have been, that's what happens when you don't even try to pull out a couple of times!! It's a wonder we ever even made it to the wedding without getting pregnant. Haha
  • Planned but it was still a bit of a surprise, I had my Mirena IUD taken out on April 9th and we thought it would probably take a couple months of "trying". Due date is tentatively January 15th!
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  • Well we weren't trying per say, but we weren't preventing. I came off of my pill and within days I was pregnant.
  • Planned, because we weren't actively preventing it on purpose.
  • Planned, had a Nexplanon taken out in September (if anyone wants a foolproof BC this is the one) it took awhile for my body to ovulate again and then we waited a few more months before trying. I tracked my temp and used OPK and within 3 months of so so timing and 3 months of good timing it worked! I also used other herbals like maca and royal jelly to boost things up and took (and still take) baby aspirin. We used preseed as well when needed.
  • Planned. Another one-try-success.
  • We knew we wanted one more, But DH wanted to wait at least another year. I knew I had missed a few pills on my last round of BC and was in the process of going to get a different one, when hello BFP.

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  • Planned. Was only off bc in march and next month was pregnant.
    1st child DOB 9/3/02

    SO and I met 6/25/06

    Married 9/2/12

    Due date 1/16/16 with our twins!
  • Planned but unplanned as well! lol  I went off BC to regulate to start trying b/c w/ DS it took forever to start ovulating and we used the pull-out method...guess DH didn't have good control and I guess I ovulated the first month of of BC!  

    So planned in that I was purposefully off of BC but unplanned in that we were yet trying!  

    A welcomed surprise anyhow!

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  • We weren't preventing exactly but we weren't actively trying.  We had to use Clomid to get pregnant with our first and the timing of our "oops" wasn't great to get pregnant but I did and we couldn't be happier! We were planning on starting to try the next cycle so it wasn't like we weren't ready or anything.
  • Sort of planned but totally surprised! Just had a vasectomy reversal at the beginning of April and it must have happened the first time after that! Very excited to know it was a successful
    reversal though
  • Totally unplanned. We've been tracking my dates and using condoms when I'm likely to get pregnant. My cycle is exactly on time every month and this has worked since my son was born almost 2 years ago. Other forms of birth control have been problematic for me. Apparently, we screwed something up because- pregnant! Still trying to work past the stress and anxiety to get excited.
  • Planned! Been trying since Feb of 2014 on our own but found out I have PCO and hypothyroidism so got all that on track with the help of my doctor in November. Took fertility pills from Nov to April and then in May we found out we were expecting! We found out super early, since we have been trying. So it's making for a long 1st trimster. But loving it! (:
  • Totally planned for us!
  • Planned. Another one-try-success.

    This!
  • mahlodmahlod member
    edited June 2015
    Unplanned. I was on the pill for two years. Worked perfectly fine until now. Boom!
  • kmcc14kmcc14 member
    Planned.  We had been trying since January.
    Me: 30 DH: 35 
    TTC #1 - Jan 2015
    BFP on 5/13/15
    DD born 1/24/16
    TTC #2 - Jun 2017
    BFP on 8/24/17
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  • Planned. We hit a home run on the first night which also made it a surprise. Because it took us 10 months to conceive our first.
  • Type A Planned. Got off Class C and D meds for 6 months, removed Implanon and started Jan 1 2013. "Patiently" waited for 2.5 years and a MMC.

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  • tuitwotuitwo member
    Not trying not preventing. Knew we wanted a second child but didn't expect it to happen so quickly!
  • SovvySovvy member
    Planned.
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    pregnancy #1 :: daughter lost to chromosomal abnormality at 18 weeks
    pregnancy #2 :: son, born Aug 2011
    pregnancy #3 :: due Jan 2016
  • bananers said:

    FFC: with few exceptions, I don't get how surprises happen. Pregnancy is kinda easy to prevent. (Puts on flame-retardant suit)

    Ours was unplanned. Been on the pill for years, went on an antibiotic week before vacation and didn't realize that they interact.

    All of a sudden I had double lines on a pregnancy test a few weeks later. True accident do happen
  • Surprise! We had protection issues, haha! We are both totally excited though. We wanted kids within the next few years and our 5 year anniversary is next month so it is good timing. :)
  • Planned, but the timing was a surprise. It took us almost a year to get pregnant with our first, so I went off birth control like 4 months before we were going to start trying and got pregnant instantly! Like literally the month I went off it! Our kiddos will be 19mo apart now, which is closer than we originally planned, but I think since they're so close in age they'll be best friends and it'll be awesome! (After its really really hard the first few months.)
  • bananers said:
    FFC: with few exceptions, I don't get how surprises happen. Pregnancy is kinda easy to prevent. (Puts on flame-retardant suit)


    I agree- this one is a "surprise" only in that switching off the pill and trying NFP was a fail for us, but we were going to try for #3 before too long and we weren't THAT surprised, more like, "huh- well that did not work."

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  • Planned.  We started trying in November and then when it didn't happen right away within the first few months, I stopped making such a big deal about it.  I started feeling like Elizabeth Banks in What to Expect When You're Expecting, the first few months of trying, lol.  I kind of backed off with the crazy charting and making sure intercourse was happening during that fertile window time, and we just said to ourselves; "When it happens it happens."  
  • bananers said:

    FFC: with few exceptions, I don't get how surprises happen. Pregnancy is kinda easy to prevent. (Puts on flame-retardant suit)

    This one was pretty much planned (just happened faster than we expected) but our first was unplanned. I don't do well with hormonal birth control, but I was on the pill at the time, so it made me sick a lot- to the point where I would actually throw it up. I missed one pill and BAM pregnant. We used condoms after that.

  • I have PCOS which makes ovulation very irregular and hardly happen. We haven't had birth control for a while but weren't actively trying. We started talking about getting pregnant and that's how I found out I had PCOS.

    It was recommended that I change my diet before jumping right to fertility medication, so I cut out flour and sugar from my diet. Over 6 months I lost about 20 lb and my period started regulating and all of a sudden BFP!

    So it was kinda planned but honestly I thought it would take longer, so it was a very pleasant surprise!
  • crell2crell2 member
    Definitely unplanned. Thought I had food poisoning they said no ...congratulations u r pregnant . Lol.
  • unplanned! I have never been pregnant before (despite intermittent birth control use) and have history of PCOS/irregular periods. I was told I'd need to take drugs when/if I wanted to have kids. So I wasn't being as careful as I could have been! But was still surprised. :)

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  • sck601sck601 member

    Planned. I was temping and charting my BBT. DD was a complete surprise though.

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  • Unplanned. DH was supposed to get snipped but we waited too long, got caught up in the moment and here we are.
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  • Ours is a surprise, we use natural family planning, so we abstain during fertile times. Have used it successfully for 8 years with no surprises. This one was conceived from doing the baby dance 6 days before ovulation thanks to ovulating three days before when I usually did. We always know it is a possibility to get pregnant unplanned based on our choice in birth control and are very happy to be welcoming our third baby in January.
  • Planned but unplanned. Started going to d IvF clinic but we only reached the part where we was doing blood work and then I did a ultrasound and they said I'm looking preggers but wasn't sure and there I was preggers
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