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Sex... or lack there of...

Juliade22Juliade22 member
in September 2015 Moms
My husband will not have sex with me and it is really starting to take and emotional toll. Feeling ugly and unwanted, I know that is probably the hormones talking but I can't help it that's how I feel. 
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Re: Sex... or lack there of...

  • Yiggle09Yiggle09 member
    Did you tell him that he is making you feel this way by being rejected? Maybe that will start a dialogue and you will feel better?
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  • soberrysweetsoberrysweet member
    Yiggle09 said:

    Did you tell him that he is making you feel this way by being rejected? Maybe that will start a dialogue and you will feel better?

    This. You definitely need to talk to him. He might have fears that he will harm the baby, etc. but talk to him about it. Communication is important.
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  • sgleavesgleave member
    I agree with PPs, I'd talk to him about it. Things were a little off between my SO and I so I asked him about it. Turns out bc I turned him down (like twice!) when I wasn't feeling up to it he was afraid he was pressuring me and was trying to be respectful. So really it was just a mis/lack of communication, and things are back to normal now!
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  • WheresTheGlowWheresTheGlow member
    Definitely talk to him.  My husband is buggin because we're having a girl and he feels weird.  We had a good talk about it and I kinda understand from his point of view.  So, if this kid thinks his dad vibrates, so be it.  

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