I got an email from babycenter or something telling me "congrats! You're 12 weeks today!" F U babycenter. And I had a friend over today with her one year old and one month old and all she kept talking about was getting pregnant with BOTH of them while on bc. So that was super cool.
That sucks. I can't stand people who conceive #2 when #1 hasn't even had a birthday yet. They make me feel so inadequate.
I know! They're just so damn fertile. Poor things.
Well, yesterday I went to see the dermatologist about a rash, turns out I have a virus called pityriasis rosea. It can cause miscarriage and preterm labor. Doc told me to skip this month of ttc! Unfortunately, I think I'm at least 1dpo :-< So now I'm trippin until AF shows and will be side eyeing any BFPs. On to the next month...
I'm an A15 mom, but just wanted to let you know I had this during my first & second trimester (10ish - 16ish weeks). I was terrified of miscarriage but went on to deliver a beautiful healthy baby boy on Tuesday. If this should be your month, I just wanted to let you know there can be positive outcomes.
Well, yesterday I went to see the dermatologist about a rash, turns out I have a virus called pityriasis rosea. It can cause miscarriage and preterm labor. Doc told me to skip this month of ttc! Unfortunately, I think I'm at least 1dpo :-< So now I'm trippin until AF shows and will be side eyeing any BFPs. On to the next month...
I'm an A15 mom, but just wanted to let you know I had this during my first & second trimester (10ish - 16ish weeks). I was terrified of miscarriage but went on to deliver a beautiful healthy baby boy on Tuesday. If this should be your month, I just wanted to let you know there can be positive outcomes.
Thank you so much! I needed to hear that. Congratulations!!
I have never felt resentment or jealousy before when someone announces pregnancy on Facebook, but someone I know just announced hers today and it hit me
What really gets me is she's due in December so she is not very far along. She even got professional pics to announce baby coming with her first child in some.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not angry that she's pregnant, but I would be more low key about it until I were further along.
I had a very vivid dream last night of being at the doctor's office, taking a pregnancy test, and getting a BFP. I went home and told DH, and he was all excited. Then I woke up and got a BFN. F$&@ you, subconscious!
mamaburdin2010 said:I have never felt resentment or jealousy before when someone announces pregnancy on Facebook, but someone I know just announced hers today and it hit me
What really gets me is she's due in December so she is not very far along. She even got professional pics to announce baby coming with her first child in some.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not angry that she's pregnant, but I would be more low key about it until I were further along.
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I get feeling jealousy over another's pregnancy. But when she announces is not something to get upset about. I wish I had told more people that I was pregnant, because when I lost it, I felt so very alone. It was heartbreaking to tell my parents "well I was pregnant, but now I'm not."
I have never felt resentment or jealousy before when someone announces pregnancy on Facebook, but someone I know just announced hers today and it hit me
What really gets me is she's due in December so she is not very far along. She even got professional pics to announce baby coming with her first child in some.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not angry that she's pregnant, but I would be more low key about it until I were further along.
I get feeling jealousy over another's pregnancy. But when she announces is not something to get upset about. I wish I had told more people that I was pregnant, because when I lost it, I felt so very alone. It was heartbreaking to tell my parents "well I was pregnant, but now I'm not."
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I'm sorry for your loss.
I think it just shocks me when people announce it so soon. I absolutely would tell my family when I do get a BFP, but Facebook wouldn't be until at least 12 weeks.
I know when I found out I was pregnant with our son I didn't want to tell anyone but family for a while.
I guess I don't understand hiding a pregnancy. Fine if you personally want to, but why should anyone else? I talk about my loss with lots of people anyway. So whether I would have announced my pregnancy or not, I've still been sharing my loss. Why should anyone have to hide a pregnancy? If they lose it, are they just supposed to go on hiding that it ever happened and pretend it didn't exist?
I had a very vivid dream last night of being at the doctor's office, taking a pregnancy test, and getting a BFP. I went home and told DH, and he was all excited. Then I woke up and got a BFN. F$&@ you, subconscious!
I had a similar dream on Saturday and got a bfn
I was really confuse for a few minutes after waking up cause I thought I was pregnant!
Need to vent a little. So someone who once use to be a great friend of mine just had her baby (a little girl)
But before I tell you what happened le me tell you what happened last year when she got pregnant. Right before she got pregnant. I suffered a miscarriage and which at that time she told me her and her husband were going to start TTC which I congratulated her on. Well a month later she told me she's pregnant.... Before she even told her husband. I was the first person she told.
Now on to today. I went and saw her and the baby (I'm a photographer so I took some hospital newborn photos for her) and while there she turns to me and goes don't worry soon you'll have your own little bundle of joy... You just need to relax and stop trying for it. It will happen.
Seriously. I wanted to tell her to STFU.
Thanks for letting me vent.
Happier note. The bumb finally changed my name for me.
So DH and I decided when we started trying months ago that we wouldn't share TTC news with anyone and if we were blessed enough to get a BFP we wouldn't tell anyone until 15 weeks. We kinda want everything to be our little secret to enjoy alone at first. Well, as we planned, not a soul knows we are TTC. This morning my sister (already has 2 by 2 different men and neither is the one she is currently "in love" with) text me a picture of a pee stick and a smiley face. Then EVERY single member of my immediate family and even some aunts, cousins, and friends text me to ask how happy I was to be an aunt again. That was about 10:30am. It's now around 8pm and I haven't even answered one of them. Just cried on DH's shoulder, ate a jar of pickled okra, and binge watched Netflix. I don't even know how to respond without being snarky. I even seriously thought about drowning the phone in the bathtub so I had a good excuse.
So DH and I decided when we started trying months ago that we wouldn't share TTC news with anyone and if we were blessed enough to get a BFN we wouldn't tell anyone until 15 weeks. We kinda want everything to be our little secret to enjoy alone at first. Well, as we planned, not a soul knows we are TTC. This morning my sister (already has 2 by 2 different men and neither is the one she is currently "in love" with) text me a picture of a pee stick and a smiley face. Then EVERY single member of my immediate family and even some aunts, cousins, and friends text me to ask how happy I was to be an aunt again. That was about 10:30am. It's now around 8pm and I haven't even answered one of them. Just cried on DH's shoulder, ate a jar of pickled okra, and binge watched Netflix. I don't even know how to respond without being snarky. I even seriously thought about drowning the phone in the bathtub so I had a good excuse.
First off. I feel for you. I do big time cause that totes sucks.
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What really gets me is she's due in December so she is not very far along. She even got professional pics to announce baby coming with her first child in some.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not angry that she's pregnant, but I would be more low key about it until I were further along.
Just needed to vent. Glad for this thread
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What really gets me is she's due in December so she is not very far along. She even got professional pics to announce baby coming with her first child in some.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not angry that she's pregnant, but I would be more low key about it until I were further along.
Just needed to vent. Glad for this thread
I get feeling jealousy over another's pregnancy. But when she announces is not something to get upset about. I wish I had told more people that I was pregnant, because when I lost it, I felt so very alone. It was heartbreaking to tell my parents "well I was pregnant, but now I'm not."
I get feeling jealousy over another's pregnancy. But when she announces is not something to get upset about. I wish I had told more people that I was pregnant, because when I lost it, I felt so very alone. It was heartbreaking to tell my parents "well I was pregnant, but now I'm not."
I'm sorry for your loss.
I think it just shocks me when people announce it so soon. I absolutely would tell my family when I do get a BFP, but Facebook wouldn't be until at least 12 weeks.
I know when I found out I was pregnant with our son I didn't want to tell anyone but family for a while.
My Ovulation Chart
My Ovulation Chart
But before I tell you what happened le me tell you what happened last year when she got pregnant. Right before she got pregnant. I suffered a miscarriage and which at that time she told me her and her husband were going to start TTC which I congratulated her on. Well a month later she told me she's pregnant.... Before she even told her husband. I was the first person she told.
Now on to today. I went and saw her and the baby (I'm a photographer so I took some hospital newborn photos for her) and while there she turns to me and goes don't worry soon you'll have your own little bundle of joy... You just need to relax and stop trying for it. It will happen.
Seriously. I wanted to tell her to STFU.
Thanks for letting me vent.
Happier note. The bumb finally changed my name for me.
Second. You mean BFP? Right?
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