I'm so sorry for everyone's losses and bad experiences this week! Hugs all around!!
Ok here's what's getting to me-I have to get this off my chest & I feel guilty for thinking this way. I know it's pretty insignificant compared to some of the others!
My SIL had her baby a year ago- conceived on the honeymoon- of course! She and her husband had a big elaborate $30,000 plus wedding (she got engaged and married right after DH and I got married in Vegas- a wedding we paid for ourselves). DH's parents paid for her wedding entirely.
After she got pregnant DH's parents bought SIL a car because she told them her existing car wasn't safe enough for a baby to travel in (they gave her a $30,000 car none the less!). DH paid for his own car and I'm driving my own car which is literally falling apart right now!
DH and I had been busy saving every penny to buy a new house together. We just bought our dream house but we really struggled and saved for the down payment to get what we wanted. just found out last week that SIL also just got a new house- paid more than we did and guess who gave her the money for the entire down payment- DH's parents!!
I know that she's their daughter and they can give her whatever they choose, but it just feels like DH and I get overlooked time after time. My parents live overseas and are dealing with some major medical issues so his family is really all we have.
I know it's silly but I just see SIL blatantly using her baby to get what she wants. Don't get me wrong, we love our parents and they have helped us a great deal, just not to this extent. I also love my niece and I don't envy my SIL for having her- it's just everything seems a little rubbed in our faces if you can determine what I'm trying to say!
I'm so sorry for everyone's losses and bad experiences this week! Hugs all around!!
Ok here's what's getting to me-I have to get this off my chest & I feel guilty for thinking this way. I know it's pretty insignificant compared to some of the others!
My SIL had her baby a year ago- conceived on the honeymoon- of course! She and her husband had a big elaborate $30,000 plus wedding (she got engaged and married right after DH and I got married in Vegas- a wedding we paid for ourselves). DH's parents paid for her wedding entirely.
After she got pregnant DH's parents bought SIL a car because she told them her existing car wasn't safe enough for a baby to travel in (they gave her a $30,000 car none the less!). DH paid for his own car and I'm driving my own car which is literally falling apart right now!
DH and I had been busy saving every penny to buy a new house together. We just bought our dream house but we really struggled and saved for the down payment to get what we wanted. just found out last week that SIL also just got a new house- paid more than we did and guess who gave her the money for the entire down payment- DH's parents!!
I know that she's their daughter and they can give her whatever they choose, but it just feels like DH and I get overlooked time after time. My parents live overseas and are dealing with some major medical issues so his family is really all we have.
I know it's silly but I just see SIL blatantly using her baby to get what she wants. Don't get me wrong, we love our parents and they have helped us a great deal, just not to this extent. I also love my niece and I don't envy my SIL for having her- it's just everything seems a little rubbed in our faces if you can determine what I'm trying to say!
*Rant over! (Phew!)
I'm gonna commiserate with you for a second.
My DH's parents are the same way. Very wealthy and they RAIN money on their 2 daughters. Down payments for cars, gifts, etc etc.
Now that's all well and good - it's their money and they can do whatever they want with it. But it's hurtful to DH when they are so very generous with his sisters, yet barely invite us over for dinner 3x a year... and they live 10 minutes down the road.
Me: 34 DH: 35
Married 2010
TTC: Feb 2014, BFP 7/14/14, CP 7/18/14
BFP 3/10/15 - DD #1 born 11/19 TTC #2: Oct 2017, BFP 12/19/17, CP 12/22/17 BFP 2/20/18 - EDD 10/31/2018
That sucks @Jessie42613!! It's so difficult to allow yourself to be annoyed about it because it's DH's parents and like you said it's up to them to give what they want to their kids! It's just hard to not compare! I'm an only child so I don't have prior experience in this field!
My sister in law is pregnant with #2 and due in October. She likes to send me "your pregnancy this week" updates like "your baby now has eyes and is the size of a turnip..blah blah." I am happy for them because they did try for a long time (14 months) but she knows we are TTC and it just bus me the wrong way. Also she has impeccable timing and almost always txts me the day or day after a bfn. We are friends and I want to say somthing but DH says I'm being too sensitive. Besides I don't want to make her feel bad about being excited for her baby. I guess I'll just stew silently for the next 23 weeks.
Me: 28 - DH: 33 Married: Sept. 2012 Began TTC #1: Jan. 2015 BFP #1: July 2015, EDD 3/7/2016, Blighted Ovum, D&C at 12 weeks BFP #2: December 2015, EDD 8/27/2016, Blighted Ovum, D&C at 7 weeks BFP #3: August 2016, EDD 4/23/2017, Missed MC, D&C at 8 weeks BFP #4: January 2017, EDD 9/26/2017
My sister in law is pregnant with #2 and due in October. She likes to send me "your pregnancy this week" updates like "your baby now has eyes and is the size of a turnip..blah blah." I am happy for them because they did try for a long time (14 months) but she knows we are TTC and it just bus me the wrong way. Also she has impeccable timing and almost always txts me the day or day after a bfn. We are friends and I want to say somthing but DH says I'm being too sensitive. Besides I don't want to make her feel bad about being excited for her baby. I guess I'll just stew silently for the next 23 weeks.
You absolutely do NOT need to remain silent. And you are NOT being too sensitive.
I would bring it up with her. If you're friends then there is definitely a way you can mention it that she should understand. If she tried for 14 months then she should (even if it takes a little ah ha moment from you) get it. I would say something like "I am so incredibly excited for you and I want to be with you through this entire journey. But, do you remember how difficult it was each month to get that BFN after month and months of trying? That's kind of where I am right now. I'm really trying to stay positive and I am so excited for your new addition but I'm realizing that those little messages to me are starting to make me more sad than I thought they would. I'd love to chat with you in person about this stuff but I think it might be time to stop sending the updates."
If she gets it, she'll understand and stop. If not, then at least you spoke your mind and can feel better about it.
You should not have to put up with something that upsets you like that.
Wow, so sorry for everyone's losses! T&Ps with you!
As far as what bothered me this week, my sister had baby número dos. I'd first like to say I'm extremely happy for her & my BIL and I love, love my new niece. But that didn't mean it didn't take the "sting" out of seeing this precious LO & TTC for my own #2. Especially because she got pregnant 4 months after the birth of my nephew & only found out because she was needing dental surgery & needed to be 100% not pregnant before. Surprise, surprise. I got over it, but my heart ached for a few minutes. Now I'll go over to my corner & feel like a heartless sister..
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seashellz1223 I have a family member like that and it really frustrates the rest of us in the family. We just remind ourselves that because so many things come easy to them that it makes them a weaker person. We are stronger because we know how to fight and work hard for what we get. I promise it is worth it to not be a spoiled adult.
Hugs and pudding shots all around. Every time a preggo shoves a pee stick in your face just grab a bottle of wine and chug it right in front of her.
Today I went to my doctor so we could figure out what's going on with my constant bleeding during my luteal phase. It all went fine til the end when she said
Today I went to my doctor so we could figure out what's going on with my constant bleeding during my luteal phase. It all went fine til the end when she said
"Try to relax, sometimes that helps."
Definitely deserving of a throat punch.
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seashellz1223 I have a family member like that and it really frustrates the rest of us in the family. We just remind ourselves that because so many things come easy to them that it makes them a weaker person. We are stronger because we know how to fight and work hard for what we get. I promise it is worth it to not be a spoiled adult.
Hugs and pudding shots all around. Every time a preggo shoves a pee stick in your face just grab a bottle of wine and chug it right in front of her.
I'm so sorry for everyone's losses and bad experiences this week! Hugs all around!!
Ok here's what's getting to me-I have to get this off my chest & I feel guilty for thinking this way. I know it's pretty insignificant compared to some of the others!
My SIL had her baby a year ago- conceived on the honeymoon- of course! She and her husband had a big elaborate $30,000 plus wedding (she got engaged and married right after DH and I got married in Vegas- a wedding we paid for ourselves). DH's parents paid for her wedding entirely.
After she got pregnant DH's parents bought SIL a car because she told them her existing car wasn't safe enough for a baby to travel in (they gave her a $30,000 car none the less!). DH paid for his own car and I'm driving my own car which is literally falling apart right now!
DH and I had been busy saving every penny to buy a new house together. We just bought our dream house but we really struggled and saved for the down payment to get what we wanted. just found out last week that SIL also just got a new house- paid more than we did and guess who gave her the money for the entire down payment- DH's parents!!
I know that she's their daughter and they can give her whatever they choose, but it just feels like DH and I get overlooked time after time. My parents live overseas and are dealing with some major medical issues so his family is really all we have.
I know it's silly but I just see SIL blatantly using her baby to get what she wants. Don't get me wrong, we love our parents and they have helped us a great deal, just not to this extent. I also love my niece and I don't envy my SIL for having her- it's just everything seems a little rubbed in our faces if you can determine what I'm trying to say!
*Rant over! (Phew!)
I'm gonna commiserate with you for a second.
My DH's parents are the same way. Very wealthy and they RAIN money on their 2 daughters. Down payments for cars, gifts, etc etc.
Now that's all well and good - it's their money and they can do whatever they want with it. But it's hurtful to DH when they are so very generous with his sisters, yet barely invite us over for dinner 3x a year... and they live 10 minutes down the road.
DH family is the same, only they are all boys...
I think they just really do not like me since BIL's GF and GF's sister doesn't like me one bit.
Its really frustrating.
But this past week I've been sick and work allowed me to work from home since they needed stuff done that only I can do. Well I turned in my time sheet and they were like " why aren't you claiming your sick hours?"
I was like " cause I worked from home...." and they were like "really? to the amount of hours that it would have been at full time?" Which was really weird because I am salary not hourly.SO i was just like "yes..I did all my work for this week and turned it in on time.."
F U lady
>.<
AND DH will be working in the lab this whole weekend so I am lonely..
Today I went to my doctor so we could figure out what's going on with my constant bleeding during my luteal phase. It all went fine til the end when she said
"Try to relax, sometimes that helps."
Oh no she didn't!
I would have had a hard time not throwing some f words her way! And also some education. That's the worst thing someone can say to me. Oh, you're right, it's my fault I haven't been able to get pregnant yet. What a bitch.
Today I went to my doctor so we could figure out what's going on with my constant bleeding during my luteal phase. It all went fine til the end when she said
"Try to relax, sometimes that helps."
My response would have been: "Congrats, lady, you just lost yourself a patient." And then I'd walk out.
@kyleneum13 I'll have to dig into my faux-reos when I get home. Prob pair it with a glass of wine the size of my head.
@lovelychica1022 not a Subaru. I still drive my car from high school which is 99.89% of the problem. It's a Nissan. Looks like we'll be shelling out that down payment sooner than we hoped. Ugh.....
Every time I'm at my office and feeling frustrated or blah (which is often) I walk around the building and look at all the Mario character statues We have lots of them ... and a life-sized Mario kart in the lobby. And video games everywhere. I love my job.
Oh man! I'm so sorry ladies. My problems aren't anywhere near as bad.
DH turned 32 this week, and on Sunday we went shopping for "big boy" clothes. He's a software developer so all he really owns is a bunch of tees and jeans or shorts. While I was sitting around waiting for him to try on dress shirts and slacks my right ear completely went out. Both ears had been muffled since I've been sick for a couple of weeks, so I decided to go ahead and make an appointment to see my GP. Turns out I have an ear infection in both ears with the right one being "oh my!" bad. (Doc's words) O_o That was Monday. Still waiting for it to get better, but these antibiotics are taking their sweet time.
Now the worse for me is DS had tubes put in since he was getting an ear infection every other week and we were concerned with him taking so many antibiotics for another infection to show up immediately a week after stopping. After suffering two febrile seizures this year, the first one he ended up having RSV, pneumonia and the flu. With the second seizure he had croup. Well he ended up having an ear infection at his post op so he was back on antibiotics which he finished on Saturday. What do you know, Sunday he came home from the inlaw's house for his "Dom day", and he had the sniffles. I can understand springtime sniffles so we made sure to use his nasal rinse several times a day and he had his ENT follow up on Tuesday where everything looked great! Wednesday he vomited when we brought him to school so we immediately went home. He started running a fever later in the evening so we stayed up all night to be sure we could monitor him in case he had a seizure. Thankfully no seizure, but it looks like he has Strep and is back on antibiotics. >:P
Married 05.19.07 | Together since 03.11.00 | Dom Born 02.06.12
Thankfully no seizure, but it looks like he has Strep and is back on antibiotics. >:P
Start giving him kefir yogurt and get him on a pro biotic stat. My kids were getting sick constantly and my friend recommended probiotics and their immune systems are already much better.
I got an email from babycenter or something telling me "congrats! You're 12 weeks today!" F U babycenter. And I had a friend over today with her one year old and one month old and all she kept talking about was getting pregnant with BOTH of them while on bc. So that was super cool.
Thankfully no seizure, but it looks like he has Strep and is back on antibiotics. >:P
Start giving him kefir yogurt and get him on a pro biotic stat. My kids were getting sick constantly and my friend recommended probiotics and their immune systems are already much better.
@crogers19 We haven't tried kefir yogurt, but he's been taking the honest company probiotics for quite a while, and that made a world of difference with his bowels. I was thinking about trying their immunity boost, but I wanted to look more into the ingredients first. What are your thoughts on it? I can only remember elderberry right off, and I recognize tha,t but can't remember the others.
Married 05.19.07 | Together since 03.11.00 | Dom Born 02.06.12
I got an email from babycenter or something telling me "congrats! You're 12 weeks today!" F U babycenter. And I had a friend over today with her one year old and one month old and all she kept talking about was getting pregnant with BOTH of them while on bc. So that was super cool.
Super not cool. That's got to be the most frustrating thing.
Married 05.19.07 | Together since 03.11.00 | Dom Born 02.06.12
Every time I'm at my office and feeling frustrated or blah (which is often) I walk around the building and look at all the Mario character statues We have lots of them ... and a life-sized Mario kart in the lobby. And video games everywhere. I love my job.
Next time you are at work, will you please post pictures of these? Pretty please? I'm so jealy.
I got an email from babycenter or something telling me "congrats! You're 12 weeks today!" F U babycenter. And I had a friend over today with her one year old and one month old and all she kept talking about was getting pregnant with BOTH of them while on bc. So that was super cool.
I just got a 12 week one from the Bump this week. It sucks. It's bad enough I'm not pregnant anymore but we really don't need to rub it in.
My sister in law had a stillbirth at 36 weeks (umbilical cord wrapped around his neck) almost two years ago and babies r us sent her a happy birthday card when her son would have turned one. It was awful.
I am feeling the exact same way right now nicoash88. There have been so many people announcing pregnancies lately. Even my boss is pregnant and her news was a surprise to her. She was "done having kids" and definitely was not trying! I just found out last night that I friend of mine is pregnant. I'm so upset because she had said some things to me when she had not announced it yet such as, "don't you think it's too early to be taking ovulation medicines and seeing a doctor about fertility problems?" After this conversation with her I went to the doctor and he confirmed that I have a few issues that will make it harder for me to get pregnant. I was a little annoyed when she was telling me her thoughts at the time, but now I am so upset with her because she had no right to give her opinion or advice without having felt even a little bit of what I am feeling right now. I feel like I have no one in my life who can understand the heartbreak of having fertility issues. My mom, sister, and friends have had no trouble getting pregnant. They all tell me to "relax" and "let nature take its course" and I want to respond "SHUT UP!!!!" Lol
Hang in there, at least you have these message boards to vent and people to commiserate with!
Thankfully no seizure, but it looks like he has Strep and is back on antibiotics. >:P
Start giving him kefir yogurt and get him on a pro biotic stat. My kids were getting sick constantly and my friend recommended probiotics and their immune systems are already much better.
@crogers19 We haven't tried kefir yogurt, but he's been taking the honest company probiotics for quite a while, and that made a world of difference with his bowels. I was thinking about trying their immunity boost, but I wanted to look more into the ingredients first. What are your thoughts on it? I can only remember elderberry right off, and I recognize tha,t but can't remember the others.
@laura@smarterspam.com, kefir is great, its basically just a yogurt smoothie and i actually mix my kid's probiotic in there and they never know (and it has a small amount of probiotic, just not enough) . I am not familiar with the honest companies immune boost. My kid's and I take Probio5 from a company called Plexus Worldwide, and that has antifungals and enzymes in it that are really good for your immune system. If they do catch a bug I give them a dose of Zarbees Immune boost for three days and then stop. I dont feel comfortable giving "immune boost" products long term because the vitamin doses inside are higher and can make you sick in other ways. I do however love the Honest Company's eucalyptus bath cleaner, that stuff is great for cleaning off finger prints from windows.
I got an email from babycenter or something telling me "congrats! You're 12 weeks today!" F U babycenter. And I had a friend over today with her one year old and one month old and all she kept talking about was getting pregnant with BOTH of them while on bc. So that was super cool.
That sucks. I can't stand people who conceive #2 when #1 hasn't even had a birthday yet. They make me feel so inadequate.
I'm just cranky in general. We're in state testing season at work too which is making me extra angsty. The BFN this morning didn't help either.
I am in charge of our SBAC, and in gonna lose my mind soon. This is 30 times the work from previous years' tests (yes, I quantified it). I've been working from 6 am to anywhere from 7 to midnight for the last two weeks, and I've got 2 more. It sucks.
:: loss mentioned::
To all the girls with irritating coworkers, I'm sorry, I can unfortunately relate. To those with losses, creepy hugs. I relate to that, too. It's been almost 3 years for me. Insensitivity from others still gets me sometimes.
I got an email from babycenter or something telling me "congrats! You're 12 weeks today!" F U babycenter. And I had a friend over today with her one year old and one month old and all she kept talking about was getting pregnant with BOTH of them while on bc. So that was super cool.
I just got a 12 week one from the Bump this week. It sucks. It's bad enough I'm not pregnant anymore but we really don't need to rub it in.
My sister in law had a stillbirth at 36 weeks (umbilical cord wrapped around his neck) almost two years ago and babies r us sent her a happy birthday card when her son would have turned one. It was awful.
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@maddkatt2 sending good thoughts tour way
Ok here's what's getting to me-I have to get this off my chest & I feel guilty for thinking this way. I know it's pretty insignificant compared to some of the others!
My SIL had her baby a year ago- conceived on the honeymoon- of course! She and her husband had a big elaborate $30,000 plus wedding (she got engaged and married right after DH and I got married in Vegas- a wedding we paid for ourselves). DH's parents paid for her wedding entirely.
After she got pregnant DH's parents bought SIL a car because she told them her existing car wasn't safe enough for a baby to travel in (they gave her a $30,000 car none the less!). DH paid for his own car and I'm driving my own car which is literally falling apart right now!
DH and I had been busy saving every penny to buy a new house together. We just bought our dream house but we really struggled and saved for the down payment to get what we wanted. just found out last week that SIL also just got a new house- paid more than we did and guess who gave her the money for the entire down payment- DH's parents!!
I know that she's their daughter and they can give her whatever they choose, but it just feels like DH and I get overlooked time after time. My parents live overseas and are dealing with some major medical issues so his family is really all we have.
I know it's silly but I just see SIL blatantly using her baby to get what she wants. Don't get me wrong, we love our parents and they have helped us a great deal, just not to this extent. I also love my niece and I don't envy my SIL for having her- it's just everything seems a little rubbed in our faces if you can determine what I'm trying to say!
*Rant over! (Phew!)
Me 31 DH 41
TTC #2: Oct 2017, BFP 12/19/17, CP 12/22/17
BFP 2/20/18 - EDD 10/31/2018
Me 31 DH 41
Married: Sept. 2012
Began TTC #1: Jan. 2015
BFP #1: July 2015, EDD 3/7/2016, Blighted Ovum, D&C at 12 weeks
BFP #2: December 2015, EDD 8/27/2016, Blighted Ovum, D&C at 7 weeks
BFP #3: August 2016, EDD 4/23/2017, Missed MC, D&C at 8 weeks
BFP #4: January 2017, EDD 9/26/2017
As far as what bothered me this week, my sister had baby número dos. I'd first like to say I'm extremely happy for her & my BIL and I love, love my new niece. But that didn't mean it didn't take the "sting" out of seeing this precious LO & TTC for my own #2. Especially because she got pregnant 4 months after the birth of my nephew & only found out because she was needing dental surgery & needed to be 100% not pregnant before. Surprise, surprise. I got over it, but my heart ached for a few minutes. Now I'll go over to my corner & feel like a heartless sister..
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DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
"Try to relax, sometimes that helps."
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DD: 10/17/13
TTC#2 Actively: 10/14, NTNP: 01/14
Left-Sided Hydrosalpinx (cause: genetic abnormality, TREATED 11/16)
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/396b04
Ugh! @Jags8 my doctor said something similar to me a couple of weeks ago!! I gave him the side eye! :-L
Me 31 DH 41
I would have had a hard time not throwing some f words her way! And also some education. That's the worst thing someone can say to me. Oh, you're right, it's my fault I haven't been able to get pregnant yet. What a bitch.
Me: 32 Hubby: 31
Married 12/29/12
Started TTC July 2014
Miscarriage August 2014
Emmett born February 2016
Expecting Baby #2 in August 2017
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/544e80
@lovelychica1022 not a Subaru. I still drive my car from high school which is 99.89% of the problem. It's a Nissan. Looks like we'll be shelling out that down payment sooner than we hoped. Ugh.....
Bottoms up ladies!
Me: 32 Hubby: 31
Married 12/29/12
Started TTC July 2014
Miscarriage August 2014
Emmett born February 2016
Expecting Baby #2 in August 2017
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/544e80
Me: 32 Hubby: 31
Married 12/29/12
Started TTC July 2014
Miscarriage August 2014
Emmett born February 2016
Expecting Baby #2 in August 2017
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/544e80
TTC #1 - Nov '14
DS born 10/18
Pinot noir and Dr. Mario to the rescue!
Me: 32 Hubby: 31
Married 12/29/12
Started TTC July 2014
Miscarriage August 2014
Emmett born February 2016
Expecting Baby #2 in August 2017
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/544e80
DH turned 32 this week, and on Sunday we went shopping for "big boy" clothes. He's a software developer so all he really owns is a bunch of tees and jeans or shorts.
While I was sitting around waiting for him to try on dress shirts and slacks my right ear completely went out. Both ears had been muffled since I've been sick for a couple of weeks, so I decided to go ahead and make an appointment to see my GP. Turns out I have an ear infection in both ears with the right one being "oh my!" bad. (Doc's words)
O_o
That was Monday. Still waiting for it to get better, but these antibiotics are taking their sweet time.
Now the worse for me is DS had tubes put in since he was getting an ear infection every other week and we were concerned with him taking so many antibiotics for another infection to show up immediately a week after stopping. After suffering two febrile seizures this year, the first one he ended up having RSV, pneumonia and the flu. With the second seizure he had croup. Well he ended up having an ear infection at his post op so he was back on antibiotics which he finished on Saturday. What do you know, Sunday he came home from the inlaw's house for his "Dom day", and he had the sniffles. I can understand springtime sniffles so we made sure to use his nasal rinse several times a day and he had his ENT follow up on Tuesday where everything looked great! Wednesday he vomited when we brought him to school so we immediately went home. He started running a fever later in the evening so we stayed up all night to be sure we could monitor him in case he had a seizure. Thankfully no seizure, but it looks like he has Strep and is back on antibiotics. >:P
My sister in law had a stillbirth at 36 weeks (umbilical cord wrapped around his neck) almost two years ago and babies r us sent her a happy birthday card when her son would have turned one. It was awful.
I do however love the Honest Company's eucalyptus bath cleaner, that stuff is great for cleaning off finger prints from windows.
That sucks. I can't stand people who conceive #2 when #1 hasn't even had a birthday yet. They make me feel so inadequate.
:: loss mentioned::
To all the girls with irritating coworkers, I'm sorry, I can unfortunately relate. To those with losses, creepy hugs. I relate to that, too. It's been almost 3 years for me. Insensitivity from others still gets me sometimes.
BFP#1 "Watermelon" born 3/2011
BFP#2 "Pumpkin" 7/14/12 ~ EDD 3/23/13 ~ Natural M/C 8/3/12 @ 7 weeks
BFP#3 "Pineapple" born 4/2013
BFP#4 "Grapefruit" EDD 3/29/16
That is so awful. I can't even imagine.