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Not liking the discussions about miscarriage...

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Re: Not liking the discussions about miscarriage...

  • LSRooLSRoo member
    edited April 2015
    peachmuffins said:

    EllaStaxx said:

    peachmuffins said:

    EllaStaxx said:

    peachmuffins said:

    The official board bully booberry is taking down peoples usernames so she can hunt us down and passive agressively harass us later, like bullies like to do when someone is outlandish enough to have a different opinion, i would document every nasty reply she makes to you from now on and report her and her band of mean girls for harassment from now on.

    Here we go throwing around the word bully again.
    My experience with bullies is that they get all put out at the WORD bully like its not real. Just... Like you just did right there.
    No what you are doing is down playing the actual problem this world has with bullying. Simply saying you find someone's post offensive and wrong is not bullying.
    No, but telling the original poster to not read stuff she doesn't like and not comment on it and then clicking on her post specifically to flame her is hypocritical and it's bullying. Take your own advice ladies.
    Who is flaming her? It's not realistic to tell people to not share about a loss. If it makes her so uncomfortable then she shouldn't open the posts.
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  • leslie523leslie523 member
    I think again I said pages ago and what lots of other women said throughout these posts, it's the title and the way she said it that's offensive to those who have lost. Many people are uncomfortable talking about miscarriage, maybe asking how to handle the fears of miscarriage would have been less inflamatory and more like to get a discussion about it going instead of a bunch of hormonal frustrated stressed out women going to town.
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  • LauraiaqLauraiaq member
    Listen this has been taken to far I was just saying that for someone who has experienced loss and knows how terrible it is (it wasn't early in my pregnancy either) to have it there and in your face everyday as a reminder of whats a very good chance of happening again is upsetting when all you want to do to get through a day is think positively.. Again sorry for putting my feelings out there... I apologize to anyone who may have been offended.. 
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  • peachmuffinspeachmuffins member
    EllaStaxx said:

    peachmuffins said:

    EllaStaxx said:

    peachmuffins said:

    EllaStaxx said:

    peachmuffins said:

    The official board bully booberry is taking down peoples usernames so she can hunt us down and passive agressively harass us later, like bullies like to do when someone is outlandish enough to have a different opinion, i would document every nasty reply she makes to you from now on and report her and her band of mean girls for harassment from now on.

    Here we go throwing around the word bully again.
    My experience with bullies is that they get all put out at the WORD bully like its not real. Just... Like you just did right there.
    No what you are doing is down playing the actual problem this world has with bullying. Simply saying you find someone's post offensive and wrong is not bullying.
    No, but telling the original poster to not read stuff she doesn't like and not comment on it and then clicking on her post specifically to flame her is hypocritical and it's bullying. Take your own advice ladies.
    Who is flaming her? It's not realistic to tell people to now share about a loss. If it makes her so uncomfortable then she shouldn't open the posts.
    then why are you opening posts that you know you're probably going to not like? It is realistic, its just an unpopular opinion. She didnt say "you better not post"... She said" maybe there should be a separate spot" at no point did she demand the posts stop.
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  • LSRooLSRoo member
    peachmuffins said:

    EllaStaxx said:

    peachmuffins said:

    EllaStaxx said:

    peachmuffins said:

    EllaStaxx said:

    peachmuffins said:

    The official board bully booberry is taking down peoples usernames so she can hunt us down and passive agressively harass us later, like bullies like to do when someone is outlandish enough to have a different opinion, i would document every nasty reply she makes to you from now on and report her and her band of mean girls for harassment from now on.

    Here we go throwing around the word bully again.
    My experience with bullies is that they get all put out at the WORD bully like its not real. Just... Like you just did right there.
    No what you are doing is down playing the actual problem this world has with bullying. Simply saying you find someone's post offensive and wrong is not bullying.
    No, but telling the original poster to not read stuff she doesn't like and not comment on it and then clicking on her post specifically to flame her is hypocritical and it's bullying. Take your own advice ladies.
    Who is flaming her? It's not realistic to tell people to now share about a loss. If it makes her so uncomfortable then she shouldn't open the posts.
    then why are you opening posts that you know you're probably going to not like? It is realistic, its just an unpopular opinion. She didnt say "you better not post"... She said" maybe there should be a separate spot" at no point did she demand the posts stop.
    Because I, unlike OP, am not uncomfortable about things on the Internet. I will open them and share my opinion. If I disagree with someone I am going to let it be known. I am not someone who avoids posts because I don't like it or it "gives me anxiety". Nope.
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  • peachmuffinspeachmuffins member
    BooBerry137 said:

    peachmuffins said:

    BooBerry137 said:

    peachmuffins said:

    The official board bully booberry is taking down peoples usernames so she can hunt us down and passive agressively harass us later, like bullies like to do when someone is outlandish enough to have a different opinion, i would document every nasty reply she makes to you from now on and report her and her band of mean girls for harassment from now on.

    You do realize that what you are suggesting is, in fact, harrassment and against the TOU.  

    The post-it comment is a very long-standing joke around TB.  
    It's not harassment if there's a legitimate grounds to report you for bullying and harassment. So now you're trying to bully me into NOT reporting you?
    Except that you are the one harrassing me and calling me names.  
    100% of the time there is drama on these boards you are right in the middle of it stirring it up even more. And then when you get called on it you pretend to take the highroad and now you're somehow the victim. Don't sit around and stir it up and then act like somehow you're some sort of innocent bystander.
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  • peachmuffinspeachmuffins member
    BooBerry137 said:

    peachmuffins said:

    BooBerry137 said:

    peachmuffins said:

    BooBerry137 said:

    peachmuffins said:

    The official board bully booberry is taking down peoples usernames so she can hunt us down and passive agressively harass us later, like bullies like to do when someone is outlandish enough to have a different opinion, i would document every nasty reply she makes to you from now on and report her and her band of mean girls for harassment from now on.

    You do realize that what you are suggesting is, in fact, harrassment and against the TOU.  

    The post-it comment is a very long-standing joke around TB.  
    It's not harassment if there's a legitimate grounds to report you for bullying and harassment. So now you're trying to bully me into NOT reporting you?
    Except that you are the one harrassing me and calling me names.  
    100% of the time there is drama on these boards you are right in the middle of it stirring it up even more. And then when you get called on it you pretend to take the highroad and now you're somehow the victim. Don't sit around and stir it up and then act like somehow you're some sort of innocent bystander.
    Why are you so obsessed with me?
    I could ask you the same thing. You're the one that has my name on a post it note, figurative or otherwise.
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  • LSRooLSRoo member
    BooBerry137 said:

    peachmuffins said:

    BooBerry137 said:

    peachmuffins said:

    BooBerry137 said:

    peachmuffins said:

    The official board bully booberry is taking down peoples usernames so she can hunt us down and passive agressively harass us later, like bullies like to do when someone is outlandish enough to have a different opinion, i would document every nasty reply she makes to you from now on and report her and her band of mean girls for harassment from now on.

    You do realize that what you are suggesting is, in fact, harrassment and against the TOU.  

    The post-it comment is a very long-standing joke around TB.  
    It's not harassment if there's a legitimate grounds to report you for bullying and harassment. So now you're trying to bully me into NOT reporting you?
    Except that you are the one harrassing me and calling me names.  
    100% of the time there is drama on these boards you are right in the middle of it stirring it up even more. And then when you get called on it you pretend to take the highroad and now you're somehow the victim. Don't sit around and stir it up and then act like somehow you're some sort of innocent bystander.
    Why are you so obsessed with me?
    I was wondering the same thing.
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  • BooBerry137BooBerry137 member
    peachmuffins said:

    BooBerry137 said:

    peachmuffins said:

    BooBerry137 said:

    peachmuffins said:

    BooBerry137 said:

    peachmuffins said:

    The official board bully booberry is taking down peoples usernames so she can hunt us down and passive agressively harass us later, like bullies like to do when someone is outlandish enough to have a different opinion, i would document every nasty reply she makes to you from now on and report her and her band of mean girls for harassment from now on.

    You do realize that what you are suggesting is, in fact, harrassment and against the TOU.  

    The post-it comment is a very long-standing joke around TB.  
    It's not harassment if there's a legitimate grounds to report you for bullying and harassment. So now you're trying to bully me into NOT reporting you?
    Except that you are the one harrassing me and calling me names.  
    100% of the time there is drama on these boards you are right in the middle of it stirring it up even more. And then when you get called on it you pretend to take the highroad and now you're somehow the victim. Don't sit around and stir it up and then act like somehow you're some sort of innocent bystander.
    Why are you so obsessed with me?
    I could ask you the same thing. You're the one that has my name on a post it note, figurative or otherwise.
    This is the second or third post you've tracked me down in and called me out on.
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  • birdieMilabirdieMila member
    I like peachmuffins
    You go girl
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  • oliarnmom1517oliarnmom1517 member
    This has gotten way out of hand...why do a lot of post turn into to arguments and then by them becoming arguments it makes people want to leave the bump and not post what's going on..
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  • peachmuffinspeachmuffins member
    Im done with the bump at this point. Hope everyone has a good pregnancy.
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  • LauraiaqLauraiaq member
    I had one at 23, 25 (which is the one I got to 5 months with) and now I am pregnant again at 29 which has taken me 3 yrs of trying just because I would prefer not to be constantly reminded about my loss doesn't make me a bad person.
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  • oliarnmom1517oliarnmom1517 member
    Well how about this...get over those bumps in the road and keep going...I don't like reading about them either but that doesn't mean that they don't have the right to say something... Yes you have the right to post but just because it makes you hurt doesn't mean they shouldn't be able to post about something that you say you have gone through...you should know that and you of all people should help support those women and try to lift there spirits instead of trying to say they can't post what they want...
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  • Liberty1025Liberty1025 member
    This isn't the first GBCB, is it? (goodbye Cruel Bump)
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  • LSRooLSRoo member
    GBCB !
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  • Pontot31Pontot31 member
    Damn I give my kid a bath and miss 60+ posts on this! Wow. Just wow. That's all I can say.
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  • DogLoverX3DogLoverX3 member
    WhyDidMufasaHaveToDie said:

    So....


    Why did MUFASA have to die?

    I don't know, but I don't like to watch that movie and REFUSE to watch that part because WTF?!
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  • LizQ2LizQ2 member
    Pontot31 said:

    Damn I give my kid a bath and miss 60+ posts on this! Wow. Just wow. That's all I can say.

    Right? Good god we have some real treasures on this board. Boo Berry can I sit at your lunch table?


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  • leslie523leslie523 member
    WhyDidMufasaHaveToDie said:

    LizQ2 said:

    Pontot31 said:

    Damn I give my kid a bath and miss 60+ posts on this! Wow. Just wow. That's all I can say.

    Right? Good god we have some real treasures on this board. Boo Berry can I sit at your lunch table?
    Please add a seat for Mufasa
    Been told repeatedly I should be wearing pink tomorrow...so may I join your table?
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  • birdieMilabirdieMila member
    LizQ2 said:

    Pontot31 said:

    Damn I give my kid a bath and miss 60+ posts on this! Wow. Just wow. That's all I can say.

    Right? Good god we have some real treasures on this board. Boo Berry can I sit at your lunch table?
    That would be alot more interesting lunch then at my work :D
    Do they have popcorn ?
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  • pink*sheeppink*sheep member
    Lauraiaq said:

    Listen this has been taken to far I was just saying that for someone who has experienced loss and knows how terrible it is (it wasn't early in my pregnancy either) to have it there and in your face everyday as a reminder of whats a very good chance of happening again is upsetting when all you want to do to get through a day is think positively.. Again sorry for putting my feelings out there... I apologize to anyone who may have been offended.. 

    I think the tizzy was because you said you don't think they should post that subject on this board, not because it's a difficult subject for you to deal with. I wish I had posted more on my previous board (f15) before my loss, because the loss board was very difficult, and I never felt comfortable posting. Esp when I went to ttcal; it was overwhelming.

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  • Kanne0729Kanne0729 member
    It's a sad reality and if you can't handle reading it then dont, but these women that are posting about it are living through it and need support more than anyone now. Just because you don't like seeing it doesn't mean that they should have to go to a separate board for it since they have been here since the beginning just like you. Deal with it or don't read it, it's as simple as that.
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