Hello all! I am sooo torn between using cloth diapers or disposable. I feel like I go back and forth every day! I will be staying home after baby is here. How do you other moms feel?
only thing I will say is make sure you have a higher end washing machine that can sanitize !! some times the lower ends washers don't get hot enough and you can't use bleach so it makes it tough sometimes with cloth. I love cloth diapering
Im interested in cloth diapering FTM so Im seeking info on it. Can you ladies please share your experiences when you first began cloth diapering, advice, tips? Also, how do you handle changing your baby's cloth when out & about?
Haha! I am on the fence partially because of that AND my husband would NEVER be able to handle cloth diapering. The site of poop is horrid to him. I wouldn't want to make my chances of him changing a poopy diaper less likely. )
I'm going cloth. I figure I'm going to be home anyways and my best friend is huge fan of them and buying me 30 of them in different styles as my shower gift.
Im interested in cloth diapering FTM so Im seeking info on it. Can you ladies please share your experiences when you first began cloth diapering, advice, tips? Also, how do you handle changing your baby's cloth when out & about?
I'm a FTM too but some of my friends that clothed would have a wet bag that they would take with them or put the cloth diaper in a plastic bag until they got home. Another thing they would do is use disposable when out and about for extended periods of time!
I'm going cloth. I figure I'm going to be home anyways and my best friend is huge fan of them and buying me 30 of them in different styles as my shower gift.
We started cloth diapering when my first was 8 months. Now I have two kiddos in cloth. I was really hesitant at first, but it was way easier than I thought it would be! I never needed a sprayer, and it was less gross than I thought it'd be too. There are certain detergents you should use though, not all are CD safe. We do cloth diaper laundry every other day usually. We just keep the dirty ones in a small metal trash can, the kind with a lid. And we strip them every few months if they start to stink. Oh & you have to prep them when you first get them--how depends on what kind you have. I boil our inserts. We bought most of ours off of Facebook coops, they were a lot cheaper that way. We really like Alvas & Sunbaby. When we are out, we bring a wet bag. Or just use disposables if we will be gone all day. I also keep a couple in a plastic bag in my trunk, just in case.
We started cloth diapering when my first was 8 months. Now I have two kiddos in cloth. I was really hesitant at first, but it was way easier than I thought it would be! I never needed a sprayer, and it was less gross than I thought it'd be too. There are certain detergents you should use though, not all are CD safe. We do cloth diaper laundry every other day usually. We just keep the dirty ones in a small metal trash can, the kind with a lid. And we strip them every few months if they start to stink. Oh & you have to prep them when you first get them--how depends on what kind you have. I boil our inserts. We bought most of ours off of Facebook coops, they were a lot cheaper that way. We really like Alvas & Sunbaby. When we are out, we bring a wet bag. Or just use disposables if we will be gone all day. I also keep a couple in a plastic bag in my trunk, just in case.
There is another thread on this subject with a LOT of responses, you should definitely look that up, and look up Fuzzibunz, their website has a lot of great tips on how to use and such. Also Young House Love blog has a big article about their use with cloth. That's where I got my inspiration from. I got 24 Fuzzibunz for my son, a sprayer attachment for my toilet, a step garbage can with a wet bag and small zip wet bags for my diaper bag. They are very easy to use, and I will be using them again!
There is another thread on this subject with a LOT of responses, you should definitely look that up, and look up Fuzzibunz, their website has a lot of great tips on how to use and such. Also Young House Love blog has a big article about their use with cloth. That's where I got my inspiration from. I got 24 Fuzzibunz for my son, a sprayer attachment for my toilet, a step garbage can with a wet bag and small zip wet bags for my diaper bag. They are very easy to use, and I will be using them again!
I will definitely try to find that thread! Thank you for all the resources
We cloth diapered our first at 8 months. Loved it. I used mainly prefolds with a cover and pockets. Then with baby #2 I decided I wanted to do it from day 1. Bought a whole stash of nb diapers. Eh it was good but really I would wait until they fit in a one size. It's just easier. Watch different sites for sales. I use Kelly's closet and usually only order from there because I get points and have placed orders sometimes that get triple points. Best sales are Black Friday. This time with baby #3 I'm going to do disposables until I can order Black Friday unless I see amazing sales before then. Or if I happen to find out Tuesday this baby is a girl (my first two are boys) there are two girly prints I'm in love with. I've used prefolds, pockets, all in ones and fitters. I would try a little of each to see what you want. You'd be surprised cloth diapers hold their value. So you could sell what you see you don't like. Now i mainly use pockets and a few all in ones. When our kids start sleeping through the night we do disposables then because I've never found a perfect night time cloth. Sorry for the long post
If you breastfeed exclusively you don't need to worry about the poop. It's liquid and washes out. Hanging diapers outside sanitizes and naturally whitens any stains.
It's when they become toddlers and eat food that the poop becomes really nasty.
I use Sunbaby diapers. I've tried a ton of diapers and my cheapies have gone through three babies (and counting). I did have one Blueberry that I LOVED as well.
As far as laundry: cloth diaper laundry is fun laundry. Cloth can be addictive, seriously.
We have cloth diapered for over 2 years now. We exclusively cloth even while out and about. My advice would be to buy some different styles and brands of diapers. I loved Prefolds with a Snappi and a Thirsties cover for at home during the first few months because of how many diapers you go through. We now use pockets for daytime and fitteds with wool longies for nighttime.
As for washing. You can use any deterrent that doesn't contain fabric softener. Tide powder is best for hard water.
Find out what type of water you have. That can be done with a $1 water test strip from the hardware store.
We store ours in a white trash can with the lid off. Air flow keeps the smell at bay
We have a diaper sprayer for when we hit solid food stage and a SprayPal is a lifesaver for spraying diapers.
There is a 7 part cloth diapering series on YouTube that pretty informative. It's called cloth diapering 101.
There is a slight learning curve at first for it's pretty easy to catch on. My Df was adiment that we he wasn't going to cloth diaper. Then after the first diaper changes he realized it wasn't as bad as he thought.
And be ready for If you decide to cloth the looks and responses people will give you. they don't realize new modern cloth diapering isn't like it use to be.
Also there are a few very good cloth diapering laundry groups on facebook that are amazing and have great advice. I have helped troubleshoot so many laundry problems and fix them so if you have any questions you can message me.
I started part time when my first was 2 months old and then switched to full time at 4 months. My son, our second was 100% cloth diapered from day one to the day he potty trained. He even spent 3 weeks in the hospital at 4 months and I was still able to cloth diaper him that whole time. DH was hesitant at first, but even he found them easier to deal with. I hope to 100% cloth diaper this baby too.
I am really squeamish about bodily fluids but I love cloth diapering!! It's not nearly as messy as you'd think!
I use soft bums because they fit right from birth to potty training. They also have shells and pads which is useful as the shell can be reused several times before it needs washing (so you need a smaller supply).
I use bummis liners in the diapers to catch the poos. I flick the poo in the toilet and throw the liner in the trash. much easier to clean and Saves the diaper getting all disgusting!
It depends on what you are looking for? For the first couple of months after birth I loved prefds rolled the jolly fold roll pinned with a Snappi with a Thirsties cover. But favorite diapers vary depending on baby size, body build and your preferences. My advice is purchase a variety of different ones to try out. What doesn't work you can always resale. As most diapers hold their value pretty well. And buy from a highly recommended company like Diaperjunction.com or Kelly closet or nickis diapers or green mountain diapers. You can build loyalty points and use those to buy free predicts. It's how I got my ergo for $7.
I love cloth diapers! You don't have to touch poop any more than with disposable. We started from birth with #1, plan to do the same this time. My favourite from birth were Kissas fleece fitteds with a Rumparooz cover, or lil joeys all in ones (for DH and family). I also have prefolds and wahm fitteds. I found newborn diapering the easiest time. Cloth holds explosive poops really well, and the poop is water soluble until starting solids, so you don't have to do anything special. We used flushable liners after starting solids.
Any detergent without softener can be used, liquid detergents can cause build up. We use Nellie's powder, also liked Rockin Green, but it's pricier.
I recommend trying out a few different styles before buying your one size diapers, to find out what you like using and what fits baby best. We ended up using pockets (rumparooz, happy Heiny, bum genius and Fuzzibunz elite) for on the go and daycare, fitteds at home (twinkie tush, bububebe, sloomb) with wool covers. I tried over 15 brands, which was overkill, but I just sold the ones I didn't like as much.
And sure, it's cost effective (I'm diapering baby #2 for $100) and better for the environment, but I did it mostly for the cute factor
@WDDCH I actually prefer the solid poops! Think they're easier to clean
OP we've used both Rockin Green & Charlie's. I like them both. We get them on Amazon. I think you can use Original Tide too, which might be easier to find.
Third baby but first time I am going to go cloth. We were in a rental before and the washing machine was ancient. I am excited to make the switch, but my two cents: I like the pee strip on the newborn disposable diapers. I plan on going over to cloth once we are past the newborn size.
As a FTM....I thought I wanted to do cloth....then my SIL gave birth and she is breast feeding....seeing her with her new born gave me the thought about cloth diapers "ain't nobody got time for that" lol maybe I would use them when LO gets a bit older but right now it seems like too much work lol
I didnt read other answers since I might be on a short nap time table here but ...
If you want to try cloth - I say go for it! You could even see if there is a cloth diaper service in your area that you could give a trial run with for a few weeks before completely committing.
We started out using the flip system, and while I loved it for a while - I actually become more fond of just a great cover and prefold. I dont care for all in ones for day time use - as I like being able to reuse the cover if its still clean. I really LOVE Best bottom covers - they have a leg gusset, they are thick, they wash well and just overall hold up well. We have never had a leak with them. I also love that I can use various inserts with them. A prefold + cover is probably the cheapest route - since you dont need as many covers as you do diapers (an all in one you need a whole diaper for every change (think of it as a disposable that you wash).
This will be baby 3 that we will cloth. Being we thought we were done at 2, I sold off our newborn stash and used the inserts as cleaning rags - so until baby fits into regular size stuff around 10-13lbs, we will be in disposable since I do not want to rebuy stuff again
And its super easy. You get into a routine for washing and all that very quickly.
I'm a FTM, and we are going to be doing cloth and the Honest Company disposables. Cloth ones at home, visits to grandma and grandpa's then disposables on vacations and longer trips out of the house. We find that it will be cheaper in the long run. I've also been looking at the all in ones, or all in twos. I don't want to have to fiddle with those inserts etc. They say that the all in ones are most like disposables.
@toderiukt I think I am going to go the route of cloth majority of the time and disposable as needed. I am thinking about using bambo nature for disposables. I think for cloth I will try the all in twos and pocket diapers. I'm excited!
@WDDCH I actually prefer the solid poops! Think they're easier to clean.
Yeah those are easy to dump and flush. I am thinking more about the PB consistenty ones. My babies tend to eat a lot of fruit and have some mushier poo.
We're doing cloth primarily because I am terrified of the state of the environment and I want our LO and their kids to have somewhere to live! Piling a landfill full of thousands of sh*t-filled diapers isn't very kind to them in my opinion
If you're concerned about what to do when you're out, consider pocket diapers with disposable inserts that you can use occasionally. That's what we're doing!
I'm too lazy to use cloth...I wish I weren't, I know it's better for the environment and they are cute too! I just know I'd be cursing myself for adding even more laundry to my life! Good luck!
I cloth diapered my DS & loved it. It Was more of an obsession, lol. I did sposies with DD because I didn't have access to a washing machine for a while, but I'm seriously considering rebuying a stash.
We did a mix of both the first time and plan to again this time. We also did Elimination Communication.
Me: 32, DH: 33 DS #1: April 2010 DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis
FTM here, and I wasn't considering cloth until I read a previous thread here on the September 15 board about it a couple months ago. So many of the moms who commented raved about cloth. We decided to go cloth after doing some research. We like the idea of not adding to landfill waste. I also did some math on the cost of disposables, and we liked how much money we can save by going with cloth. We're doing cloth wipes as well. The daycare we plan to use for our baby will use cloth diapers we provide, so that will limit our use of disposable. I think for extended trips, we'll use disposable diapers.
We'd like to do cloth if possible. We don't have a real washer/dryer of our own, but have a hand-powered WonderWash from Laundry Alternative. FTM, but many reviews say that it's good for cloth diapers. We might do disposable inserts, and we'll see how it goes at daycare (we do live in the crunchy Bay Area, so I'm hoping it won't be a crazy request).
Re: Cloth vs Disposable
There are certain detergents you should use though, not all are CD safe. We do cloth diaper laundry every other day usually. We just keep the dirty ones in a small metal trash can, the kind with a lid. And we strip them every few months if they start to stink. Oh & you have to prep them when you first get them--how depends on what kind you have. I boil our inserts.
We bought most of ours off of Facebook coops, they were a lot cheaper that way. We really like Alvas & Sunbaby.
When we are out, we bring a wet bag. Or just use disposables if we will be gone all day. I also keep a couple in a plastic bag in my trunk, just in case.
It's when they become toddlers and eat food that the poop becomes really nasty.
I use Sunbaby diapers. I've tried a ton of diapers and my cheapies have gone through three babies (and counting). I did have one Blueberry that I LOVED as well.
As far as laundry: cloth diaper laundry is fun laundry. Cloth can be addictive, seriously.
As for washing. You can use any deterrent that doesn't contain fabric softener. Tide powder is best for hard water.
Find out what type of water you have. That can be done with a $1 water test strip from the hardware store.
We store ours in a white trash can with the lid off. Air flow keeps the smell at bay
We have a diaper sprayer for when we hit solid food stage and a SprayPal is a lifesaver for spraying diapers.
There is a 7 part cloth diapering series on YouTube that pretty informative. It's called cloth diapering 101.
There is a slight learning curve at first for it's pretty easy to catch on. My Df was adiment that we he wasn't going to cloth diaper. Then after the first diaper changes he realized it wasn't as bad as he thought.
And be ready for
If you decide to cloth the looks and responses people will give you. they don't realize new modern cloth diapering isn't like it use to be.
Also there are a few very good cloth diapering laundry groups on facebook that are amazing and have great advice. I have helped troubleshoot so many laundry problems and fix them so if you have any questions you can message me.
I use soft bums because they fit right from birth to potty training. They also have shells and pads which is useful as the shell can be reused several times before it needs washing (so you need a smaller supply).
I use bummis liners in the diapers to catch the poos. I flick the poo in the toilet and throw the liner in the trash. much easier to clean and Saves the diaper getting all disgusting!
Any detergent without softener can be used, liquid detergents can cause build up. We use Nellie's powder, also liked Rockin Green, but it's pricier.
I recommend trying out a few different styles before buying your one size diapers, to find out what you like using and what fits baby best. We ended up using pockets (rumparooz, happy Heiny, bum genius and Fuzzibunz elite) for on the go and daycare, fitteds at home (twinkie tush, bububebe, sloomb) with wool covers. I tried over 15 brands, which was overkill, but I just sold the ones I didn't like as much.
And sure, it's cost effective (I'm diapering baby #2 for $100) and better for the environment, but I did it mostly for the cute factor
OP we've used both Rockin Green & Charlie's. I like them both. We get them on Amazon. I think you can use Original Tide too, which might be easier to find.
Don't like poo haha
If you want to try cloth - I say go for it! You could even see if there is a cloth diaper service in your area that you could give a trial run with for a few weeks before completely committing.
We started out using the flip system, and while I loved it for a while - I actually become more fond of just a great cover and prefold. I dont care for all in ones for day time use - as I like being able to reuse the cover if its still clean. I really LOVE Best bottom covers - they have a leg gusset, they are thick, they wash well and just overall hold up well. We have never had a leak with them. I also love that I can use various inserts with them. A prefold + cover is probably the cheapest route - since you dont need as many covers as you do diapers (an all in one you need a whole diaper for every change (think of it as a disposable that you wash).
This will be baby 3 that we will cloth. Being we thought we were done at 2, I sold off our newborn stash and used the inserts as cleaning rags - so until baby fits into regular size stuff around 10-13lbs, we will be in disposable since I do not want to rebuy stuff again
And its super easy. You get into a routine for washing and all that very quickly.
If you're concerned about what to do when you're out, consider pocket diapers with disposable inserts that you can use occasionally. That's what we're doing!
Plus cloth are SO much cheaper!
Was more of an obsession, lol. I did sposies with DD because I didn't have access to a washing machine for a while, but I'm seriously considering rebuying a stash.
DS #1: April 2010
DS #2: July 2015 (preemie born at 31 weeks) - our little miracle conceived through ART - unexplained secondary infertility/adenomyosis