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August 2015 Moms
AuroraUK
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Don't feel pregnant
AuroraUK
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I'm about 10weeks along & compared to my last pregnancy I just don't 'feel' pregnant. I'm confused because my last pregnancy was so different.
I've had absolutely no sickness whatsoever this time round and no heartburn. No instinctive feeling towards the baby being either sex. When I was pregnant with my daughter I could barely talk incase I was sick everywhere & kept dreaming every night that my baby was going to be a girl.
I don't know if it's because I sadly had a MC in November 2014.
I only had intercourse one time on the 8th of December then found out 12 days later I was pregnant again? It's so confusing my midwife didn't believe I could be pregnant so soon & thought it was hormones from the previous pregnancy but when my blood tests came back it was obvious I was pregnant again. I was charting my temps on FF.
Even BD is finding it difficult to believe. The only symptoms I have are painfull breasts, being unbelievably tired & extremely bored.
I know each pregnancy is different but this is soo different it doesn't feel real. I'll get my dating scan on the 16th of feb so maybe once I see the baby it'll all feel real.
Or maybe I don't want to get too excited about it all incase the same thing happens
?! I don't know.
Confuuuused :-/
I've had absolutely no sickness whatsoever this time round and no heartburn. No instinctive feeling towards the baby being either sex. When I was pregnant with my daughter I could barely talk incase I was sick everywhere & kept dreaming every night that my baby was going to be a girl.
I don't know if it's because I sadly had a MC in November 2014.
I only had intercourse one time on the 8th of December then found out 12 days later I was pregnant again? It's so confusing my midwife didn't believe I could be pregnant so soon & thought it was hormones from the previous pregnancy but when my blood tests came back it was obvious I was pregnant again. I was charting my temps on FF.
Even BD is finding it difficult to believe. The only symptoms I have are painfull breasts, being unbelievably tired & extremely bored.
I know each pregnancy is different but this is soo different it doesn't feel real. I'll get my dating scan on the 16th of feb so maybe once I see the baby it'll all feel real.
Or maybe I don't want to get too excited about it all incase the same thing happens
?! I don't know. Confuuuused :-/
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Re: Don't feel pregnant
I feel the same way you do, my two previous pregnancies I felt preggers from the moment I found out, this time around by the grace of God I haven't had such severe symptoms of the first trimester. When I had my first US and saw the little blueberry and saw it's little heart beating on the screen it all became very real. There are some days where I still can't believe it, but I think the reason I want to show so badly is so that I can finally "Feel" pregnant.
Dr.Bailey from Grey's Anatomy
You don't need to sugar coat answers but there's also no need to smear them with stinking evil sh!t either.
Thankyou for all your answers. X
I've dealt with girls like you before.
It's boring tbh & you're making yourself look stupid. you've interrupted the answers on here to do what exactly? Get your daily dose of endorphins? Start an argument? Make yourself feel good? Get on ya bike luv and keep on peddling.
You seem to have a lot of issues with boredom/people being boring. Maybe that's the problem in not feeling pregnant? I'm not quite sure...
It's a shame because there's actualy some really nice people on here but they're all getting totally over shadowed by the nastiness in some peoples replies.
BUT. stop using it as an excuse. You are pregnant again, be happy about it. It's more than a lot of women could even dream of. All we are saying is get over the fact that you're having an easy pregnancy and enjoy it.
I only had intercourse one time on the 8th of December then found out 12 days later I was pregnant again? It's so confusing my midwife didn't believe I could be pregnant so soon & thought it was hormones from the previous pregnancy but when my blood tests came back it was obvious I was pregnant again. I was charting my temps on FF"
Sorry @skinandbones Didn't you read the entire post or did you just read the bits you could be nasty about?
Tell me, how can a person research the unknown? I've read everything from What to Expect to Everybody poop's.
Please, it's like I'm Harry Potter & you're voldemort. You're giving me a headache where my scar should be whenever you're around. (Yeah I'm watching Harry potter with my daughter)
Also, you can't research the unknown. All you do by reading books like that it's psych yourself out.
To make it simple for you though, here's a clear answer:
You are fine even though you don't have many symptoms.
I'm sorry I misread. I'm sorry you have had a loss.
I don't quite understand why you feel the need to give me a hard time or anyone else on this board. You repetitively have been overly dramatic with your response and continually have attempted to stir the pot. Clearly you need a hobby and decided trolling is the answer. Grow up.
In the meantime, I suggest since you are bored you learn how to use the quote function so people know what you are talking about when you are just attacking people who give you a different opinion and don't validate your ridiculousness.
Wow. First you ask for advice and when it's given you start arguing. That's so mature of you. If you want a community where everyone will agree with you, then let me suggest looking else where. If you ask a question, prepare yourself for an honest answer.
Like this one:
Not every single woman who is pregnant has all symptoms associated with pregnancy. You can get some, none, or a combination of all. They can come and go. One day you can feel human the next like you are dying.
My suggestion is to stop posting about not having any symptoms. It's to the point that you are rubbing it in and it's becoming offensive to people like myself who have been suffering for 11 weeks. Do you know what I would give to be able to get thru one day, just one day without feeling like shit? No, you wouldn't because you only think of yourself, which you have proved in all of your posts. I believe you are on the wrong board now that I think about, I think you should go check out this one here:
https://community.babycenter.com/
On this community you will be with more like minded girls who only care about themselves. Please check out their posts. Maybe you can relate. While you are checking them out, please notice how many replies they receive. Probably close to zero, since most only post to bring attention to themselves to make them feel better in their boring lives.
Have at it.
My advice (that you won't take and will argue that I'm a horrible person) is please talk to your therapist and get the help you clearly need. I would start with coping mechanisms and learning who to have conversations with people who opinions differs In other words, learn social skills.
Also, sorry that you have those things but that's not going to make us feel sorry for you and give you sympathy.
And another thing, going to vomit in a bucket? I thought you didn't have any symptoms?
Thank-you for confirming what we already knew. Ladies, don't poke the crazy!