Don't feel pregnant

manning&m

AuroraUK said:

I think all your faces & comments have finally given me morning & day sickness. Ugh. Well , I'm off to go vomit in a bucket. Cheers 'ladies'

Oh okay. But were mean and horrible and immature. Gotcha. You're a special breed. Protecting myself from TOU 

I THINK YOU'RE BEING UNFAIR!!!!

aspecialsnowflake

Is this real? Like really? /:)

nbalkin

Heavenwhip said:

AuroraUK said:

I do have bi-polar anorexia and OCD so if you're saying I'm not far off from being crazy then yeah I guess I am. Freakin Insane actualy.

Thank-you for confirming what we already knew.  Ladies, don't poke the crazy!

It explains so much doesn't it.

kc525

@AuroraUK‌ ... We have similar diagnosis, with the a big exception of anorexia. I'm not anything like you. I have never seen anybody act like you, in fact. Ever. Your victim act is thinly veiled with constant negativity and attacks on others. Every single time you post, let me say it again.... Every. Single. Time. You. Post... It's over dramatic and only ends in fighting - with everybody. It's astonishing. In about a week, you'll do it again. And we will all say the same things, again.

MamaMandy2015

HEY! Let's all just get along ok? We're all pretty much hormonal, raging, pregnant, out of sorts women and all this internet arguing is plain crazy! I'm new to the Bump and already I feel like leaving because a good majority of the posts end up with women bickering with one another, or snarky comments. Honestly I joined to find women to share experiences with, get some possible advice, laugh at the funny stories and commiserate about all the WTF moments, I didn't join to be reading through posts and see a fight break out. I wish you all the best and happy moments

voldem0rt

As someone else with similar diagnoses... I am nothing like you either. So don't use mental illness to excuse this ridiculous behavior. Just because you suffer from mental illness doesn't mean you get to act like this and blame it on bipolar disorder.

xchellerodriguez

I had a miscarriage last year as well, back in August. I felt pregnant the whole time for that one, minus morning sickness, but this one? I have the morning sickness, the cramping, the sore boobs, etc, and I've even heard the baby's heartbeat. Still don't really feel pregnant, 11w3d today. I've started getting a heavy feeling in my stomach, the same feeling I had at 7dpo with my first, that convinced me I was pregnant before I had any other symptoms or my BFP. But it doesn't scream 'pregnant' to me. And my sister-in-law made a good point to me a while back when I told her about this, that I might be trying to protect myself subconsciously from getting too attached to the baby because of how it went wrong last time.

I'm sorry for your loss, and I'm crossing my fingers for your rainbow baby!

AuroraUK

sorry about your loss felt the same as you when I got my BFP this time I can't get excited though. Hopefully it will feel better for us after the scans/ultrasounds.
I'm thinking about leaving this 'community' too, there's WAY to much arguing, mainly bullying. I notice a nasty comment on almost every post no matter gets posted and then everyone else jumps on the bandwagon. (Sigh)

It's like walking into a lions den around here. Only they're not really lions, just big unkempt dogs just begging for their next treat.
I was diagnosed with bi- polar disorder, anorexia and OCD in 2009. (That doesn't mean everyone who's been diagnosed with it is the exact same person) some of the comments about that I've had to report. They were unbelievable.
I've reported to the bump about all my posts being hijacked by these people so maybe these women will get an email soon? Hope so, then this community can straighten up! Wish you all the best X

kc525

AuroraUK said:

sorry about your loss felt the same as you when I got my BFP this time I can't get excited though. Hopefully it will feel better for us after the scans/ultrasounds.
I'm thinking about leaving this 'community' too, there's WAY to much arguing, mainly bullying. I notice a nasty comment on almost every post no matter gets posted and then everyone else jumps on the bandwagon. (Sigh)

It's like walking into a lions den around here. Only they're not really lions, just big unkempt dogs just begging for their next treat.
I was diagnosed with bi- polar disorder, anorexia and OCD in 2009. (That doesn't mean everyone who's been diagnosed with it is the exact same person) some of the comments about that I've had to report. They were unbelievable.
I've reported to the bump about all my posts being hijacked by these people so maybe these women will get an email soon? Hope so, then this community can straighten up! Wish you all the best X

Hopefully, they'll see you for what you are...a bunch of MUD. News flash: take a look in the mirror while you're pointing those fingers.

Nobody said we're all the same, simply pointed out that you're diagnosis comment was "unfair".

AuroraUK

Will you shhh please.
I'm reading through other posts and YOUR exact name just appeared on another post where you're having a go at someone. YOU are the MUD maker around here! I've seen your name darkening the doors or many a post darling. You need a proper hobby, learn to play piano, read a book. Just stop being nasty to people on here? What's wrong with you?

kc525

... Absolutely pointless. You clearly have no idea what MUD means, then. My point to you wasn't irrational, or without merit. That's pretty clear when it is you against virtually the entire community. I've never ONCE seen you supporting women here. You've never given support for a loss. You've never given any constructive advice or feedback. Since you so kindly took the time to look at my responses, you'll see that the vast majority do just that. The only time I've "had a go at someone" was when someone says that the advice or opinions they are given is mean simply because it does not suit them, or when they are biologically incorrect. You, however, only post to try to gain (quite frankly) unwarranted pity, or to call other posters terrible people. It's jarring, and ridiculous. No, I will not "shhh". This is an internet forum. Just as you are able to post your nonsense, everybody else is able to call you out on it.

nbalkin

@AuroraUK‌ and you feel it is not mean and bullying calling women on here big unkempt dogs. Telling us you have mental health.disorders is not a way to get pitty or explain away your behaviors. i hate when people use their diagnosis as a crutch for how they behave. And when you open up and tell people this information as a way of defending yourself you may get responses you don't like. And fyi being ocd, bipolar, or anorexic does not explain rude behavior that you have exhibited. The diagnosis that better fits that would be borderline personality disorder !!!

gingerygirl

You are seriously annoying, you know that? How do you know we don't have hobbies? How do you know we don't lead very fulfilling lives? How dare you make such assumptions about us? do us all a favor and shut up. You're an attention seeker. You come up with ridiculous things to complain about while some women on here actually have valid concerns. I'm sorry but feeling great during pregnancy is not something I would complain about. Shut. Up.

xchellerodriguez

I'm just glad people aren't like this in my birth month community on Facebook. I've been warned about this community, and I guess it's all true lol. Anyways, best of luck to you Aurora; regardless of anything else being said in this thread, we're still all in the same pregnancy boat, and some of us just experience it differently. Not sure why some women feel the need to attack other women, just gotta rise above and ignore it ☺

nbalkin

xchellerodriguez said:

I'm just glad people aren't like this in my birth month community on Facebook. I've been warned about this community, and I guess it's all true lol. Anyways, best of luck to you Aurora; regardless of anything else being said in this thread, we're still all in the same pregnancy boat, and some of us just experience it differently. Not sure why some women feel the need to attack other women, just gotta rise above and ignore it ☺

Until you say something she does not agree with and she calls you an ugly dog too.

mkillian27

I think your comments and actions are rude and inappropriate. You’re being unfair.

 

svenskalamb13

AuroraUK said:

Oh well. Thats unfortunate, huh? I say deal with it, as i do with everyone else.

Nice. I bet you're a popular one around here. You don't need to sugar coat answers but there's also no need to smear them with stinking evil sh!t either. Thankyou for all your answers. X

Yupp. Im swimmimg in my popularity. This was, after all, my home first. Not a place I would randomly pop up and create so much MUD. I prefer my house clean, not scattered with your dirt everywhere.