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Sex drive?

littlemuffin26littlemuffin26 member
in 3rd Trimester
Hi girls I'm 29 weeks and have completely lost my sex drive. I love my o/h and find him so attractive but the thought of having sex is so unappealing.. Is this just me?? Please help xx
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    ipumpkinipumpkin member

    :( Mine seems to go back and fourth. Sometimes I can't get enough and other times I'm like, "Ugh God you gotta be kidding me."

    I hope it returns for you, I don't really have any advice. :(

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    krysmillkrysmill member
    It's just apart of pregnancy! Don't sweat it. You have all these hormone changes and unfortunately this is a common side effect. Just let your SO now how you feel and I'm sure he'll understand.
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    vpinevpine member
    We haven't had sex since 20 weeks, it happens
    Me: 32, DH: 34.
    Trying since Jan 2011. Unexplained IF.
    2 IUIs = BFN.
    1 IVF (Dec 2013) = BFN.
    FET, 2 frosties (June 13, 2014)

    14dp5dt-June 27 -BFP, beta 2061. 2nd beta >5000, 3rd beta >5000, 2 sacs 06/30.
    Twin Girls - 02/11/15 - at 37 weeks (no NICU, home with me at 3 days).
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    estefyp4estefyp4 member

    Definitely not in the mood to initiate anything with the hubby.. but if he makes the right moves then I usually give in which in the end feels very satisfying  :D but since the belly is just getting bigger its just not .. quite the same :/ still good just not as sexy ((to me)) since I feel more like an 'incubator' ..

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    littlemuffin26littlemuffin26 member
    Aw thanks girls at least I'm not alone how far are you all? Xx
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    littlemuffin26littlemuffin26 member
    Yea I find it really awkward because belly just gets in the way. And Chelsea Ur sex drive is what makes u wanna have sex xx
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    GBakeGBake member
    Haven't had sex in maybe 7months? Only has sex maybe 3 times in first trimester too! If it wasn't me not wanting sex, it was me being uncomfortable or sore... And then him being too nervous of hurting me. Hasn't strained our relationship at all. Just feel for him the poor guy! X
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    krysmillkrysmill member
    Haha try being on Pelvic Rest since 8 weeks pregnant! I'm 36 weeks now and haven't had sex since 4 weeks pregnant!
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    LilmanxLilmanx member
    The drive will come and go. And the belly can be a big problem. Round ligament pain can also eliminate some of your position alternatives. We've been stuck with the same position for way too long. Sometimes we both lose the desire simply because we miss being able to change position.

    You're definitely not alone. Creativity can get you through though.
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    mdupon70997mdupon70997 member
    edited January 2015
    littlemuffin26 said:

    Yea I find it really awkward because belly just gets in the way. And Chelsea Ur sex drive is what makes u wanna have sex xx

    So not the same sort of thing as a hard drive? Or is it???
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