Bump dropped?

acpruchnik · January 2015

Anyone else noticing that the new TOU/TOS/whatthefuckeveryouwanttocallit goes up, they run out our leaders, and the trolls are all suddenly awakened..? It's a shit show in this place!

acpruchnik · January 2015

BellinghamMama said:

emiller91 said:

Quite frankly lady, i dont give a damn if you know me. Which is why i don't post much. But when someone asks a question and you all are out to make her feel stupid, why even post!? Thats rude. And no, no. The bump is crap because of insults like youre handing out. What, do you think because they banned the good ladies with real advice, you're taking their place. Lmao. Ohhhkay.

Someone fucking ban me now. This whole community needs to be deleted. And a few of you need to grow the hell up.

Go ahead. Make fun. Post your gifs, because you can't come up with your own material.

Help me understand why a community should be deleted because you, someone who rarely participates, dislikes it. By your own logic - "why even post?"

Because she's clearly incapable of not reading and responding (like we're clearly expected to do according to her post) and can't figure out how to delete herself so we're apparently responsible for holding her hand and doing it for her. Yay for being pregnant adults!

Gosh, how doesn't this make sense?

twalkerburns · January 2015

Obviously we all agree that soliciting medical advice on this forum is silly and she needs to ring her doctors. But seriously with the follow ups!? I think you ladies made your point and now you are just straight bullying. That is inappropriate. Especially for soon-to-be mothers.

srcr2011 · January 2015

How many WKs are gonna show up?? @-)

dacora · January 2015

I was hoping if we ignored this thread it might finally go away. But all the randos keep popping up and really want to tell us what terrible people we all are. Because clearly the opinions of random women who haven't been here for the last nine months, through our own ups and downs, losses and births, should matter so much to us. One more WK and maybe we'll see the error of our wicked ways.

mylazypony · January 2015

Wowzers. Let me see, if I fully understand the madness. Someone post a question and the tone is overall panicky. Everyone replies with call your doctor. Maybe it wasn't handed to her in wrapping paper, but this is the internet, you can't dictate how you want your question answered. You can't take it personal. Someone also mentioned if you don't like a question, then don't answer it. Well that should go for responses too. We are individuals and you are going to get all across the board responses. The reason I enjoyed this board is because it wasn't all rainbows and flowers. I say "enjoyed" because honestly it's become soft. The questions have been so outlandish, it makes me want to bang my head against a wall. It's not insightful what so ever.

jaztastic · January 2015

... I guess

twalkerburns said:

Obviously we all agree that soliciting medical advice on this forum is silly and she needs to ring her doctors. But seriously with the follow ups!? I think you ladies made your point and now you are just straight bullying. That is inappropriate. Especially for soon-to-be mothers.

I agree!! Im being bullied to give supportive nice advice, yet no one will explain what that actually is. When told to contact her doc, OP got mad.

flyinghigh89 · January 2015

OP hasn't even replied in about 70 posts and people have somehow still managed to be vile about this thread. I agree with @lpinup‌ if you don't like what's being asked why even entertain the question you think is a joke and stupid and just simply ignore it. I'm assuming everyone realises how to keep scrolling and surely have the restraint to stop their fingers from typing. You ladies kept this thread going with your negative remarks. Everyone understands you've built up a community here and it's nice to see, but not everyone needs/wants/chooses to use the site in the same way as you. I haven't long joined the site myself and I like to read posts and see the advice given but im not interested in making friends etc, nowhere does it say I need to converse with everyone and start budding relationships but if I have a question I think someone may be able to give advice on I will ask and hope a soon-to-be mother will be helpful and kind enough to offer some advice without moaning that I haven't built up relationships within the group and just would like some genuine advice from someone who may be going through the same thing. It doesn't need to turn into playground cliques, it's a freaking website not the be all end all. It doesn't have one SOLE purpose of making friends & building a community. Everyone uses it for different reasons and people shouldn't be telling people off for how they want to use it.

flyinghigh89 · January 2015

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srcr2011 · January 2015

flyinghigh89 said:

OP hasn't even replied in about 70 posts and people have somehow still managed to be vile about this thread. I agree with @lpinup‌ if you don't like what's being asked why even entertain the question you think is a joke and stupid and just simply ignore it. I'm assuming everyone realises how to keep scrolling and surely have the restraint to stop their fingers from typing. You ladies kept this thread going with your negative remarks. Everyone understands you've built up a community here and it's nice to see, but not everyone needs/wants/chooses to use the site in the same way as you. I haven't long joined the site myself and I like to read posts and see the advice given but im not interested in making friends etc, nowhere does it say I need to converse with everyone and start budding relationships but if I have a question I think someone may be able to give advice on I will ask and hope a soon-to-be mother will be helpful and kind enough to offer some advice without moaning that I haven't built up relationships within the group and just would like some genuine advice from someone who may be going through the same thing. It doesn't need to turn into playground cliques, it's a freaking website not the be all end all. It doesn't have one SOLE purpose of making friends & building a community. Everyone uses it for different reasons and people shouldn't be telling people off for how they want to use it.

JessicaH1020 · January 2015

OT: I friggin love Jennifer Lawrence. I feel like we could be best friends.

crispywheats · January 2015

srcr2011 said:

Seriously one of my all-time favorite gifs.

flyinghigh89 · January 2015

You've used that gif before, getting a bit boring now.

crispywheats · January 2015

flyinghigh89 said:
You've used that gif before, getting a bit boring now.

Says the four day old poster.
It's an often appropriate gif.

flyinghigh89 · January 2015

Oh where does it say about the time limit in which I'm allowed to post a reply on a thread? are we all just allowed to make up our own rules or is it only the people who have built up this gloriously friendly community who are allowed to do that?

flyinghigh89 · January 2015

Also cannot really tell me to deal with anything when you ladies carried on moaning about this post for several days, hmm

flyinghigh89 · January 2015

Oh more rules! I'm not supposed to comment unless it's during the midst of commotion, ok

JessicaH1020 · January 2015

1.) Don't mock this community. Unless you've been here since the beginning, you have no idea how these women have supported each other through trials and loss. Heck, all I did was lurk from June to December and I picked up on what an amazing group this was. Mocking it will get you nowhere.

2.) As @KristinMTBell, you're the one that's still carrying on and moaning. Everyone else has dropped it and moved on. You should try to as well.

flyinghigh89 · January 2015

I will mock because it's pathetic. Can't use that you're all up each other's arses as an excuse for being rude to people

JessicaH1020 · January 2015

Yeah, okay. If it's so pathetic, why are you here?

Anyways, it seems like you won't stop until you have the last word. So I'm off to go do something better with my time. Enjoy our "pathetic" community!

crispywheats · January 2015

flyinghigh89 said:
Oh where does it say about the time limit in which I'm allowed to post a reply on a thread? are we all just allowed to make up our own rules or is it only the people who have built up this gloriously friendly community who are allowed to do that?

Really, I was just questioning how you were bored with a gif after only having been here four days. I don't know that it's even been used in the past four days.
I can tell you to deal with it. You can choose whether to deal with it. It makes no difference to me. But if we're boring/rude/pathetic, why would you want to hang around?

srcr2011 · January 2015

@flyinghigh89 here...

'....

It's the best gif!!

flyinghigh89 · January 2015

JessicaH1020 said:
Yeah, okay. If it's so pathetic, why are you here?
Anyways, it seems like you won't stop until you have the last word. So I'm off to go do something better with my time. Enjoy our "pathetic" community!

You say this while not long ago moaning about the stupidity of OP for posting the thread. Don't like it, don't comment seems to be the case for me but not for you ladies? Stop moaning about what other people are posting and worry about what you and your best buds are doing if that's the case.

lpinup · January 2015

FINALLY SOMEONE UNDERSTANDS @flyinghigh89‌

flyinghigh89 · January 2015

maasybaby said:

flyinghigh89 said:

I will mock because it's pathetic. Can't use that you're all up each other's arses as an excuse for being rude to people

...that doesn't even make any sense... :-?? ...

Everyone's excuse for being rude to people is because you're all best buds and love each other so much in your little online community. What's hard to understand? And people were calling others stupid!

flyinghigh89 · January 2015

Nothing to say so adding GIFS. Have to have a really high IQ for that

HayleyBug55 · January 2015

So many WK's coming out recently. Wtf?

flyinghigh89 · January 2015

HayleyBug55 said:
So many WK's coming out recently. Wtf?

Yes how dare they!?

yoursincelery · January 2015

I have missed gifs on this forum SO MUCH.

srcr2011 · January 2015

flyinghigh89 said:

Nothing to say so adding GIFS. Have to have a really high IQ for that

I'm sorry, but the Jennifer Lawrence gif goes so good with your comment...one last time

and Also...

HayleyBug55 · January 2015

I don't understand why people who have NEVER participated, and have made an account 4 DAYS AGO ,want to come in here and tell the ones who've been here for years, been here throughout this pregnancy, and been here for the majority of this pregnancy what to do and what not to do. Many of these ladies , including the ones who were banned, have put their all in this community. They struggled and cried through losses together, they celebrated their babies coming home from NICU and continue to pray for the babies still there, they've supported one another through the loss of family members, and so much more. I joined in September (when I first found this place) and lurked up until around November. It took me a few short weeks to realize these ladies are a family and have busted their asses to make TB and F15 what it WAS. Then you noobs, WK's, trolls, and lurkers want to come on here and tell the one's who've been here what to do? Even though the new guidelines say we have to be nice if you want shits and giggles, rainbows, unicorns, and glitter I suggest going to Baby Center. They'll pet your hair and tell you it's okay.

flyinghigh89 · January 2015

Doesn't mean you can tell new members what to do either though does it? You don't own the site. There is a reason people were banned because people don't like being spoken to like shit by people who think they're so high and mighty because they've been here longer. Some people don't join sites like this till later for many different reasons and it doesn't matter when someone joins. If someone joins late in their pregnancy and want to participate, who cares? It isn't just your site because you've been here longer. Get over yourselves.

HayleyBug55 · January 2015

flyinghigh89 said:
Doesn't mean you can tell new members what to do either though does it? You don't own the site. There is a reason people were banned because people don't like being spoken to like shit by people who think they're so high and mighty because they've been here longer. Some people don't join sites like this till later for many different reasons and it doesn't matter when someone joins. If someone joins late in their pregnancy and want to participate, who cares? It isn't just your site because you've been here longer. Get over yourselves.

No, people were banned because they spoke their damn mind to admin after admin asked their opinions. Learn wtf you're talking about before you let *crap* fly out your mouth! You don't know what happend to oir community you weren't here! You just opened yourself up to alot of comments like this one because you spoke too soon about something you don't know about. Good luck, you won't last here long.

Edit: I got heated and had to change the way I said things so I wouldn't come off too rude.

srcr2011 · January 2015

flyinghigh89 said:

Doesn't mean you can tell new members what to do either though does it? You don't own the site. There is a reason people were banned because people don't like being spoken to like shit by people who think they're so high and mighty because they've been here longer. Some people don't join sites like this till later for many different reasons and it doesn't matter when someone joins. If someone joins late in their pregnancy and want to participate, who cares? It isn't just your site because you've been here longer. Get over yourselves.

flyinghigh89 · January 2015

It's not hard to see what happened. You were all bitching and moaning about it for god knows how long and the threads are still there for all to see, new members or not. Admin are there for a reason. If you break the rules and harass people like some of you do then damn right expect to be banned. you go on about "newbs" not following the rules by asking medical Questions but admin don't just ban people for no reason. Maybe look back at what you've said to other people and realise you aren't so perfect. you don't have to pat new members on the head and stroke their face to be polite, just don't be fucking rude and go out of your way to make people feel stupid because they asked something you don't like. Just creates such an necessarily bad vibe which can easily be avoided by you ignoring those "stupid" medical questions.

HayleyBug55 · January 2015

flyinghigh89 said:
It's not hard to see what happened. You were all bitching and moaning about it for god knows how long and the threads are still there for all to see, new members or not. Admin are there for a reason. If you break the rules and harass people like some of you do then damn right expect to be banned. you go on about "newbs" not following the rules by asking medical Questions but admin don't just ban people for no reason. Maybe look back at what you've said to other people and realise you aren't so perfect. you don't have to pat new members on the head and stroke their face to be polite, just don't be fucking rude and go out of your way to make people feel stupid because they asked something you don't like. Just creates such an necessarily bad vibe which can easily be avoided by you ignoring those "stupid" medical questions.

Again, you don't know why so many of the regulars left and why so many were banned. Admin did ban people for no reason. They asked their opinion and when they didn't like the opinions they banned the mods. You wouldn't know that though because it went on behind closed doors and you're not part of the community to see/ hear that part.

Edit: and it says in the guidelines DO NOT ASK MEDICAL QUESTIONS BECAUSE BUMPIES ARE NOT DOCTORS. You might want to read them.

flyinghigh89 · January 2015

Who cares? ITS A FUCKING WEBSITE. Take each other's numbers, make your own site, do whatever else if you don't like it. Don't moan about how the site is run because some people actually like it how it is, it's people who moan about questions and make people feel like shit who ruin it for others. You spend all your time moaning about it, just find an alternative if you don't like it! It's made how it is for a reason. Rules are there for a reason. Just because you've been here for so long doesn't mean you can dictate how it is run, we are all still just members no matter how long we've all been here individually.

HayleyBug55 · January 2015

flyinghigh89 said:
Who cares? ITS A FUCKING WEBSITE. Take each other's numbers, make your own site, do whatever else if you don't like it. Don't moan about how the site is run because some people actually like it how it is, it's people who moan about questions and make people feel like shit who ruin it for others. You spend all your time moaning about it, just find an alternative if you don't like it! It's made how it is for a reason. Rules are there for a reason. Just because you've been here for so long doesn't mean you can dictate how it is run, we are all still just members no matter how long we've all been here individually.

It's a community, not a website, to those that have seen and experienced the bond between the ladies on here and that were on here. You don't know how it used to be so how can you say you like the new way? That's the only way you know! And I honestly feel bad for you because you never got to experience how amazing this COMMUNITY was before. Maybe you should try just being a lurker it would probably work out better for you.

flyinghigh89 · January 2015

Moaning and abusing people isn't working clearly though, so get over it. If the mods want to run the site the way they are then that's just tough. Don't like it don't entertain them by moaning constantly. They're probably looking for ways to get rid of you because you're all a massive pain in the ass now and cause problems where they aren't needed and upset women who are heavily pregnant when hormones are already all over the place. You must feel very gOod about yourself for making other women feel like that. I didn't say I like the new way, nowhere did I say that. I just said I like it. If I like it how It is now then I like it how it is now, rules and all. So stupid you think the only people who are allowed to have an opinion on the situation is people who have been here for ages. It's not difficult to see what happened because it's broadcast all over this website. I'm glad I didn't experience the community before. If that was something I was interested in I would have joined earlier wouldn't i. At least I don't think I'm better than anyone else. We're all JUST MEMBERS. You, me, everyone. No one is above anyone and I think people need to remember that.

HayleyBug55 · January 2015

flyinghigh89 said:
Moaning and abusing people isn't working clearly though, so get over it. If the mods want to run the site the way they are then that's just tough. Don't like it don't entertain them by moaning constantly. They're probably looking for ways to get rid of you because you're all a massive pain in the ass now and cause problems where they aren't needed and upset women who are heavily pregnant when hormones are already all over the place. You must feel very gOod about yourself for making other women feel like that. I didn't say I like the new way, nowhere did I say that. I just said I like it. If I like it how It is now then I like it how it is now, rules and all. So stupid you think the only people who are allowed to have an opinion on the situation is people who have been here for ages. It's not difficult to see what happened because it's broadcast all over this website. I'm glad I didn't experience the community before. If that was something I was interested in I would have joined earlier wouldn't i. At least I don't think I'm better than anyone else. We're all JUST MEMBERS. You, me, everyone. No one is above anyone and I think people need to remember that.

I never said I was better than anyone. Our mods were banned for having an opinion. These professional mods are new and have nothing to do with how things are run. I'm heavily pregnant and you're upsetting me by coming on here and acting like you know everything and talking down on my community. You must feel so good.

. I also never said the only people allowed to have an opinion are the ones who've been here. New members are very welcome. It's when they turn into WK's and tell people "to just keep scrolling and ignore post if they don't like them" (hypocritical huh? You telling people what to post and what not to post and then turning around saying people can post whatever they want) that it becomes a problem. You have no right to tell us to "just keep scrolling". Maybe next time that's what you should do.
It's obvious you're not going to listen and you think you know everything so I'm done here. I said what I thought needed to be said and maybe you'll think about some of it.

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