I am a STM and I have had luck with my babies taking a bottle. DS#1 would only take a bottle from me. Made for a very long year without being able to leave him very much. I really want my DD to take expressed milk but she completely refuses the bottle. She is 5 1/2 weeks old and we have been trying a bottle every night for the last week and a half. My DH gets really frustrated.
We have tried at different times, right after a feeding so she isn't starving, and when she is half asleep. As soon as the bottle touches her lips he starts screaming.
Anyone have any advice on things we could try? Maybe a type of bottle/nipple that works really well. Any positions DH could try we might not have thought of.
Re: BF baby refusing bottles of Expressed Milk
GL!
He may be a little piggy though. Boob or bottle, he seems happy
1. Don't try to give the bottle at an important feed. I.e. First one of the day, last now of the day. These are when baby needs the comfort of mama. So pick a time when you know he is just looking for a quick feed.
2. Be as far away as possible. If your husband is giving the bottle have him warm it up and give it and while he is warming it you get out of the house. Better yet if you think a feed is coming then step out to run an errand. Baby won't want a bottle if he knows you are there.
3. Make sure they are in a quiet darkish environment. Make it very calming and inviting for baby, and make sure your DH is calm too. Baby will sense the stress.
Good luck!
I also wasn't thinking about the fact I am around when he is trying. Duh! I think I will try leaving the house tonight to see if that helps.
Maybe sitting in her room with just the lamp on will help too. I nurse her a lot in there. Might be more comfortable for her (and him) than the table.
At this point I am not trying to actually replace an entire feeding, just by me a little time.
Thanks again. Hopefully we can find something that works.