Update on us

suzyq0525 · January 2015

Hi Ladies,

I just wanted to drop in and say hi. My husband and I got home from the hospital yesterday. I feel like it's a blessing and a curse to be home...there are reminders of Benjamin everywhere, but it's nice to be away from all of the happy families with their newborns. The hospital sent us home with a mold of Benjamin's feet, a beautiful crochet blanket, and a memory box that contains pictures of our baby boy. I haven't been able to look at the pictures yet but I know I will cherish having them.

My husband was supposed to start his spring semester of grad school classes yesterday, but ended dropping all but one class so that we can heal together without his hectic schedule.

I can't tell you how touched I have been by the overwhelming support from the bump community. Today is my first time logging on from my laptop, and seeing how many of you have a candle in your siggy and participated in the hour of silence brought tears to my eyes (the good kind...I promise). If you could continue to keep us in your thoughts and prayers we would appreciate it. Tomorrow we have to begin making arrangements at the funeral home. I know I'm going to need all the support I can get to survive this process.

Love you ladies,

SuzyQ

Bluebell0315 · January 2015

All my thoughts and prayers go out to you.

jesslynnw90 · January 2015

I'm so sorry you are going through this. Praying for you and your family.

071115 · January 2015

I have been think of you and your family so much...

goofygoff · January 2015

Thank you so much for the update. Continuing to send many thoughts to you and your family. We will always be here to offer support! So many ((hugs)).

Skrittens · January 2015

Still thinking about you. Big hugs and prayers for you.

FrecklesInside · January 2015

Seriously, not an hour goes by you don't cross my mind. I'm thinking of you, your husband, and Benjamin often and continue to send you strength, love and warm hugs. I wish I could ease your pain, even a bit. Continue to know that we are all here, and also that we are all with you. In these extremely difficult days, I hope you feel the strength of this community holding you up.

ruemorgan · January 2015

Thats great you can be at home now with your DH and can spend some time to heal together. Please, dont be a stranger. We all care about you and your DH so much, I hope every day brings you a little closer to peace.

sathena · January 2015

Still thinking of you and your family.

Lovebeingamomny · January 2015

Thinking of you a lot and glad you have some time with your husband. Hugs and love to you Suzy.

MissyCee · January 2015

My thoughts and prayers have been and will continue to be with you and your family while you work to heal from your loss.

WinningColors · January 2015

It's good to hear you are home and resting. You are in my thoughts.

Sstites26 · January 2015

Thinking of you and continuing to send thoughts and prayers.

sunset30 · January 2015

Thanks for the update. There are many of us who are thinking of you and praying for you, and you and your husband are on many people's minds. Hoping and praying for strength for you both to make it through the funeral arrangements next few days, and time to spend together as you go through the grieving process. You have a lot of support on this board so please reach out if you need to "vent" or get support.

chaysefaith · January 2015

Keeping you in my thoughts continuously. Take your time with that memory box, I took 9 months to open mine and I know others who still haven't opened theirs years later. And take your time healing. I'm so glad your h is being so strong and supportive and that you two have each other to lean on.

((Hugs)) to you and your H.

klax4 · January 2015

I can't even begin to understand how you and your husband are feeling. My thoughts are with you. Take care of yourselves.

LesliW · January 2015

Thank you for taking time during this difficult period to update us. You've been on our minds so much. Much love and strength to you and your family.

coleybug13 · January 2015

Haven't stopped thinking of and praying for you and your family. I wish there we're something I could do for you to help ease the pain. Stay strong. We are all here for you and if there is anything I can do please don't hesitate.

jnowosielski · January 2015

Thank you for the update. We have all been thinking about you and will continue to send our thoughts and prayers.

BitsyBelle84 · January 2015

Thank you for the update. Thoughts and prayers for you and your husband for strength, comfort and healing.

ngolimento · January 2015

((Hugs)) we all love you too. Never forget we are all here for you, whatever you need.

lawsonellis · January 2015

I think of you and your H and Benjamin so often. Thank you for updating us. I wish I could alleviate even a piece of your pain but as other posters have said, take your time to heal, lean on each other, and be extra gentle with yourself and one another.

we'll always be here to support you and know that our thoughts and love are with you always.

ettamichele · January 2015

You and your husband have been in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that you find strength and that your family can heal in this difficult time. All of the hugs. Xo.

Boycrazymommy · January 2015

I have continued to think of you and your husband. I am glad you are home together. I will pray for continued strength for you as you begin to heal. Thank you for keeping us updated.

jarrard1983 · January 2015

I've been thinking of you everyday since you posted. My heart is still broken for you but I am praying that you and your family heal.

scrappypom · January 2015

We're all thinking of you. I'm so very sorry for your loss, I'm praying for comfort for you both.

djoliet · January 2015

Lots of big hugs to you Suzee. You, your husband, and sweet baby boy have been on my mind and in my prayers.

cygnet15 · January 2015

Thinking of you every day and praying for you and your husband often. Thanks for updating us. We're all right here whenever you need us.

marthah05 · January 2015

My heart is with you and your husband

stepherly · January 2015

Thanks for the update. You've been on my mind constantly this week. Big hugs to you and dh.

colleen4019 · January 2015

I'm glad you're home where you can start to heal. I am so sorry for your loss. You have been in my thoughts constantly. Thank you for updating us.

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janda426 · January 2015

Oh Suzy, I haven't stopped thinking about you guys. Continuous thoughts and prayers during this time as you grieve and try to heal. Anything you need, do not hesitate. We're all here for you.

dreyes4 · January 2015

Thank you for taking the time to.give us an update. You, your husband, and your little angel have been in my thoughts and prayers. Lots and lots of ((hugs)).

hydrangeablue · January 2015

Continuing my prayers do you, your husband and your family. I'm glad he lightened his class load and will have time to grieve and be with you. I'm so sorry you're going through this Suzy.

jack12trip · January 2015

Continuing to think of you and your family, sending lots of love and strength. We are all here for you with our support.

mommyofkaylin · January 2015

I'm thinking about you and your family all the time. Thank you for taking the time to update us.

Erika161 · January 2015

I have also been thinking about you and your family all week and wishing you strength and comfort. I am glad to hear you and your husband will be able to lean on each other through the healing process with a more manageable schedule.

mangomimosa · January 2015

I'm glad you're home and have some time with your husband to grieve. I've been thinking of you constantly -- I'm so, so sorry for what happened. Sending so many hugs your way.

CarterWA · January 2015

I'm so sorry for your loss, keeping you and your family in my T&P!

lynndavid6912 · January 2015

So happy to hear that you and your DH are able to take time to heal together. We'll be thinking of you and sending prayers for peace and strength. So many hugs...

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