Ignoring and blocking users

Dajart4 · December 2014

@aliam20 no I'm not going to block you. Clearly you don't know how this started. That's okay but you make a valid point. Give respect to get it.

skinandbones · December 2014

Anybody have the bingo card?

denisajacob · December 2014

Dajart4 said:

Well I guess I learned a lesson. Don't stand up for yourself. You'll then be known as the cyber bully. I guess I get what I deserve. Truly some of you women should be ashamed of yourselves. On women has a 10 month old whose sick and she's spending her time making rude comments to me. Go be a mom. You pathetic excuse for a mother. Darn it there I go cyber bullying again. Let us pray. We all need Jesus!

I stood up

quietdownfiish said:

denisajacob said:

All due respect, I'm a bit concerned about this where one starts, every other ads on the fire. There is a fine line which is being crossed and it needs to be brought into someone's attention. I have a friend who lost her baby after being brought into so much stress by a cyber-bully. Not saying every one means bad, but conscious words (thought through) would make a huge difference. You can say many things to someone without being offensive, rude or hurtful. Unless that is what you do to make yourself feel more powerful (in general terms...not you directly). Do you understand what I mean here...I said some stuff to someone the other day, and I apologized for that because I realized it was not right. And I stand behind it. It's just NOT RIGHT.

I am seriously sorry for your friend's loss.

But you have got to stop with this shit. No one is bullying you. If you don't like the ladies here, you can find another community that you will enjoy more. No one needs undue stress in their pregnancy.

Thank you for the sympathy. I came here for a support because this is a pregnancy forum for pregnant women, correct? I'm not looking to chat with truck drivers, but with sensible, also pregnant women whom I can relate to. This is a support group, correct? Pregnancy is very tender and sensitive time of woman's life and why not finding advice and support on the net. I believe that is what this site was created for... Or am I completely wrong? I'm in the right spot...I hope. It's about maturity...we are not in kindergarten anymore. Being respectful and mindful is all I'm asking for. It's really not that hard.

pmcd886 · December 2014

denisajacob said:

Tree Trim

Thank you for the sympathy. I came here for a support because this is a pregnancy forum for pregnant women, correct? I'm not looking to chat with truck drivers, but with sensible, also pregnant women whom I can relate to. This is a support group, correct? Pregnancy is very tender and sensitive time of woman's life and why not finding advice and support on the net. I believe that is what this site was created for... Or am I completely wrong? I'm in the right spot...I hope. It's about maturity...we are not in kindergarten anymore. Being respectful and mindful is all I'm asking for. It's really not that hard.

This site was created to make money off of ad revenue, so you are completely wrong.

kamarks08 · December 2014

Dajart4 said:

@aliam20 no I'm not going to block you. Clearly you don't know how this started. That's okay but you make a valid point. Give respect to get it.

I know you can't see this...

But, what's "respectful" about telling people to jump off a cliff? Or telling someone they're a horrible excuse for a mother? Or telling someone you're going for their jugular? Or telling someone not to "come unless called for?"

Just curious what your definition of respect is. Have I been doing it wrong my whole life?

WashingtonQueen · December 2014

@Dajart4‌ I need you to check your PMs now.

flightview · December 2014

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blinnea23 · December 2014

denisajacob said:

Dajart4 said:

Well I guess I learned a lesson. Don't stand up for yourself. You'll then be known as the cyber bully. I guess I get what I deserve. Truly some of you women should be ashamed of yourselves. On women has a 10 month old whose sick and she's spending her time making rude comments to me. Go be a mom. You pathetic excuse for a mother. Darn it there I go cyber bullying again. Let us pray. We all need Jesus!

I stood up

quietdownfiish said:

denisajacob said:

All due respect, I'm a bit concerned about this where one starts, every other ads on the fire. There is a fine line which is being crossed and it needs to be brought into someone's attention. I have a friend who lost her baby after being brought into so much stress by a cyber-bully. Not saying every one means bad, but conscious words (thought through) would make a huge difference. You can say many things to someone without being offensive, rude or hurtful. Unless that is what you do to make yourself feel more powerful (in general terms...not you directly). Do you understand what I mean here...I said some stuff to someone the other day, and I apologized for that because I realized it was not right. And I stand behind it. It's just NOT RIGHT.

I am seriously sorry for your friend's loss.

But you have got to stop with this shit. No one is bullying you. If you don't like the ladies here, you can find another community that you will enjoy more. No one needs undue stress in their pregnancy.

Thank you for the sympathy. I came here for a support because this is a pregnancy forum for pregnant women, correct? I'm not looking to chat with truck drivers, but with sensible, also pregnant women whom I can relate to. This is a support group, correct? Pregnancy is very tender and sensitive time of woman's life and why not finding advice and support on the net. I believe that is what this site was created for... Or am I completely wrong? I'm in the right spot...I hope. It's about maturity...we are not in kindergarten anymore. Being respectful and mindful is all I'm asking for. It's really not that hard.

I'm a truck driver and I am offended.

princesslockness · December 2014

kamarks08 said:

Dajart4 said:

@aliam20 no I'm not going to block you. Clearly you don't know how this started. That's okay but you make a valid point. Give respect to get it.

I know you can't see this...

But, what's "respectful" about telling people to jump off a cliff? Or telling someone they're a horrible excuse for a mother? Or telling someone you're going for their jugular? Or telling someone not to "come unless called for?"

Just curious what your definition of respect is. Have I been doing it wrong my whole life?

Apparently my parents were always wrong about when I was "coppin a 'tude".

denisajacob · December 2014

quietdownfiish said:

Also, @dajart4 -- that was the first time someone has ever been mean to me on the bump. So congrats!

@denisajacob -- maybe you can report that!

I don't know what she said to you and I'm sorry. I just know that maybe someone should stop. It's about integrity and leaving each other at peace. .There is always going to be someone who will stick out or say something to offend someone. By creating "my group & your group" how can you get objective advice on anything. It will all be one-sided. Anyway, I'm sorry if you were hurt. xo

Dajart4 · December 2014

@aRBe‌ well I thought two things

1. Someone would have instructions on how I can block users completely instead of just ignoring post. Then the Bump would be informative and not rude again. That way we all win.

2. I would get all the trolls on one post to ignore them. Seems to be working out great!

Still searching for block instructions if they exist. Anyone?

worldsokayestmom · December 2014

Guise can you see this? Or is the bump totally SHUT DOWN?

Eta: autocorrect fail

aotto87 · December 2014

blinnea23 · December 2014

bibliothecary said:

CFearsy said:

:runs back to September:

:clings onto your leg:

:tackles you both:

BethKate2 · December 2014

Dajart4 said:

@aRBe‌ well I thought two things 1. Someone would have instructions on how I can block users completely instead of just ignoring post. Then the Bump would be informative and not rude again. That way we all win. 2. I would get all the trolls on one post to ignore them. Seems to be working out great! Still searching for block instructions if they exist. Anyone?

If you're posting specifically to stir up other posters, you're the troll. Read the TOU.

Dajart4 · December 2014

@denisajacob‌ please don't believe I was rude to that women. She made rude remarks to me and started name calling. I simply returned the favor. I know it's wrong but I wasn't the one who started it.

JennyLynn6785 · December 2014

Dajart4 said:
@denisajacob‌ please don't believe I was rude to that women. She made rude remarks to me and started name calling. I simply returned the favor. I know it's wrong but I wasn't the one who started it.

Web of lies.

aotto87 · December 2014

skinandbones · December 2014

Dajart4 said:
@aRBe‌ well I thought two things

1. Someone would have instructions on how I can block users completely instead of just ignoring post. Then the Bump would be informative and not rude again. That way we all win.

2. I would get all the trolls on one post to ignore them. Seems to be working out great!

Still searching for block instructions if they exist. Anyone?

Well, if you created a post just to round people up and block them, then someone could have posted instructions. Buuuut, you wouldn't be able to see it. Quite the conundrum you have.

denisajacob · December 2014

oopsiedaisies said:

You probably should double check who you are signed in as before you start responding to posts.

eta: that was supposed to quote @denisajacob

What does that suppose to mean? I know well what I'm signed under.

kamarks08 · December 2014

Dajart4 said:

@denisajacob‌ please don't believe I was rude to that women. She made rude remarks to me and started name calling. I simply returned the favor. I know it's wrong but I wasn't the one who started it.

Can someone (seriously) let me know where I called her names? Because I missed that..

golfingdarwinfish · December 2014

denisajacob said:

Kate08Young said:

mj0011 said:

denisajacob said:

Dajart4 said:

I just discovered the ignore feature. Is there a way to block users completely? When using the ignore feature their comments are still there for a minute or two until the system updates and goes away. What else can I do?

Sweetie, there are plenty of cyberbyllies on this board. I have taken few snapshots of certain comments certain people write to others...filing a complaint. It's not ok to continue on attack of others and this company should be aware of it. Leaving is not the answer...finding like-minded people is. Much love xoxo

I agree, you are like-minded. Not a compliment.

And you are a bully!!! Leave people alone and start worrying about yourself. This site board will most likely get shut down anyway.
No it won't. There haven't been many violations of TOU. And no one has to stay here at take the 'cyber bullying' of honest answers, science and facts. If you can't handle the heat get out of the kitchen.

I am not talking about honest answers, science and facts. Fact is that any type of following one on the board and intentionally harass them with inappropriate, rude an insensitive comments, is called CYBER-BULLYING...Of course, it's ok to mess with someone and leave them alone. But what is enough is enough and to pursue this harassment on goingly, with the evil intent to harm them?!? As we all know many people commit suicide because of it...Teenagers do it and it seems that pregnant women have become perfect victim as well. Sensitivities, hormones all that adds up. How about miscarriage...what if one's experience with some of these "friendly" responses leads to such stress that the woman suffers one? Is that not a crime?

I'm lurking, but the bolded made me raise my eyebrows and shake my head because the reasoning and rationale is so flawed and misguided. You do realize that you would have to show empirical evidence that x amount of stress causes miscarriage, and then that person y suffered x amount of stress as a result of ONLY "cyber bullying" on the bump, and then that that x stress caused her miscarriage.

If someone finds themselves experiencing stress from an electronic forum they should probably have the good sense to leave the forum instead of being a glutton for punishment and remaining, thinking they are going to change hundreds of strangers with empty threats.

zmommy2be · December 2014

I am nauseous all the time...

That is all.

aRBe · December 2014

Dajart4 said:

@aRBe‌ well I thought two things 1. Someone would have instructions on how I can block users completely instead of just ignoring post. Then the Bump would be informative and not rude again. That way we all win. 2. I would get all the trolls on one post to ignore them. Seems to be working out great! Still searching for block instructions if they exist. Anyone?

Quote fail:

If you block half the group whats the point? just go to babycenter

denisajacob · December 2014

Dajart4 said:

@denisajacob‌ please don't believe I was rude to that women. She made rude remarks to me and started name calling. I simply returned the favor. I know it's wrong but I wasn't the one who started it.

Hun, I had the same issue here few days ago. I started being attacked in a post where lady was asking an advice about nutrition. I'm a yoga teacher and nutrition is part of the deal. I posted what has helped me and it seems it has offended others (I mentioned smoothie and oatmeal...Ooops) and started being attacked by one of them...so I fired back! Once. But the hell broke loose and wasn't left alone even after I left the thread completely. I apologized and wished them all well...but that did not not make it stop. CYBER-BULLYING.

tlc35 · December 2014

CFearsy said:

:runs back to September:

Don't worry, they crazy will show up there soon enough.

kamarks08 · December 2014

quietdownfiish said:

snip
She was talking about me. She called me a "pathetic excuse for a mother". However, I never did call her a name.

Oh, sorry fish. It gets hard to follow who she is referencing since she's "gone after" so many people...

blinnea23 · December 2014

denisajacob said:

Dajart4 said:

@denisajacob‌ please don't believe I was rude to that women. She made rude remarks to me and started name calling. I simply returned the favor. I know it's wrong but I wasn't the one who started it.

Hun, I had the same issue here few days ago. I started being attacked in a post where lady was asking an advice about nutrition. I'm a yoga teacher and nutrition is part of the deal. I posted what has helped me and it seems it has offended others (I mentioned smoothie and oatmeal...Ooops) and started being attacked by one of them...so I fired back! Once. But the hell broke loose and wasn't left alone even after I left the thread completely. I apologized and wished them all well...but that did not not make it stop. CYBER-BULLYING.

STOP REPLYING TO YOURSELF.

denisajacob · December 2014

bibliothecary said:

denisajacob said:

Dajart4 said:

@denisajacob‌ please don't believe I was rude to that women. She made rude remarks to me and started name calling. I simply returned the favor. I know it's wrong but I wasn't the one who started it.

Hun, I had the same issue here few days ago. I started being attacked in a post where lady was asking an advice about nutrition. I'm a yoga teacher and nutrition is part of the deal. I posted what has helped me and it seems it has offended others (I mentioned smoothie and oatmeal...Ooops) and started being attacked by one of them...so I fired back! Once. But the hell broke loose and wasn't left alone even after I left the thread completely. I apologized and wished them all well...but that did not not make it stop. CYBER-BULLYING.

So, do you think your post history doesn't exist, or what? Because you're not nearly as lily white as you're claiming and a casual look at the thread you are referencing would make that quite clear.

Bring it on. I am not denying what I said (I just won't say it again). I remember you though, you were the one pitching in and kicking me out. .......(listening)

mosdub · December 2014

bibliothecary said:

*trimmed the tree*

Allow me to assist.

denisajacob said:

Low IQ? This may help... https://wakeup-world.com/2014/08/11/new-study-links-autism-to-pesticide-exposure-during-pregnancy/

denisajacob said:

You're right...I had the posts mixed up. Sorry . On other note, I'm not forcing anyone to eat healthy. It's a common sense, when you're pregnant and not a moron to be mindful of what you put in...But that's me.

I do believe you called us morons, kitten.

Ah, yes, and how could one forget this gem:
denisajacob said:
Good post hater! Where you from ? The south? Eat chicken and waffles.. Grow! What do I care ... Bunch of hateful big bitches here... Peace

...I want a Belgian waffle now.

denisajacob · December 2014

bibliothecary said:

shainarichelle said:

denisajacob said:

Dajart4 said:

@denisajacob‌ please don't believe I was rude to that women. She made rude remarks to me and started name calling. I simply returned the favor. I know it's wrong but I wasn't the one who started it.

Hun, I had the same issue here few days ago. I started being attacked in a post where lady was asking an advice about nutrition. I'm a yoga teacher and nutrition is part of the deal. I posted what has helped me and it seems it has offended others (I mentioned smoothie and oatmeal...Ooops) and started being attacked by one of them...so I fired back! Once. But the hell broke loose and wasn't left alone even after I left the thread completely. I apologized and wished them all well...but that did not not make it stop. CYBER-BULLYING.

Before you apologized, you dropped some bullshit about someone having a low IQ and linked an article about pesticides and autism, if I remember correctly. Not quite the same as everyone getting offended by smoothie and oatmeal.

Allow me to assist.

denisajacob said:

Low IQ? This may help... https://wakeup-world.com/2014/08/11/new-study-links-autism-to-pesticide-exposure-during-pregnancy/

denisajacob said:

You're right...I had the posts mixed up. Sorry . On other note, I'm not forcing anyone to eat healthy. It's a common sense, when you're pregnant and not a moron to be mindful of what you put in...But that's me.

I do believe you called us morons, kitten.

Ah, yes, and how could one forget this gem:
denisajacob said:
Good post hater! Where you from ? The south? Eat chicken and waffles.. Grow! What do I care ... Bunch of hateful big bitches here... Peace

All has escalated...why don't you post what you wrote to me...ABOUT me. The difference is I apologized for the remarks. You guys never did. You find it ok to get someone so worked up by insults, that when they finally break, it gives you justified cause to attack them further. (Nice technique.) Don't put your shit on me, darling. Anyone would react that way, if not worse.

princesslockness · December 2014

Let me get this straight. @Dajart4 is the same person as @deniseajacobs and she has been WKing her posts thru her other account?

oh SHIT just got real

denisajacob · December 2014

At the end of the day, it's about maturity. Admit you were wrong too! Simple as that!

allelsefaild · December 2014

WTAF is happening today? I'm gone for a couple hours and come back to this? Holy shitballs.

JumpAroundBucky · December 2014

Sweet Jesus, I have missed TB.

elizabetheleven · December 2014

@Mosdub holy shit I must have those right now.

golfingdarwinfish · December 2014

Since I've already announced my lurking, I want to add I'm SO happy to see multiple ladies I recognize from TTGP here (I was there briefly with my old name VGolfNYC) - CONGRATS LADIES!!!!!!!!!!!!

... and to my favorite newly KTFU ladies...

spiltmilkz · December 2014

Damn quote boxes.

Dajart4 · December 2014

@denisajacob‌ here is the deal. There are a lot of women here who throw stones and hide their hand. They start drama and how dare we get offended and comment accordingly. Seems as if what's good for the goose is not good for the gander. Just go to their page and click ignore. Been working pretty good for me.

denisajacob · December 2014

Kate08Young said:

Let me get this straight. @Dajart4 is the same person as @deniseajacobs and she has been WKing her posts thru her other account?

oh SHIT just got real

LMAO!!!You're genius! I'm messaging myself! This is better than comedy. LOL!!!

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