I didn't have ANYTHING scheduled all morning - then I had a 1 o'clock meeting come up. Next time, can you please, PLEASE make sure to pull this shit while I'm around???? I have many gifs to give.
I just discovered the ignore feature. Is there a way to block users completely?
When using the ignore feature their comments are still there for a minute or two until the system updates and goes away.
What else can I do?
Sweetie, there are plenty of cyberbyllies on this board. I have taken few snapshots of certain comments certain people write to others...filing a complaint. It's not ok to continue on attack of others and this company should be aware of it. Leaving is not the answer...finding like-minded people is. Much love xoxo
I agree, you are like-minded. Not a compliment.
And you are a bully!!! Leave people alone and start worrying about yourself. This site board will most likely get shut down anyway.
No it won't. There haven't been many violations of TOU. And no one has to stay here at take the 'cyber bullying' of honest answers, science and facts. If you can't handle the heat get out of the kitchen.
I am not talking about honest answers, science and facts. Fact is that any type of following one on the board and intentionally harass them with inappropriate, rude an insensitive comments, is called CYBER-BULLYING...Of course, it's ok to mess with someone and leave them alone. But what is enough is enough and to pursue this harassment on goingly, with the evil intent to harm them?!?
As we all know many people commit suicide because of it...Teenagers do it and it seems that pregnant women have become perfect victim as well. Sensitivities, hormones all that adds up. How about miscarriage...what if one's experience with some of these "friendly" responses leads to such stress that the woman suffers one? Is that not a crime?
I'm lurking, but the bolded made me raise my eyebrows and shake my head because the reasoning and rationale is so flawed and misguided. You do realize that you would have to show empirical evidence that x amount of stress causes miscarriage, and then that person y suffered x amount of stress as a result of ONLY "cyber bullying" on the bump, and then that that x stress caused her miscarriage.
If someone finds themselves experiencing stress from an electronic forum they should probably have the good sense to leave the forum instead of being a glutton for punishment and remaining, thinking they are going to change hundreds of strangers with empty threats.
The scientific method is lost on many. For shame.
BFP 12/13/14
My Other Babies are a Black Lab/Springer Spaniel mix (8yo) and a Basenji mix (4yo)
August '15 Siggy Challenge: Favorite tv/movie mean girl
I didn't have ANYTHING scheduled all morning - then I had a 1 o'clock meeting come up. Next time, can you please, PLEASE make sure to pull this shit while I'm around???? I have many gifs to give.
Of course this would happen on one of my days off while I'm stuck on mobile and can't contribute properly.
I don't even have post-its with me so now I'll have to go back through again later.
August '15 January Siggy Challenge: Favorite Mean Girls Nancy Downs - The Craft
Tired. I would say it's been fun but it hasn't. Peace, harmony and well wishes to babies. To bad nobody answered my blocking question. Have at it Trolls!
Tired. I would say it's been fun but it hasn't. Peace, harmony and well wishes to babies. To bad nobody answered my blocking question. Have at it Trolls!
So happy it didn't take you long to get bored after ignoring everyone.
Aug15 Signature Challenge- Favorite Mean Girl from Film/TV- Santana
Seriously just read this entire post and I have no clue what the point was here. Why block everyone? Why start a thread yelling at people about bullying when you're the one yelling at people. Step away from the Internet people. This garbage makes me tired.
Tired. I would say it's been fun but it hasn't. Peace, harmony and well wishes to babies. To bad nobody answered my blocking question. Have at it Trolls!
Tired. I would say it's been fun but it hasn't. Peace, harmony and well wishes to babies. To bad nobody answered my blocking question. Have at it Trolls!
At this rate, this is going to be the longest 8 months ever. All this before breastfeeding, vaccine and birthing debates? Batten down the hatches, folks.
One thing has become abundantly clear to me reading this thread, I need a waffle maker pronto. i guess i should go introduce myself too since things seem to be getting entertaining.
I can't believe I just wasted this much time reading this thread. I have 2 things to say:
1. I have known @njb750 aka @quietdownfiish for a while and has never made me think she is anything less than an AWESOME lady and mother.
2. I'm disgusted with the implications of someone here causing another woman MC. @Dajart4@denisajacob have you read the spotting/bleeding thread and the terror so many have gone through? Have you seen how many goodbyes we have had on this board already? As a loss mom joking or making light of MC is never ok. It's still not bullying, it just makes you look like a butthole.
Tired. I would say it's been fun but it hasn't. Peace, harmony and well wishes to babies. To bad nobody answered my blocking question. Have at it Trolls!
And also, everything that's needed to be said has been said, multiple times. If you don't like the vibe, leave. You don't have to make a big exit and bash everyone on the way out. Saying "Go be a mom. You pathetic excuse for a mother. Darn it there I go cyber bullying again. Let us pray. We all need Jesus!" is just ridiculous. The mom bashing has to stop. Carry on.
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At this rate, this is going to be the longest 8 months ever. All this before breastfeeding, vaccine and birthing debates? Batten down the hatches, folks.
Don't forget circumcision.
True story. And baby led weaning. Plus RF/FF before we know it. God help us all.
2. I'm disgusted with the implications of someone here causing another woman MC.
@Dajart4@denisajacob have you read the spotting/bleeding thread and the terror so many have gone through? Have you seen how many goodbyes we have had on this board already? As a loss mom joking or making light of MC is never ok. It's still not bullying, it just makes you look like a butthole.
First, let me say that I really miss @MarathonHiker and a few of the other girls who lost their babies this month.
Next, I sooo wish I had an in at Bravo because this thread could spark a Real Housewives of The Bump franchise.
I watched the Good Eats on waffles last night, and at the very end he did chicken and waffles. The first thing I thought "TB is taking over the world." The second "Damn, I'd love some chicken and waffles."
TTC #1 since 11/2012 Me-31, H-27 **Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP** **Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25** Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14 SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal. HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall. Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed. 9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014 BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000! U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015 U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
Well I guess I learned a lesson. Don't stand up for yourself. You'll then be known as the cyber bully. I guess I get what I deserve.
Truly some of you women should be ashamed of yourselves. On women has a 10 month old whose sick and she's spending her time making rude comments to me. Go be a mom. You pathetic excuse for a mother. Darn it there I go cyber bullying again. Let us pray. We all need Jesus!
@Dajart4 I can't believe you would talk about someone else's sick baby, call them a pathetic excuse for a mother, and in the same breath talk about prayer and Jesus. The word blasphemy comes to mind. I think it's shameful that you would conduct yourself this way.
@denisajacob I'm creeping out of the shadows because your comment about your friend who had a miscarriage secondary to what you think was stress/ anxiety really pisses me off. There is no proven link that stress causes as miscarriage. None. Do you know often miscarriages go unexplained? Most are caused by chromosome abnormalities, but the others, like my two in a row, went unexplained. My babies had normal chromosomes. Part of my healing was just letting go of the "what I did wrong" and accepting " it wasn't my time. " It's comments like yours that make people who suffer miscarriage blame themselves over and over when your friend probably does not even know the exact cause of hers. She's assuming it was the cyber bullying and you may be agreeing with her adding to the ignorance. The truth is, she could have had her feet up and get waited on hand and foot everyday with minimal stress and she still would have had her loss. So please stop making an assumption that truthfully you probably no nothing about because IT HURTS. I'm just not going to blame others or myself for my miscarriages!
Married since Dec 2010. TTC since Feb of 2014.
**BFP#1 Feb 20th. EDD October 28th, 2014. MC March 20th (7.5 wks) D&C.
**BFP #2 May 22nd. EDD Feb 8th, 2015. MC July 1st, 2014 (6.5 weeks) D&C
Heard both babies heartbeats @6w3d, 122bpm and 100bpm. Will never forget that sound!
**BFP #3 EDD 8/21/15 Please, please be ourrainbow!!
Re: Ignoring and blocking users
Technically, we're all growing spines and about half of us are growing balls.
Funniest thing I've read all day!
Edit: awww, quote fail. I will never get this mobile thing down.
Eta: because html is hard
I'm literally crying from laughing at the fact that you just got blocked.
eta: welcome to the club.
Aug15 January Siggy: Favorite Mean Girl
roll tide.
my ute: stalk it. stalk it real good
I didn't have ANYTHING scheduled all morning - then I had a 1 o'clock meeting come up. Next time, can you please, PLEASE make sure to pull this shit while I'm around???? I have many gifs to give.
The scientific method is lost on many. For shame.
BFP#3 EDD 8/19/2015
mc @ 7wks 4/2014
Me 31 H 33
I don't even have post-its with me so now I'll have to go back through again later.
August '15 January Siggy Challenge: Favorite Mean Girls
Nancy Downs - The Craft
Just wanted to post saying I was here. Stupid job keeping me from the dramaz.
Aug15 January Siggy: Favorite Mean Girl
roll tide.
my ute: stalk it. stalk it real good
BFP 12/9/14 EDD 8/18/15
BYE FELICIA
One thing has become abundantly clear to me reading this thread, I need a waffle maker pronto. i guess i should go introduce myself too since things seem to be getting entertaining.
1. I have known @njb750 aka @quietdownfiish for a while and has never made me think she is anything less than an AWESOME lady and mother.
2. I'm disgusted with the implications of someone here causing another woman MC.
@Dajart4 @denisajacob have you read the spotting/bleeding thread and the terror so many have gone through? Have you seen how many goodbyes we have had on this board already? As a loss mom joking or making light of MC is never ok. It's still not bullying, it just makes you look like a butthole.
OMG DYING. Trolololololololololol trololololooooooooooool! Loooooooool.
First, let me say that I really miss @MarathonHiker and a few of the other girls who lost their babies this month. Next, I sooo wish I had an in at Bravo because this thread could spark a Real Housewives of The Bump franchise.
Me-31, H-27
**Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
**Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
Best Cajun comfort food for cold weather!
I can't look away!!!
August '15 January Siggy Challenge: Favorite Mean Girls
Nancy Downs - The Craft
But I DO want chicken and waffles.
CP: 01/2011 | MMC: 01/2012 | MMC: 10/2012 | DS: 11/2013 | MMC: 11/2014 | DD: 01/2016
BFP: 06/2018 - EDD: 02/09/2019
ETA: gif fail