Why would you want to stay on a board where you want to block and ignore a bunch of users? I'm not trying to be snarky, this is an honest question. If people don't like the feel of a certain board, there are plenty of other communities out there that might be more to your liking. I've been on TK & TB for a long time and the vibe of this place isn't going to change.
@direy25 Well I've had questions answered by a community of women where some are in my exact same boat. I've never had an issue until today. I thought that these types of instances will be few and far between. I'm not 100% sure if you are trying to come for me so I'm going to have to ignore your post as well. Sorry God Bless.
Your unmonitored clomid quints already had me side eyeing you. Your theatrics here today just brought it to a whole new level. Why stick around, seriously?
Oh snap!
*Aug '15 Siggy Challenge - Mean Girl*
My 2 boys ages 8 & 10 BFP#3 EDD 8/19/2015 mc @ 7wks 4/2014 Me 31 H 33
Your unmonitored clomid quints already had me side eyeing you. Your theatrics here today just brought it to a whole new level. Why stick around, seriously?
@direy25 Well I've had questions answered by a community of women where some are in my exact same boat. I've never had an issue until today. I thought that these types of instances will be few and far between. I'm not 100% sure if you are trying to come for me so I'm going to have to ignore your post as well. Sorry God Bless.
What on earth did I say that would make you think I'm trying to "come for you?" And WTF does that even mean? But I guess you've probably blocked me so I won't get an answer. So much for asking an honest / innocent question.
I just discovered the ignore feature. Is there a way to block users completely?
When using the ignore feature their comments are still there for a minute or two until the system updates and goes away.
What else can I do?
Sweetie, there are plenty of cyberbyllies on this board. I have taken few snapshots of certain comments certain people write to others...filing a complaint. It's not ok to continue on attack of others and this company should be aware of it. Leaving is not the answer...finding like-minded people is. Much love xoxo
I just discovered the ignore feature. Is there a way to block users completely?
When using the ignore feature their comments are still there for a minute or two until the system updates and goes away.
What else can I do?
Sweetie, there are plenty of cyberbyllies on this board. I have taken few snapshots of certain comments certain people write to others...filing a complaint. It's not ok to continue on attack of others and this company should be aware of it. Leaving is not the answer...finding like-minded people is. Much love xoxo
I agree, you are like-minded. Not a compliment.
And you are a bully!!! Leave people alone and start worrying about yourself. This site board will most likely get shut down anyway.
I just discovered the ignore feature. Is there a way to block users completely?
When using the ignore feature their comments are still there for a minute or two until the system updates and goes away.
What else can I do?
Sweetie, there are plenty of cyberbyllies on this board. I have taken few snapshots of certain comments certain people write to others...filing a complaint. It's not ok to continue on attack of others and this company should be aware of it. Leaving is not the answer...finding like-minded people is. Much love xoxo
I agree, you are like-minded. Not a compliment.
And you are a bully!!! Leave people alone and start worrying about yourself. This site board will most likely get shut down anyway.
No it won't. There haven't been many violations of TOU. And no one has to stay here at take the 'cyber bullying' of honest answers, science and facts. If you can't handle the heat get out of the kitchen.
Formerly known as Kate08young August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Me: 28 H: 24 Married: 7/22/14 Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017. Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
I can't actually see their posts anymore. I just wish there was a way I could block them completely. They can't see my post I can't see theirs. All would be good.
I just discovered the ignore feature. Is there a way to block users completely?
When using the ignore feature their comments are still there for a minute or two until the system updates and goes away.
What else can I do?
Sweetie, there are plenty of cyberbyllies on this board. I have taken few snapshots of certain comments certain people write to others...filing a complaint. It's not ok to continue on attack of others and this company should be aware of it. Leaving is not the answer...finding like-minded people is. Much love xoxo
QBF_____________
You do realize that she told us to find a bridge and jump off of it? You're defending the definition of bully. Or byllie
Aug15 Signature Challenge- Favorite Mean Girl from Film/TV- Santana
Serious question: if you block all the "mean" posters, who the fuck is going to answer questions around here and offer support to other moms in crisis? Because the nice, glitter-fart posters on here? They don't know their ass from their elbow and they do not take the time to commiserate. You know who fucking shows up? US! We show up. We answer questions, we redirect posters to appropriate threads, we give our condolences when loss happens. It's US. So a hearty "fuck off" in your general direction.
Bibilo, you're not supposed to ask serious questions. It's against her rules. You're probably getting blocked now...
@denisajacob thanks for the positivity.
I can't actually see their posts anymore. I just wish there was a way I could block them completely. They can't see my post I can't see theirs. All would be good.
I am assuming I have not, yet, been blocked, so I have an honest question for you. Why are you going to block all of the people here, and then stay? With whom are you going to communicate? I just think that if you don't like the vibe here you would find another place where the vibe was more to your liking.
This place can be wonderfully supportive, I have seen it. However, there are social norms here, as there are everywhere, and people are expected to adhere to them. If the norms here are not to someone's liking he or she is welcome to find a new location, but the environment here will not be changing.
All of the "bullies" the WKs are referring to are staying well within the TOU guidelines. This place will not be closed down because people do not like the responses they are getting.
I just discovered the ignore feature. Is there a way to block users completely?
When using the ignore feature their comments are still there for a minute or two until the system updates and goes away.
What else can I do?
Sweetie, there are plenty of cyberbyllies on this board. I have taken few snapshots of certain comments certain people write to others...filing a complaint. It's not ok to continue on attack of others and this company should be aware of it. Leaving is not the answer...finding like-minded people is. Much love xoxo
I agree, you are like-minded. Not a compliment.
And you are a bully!!! Leave people alone and start worrying about yourself. This site board will most likely get shut down anyway.
No it won't. There haven't been many violations of TOU. And no one has to stay here at take the 'cyber bullying' of honest answers, science and facts. If you can't handle the heat get out of the kitchen.
I am not talking about honest answers, science and facts. Fact is that any type of following one on the board and intentionally harass them with inappropriate, rude an insensitive comments, is called CYBER-BULLYING...Of course, it's ok to mess with someone and leave them alone. But what is enough is enough and to pursue this harassment on goingly, with the evil intent to harm them?!?
As we all know many people commit suicide because of it...Teenagers do it and it seems that pregnant women have become perfect victim as well. Sensitivities, hormones all that adds up. How about miscarriage...what if one's experience with some of these "friendly" responses leads to such stress that the woman suffers one? Is that not a crime?
Omfg everyone grow the fuck up already. If you don't like people's posts, leave. Go away. Don't come back. Or learn to be a big adult person and say hey, I don't like these few individuals, but I enjoy being around here, so I am not going to make like a twatwaffle and instigate. This post, this one right here, the op, that's instigating. Stop it. Don't do it. We all have extremely high levels of hormones and any normal sarcastic response will just end up being massive bitchfest. Hell, like my post.
Stopppppp ittttttttt. That is all.
BFP 12/13/14
My Other Babies are a Black Lab/Springer Spaniel mix (8yo) and a Basenji mix (4yo)
August '15 Siggy Challenge: Favorite tv/movie mean girl
I just discovered the ignore feature. Is there a way to block users completely?
When using the ignore feature their comments are still there for a minute or two until the system updates and goes away.
What else can I do?
Sweetie, there are plenty of cyberbyllies on this board. I have taken few snapshots of certain comments certain people write to others...filing a complaint. It's not ok to continue on attack of others and this company should be aware of it. Leaving is not the answer...finding like-minded people is. Much love xoxo
I agree, you are like-minded. Not a compliment.
And you are a bully!!! Leave people alone and start worrying about yourself. This site board will most likely get shut down anyway.
August '15 January Siggy Challenge "Favorite Mean Girl"
I agree with the above few posters. Suggesting that a stupid forum with anonymous internet people that you choose to be on can lead to a miscarriage is disgusting.
BFP 12/13/14
My Other Babies are a Black Lab/Springer Spaniel mix (8yo) and a Basenji mix (4yo)
August '15 Siggy Challenge: Favorite tv/movie mean girl
I just discovered the ignore feature. Is there a way to block users completely?
When using the ignore feature their comments are still there for a minute or two until the system updates and goes away.
What else can I do?
Sweetie, there are plenty of cyberbyllies on this board. I have taken few snapshots of certain comments certain people write to others...filing a complaint. It's not ok to continue on attack of others and this company should be aware of it. Leaving is not the answer...finding like-minded people is. Much love xoxo
****DS born 08/18/2015****Baby squishy due 08/03/2015****
Serious question guise. How come I can't see some of these comments that others are quoting? I haven't blocked or ignored anyone and it's frustrating to miss half this drama.
Formerly known as Kate08young August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Me: 28 H: 24 Married: 7/22/14 Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017. Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
And you are a bully!!! Leave people alone and start worrying about yourself. This site board will most likely get shut down anyway.
Let me explain to you how this internet thing works....
Unless you can provide some evidence that you will single handedly be able to generate the massive amount of ad traffic this site receives, it is unlikely that your white knight rant will get you any more than a chuckle. Probably not even that. But damn I'd like to see your stern and discouraging letter. Need a proofreader?
I just discovered the ignore feature. Is there a way to block users completely?
When using the ignore feature their comments are still there for a minute or two until the system updates and goes away.
What else can I do?
Sweetie, there are plenty of cyberbyllies on this board. I have taken few snapshots of certain comments certain people write to others...filing a complaint. It's not ok to continue on attack of others and this company should be aware of it. Leaving is not the answer...finding like-minded people is. Much love xoxo
I agree, you are like-minded. Not a compliment.
And you are a bully!!! Leave people alone and start worrying about yourself. This site board will most likely get shut down anyway.
Really, did you feel intimidated or threatened by my post? That is the definition of cyber bullying. The only person I have seen threaten to "go for the jugular" today is @dajart4
edited to remove double quote
All due respect, I'm a bit concerned about this where one starts, every other ads on the fire. There is a fine line which is being crossed and it needs to be brought into someone's attention. I have a friend who lost her baby after being brought into so much stress by a cyber-bully. Not saying every one means bad, but conscious words (thought through) would make a huge difference. You can say many things to someone without being offensive, rude or hurtful. Unless that is what you do to make yourself feel more powerful (in general terms...not you directly). Do you understand what I mean here...I said some stuff to someone the other day, and I apologized for that because I realized it was not right. And I stand behind it. It's just NOT RIGHT.
Well I guess I learned a lesson. Don't stand up for yourself. You'll then be known as the cyber bully. I guess I get what I deserve.
Truly some of you women should be ashamed of yourselves. On women has a 10 month old whose sick and she's spending her time making rude comments to me. Go be a mom. You pathetic excuse for a mother. Darn it there I go cyber bullying again. Let us pray. We all need Jesus!
Wow. This board is going to turn into a fucking disaster if this shit doesn't stop.
If you're unhappy here, leave. It's pretty simple. This board isn't going to be shut down, and none of us have violated the TOU, so there's nothing to even give warnings about. Nothing here is going to change except for the fact that hopefully the people who have no desire to become part of the community will leave.
As @bibliothecary said, if you end up blocking all of the "regs" on the board, who are you going to communicate with? We're the ones that respond to posts and offer support to others. All of white knights running around this place right now have done nothing but start their own threads and complain about other posters.
TTC since July 2012 BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13
RE consult: June 2014
DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube
Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN
Well I guess I learned a lesson. Don't stand up for yourself. You'll then be known as the cyber bully. I guess I get what I deserve.
Truly some of you women should be ashamed of yourselves. On women has a 10 month old whose sick and she's spending her time making rude comments to me. Go be a mom. You pathetic excuse for a mother. Darn it there I go cyber bullying again. Let us pray. We all need Jesus!
If you believe we 'all' need Jesus, then go find him. Leave the rest of us alone. We are happy with our circle of 'bullying' so pray for peace of mind and go away.
Formerly known as Kate08young August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Me: 28 H: 24 Married: 7/22/14 Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017. Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
Well I guess I learned a lesson. Don't stand up for yourself. You'll then be known as the cyber bully. I guess I get what I deserve.
Truly some of you women should be ashamed of yourselves. On women has a 10 month old whose sick and she's spending her time making rude comments to me. Go be a mom. You pathetic excuse for a mother. Darn it there I go cyber bullying again. Let us pray. We all need Jesus!
Maybe her child is sleeping, and this site is her "break time"....Very godly of you to throw stones and tell people to kill themselves. Seems like you are the one who needs a little more Jesus. Bless your heart!
****DS born 08/18/2015****Baby squishy due 08/03/2015****
Well I guess I learned a lesson. Don't stand up for yourself. You'll then be known as the cyber bully. I guess I get what I deserve.
Truly some of you women should be ashamed of yourselves. On women has a 10 month old whose sick and she's spending her time making rude comments to me. Go be a mom. You pathetic excuse for a mother. Darn it there I go cyber bullying again. Let us pray. We all need Jesus!
August '15 January Siggy Challenge "Favorite Mean Girl"
Re: Ignoring and blocking users
BFP#3 EDD 8/19/2015
mc @ 7wks 4/2014
Me 31 H 33
/DED
RIP KAMARKS.
Aug15 January Siggy: Favorite Mean Girl
roll tide.
my ute: stalk it. stalk it real good
Guys - we all know I'm the one she's ignoring/blocking because I'm a horrible human being.
So she can't see this, right?
Aug15 January Siggy: Favorite Mean Girl
roll tide.
my ute: stalk it. stalk it real good
BFP#3 EDD 8/19/2015
mc @ 7wks 4/2014
Me 31 H 33
Aug15 January Siggy: Favorite Mean Girl
roll tide.
my ute: stalk it. stalk it real good
-----QBF-----
Yeah, but she's the one who's being harassed.
Sweetie, there are plenty of cyberbyllies on this board. I have taken few snapshots of certain comments certain people write to others...filing a complaint. It's not ok to continue on attack of others and this company should be aware of it. Leaving is not the answer...finding like-minded people is. Much love xoxo
And you are a bully!!! Leave people alone and start worrying about yourself. This site board will most likely get shut down anyway.
And you are a bully!!! Leave people alone and start worrying about yourself. This site board will most likely get shut down anyway.
No it won't. There haven't been many violations of TOU. And no one has to stay here at take the 'cyber bullying' of honest answers, science and facts. If you can't handle the heat get out of the kitchen.
Formerly known as Kate08young
August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Married: 7/22/14
Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms
Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms
TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017.
Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
I can't actually see their posts anymore. I just wish there was a way I could block them completely. They can't see my post I can't see theirs. All would be good.
Sweetie, there are plenty of cyberbyllies on this board. I have taken few snapshots of certain comments certain people write to others...filing a complaint. It's not ok to continue on attack of others and this company should be aware of it. Leaving is not the answer...finding like-minded people is. Much love xoxo
QBF_____________
You do realize that she told us to find a bridge and jump off of it? You're defending the definition of bully. Or byllie
BFP 12/9/14 EDD 8/18/15
Aug15 January Siggy: Favorite Mean Girl
roll tide.
my ute: stalk it. stalk it real good
I am not talking about honest answers, science and facts. Fact is that any type of following one on the board and intentionally harass them with inappropriate, rude an insensitive comments, is called CYBER-BULLYING...Of course, it's ok to mess with someone and leave them alone. But what is enough is enough and to pursue this harassment on goingly, with the evil intent to harm them?!? As we all know many people commit suicide because of it...Teenagers do it and it seems that pregnant women have become perfect victim as well. Sensitivities, hormones all that adds up. How about miscarriage...what if one's experience with some of these "friendly" responses leads to such stress that the woman suffers one? Is that not a crime?
Formerly known as Kate08young
August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Married: 7/22/14
Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms
Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms
TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017.
Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
This is how I read your post..
Aug15 January Siggy: Favorite Mean Girl
roll tide.
my ute: stalk it. stalk it real good
And you are a bully!!! Leave people alone and start worrying about yourself. This site board will most likely get shut down anyway.
****DS born 08/18/2015****Baby squishy due 08/03/2015****
Formerly known as Kate08young
August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Married: 7/22/14
Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms
Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms
TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017.
Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
Unless you can provide some evidence that you will single handedly be able to generate the massive amount of ad traffic this site receives, it is unlikely that your white knight rant will get you any more than a chuckle. Probably not even that. But damn I'd like to see your stern and discouraging letter. Need a proofreader?
All due respect, I'm a bit concerned about this where one starts, every other ads on the fire. There is a fine line which is being crossed and it needs to be brought into someone's attention. I have a friend who lost her baby after being brought into so much stress by a cyber-bully. Not saying every one means bad, but conscious words (thought through) would make a huge difference. You can say many things to someone without being offensive, rude or hurtful. Unless that is what you do to make yourself feel more powerful (in general terms...not you directly). Do you understand what I mean here...I said some stuff to someone the other day, and I apologized for that because I realized it was not right. And I stand behind it. It's just NOT RIGHT.
Truly some of you women should be ashamed of yourselves. On women has a 10 month old whose sick and she's spending her time making rude comments to me. Go be a mom. You pathetic excuse for a mother. Darn it there I go cyber bullying again. Let us pray. We all need Jesus!
Wow. This board is going to turn into a fucking disaster if this shit doesn't stop.
If you're unhappy here, leave. It's pretty simple. This board isn't going to be shut down, and none of us have violated the TOU, so there's nothing to even give warnings about. Nothing here is going to change except for the fact that hopefully the people who have no desire to become part of the community will leave.
As @bibliothecary said, if you end up blocking all of the "regs" on the board, who are you going to communicate with? We're the ones that respond to posts and offer support to others. All of white knights running around this place right now have done nothing but start their own threads and complain about other posters.
TTC since July 2012
BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13
RE consult: June 2014
DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube
Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN
November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!
BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15
Blogging to stay sane
Formerly known as Kate08young
August '18 Siggy April Showers:
Married: 7/22/14
Baby L: 8/4/2015 August 2015 Moms
Baby E: 11/18/2016 December 2016 Moms
TTC #3 08/2017 BFP 11/27/2017.
Twin B lost 11/22/2017, Twin A doing well.
Maybe her child is sleeping, and this site is her "break time"....Very godly of you to throw stones and tell people to kill themselves. Seems like you are the one who needs a little more Jesus. Bless your heart!
****DS born 08/18/2015****Baby squishy due 08/03/2015****
....that it would start shit.
Just like the "lactating" post that another of the WKs started yesterday.
TTC since July 2012
BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13
RE consult: June 2014
DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube
Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN
November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!
BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15
Blogging to stay sane