I have entered this weird phase where I can't believe I'm going to have a baby. It's like I'm 6 wks again & still wrapping my head around everything. I can feel him kicking me, my pelvis feels like I'm 95, and the house is full of baby gear, but... I can't believe it's real. It's like a big game we're playing. I keep seeing tons of squishy newborn pics on FB & I just can't imagine posting any of my own.
And then I'm like -- it's about 2 seconds until New Years, & it's crazy how little time we have left after that.
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Also, seriously. I need more people to tell me that I don't need 12 A&A blankets. Or that I do. I plan to swaddle him every night in one...
@mangomimosa I am in the same boat! I keep saying "there's an actual baby in here! That we then have to raise!!" It's like delayed shock or something
My random is that today is my family's Christmas party. I am hoping for good food and a relaxing time- there will be 14 of us in a small area so we'll see how that works out
I had planned to make some sugar cookies to take but haven't done it yet, so we'll also see if that happens. Right now the outlook is not good because my bed is SUPER comfortable
Happy Sunday! My hips are so ridiculously sore this morning from standing for eight hours baking cookies. I may do nothing today.
My dd has this terrible cough and poor thing couldn't stay asleep last night. Which meant we didn't get much sleep either. Thank god for soothing syrup for toddlers because that got the coughing to stop.
Been MIA the last few days, we drove up to Ohio (11 hours) on Friday to spend Christmas week with our family...my back is still recovering from the drive, ugh. We are here until Saturday and I'm already tired and ready to go home!
MIL is throwing us a little family baby shower today so that should be fun. I haven't seen a lot of DH's cousins since we moved to Georgia two years ago so I'm looking forward to seeing them all!
@RQuinlin My grandma always makes those but with tortilla on the outside...so tortillas spread with cream cheese, ham, and pickles rolled up. She's made them every holiday for as long as I can remember...I've never eaten one but I never thought of it as weird until you said that and I really thought about those ingredients together LOL.
Last night at the party someone brought food that made me go WTF? It was Gerkin pickles wrapped in ham and and some sort of white cheese. I was like, ummmm , I'm the pregnant one and that in no way looks appetizing. Has anyone else seen this bizarre combo?
Nope, but now that you mention it, my stomach's little brain is seriously considering the yummy factor of that combo .
Last night at the party someone brought food that made me go WTF? It was Gerkin pickles wrapped in ham and and some sort of white cheese. I was like, ummmm , I'm the pregnant one and that in no way looks appetizing. Has anyone else seen this bizarre combo?
Nope, but now that you mention it, my stomach's little brain is seriously considering the yummy factor of that combo .
@luckystarz I have to finish shopping today too...womp womp...I actually love shopping but am enjoying my couch and pajamas right now!
I enter the third trimester today...say what?! I know things will go faster from here out...but I have a ton to do!
I'm entering the third trimester too. The home stretch. How crazy is that?!?
TTC Since July of 2010 BFP: July 4th, 2014 EDD: March 15, 2015
@RQuinlin That reminds me of Bridget Jones' Diary with the gherkins.
@mangomimosa You captured exactly how I am feeling. I feel like being pregnant was something I thought about growing up (even shoving pillows up my shirt with my sisters when we played house)...now that I'm 27 weeks I have to sit and think about how really real this is.
A bit of a long random for me, so apologies in advance...but H and I successfully hosted his parents at our house and survived the 13 hour drive from there to his grandparent's place. Although my back and legs are screaming at me.
What I wanted to share though, since @janda426 has been my overbearing MIL mentor, is that we picked out the exact crib we wanted for her to buy. She told us it was lovely. Then, last night after we arrived at Grandma's, I irritated her. When asked about names, I told everyone we had narrowed it down to two names but are waiting to meet our baby girl to decide which suits her best. And we're keeping those two names between us. She got snippy and told H's cousin who's in college she should start thinking about the things now so she's not like me. And then told his Grandma that the crib I picked out looks like a hospital bed from the 60s.
H pulled me aside and told me he still loves our crib, ignore her. And he still likes our "statement" about names. We are a team and that's our response. It made me sooo happy.
She can be as nasty and crazy as she wants, but I have my H and we're a team.
@RQuinlin - I make those every year for the holidays except with dill pickles. Slice of ham, spread with cream cheese and pickle in the middle- roll up, slice and Voila! We are having my family over today and wasn't planning to make those, but now I want to!
I wasn't planning to have to do any errands today, but now I/we have to pick up last minute gifts for H's Aunt and Uncle whom apparently got us each something this year (but usually never do). I'm going to run to laundromat, then downtown and hopefully home by noon to get the bird in the oven.
I love those hammy pickle roll up things! I've made them a ton since being pregnant this time and think I might need to have some today...it's like a ham and cheese sandwich without the bread, not really weird. We always called them Cowboy Sushi.
At DH's work christmas party they had a version of the ham pickle roll up thing, but it had prosciutto and pickled asparagus. Sooooo good!
We got the carpet torn out of the nursery and the first coat of paint slapped on last night. The room already looks much brighter and prettier. The carpet was 20 years old at least. As was the old paint. When we took off the molding we saw that the wall had previously been painted in mauve stripes. Not sure what those folks were thinking, considering they also had a green vinyl floor.
So now we need a second coat of paint, and then I'll do the trim, and then we'll lay the flooring after Christmas and I'll be able to start nesting! Feeling very excited about this.
And I managed to get all but two christmas gifts purchased yesterday. So that's another load off my mind.
@jack12trip ugh how nasty!! I'm glad your H is standing by your side. With all the MIL issue I've been having lately as well that's really the only thing keeping me sane. If H was taking her side I would lose my damn mind. Screw her comments
Add me to the 'omg I've having a baby soon' group. My son will be 5 in February and we are starting over again. I have been so busy this pregnancy it has flown by.
I have entered this weird phase where I can't believe I'm going to have a baby. It's like I'm 6 wks again & still wrapping my head around everything. I can feel him kicking me, my pelvis feels like I'm 95, and the house is full of baby gear, but... I can't believe it's real. It's like a big game we're playing. I keep seeing tons of squishy newborn pics on FB & I just can't imagine posting any of my own.
And then I'm like -- it's about 2 seconds until New Years, & it's crazy how little time we have left after that.
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Also, seriously. I need more people to tell me that I don't need 12 A&A blankets. Or that I do. I plan to swaddle him every night in one...
@mangomimosa I feel like I am in the same stage! I am so excited for my little man to join us, but I'm terrified at the same time. Am I really going to have a new born in 12ish weeks?!?! Experiencing pregnancy and having a child is something I have wanted my whole life, but it's so close and I'm freaking out a bit!
For real all that Minnie ever does is like fashion shit. Sofia is a bad ass - she does princess stuff and she does prince stuff too. Minnie sucks.
I loathe Minnie. Sophia and Doc McStuffins I can totally get behind. I want to throat punch Sophia's sister though.
Also.. Add me to the "this is really happening" phase. I absolutely cannot wrap my head around the fact we're going to have two children.
AFM, got my first Charlie horse in my calf this morning around 4 am. Awesome. I'm still sore and while I have a ton of shit to do, I'm fully intending to sit on the couch and do nothing while DD naps.
@TikTak How funny! I love that we live so far away because we can have our own little drama-free life there, but it makes it awful when we come visit. My in-laws are moving down there next year and I'm curious to see how that works out LOL!
I'm hitting third trimester today too...only 13 weeks to go and time is flying! I'm with you guys on it not quite being real though...every time I see someone with a newborn I try to picture us with her and I just can't do it! Just too surreal.
I just took a two hour nap on my IL'a couch after waking up per my new normal at 4 this morning and not going back to sleep. It was glorious. I haven't taken a nap in probably five months!
Add me to the I can't believe it's almost here!! I'm 31 weeks today so single digits for weeks left! It's been ten years since I've given birth so I'm nervous all over again as though I've never done it. I didn't have pain Meds last time but I definitely want em this time and am hoping to have an easier delivery. Happy 3rd trimester to everyone just entering or who've been here a couple weeks. It's almost time!!!
@mangomimosa I've been feeling the same way as well. At the very beginning it was very unreal, and then I got used to the idea, and now I've reached a point where I'm just like oh crap im having a baby in about 10 weeks! I just can't wrap my head around it.
Last night DH and I went to dinner and a movie and some nice couple paid for our meal at the restaurant we ate. So we paid it forward to another couple. Just thought it was a nice holiday gesture from someone we didn't know, and wanted to share.
+1 for the group that doesn't believe it! I'm buying all this stuff and my belly is obviously showing and the kid kicks the crap out of me, but I can't fathom that I'll have a newborn of my own in 89 short days (give or take). I work with newborns and I have this fear that it'll be like every other newborn I care for and I won't believe it's mine and I won't bond with him.
I ordered my travel system from Amazon last night because I was looking at my registry and Chicco is discontinuing the color we wanted. Amazon had 15 left so I went ahead and ordered it. I figure nobody is gonna spend $350 on a shower gift. It was so hard to push the "purchase" button. I still think I have a little PgAL brain going on and to this day I feel like this is gonna get taken away from me and I'm scared to buy big things. But.. I gotta keep a positive attitude for this little guy that I love so much already!
Me(29), DH (29) Married December 2011 TTC#1 Since November 2013 Dec. 2013... BFP! 12/31/13... Natural M/C 1/29/14 (8 weeks) July 2014...BFP!... 17dpo beta 581...19dpo beta 1419!!.. stick baby, stick! EDD: 3/20/15.. It's a boy!
Add me to the OMG this is happening group. 30w today, and it's crazy to imagine. I never thought we would make it here. It is so hard to believe I could actually have a living, breathing baby at the end. Which could be any time. My contractions started with Owen 3w from now, and he was born a few days later. OMG. Our goal is 7 more weeks.
Also, I am so sore and uncomfortable. We are trying to get so much done this weekend, because we have family coming Tuesday, and then basically we have guests for the next month. We have 2 breaks of a few days to a week, but that's it. But I do anything and it just hurts. I can't wait until it is done and people are here and I can hopefully relax while they help out.
Hey everybody. I've been way MIA this week. So busy with work, and even when I'm not busy, my office gets bad reception so I never can get on mobile! Definitely can't use my work computer either. Officially 3rd tri now too!! I'm kinda in the I can't believe we are gonna have a baby soon, but I'm more just really excited and can't wait. Some of you may remember a couple weeks ago when our furniture was delivered, the toddler rail in the crib set was very damaged, so we had to have them bring another one. They brought it yesterday and took the old one. We put it together today and it's so pretty! No scratches. We put the glider together yesterday. So excited for her to be here!! Except not until March not much else going on here I don't think. So tired all the time! Had an appt this past week and everything is going well, measuring right on time so far. Last month I was a couple weeks off but right on now.
@katydid2014 glad you got your dress from your H! I know you were really wanting it! And props to you for doing all that reading so far. I really need to do some of that.
@mangomimosa I have an A&A problem too. I have way too many on our registry. I even have the changing pad covers and bibs on there too. But I love those damn blankets. It's my go to baby gift when I go to a shower, and my friends with babies just love them. Even if they won't swaddle in them, you can still use them.
So I got a text yesterday from a friend I worked with a few years ago.
Her: Are you ready to hear the saddest story ever?
Me: Sure, what is it?
Her: [texts a picture of a gorgeous girl] I went to college with this girl. Then she had 2 kids.
Me: Oh god, I am afraid of where this is going... (thinking: is she really going to...)
Her: [texts a picture of same gorgeous girl + 75 lb]
Me: I LOVE hearing stories like his while 7 mo pregnant... (thinking: yup, she really did.)
Her: But she got huge during her pregnancy and you aren't. [texts a picture of the same girl, behind a donut cake at her wedding, with her 2 kids]
Me: Yeah well... at my last visit the midwife said I was gaining too much.
WTF. I just...ugh. My H was like "you better say something funny so she knows you're not mad," but I was like - "Um... I AM mad! She's being so mean to this girl, IDGAF how much weight this girl gained, and this is NOT the kind of "story" to tell ANYONE let alone someone who's 7 mo pregnant!" Women are so evil to each other.
Sorry you're having to deal with all that @jennypm your mil reminds me a little of dhs stepmom when it comes to grandkids. After her son and his girlfriend (now wife) had their first, she kept asking me every time we were over there when we were going to have a kid. Mind you we were both still going to school full time at that time and weren't even engaged yet. Obviously, things happen and people get pregnant when they're not planning it, but I was just like "geez woman let us get jobs and get married first, then you can bug about grandkids all you want."
Idk if it's because I look young or what but I get some side glances when my bump is noticeable. I usually reciprocate with the stank eye.
I get the same thing. I don't think it's a side eye at you. I just think people stare when you're pregnant and don't consider that it might make the poor woman uncomfortable.
If my son pulls out one more craft today I might lose my mind. It was nice for the 2.5 hours that he was super quiet and playing with play dough. The incessant whining about growing crystals is now about to drive me over the edge. All I ask is that you clean up the mountain of toys before we get something else out. Trying to negotiate and opening with 'I cleaned up a lot so I think you can do the rest' is not going to win this argument kid.
Tmi but I feel like pooping will never be normal again. I go multiple days of being constipated followed by a day of terrible poops that hurt my belly. It's getting really old.
Yeah makes sense about the staring. They probably don't notice they're doing it, but it sure does make me feel uncomfortable! I'll try not to take it personally
@jennypm I feel you on the family shit and travel. We are always expected to go there and nobody ever comes here. We are flying out at 6am Christmas Day, see H's family and then drive 2.5 hr to have dinner with my family the same night. My granny always hosts the dinner and then we hang out/open gifts. I only see my fam once a year so my fave part is the dinner and hanging out. She wants the dinner at 5/530, which means we will be scrambling like crazy to get there in time. My mom asked her a few times if we could push it back just an hour to give us more wiggle room, traffic, etc. She's kind of set in her ways and wants it when she wants it, so I don't think it's changing. She just kinda thinks if we aren't there, we can just eat when we get there. I know she just is how she is but it hurts my feelings because we are busting our asses to come all this way just to maybe miss dinner by an hour? My grandpa keeps saying "oh it will all work out" so maybe they will just wait on us. Traveling just the 2 of us is really hard on us because H never gets much time off, so we have already decided next year we will spend in our home just us and our baby. Sorry so long!
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I enter the third trimester today...say what?! I know things will go faster from here out...but I have a ton to do!
My random is that today is my family's Christmas party. I am hoping for good food and a relaxing time- there will be 14 of us in a small area so we'll see how that works out
I had planned to make some sugar cookies to take but haven't done it yet, so we'll also see if that happens. Right now the outlook is not good because my bed is SUPER comfortable
My dd has this terrible cough and poor thing couldn't stay asleep last night. Which meant we didn't get much sleep either. Thank god for soothing syrup for toddlers because that got the coughing to stop.
Been MIA the last few days, we drove up to Ohio (11 hours) on Friday to spend Christmas week with our family...my back is still recovering from the drive, ugh. We are here until Saturday and I'm already tired and ready to go home!
MIL is throwing us a little family baby shower today so that should be fun. I haven't seen a lot of DH's cousins since we moved to Georgia two years ago so I'm looking forward to seeing them all!
TTC Since July of 2010
BFP: July 4th, 2014
EDD: March 15, 2015
@mangomimosa You captured exactly how I am feeling. I feel like being pregnant was something I thought about growing up (even shoving pillows up my shirt with my sisters when we played house)...now that I'm 27 weeks I have to sit and think about how really real this is.
A bit of a long random for me, so apologies in advance...but H and I successfully hosted his parents at our house and survived the 13 hour drive from there to his grandparent's place. Although my back and legs are screaming at me.
What I wanted to share though, since @janda426 has been my overbearing MIL mentor, is that we picked out the exact crib we wanted for her to buy. She told us it was lovely. Then, last night after we arrived at Grandma's, I irritated her. When asked about names, I told everyone we had narrowed it down to two names but are waiting to meet our baby girl to decide which suits her best. And we're keeping those two names between us. She got snippy and told H's cousin who's in college she should start thinking about the things now so she's not like me. And then told his Grandma that the crib I picked out looks like a hospital bed from the 60s.
H pulled me aside and told me he still loves our crib, ignore her. And he still likes our "statement" about names. We are a team and that's our response. It made me sooo happy.
She can be as nasty and crazy as she wants, but I have my H and we're a team.
I wasn't planning to have to do any errands today, but now I/we have to pick up last minute gifts for H's Aunt and Uncle whom apparently got us each something this year (but usually never do). I'm going to run to laundromat, then downtown and hopefully home by noon to get the bird in the oven.
We got the carpet torn out of the nursery and the first coat of paint slapped on last night. The room already looks much brighter and prettier. The carpet was 20 years old at least. As was the old paint. When we took off the molding we saw that the wall had previously been painted in mauve stripes. Not sure what those folks were thinking, considering they also had a green vinyl floor.
So now we need a second coat of paint, and then I'll do the trim, and then we'll lay the flooring after Christmas and I'll be able to start nesting! Feeling very excited about this.
And I managed to get all but two christmas gifts purchased yesterday. So that's another load off my mind.
Experiencing pregnancy and having a child is something I have wanted my whole life, but it's so close and I'm freaking out a bit!
Married the love of my life: 5-17-14
BFP:6-27-14
EDD:3-11-15
Step Mom to Z: 4-11-06
IT'S A BOY!!!!!!
Also.. Add me to the "this is really happening" phase. I absolutely cannot wrap my head around the fact we're going to have two children.
AFM, got my first Charlie horse in my calf this morning around 4 am. Awesome. I'm still sore and while I have a ton of shit to do, I'm fully intending to sit on the couch and do nothing while DD naps.
I'm hitting third trimester today too...only 13 weeks to go and time is flying! I'm with you guys on it not quite being real though...every time I see someone with a newborn I try to picture us with her and I just can't do it! Just too surreal.
I just took a two hour nap on my IL'a couch after waking up per my new normal at 4 this morning and not going back to sleep. It was glorious. I haven't taken a nap in probably five months!
Married December 2011 TTC#1 Since November 2013
Dec. 2013... BFP! 12/31/13... Natural M/C 1/29/14 (8 weeks)
July 2014...BFP!... 17dpo beta 581...19dpo beta 1419!!.. stick baby, stick!
EDD: 3/20/15.. It's a boy!
Also, I am so sore and uncomfortable. We are trying to get so much done this weekend, because we have family coming Tuesday, and then basically we have guests for the next month. We have 2 breaks of a few days to a week, but that's it. But I do anything and it just hurts. I can't wait until it is done and people are here and I can hopefully relax while they help out.
@katydid2014 glad you got your dress from your H! I know you were really wanting it! And props to you for doing all that reading so far. I really need to do some of that.
@mangomimosa I have an A&A problem too. I have way too many on our registry. I even have the changing pad covers and bibs on there too. But I love those damn blankets. It's my go to baby gift when I go to a shower, and my friends with babies just love them. Even if they won't swaddle in them, you can still use them.
Married December 2011 TTC#1 Since November 2013
Dec. 2013... BFP! 12/31/13... Natural M/C 1/29/14 (8 weeks)
July 2014...BFP!... 17dpo beta 581...19dpo beta 1419!!.. stick baby, stick!
EDD: 3/20/15.. It's a boy!
Married the love of my life: 5-17-14
BFP:6-27-14
EDD:3-11-15
Step Mom to Z: 4-11-06
IT'S A BOY!!!!!!
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Yeah makes sense about the staring. They probably don't notice they're doing it, but it sure does make me feel uncomfortable! I'll try not to take it personally