I am 17 weeks pregnant, and am starting to fee mild resentment for DH. We found out we were pregnant 6 weeks before he left for Marine boot camp, and he could have petitioned it to be delayed, but he didn't. He could of not chosen to go into the military, but he didn't. Now, I am stuck here, pregnant, all alone, living off of barely anything (since I can't access his pay when he is in boot camp), trying to plan for a baby, and stay afloat financially (a good chunk of which is HIS loans)... all to fulfill his dreams. And then this week he writes his mom, but not me. If he has time to write his mom, why isn't he writing his pregnant wife. His letters never mention he is sorry he can't be here, and never mention how horrible this is for me...I am starting to hate him for this, and I don't want to. But, I am a first time mom, going through this alone, and he will probably miss the birth too. Any advice?