We set up our Baby Bjorn cradle yesterday. Look how cute! I love it. Getting excited about the baby now.
Yesterday I tried stimulating pressure points to induce labor, for fun, while I was watching Netflix. I didn't really believe that it would work, but I actually got a pretty strong contraction after I did it, twice! Weird..!
Basically you massage the web of skin between your thumb and pointer finger, then massage the tips of your fingers, then finally a point above your ankle on each leg.
I'm still a little dubious about how effective it is, but I did have a wave of contraction so... Idk! Let me know if it works for you!
You are feeding your baby! There is nothing bad mom about that he will latch properly in time. Chin up and no guilt for going with the flow and seeing to his needs above all else
I feel like a bad mom. I keep switching from breast to formula. I don't feel like a bad mom because of the formula, but for the constant switching, I feel like in confusing the hell out of him. Poor baby one minute he lathes perfectly like before, and now, nothing but is soooooo hungry. Anyone have any tips?
Do not feel bad! You are doing what you need to do. I breastfed my daughter and it went pretty well but we also did a fair amount of supplementing with formula (which I hadn't planned on). In the first days there is just so much to deal with and sometimes you have to do what you have to do to make sure they are getting food. If they get overly hungry they can't latch to nurse. We would sometimes give her a all bottle so that she was in a better place to work on nursing. Do not stress yourself out about it. If you get stressed the baby can feel that and then you both end up upset. In the end, I loved that we did breast and bottle feeding, the flexibility worked out really well for us. One thing we did (that someone told us to do) was that early on I tried to avoid being the one feeding the baby a bottle, someone else did that and then with me we just did the breast. It seemed to work, she breastfed for a year. It will be fine. Cut yourself some slack and try not to worry or get too upset, babies like to keep us on our toes and get us to change our plans. Hang in there!
I'm not happy at the thought I might have to resort to sleeping on the couch for the last month or so of pregnancy.. This mattress is just way too firm and is murdering my hips.. I now have two pillows for my head, memory foam pillow for my stomach to rest on, and two pillows for my legs. For heaven's sake.. Nobody should require a five-pillow ensemble to fucking sleep..
This weekend has not gone how I wanted it to go and I'm really angry about it. I need to suck it up and move on but I'm just annoyed. We have ALOT to get done before Wednesday (induction day) and today was ruined by an all day trip to l&d. I'm glad I'm Ok and everything and baby flipped but damnit it ruined my shopping/cleaning day.
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I feel like a bad mom. I keep switching from breast to formula. I don't feel like a bad mom because of the formula, but for the constant switching, I feel like in confusing the hell out of him. Poor baby one minute he lathes perfectly like before, and now, nothing but is soooooo hungry. Anyone have any tips?
---------------- @VioletGjoni- I had this issue, also. Zoe nursed really good in the beginning and I literally had almost no issues, and then it's like.. she forgot how. We struggled with huge latching issues (which caused a lot of pain on my end, and a lot of screaming on hers). I have no advice because I stopped bf'ing, it was just too much for me. But please don't feel guilty over anything you do. Mom guilt is no joke, but try to remember your baby is being fed. You certainly aren't the first to supplement I'm sorry, though. BF'ing is hard. I hope he figures it out and you have an easier time with it.
I'm stoked because I got extra sleeeeeep. Sleeping until 6:30am is totally sleeping in for me. My husband took a feeding while I I-)
(Zoe Claire- born at 33.6 weeks- November 19, '14 - 5lbs 15oz)
So many posts already! I have been MIA the last few days, but for good reason. We finally got a new water heater and I finished up my last day of work at one of my jobs yesterday. 3 more days at my primary job and I'm on mat leave!!!
@VioletGjoni definitely do not feel bad about switching back and forth. With my first, I had a difficult time nursing (he was tongue-tied and we didn't know right away) so we flip flopped between a bottle and breast. He was able to catch on and had no trouble with nipple confusion, despite what lactation consultants say.
Good luck to you and great job doing what is best for you baby! What a great momma you are!
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My babies slept at my in-laws last night (so that means no 3 year old crawling into my bed at 3:00) but I still couldn't sleep in. I woke up at 5:30, put on the Christmas tree, fireplace, a Christmas movie and am enjoying a cup of coffee in a quiet house. Life is good
But I sure do miss my silly, little friends!
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Haven't been on much this weekend and looks like I've missed some fun.
Getting ready to leave for our half-marathon. Not really sure how it's going to go. It's warm out there today so I'm very glad I'm not running the full this year. I'll try to post an update later to tell how it goes.
Good luck! Glad the weather is cooperating!
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Good luck @BabyStandish! ... I have no idea how some of you ladies are still running, let alone running half marathons and shiz.
@nursesouder - glad your shower was a success! Have fun with your nursery today!
Baby dropped, but I am still getting feet/toes/kicks to my lower ribs and it is KILLER. That woke me up, and DH is at it again with his lovely snoring, so I doubt I'll be able to go back to bed. Probably taking DD to go see Santa today and run a few errands to tie up loose Christmas present ends. Dreading my 3 in a row at work starting tomorrow night. DH swears it's going to cause me to go into labor. We shall see! Dr. appt in the AM though. Maybe I'll be too dilated to work
I feel like a bad mom. I keep switching from breast to formula. I don't feel like a bad mom because of the formula, but for the constant switching, I feel like in confusing the hell out of him. Poor baby one minute he lathes perfectly like before, and now, nothing but is soooooo hungry. Anyone have any tips?
You are doing the right thing! I had 3 that wouldn't latch at all; I know it is tough but kid's gotta eat!
So I'm awake after another restless night between BP issues and mild contractions. And when I finally get to sleep my 7yo wakes up and expects me to get up right then and there.
Today is going to consist of cleaning car (inside and out) installing car seat, cleaning house and packing hospital bag once I decide what I need/want since my stay will be 3-4 days. After the ammusing "hospital bag threads", I think I'm set on ideas between booze booze, pam spray, booze and emu oil :-P oh and more booze?
Fiance thinks DD is going to come tomorrow and wants her to(it will be his dads bday, his dad passed away) because of contractions and mucus plug loss. I keep telling him No she has to bake for at least one more week. The longer the better. But it is like talking to a brick wall of course.
I just dropped a spoon on the floor and got the worst pain bending to pick it up. Woke up sweating my ass off (thanks for leaving the heat on DH) and still have that Charlie Horse pain in my calf. So tired and I have to work today. I hate dealing with cranky idiots and standing on my feet. My boss said I could go on leave now but we really need the money. 14 more days of this misery and bullshit?!? Wahhh. Whiny bitch rant over.
Up early this morning with achy joints, headache, and built up sinus pressure. I sure hope whatever this is isn't planning on sticking around long. I've heard the flu shot they're giving out has already shown to be ineffective to one of the common strands showing up this year
This scares me...37 is not full term! Be careful, baby will come when ready. Not much longer now!
37w is early term, not full term! You still run the risk of NICU issues at this point.
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Yes, this is too early and trying to self induce now seems very selfish. 37 weeks is not full term.
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Yikes, I phrased that a little too jokingly! Don't worry, I'm not trying to give birth now. Hoping she stays put till 39-40 weeks.
(I just saw the acupressure link and was like, "this is probably BS", and then it actually gave me a cramp. I only did it twice though- the second time to see if I imagined it. Then I stopped!)
I do feel like, "here we go..!"now that I'm past 37 weeks though
I'm dying to soak in a big tub. Our tub is kind of narrow - with high sides its weird. I'm entertaining a hotel room so I can soak. Is that crazy prego brain talking?
Our shower yesterday was pretty successful. SIL (the hostess) decided not to do mimosas at all so I'm extra glad I did the Bloody Mary bar. About 80% of the vodka handle was gone, and I sent the rest home with the last person to leave -- which actually wasn't my SIL. She kinda bailed and didn't really help clean up. I was kinda like... seriously? The main reason we had the shower at our house instead of hers is because they live in BFE and not really close to us or any of our friends. She also made a kinda snarky comment to DH about his mom (our MIL) babysitting two days a week for us when I go back to work, saying that one of the reasons she's a SAHM is because they didn't have anyone to help them like that. This coming from the person who has said she doesn't go to church anymore partly because she doesn't want to leave her kids with a Sunday school teacher... for an hour. I don't think she would've left her first kid at home with anyone, even our MIL, even if it was offered.
Idk why it bothered me so much. She says stuff like that all the time and I know she's not trying to be hateful. She's just not terribly bright and doesn't think before she speaks.
I'm just a big pregnant bitch. That's probably partly why it bothers me.
DS slept until 8:30 this morning and my H is out getting me french toast while I sip coffee and screw around on the internet. I have the perfect life today.
Our shower yesterday was pretty successful. SIL (the hostess) decided not to do mimosas at all so I'm extra glad I did the Bloody Mary bar. About 80% of the vodka handle was gone, and I sent the rest home with the last person to leave -- which actually wasn't my SIL. She kinda bailed and didn't really help clean up. I was kinda like... seriously? The main reason we had the shower at our house instead of hers is because they live in BFE and not really close to us or any of our friends. She also made a kinda snarky comment to DH about his mom (our MIL) babysitting two days a week for us when I go back to work, saying that one of the reasons she's a SAHM is because they didn't have anyone to help them like that. This coming from the person who has said she doesn't go to church anymore partly because she doesn't want to leave her kids with a Sunday school teacher... for an hour. I don't think she would've left her first kid at home with anyone, even our MIL, even if it was offered.
Idk why it bothered me so much. She says stuff like that all the time and I know she's not trying to be hateful. She's just not terribly bright and doesn't think before she speaks.
I'm just a big pregnant bitch. That's probably partly why it bothers me.
Sorry your sister-in-law wasn't very helpful but glad that your shower was successful.
On another note...a Bloody Mary sounds amazing!
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Re: Sunday Randoms
Yesterday I tried stimulating pressure points to induce labor, for fun, while I was watching Netflix. I didn't really believe that it would work, but I actually got a pretty strong contraction after I did it, twice! Weird..!
Basically you massage the web of skin between your thumb and pointer finger, then massage the tips of your fingers, then finally a point above your ankle on each leg.
I'm still a little dubious about how effective it is, but I did have a wave of contraction so... Idk! Let me know if it works for you!
I now have two pillows for my head, memory foam pillow for my stomach to rest on, and two pillows for my legs. For heaven's sake.. Nobody should require a five-pillow ensemble to fucking sleep..
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@VioletGjoni- I had this issue, also. Zoe nursed really good in the beginning and I literally had almost no issues, and then it's like.. she forgot how. We struggled with huge latching issues (which caused a lot of pain on my end, and a lot of screaming on hers). I have no advice because I stopped bf'ing, it was just too much for me. But please don't feel guilty over anything you do. Mom guilt is no joke, but try to remember your baby is being fed. You certainly aren't the first to supplement
Sorry everyone is having a crap time sleeping!
Good luck to you and great job doing what is best for you baby! What a great momma you are!
But I sure do miss my silly, little friends!
@nursesouder - glad your shower was a success! Have fun with your nursery today!
Baby dropped, but I am still getting feet/toes/kicks to my lower ribs and it is KILLER. That woke me up, and DH is at it again with his lovely snoring, so I doubt I'll be able to go back to bed. Probably taking DD to go see Santa today and run a few errands to tie up loose Christmas present ends. Dreading my 3 in a row at work starting tomorrow night. DH swears it's going to cause me to go into labor. We shall see! Dr. appt in the AM though. Maybe I'll be too dilated to work
Ditto
Today is going to consist of cleaning car (inside and out) installing car seat, cleaning house and packing hospital bag once I decide what I need/want since my stay will be 3-4 days. After the ammusing "hospital bag threads", I think I'm set on ideas between booze booze, pam spray, booze and emu oil :-P oh and more booze?
Fiance thinks DD is going to come tomorrow and wants her to(it will be his dads bday, his dad passed away) because of contractions and mucus plug loss. I keep telling him No she has to bake for at least one more week. The longer the better. But it is like talking to a brick wall of course.
Yes, this is too early and trying to self induce now seems very selfish. 37 weeks is not full term.
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Yikes, I phrased that a little too jokingly! Don't worry, I'm not trying to give birth now. Hoping she stays put till 39-40 weeks.
(I just saw the acupressure link and was like, "this is probably BS", and then it actually gave me a cramp. I only did it twice though- the second time to see if I imagined it. Then I stopped!)
I do feel like, "here we go..!"now that I'm past 37 weeks though
Idk why it bothered me so much. She says stuff like that all the time and I know she's not trying to be hateful. She's just not terribly bright and doesn't think before she speaks.
I'm just a big pregnant bitch. That's probably partly why it bothers me.
On another note...a Bloody Mary sounds amazing!