I just need a little advice on what I'm going through..
3 weeks ago my bf of almost 5 years, and father to my 3 year old daughter decided he didn't want to be with me. I'm 27 weeks pregnant and he's denying that it's his child now. We're young parents who have really gone through a lot more than anyone would like to so I try to convince myself that he got scared of the reality and ran for the easy route. He's seeing another woman already, which is KILLING ME. I begged him countless times to give our family a chance, and finally I gave up begging 4 days ago and I have had no contact since. When I asked if he still loves me, he always says yes which is just confusing. I just want my family. Has anyone had there bf's leave them and come back ?
Re: 27 weeks pregnant & my bf left me.
I am sorry you are going through this. I have not gone through this myself, but I am a single mom.
First, stop begging. Don't ever do that again.
Second, if you are close with your family, lean on them for a while. If not, call on your friends to help get you through.
I know it's hard, and you are sad, but your kiddos need you right now. You can do this.
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
I hear you on this, but then it would have been something else, and then something else...
Look, I am the one that left my H. I just fell out of love. We did a year of counceling, and it took me a long time to come to terms with what I had to do-- because it never seemed like a good time to leave (we were together almost 9 years to the day that I decided to leave, and married 6.5).
It's shitty that he's denying paternity, so get your wits about you and figure out the next steps you need to take to establish paternity--he needs to handle his business.
Next, get angry. Maybe that's not the best advice, and maybe it won't work for everyone, but let that anger motivate you. Let it light the fire under you to get through the rest of this pregnancy, get yourself together and to go after his dumb ass for child support.
BFP 1- EDD 2/09/11 Missed MC DX @11 weeks D&C- 7/25/10 BFP 2- EDD 12/22/11 Natural MC @ 5w 2d BFP 3- EDD 1/25/12 DD Josephine born 1/16/12
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