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Hostility Everywhere

I used to be pretty active here on The Bump, but am just returning, and I'm finding hostility wherever I go, so really have no idea where I belong. I had primary IF, conceived and gave birth after my first loss, and am now struggling with secondary IF. I thought maybe this would be a more appropriate board for me to post on as I'm returning and no one seems to be offering up a warm welcome. Everyone is so touchy and hostile, and I'm not sure where to go. I don't seem to fit well on TTCAL either. If anyone can point me in the right direction I'd be very appreciative, or maybe I should just leave the site...
ME: 24 with PCOS and a HX of Endo (rem. 04/12) 
DH: 24 with Low Motility 
TTC since 11/09
M/C 01/11 at >2w, chemical pregnancy
50mg Clomid 02/12, -OPK
100mg Clomid 03/12, -OPK
Surgery to remove endo. and check tubes 04/04/12
10d Provera & 150mg Clomid 05/12, 1st positive OPK!
BFP 06/12
DD born 01/30/13!!! 
TTC #2 since 09/13
Last Normal Cycle 12/16/13
Neg OPKs in 01/14
Neg Prog. in 01/14
10d Provera started 01/21/14
SURPRISE BFP 02/06/14
ER Visit 02/15/14, u/s showed empty uterus, BHCG = 111 
M/C 02/16/14, chemical pregnancy...M/C was confirmed 2/18/14, BHCG = 28

05/12/2014 Started 50 mg Clomid
05/16/2014 Ended 50 mg Clomid

05/28/2014 Negative "Day 21" progesterone bloodwork
06/06/2014 BFP!!!
06/09/2014, beta HCG 75
06/12/2014 beta HCG 242!
06/20/2014 beta HCG 2823!
06/26/2014 m/c at 6w1d
07/21/2014 diagnosed with APS (Lupus Anticoagulant), Factor V, and MTHFR mutation in addition to PCOS and HX of Endometriosis
10/27/2014 repeat Lupus Anticoagulant tested negative


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Re: Hostility Everywhere

  • I actually had the same problem. I was afraid to make a discussion board because of it. But then I figured everyone would be welcoming. I was wrong. I would suggest to go to another site or don't even use one at all. I hope you're next experience is different.
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  • I actually had the same problem. I was afraid to make a discussion board because of it. But then I figured everyone would be welcoming. I was wrong. I would suggest to go to another site or don't even use one at all. I hope you're next experience is different.

    I know whose discussion history I'm going to be viewing... :-?


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  • I actually had the same problem. I was afraid to make a discussion board because of it. But then I figured everyone would be welcoming. I was wrong. I would suggest to go to another site or don't even use one at all. I hope you're next experience is different.

    @KaylaMarie402‌ : so you asked internet strangers if you are pregnant & got mad no one welcomed you?

    http://forums.thebump.com/discussion/comment/85153684#Comment_85153684

    You made no effort to try to converse with anyone else, get to know them & you seem to care about your needs only? This isn't the Uterus Oracle meets Google Answers. These are communities that support each other over time.


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  • I seem to see a theme with the ones complaining. They want all the Sparkle-Hugs but expect to do no work & make no effort to contribute. :-??

    Would you want to support someone that just shows up demanding answers & then throws a tantrum when they don't get their way immediately? I think not!


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  • I've kind of picked up on that.  I'm new and I'm really sure of the "tribal rules".  But let me tell you be cautious if you don't reply when you don't need to an only post in the right board.

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