I JUST transitioned from active duty to the reserves and am still trying to get a handle on the differences. Lo and behold, DH and I are expecting again. What is pregnancy like in the reserves? I mean, there aren't nearly enough females to have prego pt, let alone pregnant ones. How soon should I tell my NCOIC. Can I wait until drill? On top of that, my husband is transitioning too, we have an 8 month old, and STILL don't have a family care plan. It's all just a bunch of randomness.