What's with all the negativity?!?!

Re: What's with all the negativity?!?!

• wtbratcher member

  November 2014

  @holliberry28‌ - if she is what you call supportive and an ideal member, this is not the place for me. Wow!

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• beckynsean11 member

  November 2014

  Please, oh please someone "call out" the bullies. Nothing warms the cockles of my cold, dead heart like TOU violations first thing in the morning.

  
  

     Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T

  SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.

  BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female

  Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!

  Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.

  ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~

  New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  

  Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break

  Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC

  Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.

  My very neglected blog    

  "We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."

     

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• wtbratcher member

  November 2014

  @Budders12‌ - that was not the only post and she is not the only one. It is merely my example. And the fact that it's being defended. Double Wow!

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• kimmarie1105 member

  November 2014

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• dranic0706 member

  November 2014

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

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• beckynsean11 member

  November 2014

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

  
  Not hard to leave at all. Click the little "x" at the top right. If you're mobile, scroll to the bottom of the screen & click "log out". Easy peasy. You're welcome.
  
  

  
  

     Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T

  SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.

  BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female

  Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!

  Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.

  ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~

  New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  

  Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break

  Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC

  Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.

  My very neglected blog    

  "We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."

     

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• a5swanson member

  November 2014

  While these threads totally stir the pot in an obnoxious way (kinda like the "poo poo pee pee" one), I do have to say that it helps us to distinguish the crazies. Whichever side you're on...is this not proof as to why a FB group would be a terrifying disaster at this point? Nope, nope, nope!

  
  

  Baby #1 for Allie and Mike!

  
  

  BFP on Sept 29, 2014: our 2 year anniversary

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• wtbratcher member

  November 2014

  I like sunshine and rainbows; and, I'd rather not deal with ignorance when looking for support. If that's what you're okay with, than maybe this isn't the board for you...

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• acethebase member

  November 2014

  Oh you cry babies are ridiculous! This is how a BMB works if you don't like it PLEASE do us all a favor and show yourself out the door. Nobody wants to see 20 posts a day about morning sickness, NOBODY! If you ladies decide to do what you feel then it's going to be a long 8+ months for the ten of you! Many of you are already on "post it's" and won't be receiving any support from the rest of us. Just do us a favor and go on to the Baby Center because this is not the place for unicorns and rainbows.... If you don't like it (instead of making a drama thread) fucking leave already!

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• beckynsean11 member

  November 2014

  wtbratcher said:

  I like sunshine and rainbows; and, I'd rather not deal with ignorance when looking for support. If that's what you're okay with, than maybe this isn't the board for you...

  Do you know the definition of ignorance? It's "lack of knowledge." That's definitely not what you're going to get from us. The bump has never been about sunshine & rainbows. You're going to get real & honest answers. If you don't like that, then there are other sites where you can get your glitter farts. You're not going to change this place.
  
  

  
  

     Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T

  SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.

  BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female

  Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!

  Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.

  ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~

  New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  

  Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break

  Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC

  Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.

  My very neglected blog    

  "We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."

     

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• tiffbot1985 member

  November 2014 edited November 2014

  wtbratcher said:

  @Laurenlou83‌ - I'm not referring to the awesome people that are helping by redirecting; I'm referring to the people that make ignorant comments instead. My apologies if that wasn't clear in my original post. Most people here are helpful and supportive and MUCH appreciated!! Thank you to all of you!!!

  I would suggest in the future then if you are wanting to call someone out to do so directly rather than leave an open ended new post for the entire board to defend. Especially if you think it's a small minority of people you disagree with.
  
  I honestly don't care how, where, or when you post, but calling out an entire board of approximately 600 members when you mean to point out one or two people is not going to end well. I always see this analogy-imagine you were to walk into a party and yell to everyone 'why is everyone so mean here?' In real life, do you not think you might get some bad responses from everyone?
  
  Like I said, post how and what you want. But for the future, this is always the direction these posts take, as they naturally will.
  
  Edited to remove random sentence I began with and forgot about, lol.

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• kimmarie1105 member

  November 2014

  No, seriously, please go post in the 1st tri board. And let us know when you do so we can watch.

  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• dranic0706 member

  November 2014

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

  
  Not hard to leave at all. Click the little "x" at the top right. If you're mobile, scroll to the bottom of the screen & click "log out". Easy peasy. You're welcome.
  
  

  Wow oh wow. When you were going through the things you went through I prayed so hard for you and you were deeply in my thoughts because you along with other people helped me so much when I had my question about the heartbeat... You all really put my mind and ease and I had the upmost respect for you.

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• kimmarie1105 member

  November 2014

  Aaaaaand you're still commenting.

  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• ksimo6 member

  November 2014

  I was waiting for the first blow up on this board... This is delicious.

  • Married 6/1/2012
  • BFP #1 - 11/17/2012 -  MC 12/10/2012
  • BFP #2 - 2/12/2013 - EDD 10/17/2013 - DD Born 10/10/2013
  • BFP #3 - 1/29/2014 - Ectopic pregnancy discovered 1/31/2014
  • BFP #4 - 9/28/2014 - EDD 6/4/2015 - DS Born 5/31/2015

  
  

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• beckynsean11 member

  November 2014

  dranic0706 said:

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

  
  Not hard to leave at all. Click the little "x" at the top right. If you're mobile, scroll to the bottom of the screen & click "log out". Easy peasy. You're welcome.
  
  

  Wow oh wow. When you were going through the things you went through I prayed so hard for you and you were deeply in my thoughts because you along with other people helped me so much when I had my question about the heartbeat... You all really put my mind and ease and I had the upmost respect for you.

  
  And I would continue to support you if you wished to stay. However, you expressed a desire to leave.
  I appreciate the support that you gave me, sincerely. That doesn't mean I'm going to agree with everything you say.
  

  
  

     Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T

  SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.

  BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female

  Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!

  Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.

  ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~

  New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  

  Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break

  Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC

  Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.

  My very neglected blog    

  "We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."

     

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• acethebase member

  November 2014

  emilyzemily said:

  dranic0706 said:

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

  
  Not hard to leave at all. Click the little "x" at the top right. If you're mobile, scroll to the bottom of the screen & click "log out". Easy peasy. You're welcome.
  
  

  Wow oh wow. When you were going through the things you went through I prayed so hard for you and you were deeply in my thoughts because you along with other people helped me so much when I had my question about the heartbeat... You all really put my mind and ease and I had the upmost respect for you.

  Wow thats so low! Seriously, click the x or do you want me to give you a shovel for this hole you seem to enjoy digging yourself into

  
  Yeah what are you trying to say here? That you don't feel bad/ have respect for someone because they're not kissing your ass? It's ok to have a heart, it's NOT ok to do a low blow and be a bitch. Goodbye!

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• dranic0706 member

  November 2014

  emilyzemily said:

  dranic0706 said:

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

  
  Not hard to leave at all. Click the little "x" at the top right. If you're mobile, scroll to the bottom of the screen & click "log out". Easy peasy. You're welcome.
  
  

  Wow oh wow. When you were going through the things you went through I prayed so hard for you and you were deeply in my thoughts because you along with other people helped me so much when I had my question about the heartbeat... You all really put my mind and ease and I had the upmost respect for you.

  Wow thats so low! Seriously, click the x or do you want me to give you a shovel for this hole you seem to enjoy digging yourself into

  What was low about that? I really felt for the girl because she helped me out and now she's being rude how is that low!? I still feel sorry for the scare she went through?

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• dranic0706 member

  November 2014

  emilyzemily said:

  dranic0706 said:

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

  
  Not hard to leave at all. Click the little "x" at the top right. If you're mobile, scroll to the bottom of the screen & click "log out". Easy peasy. You're welcome.
  
  

  Wow oh wow. When you were going through the things you went through I prayed so hard for you and you were deeply in my thoughts because you along with other people helped me so much when I had my question about the heartbeat... You all really put my mind and ease and I had the upmost respect for you.

  Wow thats so low! Seriously, click the x or do you want me to give you a shovel for this hole you seem to enjoy digging yourself into

  What was low about that? I really felt for the girl because she helped me out and now she's being rude how is that low!? I still feel sorry for the scare she went through?

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

  
  Not hard to leave at all. Click the little "x" at the top right. If you're mobile, scroll to the bottom of the screen & click "log out". Easy peasy. You're welcome.
  
  

  Wow oh wow. When you were going through the things you went through I prayed so hard for you and you were deeply in my thoughts because you along with other people helped me so much when I had my question about the heartbeat... You all really put my mind and ease and I had the upmost respect for you.

  
  And I would continue to support you if you wished to stay. However, you expressed a desire to leave.
  I appreciate the support that you gave me, sincerely. That doesn't mean I'm going to agree with everything you say.
  

  
  Okay. People think I don't have respect for what you went through and that I'm being "low" let me explain. When you tagged me in the comment saying something sarcastic I will admit it hurt & I was shocked because you once supported the question I asked yeah you may not agree with me now, but why tag me and say something sarcastic and mean. I honestly am sorry you went through a scare and you will always be in my thoughts and prayers that things go smoothly. But I had to say I was shocked...

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• dranic0706 member

  November 2014

  acethebase said:

  emilyzemily said:

  dranic0706 said:

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

  
  Not hard to leave at all. Click the little "x" at the top right. If you're mobile, scroll to the bottom of the screen & click "log out". Easy peasy. You're welcome.
  
  

  Wow oh wow. When you were going through the things you went through I prayed so hard for you and you were deeply in my thoughts because you along with other people helped me so much when I had my question about the heartbeat... You all really put my mind and ease and I had the upmost respect for you.

  Wow thats so low! Seriously, click the x or do you want me to give you a shovel for this hole you seem to enjoy digging yourself into

  
  Yeah what are you trying to say here? That you don't feel bad/ have respect for someone because they're not kissing your ass? It's ok to have a heart, it's NOT ok to do a low blow and be a bitch. Goodbye!

  ABSOLUTELY NOT you have me all wrong. After the question I had she answered nicely and I was so pleased.. I had a lot of respect for her. Have I lost some? Kind of because she HAD to tag me and say something rude about that other girl tagging me. I still feel sorry and she will always be in my thoughts you guys are crazy

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• Trampslikeus member

  November 2014

  Oh for crying out loud.
  
  
  Do you have a Mac?  There's a red circle in the top left of your screen.
  Do you have a PC?  Theres an X in the top right of your screen.
  
  To immediately end what you perceive to be "bullying", (its not bullying, and if you actually felt you were being bullied, you would want it to end, not make a post that you know perfectly well is a AWing and drama-stirring)  click that X!     So easy!
  
  And LOL at anyone who thinks this post was made for ANY other purpose than a bored AW making drama.  Don't get sucked in!
  

  
   
  

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• acethebase member

  November 2014

  ksimo6 said:

  I was waiting for the first blow up on this board... This is delicious.

  You must have missed "peeepeee" I'm guessing

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• [Deleted User] member

  November 2014

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• wtbratcher member

  November 2014

  I wish you all the best. The defensiveness is out the roof. It just amazes me. Y'all can have your click. There is plenty of other wonderful mommas in this group that I can get valuable, supportive advice from.

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• acethebase member

  November 2014

  emilyzemily said:

  dranic0706 said:

  emilyzemily said:

  dranic0706 said:

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

  
  Not hard to leave at all. Click the little "x" at the top right. If you're mobile, scroll to the bottom of the screen & click "log out". Easy peasy. You're welcome.
  
  

  Wow oh wow. When you were going through the things you went through I prayed so hard for you and you were deeply in my thoughts because you along with other people helped me so much when I had my question about the heartbeat... You all really put my mind and ease and I had the upmost respect for you.

  Wow thats so low! Seriously, click the x or do you want me to give you a shovel for this hole you seem to enjoy digging yourself into

  What was low about that? I really felt for the girl because she helped me out and now she's being rude how is that low!? I still feel sorry for the scare she went through?

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

  
  Not hard to leave at all. Click the little "x" at the top right. If you're mobile, scroll to the bottom of the screen & click "log out". Easy peasy. You're welcome.
  
  

  Wow oh wow. When you were going through the things you went through I prayed so hard for you and you were deeply in my thoughts because you along with other people helped me so much when I had my question about the heartbeat... You all really put my mind and ease and I had the upmost respect for you.

  
  And I would continue to support you if you wished to stay. However, you expressed a desire to leave.
  I appreciate the support that you gave me, sincerely. That doesn't mean I'm going to agree with everything you say.
  

  
  Okay. People think I don't have respect for what you went through and that I'm being "low" let me explain. When you tagged me in the comment saying something sarcastic I will admit it hurt & I was shocked because you once supported the question I asked yeah you may not agree with me now, but why tag me and say something sarcastic and mean. I honestly am sorry you went through a scare and you will always be in my thoughts and prayers that things go smoothly. But I had to say I was shocked...

  dranic0706 said:

  acethebase said:

  emilyzemily said:

  dranic0706 said:

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

  
  Not hard to leave at all. Click the little "x" at the top right. If you're mobile, scroll to the bottom of the screen & click "log out". Easy peasy. You're welcome.
  
  

  Wow oh wow. When you were going through the things you went through I prayed so hard for you and you were deeply in my thoughts because you along with other people helped me so much when I had my question about the heartbeat... You all really put my mind and ease and I had the upmost respect for you.

  Wow thats so low! Seriously, click the x or do you want me to give you a shovel for this hole you seem to enjoy digging yourself into

  
  Yeah what are you trying to say here? That you don't feel bad/ have respect for someone because they're not kissing your ass? It's ok to have a heart, it's NOT ok to do a low blow and be a bitch. Goodbye!

  ABSOLUTELY NOT you have me all wrong. After the question I had she answered nicely and I was so pleased.. I had a lot of respect for her. Have I lost some? Kind of because she HAD to tag me and say something rude about that other girl tagging me. I still feel sorry and she will always be in my thoughts you guys are crazy

  Nope what you did is insinuate that she cant have an opinion that disagrees with you just because she was supportive of you previously. If we're all crazy then its been said before feel free to leave!!

  YES PLEASE LEAVE!!! BYE :-h

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• beckynsean11 member

  November 2014

  dranic0706 said:

  emilyzemily said:

  dranic0706 said:

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

  
  Not hard to leave at all. Click the little "x" at the top right. If you're mobile, scroll to the bottom of the screen & click "log out". Easy peasy. You're welcome.
  
  

  Wow oh wow. When you were going through the things you went through I prayed so hard for you and you were deeply in my thoughts because you along with other people helped me so much when I had my question about the heartbeat... You all really put my mind and ease and I had the upmost respect for you.

  Wow thats so low! Seriously, click the x or do you want me to give you a shovel for this hole you seem to enjoy digging yourself into

  What was low about that? I really felt for the girl because she helped me out and now she's being rude how is that low!? I still feel sorry for the scare she went through?

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

  
  Not hard to leave at all. Click the little "x" at the top right. If you're mobile, scroll to the bottom of the screen & click "log out". Easy peasy. You're welcome.
  
  

  Wow oh wow. When you were going through the things you went through I prayed so hard for you and you were deeply in my thoughts because you along with other people helped me so much when I had my question about the heartbeat... You all really put my mind and ease and I had the upmost respect for you.

  
  And I would continue to support you if you wished to stay. However, you expressed a desire to leave.
  I appreciate the support that you gave me, sincerely. That doesn't mean I'm going to agree with everything you say.
  

  
  Okay. People think I don't have respect for what you went through and that I'm being "low" let me explain. When you tagged me in the comment saying something sarcastic I will admit it hurt & I was shocked because you once supported the question I asked yeah you may not agree with me now, but why tag me and say something sarcastic and mean. I honestly am sorry you went through a scare and you will always be in my thoughts and prayers that things go smoothly. But I had to say I was shocked...

  I did not tag you. You were previously tagged by another user. When I quote that user, you inadvertently get tagged again. Throwing what I weren't through this week into the conversation was low & unnecessary. I went through utter hell & if you look at my signature or read my blog this isn't the first time (or the worst of it). I don't appreciate it being thrown in my face because you don't like my tone.
  
  

  
  

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  SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.

  BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female

  Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!

  Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.

  ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~

  New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  

  Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break

  Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC

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• dranic0706 member

  November 2014

  Okay I'm seriously asking nicely you guys keep tagging me and I'm ask

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  emilyzemily said:

  dranic0706 said:

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

  
  Not hard to leave at all. Click the little "x" at the top right. If you're mobile, scroll to the bottom of the screen & click "log out". Easy peasy. You're welcome.
  
  

  Wow oh wow. When you were going through the things you went through I prayed so hard for you and you were deeply in my thoughts because you along with other people helped me so much when I had my question about the heartbeat... You all really put my mind and ease and I had the upmost respect for you.

  Wow thats so low! Seriously, click the x or do you want me to give you a shovel for this hole you seem to enjoy digging yourself into

  What was low about that? I really felt for the girl because she helped me out and now she's being rude how is that low!? I still feel sorry for the scare she went through?

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  beckynsean11 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  dranic0706 said:

  kimmarie1105 said:

  @dranic0706‌ do we have our very first GBCB?? I

  Yup! Now stop tagging me in your stupid fucking comments it's annoying.

  I'm sorry, who's nasty?

  
  
  Uhh! YOU why the hell won't you leave me the fuck alone. Go bother other people seriously you're getting on my last nerve
  

  I thought you were leaving?
  
  Furthermore, anyone who has a problem with my "sarcastic" remark this morning (most of whom I have never seen before) I ask that you please review my post history. I have and do give very helpful and nice advice to people.

  Gee kinda hard to leave when YOURE STILL TAGGING ME. & if you leave nice advice to SOME people why can't you do it to ALL PEOPLE!

  
  Not hard to leave at all. Click the little "x" at the top right. If you're mobile, scroll to the bottom of the screen & click "log out". Easy peasy. You're welcome.
  
  

  Wow oh wow. When you were going through the things you went through I prayed so hard for you and you were deeply in my thoughts because you along with other people helped me so much when I had my question about the heartbeat... You all really put my mind and ease and I had the upmost respect for you.

  
  And I would continue to support you if you wished to stay. However, you expressed a desire to leave.
  I appreciate the support that you gave me, sincerely. That doesn't mean I'm going to agree with everything you say.
  

  
  Okay. People think I don't have respect for what you went through and that I'm being "low" let me explain. When you tagged me in the comment saying something sarcastic I will admit it hurt & I was shocked because you once supported the question I asked yeah you may not agree with me now, but why tag me and say something sarcastic and mean. I honestly am sorry you went through a scare and you will always be in my thoughts and prayers that things go smoothly. But I had to say I was shocked...

  I did not tag you. You were previously tagged by another user. When I quote that user, you inadvertently get tagged again. Throwing what I weren't through this week into the conversation was low & unnecessary. I went through utter hell & if you look at my signature or read my blog this isn't the first time (or the worst of it). I don't appreciate it being thrown in my face because you don't like my tone.
  
  

  I'm really sorry I made you feel that way. Honestly... And you guys keep saying "click the x" button but I use this app to see where my baby is at this moment and what to expect this week etc. So if you all could please stop tagging me? It still pops up... I'm sorry for the things I said truthfully. I really don't want this drama or stress on my baby so I'm asking nicely please everyone stop tagging me please.

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• beckynsean11 member

  November 2014

  wtbratcher said:

  I wish you all the best. The defensiveness is out the roof. It just amazes me. Y'all can have your click. There is plenty of other wonderful mommas in this group that I can get valuable, supportive advice from.

  
  Lol, click
  

  
  

     Me: IR-PCOS, elevated DHEAs, low progesterone, weak ovulation  DH: low volume, low T

  SHG 5/10/13: both tubes blocked; HSG 6/28 = Left tube cleared! Right blocked.

  BFP#1 7/20/13 EDD 3/30/14, m/c 8/19/13, D&E 8/21/13, Chromosomal results = normal, female

  Lap & hysteroscopy scheduled for 10/31, right tube cleared, no endo found! ...Happy Halloween!

  Cycle 14: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP! EDD 9/16/14~ Rowan Elizabeth born sleeping at 17w4d on 4/12/14 due to IC.

  ~There is no foot too small that it cannot leave an imprint on this world~

  New RE June 2014. RPL b/w - negative. SIS looking for uterine/cervical abnormalities & Asherman's 6/10/14 - ALL CLEAR!  

  Cycle 16: Natural IUI = CP, Cycle 17: Femara (2.5) + IUI = BFN, Cycle 18 Femara (5) + IUI = BFFN, Cycle 19: Break

  Cycle 20: Clomid (50)+ IUI = BFP EDD 6/20, transvaginal cerclage 12/19, Carson Quinn born sleeping at 16w3d on 1/6/15 due to IC

  Phone consult with Dr. Haney (Univ of Chicago) for transabdominal cercalge scheduled for 2/9/15.

  My very neglected blog    

  "We are the music makers, and we are the dreamers of dreams."

     

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• Trampslikeus member

  November 2014

  "You can have your click"       Oh HELLLLLLL yes I can.
  
  

  
   
  

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• nicperdue member

  November 2014

  Most of the nasty remarks I have read are from posters that are trying to be cute or gather a following to like their witty sarcastic remarks. I would take them with a grain of salt and remember that a group of strangers should not have any bearing on your well-being.

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• MissBridg member

  November 2014 edited November 2014

  Mrs Sweet Tea said:

  What happened to, "if you don't have something nice to say don't say anything at all"? Some say they are just being "real", but I believe you can be real and polite.

  This. Some people think the opposite of being "fake" is saying absolutely everything on their mind. It takes maturity and kindness to show restraint when annoyed. Just bite your tongue and move on.
  
  I can't imagine any of us don't plan on teaching our kids that if they don't have anything nice to say, they shouldn't say anything at all.
  
  ETA: I know not everyone will agree. And I know sometimes comments left in genuine good spirit will be misread as mean. But I also have genuinely felt that some comments are below the belt and I really believe if all you can think of to say is something to "put someone in their place" then you shouldn't waste your time. We are all emotional right now. Live and let live. If you feel like important posts are getting lost because of new extraneous ones- go bump those old posts instead of perpetuating the problem by commenting on the new ones that upset you.

  
  

  

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• jbartsy member

  November 2014

  Wow, so much excitement on a Saturday! Clearly some of you have never experienced redirection or sarcasm in your life. I would consider myself a pretty sensitive and empathic person and I honestly don't see the problem here. I've seen more offensive comments coming from the "kumbaya" group.

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  BFP#2: 10/4/14  EDD: 6/7/15  DD born 6/4/15💕
  BFP#3: 12/24/19 EDD: 9/6/20

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• kimmarie1105 member

  November 2014

  Dranic0706 if you don't want the drama and the stress then please stop reading and responding. You're just looking more and more foolish. Also, I use the app as well and the notifications do not pop up unless I'm in the forums.

  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• Apollo11235 member

  November 2014 edited November 2014

  dranic0706 said: THANKK YOUU!! Someone posted something about having cramps at 5 weeks I believe it was, and someone else commented on it saying "congrats you're pregnant" are you kidding me!?!? This person had a legit question and that's ALL you can say?? What if it's more serious? Why not comment you should talk to your doctor or ask how serious the cramps are, in case some of you have forgotten some of us our NEW scared mothers that have a ton of questions!! I know personally I don't want to call my doctor over every little thing & after finding this page I was thrilled!!! And now? Not so much, I've seen sooo many rude comments! I now know if I have a question I WONT be asking it on here, so many mothers are so catty to those who are scared and confused and just are seeking for people who had similar problems. & for those of you who say read the first blog, THEY ARE ALL ESSAYS! I can barely find a similar question I have in there because there are over 600 people commenting on it every five flippin seconds! I'd rather ask my simple question and get a simple answer NICELY!! HOW HARD IS THAT!!??
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  Not tagging because apparently you don't know how not to click on a notification. I just showed up to the thread, but I noticed nobody addressed this one. You realize you're supposed to read the actual blog, right? I honestly have not read a single comment on that thread, but there is a very helpful blog that is linked in the OP with clear, concise explanations of how the community works, where to post certain types of comments and questions, etc. Check it out if you continue to be unable to resist the notifications.

    

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• txngrl31 member

  November 2014

  Agreed @nicperdue‌!

  

  
  

  
  

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• ksimo6 member

  November 2014

  acethebase said:

  ksimo6 said:

  I was waiting for the first blow up on this board... This is delicious.

  You must have missed "peeepeee" I'm guessing

  @acethebase‌ Yup. I must have missed that one. I'll have to jump on a computer later and search for it. If these poor women knew CV... That's all I'm saying!

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• wtbratcher member

  November 2014 edited November 2014

  I was here in October 2004 and in no way remember women acting this way. They were super supportive, even to the newbies that had less worrisome posts that were repeats. Thank God because I was a newbie at that time and there were mommas that were very understanding with the questions they may have thought were general knowledge. I was an infant, and truly appreciated their support and the sharing of their experience. The condescending remarks here and the support of anything of that nature are beyond unbelievable.

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• ac5008 member

  November 2014

  nicperdue said:

  Most of the nasty remarks I have read are from posters that are trying to be cute or gather a following to like their witty sarcastic remarks. I would take them with a grain of salt and remember that a group of strangers should not have any bearing on your well-being.

  This is exactly what I was doing. Does anyone want to be in my witty sarcastic remark following?
  

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• wtbratcher member

  November 2014

  They are making new mommas feel not welcome. Period. Not cool.

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