Let me pull up a chair with all the sandy vag potty mouths...
A huge pet peeve of mine is "ladylike" and any derivative of that (and "You have a very foul mouth, young lady" would definitely count). It's like saying you can't possibly be considered a lady if you curse. Pretty sure I can say fuckiety fuck cumbucket and my vagina isn't going to fall off, so my sex is still female, and I still identify as the female gender, so I'm not quite sure where these qualifications for being a "lady" come in? Is that the 3rd dimension of the gender & sex conversation?
If so, count me firmly female for sex, female for gender, and not-ladylike for whatever the hell qualification that shit would be.
Here is the thing, if someone is not aware that the terms are not interchangeable, fine. They come here, learn the difference and then can choose to either accept that knowledge and learn from it, try to do better in the future and educate others moving forward or they can get offended about being corrected and get defensive. It doesn't have to be a big thing, take the correction and move on, there is no need to get so upset and start a big thing every time. If it were me, I would simply apologize for not being better aware and then move on, doing better the next time, no need to try to argue for something that is clearly not an acceptable thing here.
Is what? Also, you didn't answer my question. Why can't women cuss?
her point appears to be that she's too busy looking down her nose at us to consider anything we have to say as valid, because she disapproves of women using certain kinds of words.
very mature.
i'm also curious to know why women aren't allowed to cuss, and why people are so hung up on being "ladylike".
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You can go ahead and leave now. We aren't getting into this again. You hurt quite a few people with your statements. I really hope. you are a troll and not just a terrible person
Again and I'm the one who was telling people to leave?!?! I think not
How do you forget a thread that had to be closed because you were "acting like the biggest bitch on the planet" and insulting all of our loss moms, telling them they shouldn't post here and calling them trolls? I don't believe that for a second. If you've said enough offensive things that you honestly can't remember the reason 95% of the board hates you, you should revaluate your life.
I assume you are talking about me, but I'm the one who is always called the troll. I have posed questions of how was I being such and such when the phone said things far worse.
And no I do not recall having a post closed because of what I said. I don't recall saying anyone should leave, but did pose the question of why they would stay. HUGE difference! I've been told I should leave many times, but am still here. If I lose this baby, trust me, I won't be hanging around.
i actually just re-read the thread in question (what can i say, i had a spare half-hour and i was bored). what you said was, "wouldn't you be the troll, then?" to someone who said that she had been a jan'15 mom, but had a loss about a month earlier.
spin it however you like, but you called a loss mom a troll. you are not welcome.
Basically you did my research for me to prove my point that I was the one being called the troll and posed the question as to why in their theory, they would be the troll not me.
ETA: apparently you can only call certain people a troll (like me) who are pregnant and still due in J15. That doesn't mean I called anyone else a troll, just trying to figure out why it's constantly brought up that y'all call me one and it's okay, but when I pose a question that someone else, by their definition, may be one it's not okay.
like i said...spin it however you like. that's not what the rest of the entire board got out of that post.
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Seriously, don't scold other adult women. It's rude. Second, we're all adults here. Some adults choose to swear. Others don't. There is not one better than the other. Get off your high horse because you're too prim and proper to say fuck. Try it sometime. It's fun.
Seriously?!?! Oh, sorry, I guess you can only scold other women about certain things and being prim and proper is not one of those.
AggieMom0809 said:
CrazyMonkeyBear said:
Ewww..."you have a very foul mouth young lady" Women can't cuss? Why do we have to be so prim and proper just because we have a vagina between our legs?!
Apparently not in her book, anyway... I don't know about you, @YaMrWhite, but my mouth can be much worse than a guy when I get worked up
And you are proud of it?!?! Being a man is not an excuse either for foul language. Has cursing really gotten you that much further in life?
QUOTE FAIL--------------Has not cursing really furthered your position in life? This is a ridiculous argument.
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@AggieMom0809 I think we'd all just like to know why you choose to engage with us if we're so mean to you all the time? I personally wouldn't stay somewhere that I felt unwelcome.
You didn't answer the first time I asked, so I'm trying again.
I'm pretty sure I have answered that question many times here. I'm not going away because I'm due in J15 and I belong here. I'm not going to be bullied out (and yes they way you treat me would be considered cyber bullying which is punishable by law now). I feel it's too important to state my opinion even if it's not PC. Just because something doesn't please everyone, doesn't mean it's not true, valid, or pertinent.
Women can't cuss? Why do we have to be so prim and proper just because we have a vagina between our legs?!
Apparently not in her book, anyway... I don't know about you, @YaMrWhite, but my mouth can be much worse than a guy when I get worked up
And you are proud of it?!?! Being a man is not an excuse either for foul language. Has cursing really gotten you that much further in life?
QUOTE FAIL--------------Has not cursing really furthered your position in life? This is a ridiculous argument.
Yes! and there are plenty of people who I have refused to hire or promote based on their foul language.
She (if she is even a she!) is probably laughing her ass off after hitting "post reply" every time. Can you imagine how much fun some people must have riling up a board full of pregnant women?
Women can't cuss? Why do we have to be so prim and proper just because we have a vagina between our legs?!
Apparently not in her book, anyway... I don't know about you, @YaMrWhite, but my mouth can be much worse than a guy when I get worked up
And you are proud of it?!?! Being a man is not an excuse either for foul language. Has cursing really gotten you that much further in life?
QUOTE FAIL--------------Has not cursing really furthered your position in life? This is a ridiculous argument.
Yes! and there are plenty of people who I have refused to hire or promote based on their foul language.
I would argue that there is a pretty big difference in swearing like a sailor in a professional environment and swearing like a sailor amongst your friends in common chit chat. Obviously, keeping your language professional in a professional environment is necessary. 8-|
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ha. i have yet to see a single thing here that's "punishable by law".
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ha. i have yet to see a single thing here that's "punishable by law".
This should be punishable by law:
Offense: ruining donut with sprinkles
nooooooooooooooo. you can never ruin a doughnut with sprinkles.
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Women can't cuss? Why do we have to be so prim and proper just because we have a vagina between our legs?!
Apparently not in her book, anyway... I don't know about you, @YaMrWhite, but my mouth can be much worse than a guy when I get worked up
And you are proud of it?!?! Being a man is not an excuse either for foul language. Has cursing really gotten you that much further in life?
QUOTE FAIL--------------Has not cursing really furthered your position in life? This is a ridiculous argument.
Yes! and there are plenty of people who I have refused to hire or promote based on their foul language.
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People you refused to hire or promote for your monogram business???
/relevant #neverforget
I haven't hired anyone for my monogram business yet and really don't want to if I don't have to. I was in charge of hiring and weighed heavily on promotions when I was working in the corporate world.
The best part was getting a couple of the employees arrested and sent to jail. They were hired before I got there. I knew they were up to no good within the first week of working.
Ok, at this point I think she's a troll...simply because of the above. I have tried to stay out of this but honestly at this point you are just trying to provoke people by saying that the best part of working was getting people arrested. You make people who believe in Jesus and who are conservative look terrible and I don't want you to represent those values. Its terrible. Jesus loved/loves everyone and no sin is greater than any other. You don't have to agree with other peoples life styles but if Jesus would have just loved them then why are you any better than him in thinking you can judge people. I am seriously disgusted by you and am almost 100 percent positive you are just here to get a rise out of people. Go away please.
i think some of you need to get off the net and get on with your life...this is just too much drama for someone who has a family to tend to and a baby on the way. It is so scary to me that women with such lack of morals or common respect raise children these days...LORD HAVE MERCY!
Ok, at this point I think she's a troll...simply because of the above. I have tried to stay out of this but honestly at this point you are just trying to provoke people by saying that the best part of working was getting people arrested. You make people who believe in Jesus and who are conservative look terrible and I don't want you to represent those values. Its terrible. Jesus loved/loves everyone and no sin is greater than any other. You don't have to agree with other peoples life styles but if Jesus would have just loved them then why are you any better than him in thinking you can judge people. I am seriously disgusted by you and am almost 100 percent positive you are just here to get a rise out of people. Go away please.
Yes. My pastor has even been preaching on this the past 2 sundays. Jesus didn't hang with the Pharisees, He hung out with the sinners and down trodden. If you (Aggiemom) truly call yourself a Christian, maybe you should think about that before you take such joy in the punishment and judgement of others.
Re: January Gender
A huge pet peeve of mine is "ladylike" and any derivative of that (and "You have a very foul mouth, young lady" would definitely count). It's like saying you can't possibly be considered a lady if you curse. Pretty sure I can say fuckiety fuck cumbucket and my vagina isn't going to fall off, so my sex is still female, and I still identify as the female gender, so I'm not quite sure where these qualifications for being a "lady" come in? Is that the 3rd dimension of the gender & sex conversation?
If so, count me firmly female for sex, female for gender, and not-ladylike for whatever the hell qualification that shit would be.
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BFP on May 5th after Follistim & IUI #3
very mature.
i'm also curious to know why women aren't allowed to cuss, and why people are so hung up on being "ladylike".
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ETA: apparently you can only call certain people a troll (like me) who are pregnant and still due in J15. That doesn't mean I called anyone else a troll, just trying to figure out why it's constantly brought up that y'all call me one and it's okay, but when I pose a question that someone else, by their definition, may be one it's not okay.
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BFP#2 EDD 12.07.2014, natural mc 04.09.2014 at 5w3d
BFP#3 EDD 01.14.15, RAINBOW baby girl born 01.16.2015
jan'15 january siggy challenge: baby fails
Women can't cuss? Why do we have to be so prim and proper just because we have a vagina between our legs?! Apparently not in her book, anyway... I don't know about you, @YaMrWhite, but my mouth can be much worse than a guy when I get worked up And you are proud of it?!?! Being a man is not an excuse either for foul language. Has cursing really gotten you that much further in life? QUOTE FAIL--------------Has not cursing really furthered your position in life? This is a ridiculous argument.
BFP#1 EDD 04.20.2010, SUNSHINE baby boy born 03.31.2010
BFP#2 EDD 12.07.2014, natural mc 04.09.2014 at 5w3d
BFP#3 EDD 01.14.15, RAINBOW baby girl born 01.16.2015
jan'15 january siggy challenge: baby fails
Yes! and there are plenty of people who I have refused to hire or promote based on their foul language.
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People you refused to hire or promote for your monogram business???
/relevant #neverforget

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jan'15 january siggy challenge: baby fails
Yes! and there are plenty of people who I have refused to hire or promote based on their foul language.
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People you refused to hire or promote for your monogram business???
/relevant #neverforget
I haven't hired anyone for my monogram business yet and really don't want to if I don't have to. I was in charge of hiring and weighed heavily on promotions when I was working in the corporate world.
The best part was getting a couple of the employees arrested and sent to jail.