This is so wrong. Women are supposed to support each other, but all I see here are a bunch of bullies. Bad vibes. Toxic.
Apparently you have not read anything else, have you read any of the posts where it doesn't seem like it would be full of drama like a loss post? No you haven't bc you saw the title of this post and all the pages and thought hmm this should be interesting I have to look... Oh we could all say the same about you, you're not being supportive of our opinions... Move along... We are all tired of the WK-ing.
I love this board so much. It's my entertainment for my boring life.
Btw--- did anyone really believe that her fiancé was the one commenting? For some reason I'm calling BS on that
-- if someone else already said that, my apologies. My ADD won't let me read every comment on this 9 page thread. I just HAD to get to the end and see what else happened.
And where is the rulebook that says women are supposed to 'support' each other (where support means being a sycophant who just agrees with everything). Yeah women are actually socialized to be non-confrontational and not tell somebody they're making us uncomfortable or being a jerk. But that's a bunch of bullshit
Hi, I have two X chromosomes and still manage to have opinions. Deal with it.
Now I want to say sycophant!!! For no reason. Like Bill Murray in Little Shop of Horrors
I have only been posting here a couple of weeks, so take what I have to say with a grain of salt, but one thing I have noticed with these sort of posts is the tendency to use the argument- "you should see where we are supportive, like the loss posts, and then say we are a bunch of meanies" to make the "white knight" somehow feel guilty. Or something to that effect. I have been lurking enough to understand that these posts do get old, and yes, we all wish that people would stop AWing every little thing or asking the same inane questions. But I question the reasoning of using someone else's misfortune to make a point. If you are harping on the obvious, wouldn't it be sort of obvious that nobody in their right mind is going to be rude in a loss post? I just think that sort of thing should be left out of this. Just my two cents...
I read a lot of posts that I choose not to comment on. I comment on every loss post that I read. Not to show how wonderful and supportive I can be, but because my heart truly goes out to these women. I tell then I am sorry for their loss because I truly am.
I am also allowed to show my annoyance at people who take to the internet to ask strangers about going against their doctors advice. Because I truly think these people are idiots. Or people that want to saddle their kid with a horrible name.
I get what all of you are saying; I just don't personally think it should be used as an example. I don't think something like that should be brought up in these kinds of posts at all. I realize people don't feel the same way as I do about it, but it bugs me so I said something. And now I'm off, one thing I have learned is that I should probably not get caught with my foot in the door in posts like this, and look what I went and did.
I apologize again for riling anyone up- I am new to this bmb- but I'm very active on the Facebook group for my original bmb. I have made a lot of great friends there that I will likely have for a lifetime. I have learned that one upside down thread and a few misplaced comments don't have to be the deciding factor on whether you make a home for yourself on an online forum. We may not click, but I bet I won't have a problem making a few friends here. I have high hopes anyway! Leaving this thread because as someone already said, it needs to be done and I have no problem accepting the fact that I did not win any rounds today, and fortunately for me that was never my intention so I'm suffering no great loss. Back to work I go!
So.. wait.. you come to a zombie thread, stir shit up, and then back out like it never happened? Oh, okay, that makes sense. I was slightly bored at work today, so thanks for the entertainment. Don't think even for a second that it's okay to come to a board that you've not participated in at all and start passing judgement on those that have. We don't support people on this board to get some kind of pat on the back, you give support, you get support.. that's how it works. I don't know how many times or ways that has been said, but you probably wouldn't know that bc you've failed to participate in anything on this board other than stirring shit up. I support people on this board because I would hope that they would do the same for me, not because I need some kind of blue ribbon for doing so. There are people on this board that I genuinely care about and care about the well being of, sorry if it sounds harsh, but that doesn't not include the random fly-bys or the WK's that come in after them. So you and your shit stirring comments can go else where, because it's been made clear that no one here has the time, nor patience, nor energy to have anything to do with them. I'm sure your previous BMB board learned to live with you, but I for one, will pass on that. No matter what your intentions were by posting, it didn't go over well, so it can be left at that.
Re: Need help with a name
Oh we could all say the same about you, you're not being supportive of our opinions... Move along... We are all tired of the WK-ing.
Edit: if its so toxic why are you still here?
Arnold was an accident and now I can't delete, meh, he kinda fits.
Btw--- did anyone really believe that her fiancé was the one commenting? For some reason I'm calling BS on that
-- if someone else already said that, my apologies. My ADD won't let me read every comment on this 9 page thread. I just HAD to get to the end and see what else happened.
I totes like, luvvvv u guize sooooooo much.
I'm babbling now, nighty night!
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I am also allowed to show my annoyance at people who take to the internet to ask strangers about going against their doctors advice. Because I truly think these people are idiots. Or people that want to saddle their kid with a horrible name.
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Did someone call for some sweet ass?
Sorry, I get nervous when it gets awkward.
@LowTalker23 you really have a great set of asses!!
Let it die.