I once used plan b because I got super drunk after a horribly bad breakup and had sex with my ex's best friend just out of spite. Yes, I was super immature in college. I am happy to report I have grown up and am a normal, well adjusted adult who is married, doesn't cheat on my husband and has a (hopefully ginger) baby on the way. I didn't need anyone (IRL or on the internet) to remind me that Plan B was not a birth control. I think for most people, that's pretty evident.
Point of divulging all this super personal information on the internet to strangers? It DOESNT MATTER if it was an accident, if it was a mistake, if it was awesome and she regrets nothing. The circumstances DONT MATTER AT ALL! I will fight every day for the right of women to prevent unwanted pregnancies from happening. If some of you on here don't want to be 'friends' with me because of my poor decision making in college, whelp, that's the price I will have to pay.
We should not judge, we should not comment, we should be exceedingly happy that we all are so lucky as to have plan B at our disposal, thank god.
(This is the part where we chant USA USA!)
Thank you. I really wanted to say a lot of this as well, but couldn't find the right words.
That is very scary. I would be concerned about the development of the baby as well. I really hope everything turns out ok. I hope in the future you are more responsible and don't rely on Plan B as birth control.
I like how 9 people "loved" this comment, but you're being portrayed as mean and judgemental. Obviously others agree with your thought process! You also made a point to state (several times) that you wish OP the best in her pregnancy. I see nothing mean with what you posted, at all! Its the internet! You don't have to gtfo if you have nothing nice to say. You have to gtfo if you're going to cry about how strangers judge the information you willingly provide.
@McSarah1104 - I was just going to post that once upon a time I took plan B after a bad breakup and a drunken night! At least we can be chastised together
Oh and @kimmarie1105 - since you seem to think the point of this board is to harp on people who make mistakes, in the words of Ross Geller: Y O U ' R E means you are. Y O U R means your
That happened once in all of my comments on here. Bumping from my phone gets tricky sometimes. Clearly, I know the difference. Thanks for taking the time out go over my grammar with a fine tooth comb. I will be more careful next time as to not upset you. Some of you ladies need to get a fucking grip. I really wasn't mean to the girl. Thank you @keyourtnee! It's sad when people only speak their minds after an entire bandwagon has done so. In conclusion, OP, I truly hope you and your little sweet pea are healthy.
*** I stand behind my opinion that Plan B is back up birth control, not to be confused with traditional birth control. And although it is wonderful that we have these choices nowadays, it doesn't exempt you from being responsible for yourself and making good decisions. Like it or not, this happens way to often. And I'm not saying any of you have done it, but many people do and I think it's sad.
This makes me so sad. It's really disheartening that woman feel the need to chastise each other. A few years a ago, a friend of mine was raped, the intercourse (unwanted, but it was still intercourse) was unprotected. My friend was not on any birth control because she wasn't sexually active. She thanked God that the option of Plan B Was available to her. It is a scary situation. But, I'm sure the health and development of your baby is fine, just keep taking prenatal vitamins and discuss it with your Dr and your next visit. Good luck to you!
Enjoying my popcorn. I could state that I also think plan b is a back up birth control, but it has nothing to do with op needing help knowing if baby is fine... It's just that an opinion. Nothing against op for having to use it for whatever reason. Glad we have it especially for rape victims... I also think as women we should try to make correct decisions before having sex in any situation because "accidents" happen even with birth control and back up birth control, but also not needed for this post, so I'll keep to my popcorn and wish op H&H 9 mo. Carry on.
Re: Planned B failed! pregnant and nervous!
Thank you @keyourtnee! It's sad when people only speak their minds after an entire bandwagon has done so.
In conclusion, OP, I truly hope you and your little sweet pea are healthy.
*** I stand behind my opinion that Plan B is back up birth control, not to be confused with traditional birth control. And although it is wonderful that we have these choices nowadays, it doesn't exempt you from being responsible for yourself and making good decisions. Like it or not, this happens way to often. And I'm not saying any of you have done it, but many people do and I think it's sad.
A few years a ago, a friend of mine was raped, the intercourse (unwanted, but it was still intercourse) was unprotected. My friend was not on any birth control because she wasn't sexually active. She thanked God that the option of Plan B Was available to her. It is a scary situation. But, I'm sure the health and development of your baby is fine, just keep taking prenatal vitamins and discuss it with your Dr and your next visit. Good luck to you!