possible pregnancy symptoms but negative test?

BethKate2 · October 2014

kellygurl24 said:

Wow you all are a bunch of bitches, thats exactly what you are, is it fun ganging up on people? you guys must have no lives and to the ketchup person, how is it that im being told that I'm a jerk and being insulting when you sit there and and tell me to fuck off five different times. nice job coming up with anything creative. you all suck and no thanks i dont want to be a part of your crummy "community" if this is supportive id hate to see other wise i can find better support from my hamster.

Are you really going to leave this time or are you just pretending to leave again?

chicory · October 2014

See, and I was feeling kinda like a slug today for accomplishing almost nothing more than sitting on my couch and watching TV and surfing TB boards. Thankfully that's a thousand times less pathetic than trolling an internet board to create MUD! I feel so much better about myself!

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BethKate2 · October 2014

I think you've burned your bridges. Might as well just move along now.

yepitsme215 · October 2014

kellygurl24 said:

ok im sorry, i probably jumped to conclusions to fast, i shouldn't have lost my temper. i hope that we can just get over this i didn't mean to offend anyone, and i hope we can just all get along.

I'm sorry but why would you want to be a part of our "crummy community" again? Well this crummy community doesn't want you so...

theholmanherd · October 2014

kellygurl24 said:

ok im sorry, i probably jumped to conclusions to fast, i shouldn't have lost my temper. i hope that we can just get over this i didn't mean to offend anyone, and i hope we can just all get along.

^this is not going to mean anything to anyone because of this:

kellygurl24 said:

Wow you all are a bunch of bitches, thats exactly what you are, is it fun ganging up on people? you guys must have no lives and to the ketchup person, how is it that im being told that I'm a jerk and being insulting when you sit there and and tell me to fuck off five different times. nice job coming up with anything creative. you all suck and no thanks i dont want to be a part of your crummy "community" if this is supportive id hate to see other wise i can find better support from my hamster.

and this:

kellygurl24 said:

BunnyBerry said:

kellygurl24 said:

your example was stupid, these are online strangers not real people its way different going to an actual support group and talking to people. dont just think your the only ones who has gone through a lot.

Here that, ladies? We're not an actual support group, we don't talk to "people" here. We are just online strangers, not "real people."

Look, original poster, the only reason our friend here (by the way the only thing it takes to be in the "cool group" here is to introduce oneself and then give and receive support as you can) wanted to express how we have been poked and prodded etc. is because it's hard to imagine that someone who has been through all of that would not recognize that those people don't want to hear about some stranger's possible BFP, or at least have enough consideration to respect that some women who have gone through all that would reasonably not want to hear about some stranger's possible BFP.

oh man you have nothing better to do do you? obviously your bored, and wtf is up with jealousy over a bfp? I never had one anyway but even if i did why wouldnt you just be happy for me as i would for you if you got a bfp? holy s**t this bored is supposed to be for getting pregnant am i right

Attacking beloved regulars, refusing to follow board etiquette, and being a troll are not going to be forgotten. You've burned your bridges. Move along. Bye, Felicia.

BunnyBerry · October 2014

kellygurl24 said:

BunnyBerry said:

kellygurl24 said:

your example was stupid, these are online strangers not real people its way different going to an actual support group and talking to people. dont just think your the only ones who has gone through a lot.

Here that, ladies? We're not an actual support group, we don't talk to "people" here. We are just online strangers, not "real people."

Look, original poster, the only reason our friend here (by the way the only thing it takes to be in the "cool group" here is to introduce oneself and then give and receive support as you can) wanted to express how we have been poked and prodded etc. is because it's hard to imagine that someone who has been through all of that would not recognize that those people don't want to hear about some stranger's possible BFP, or at least have enough consideration to respect that some women who have gone through all that would reasonably not want to hear about some stranger's possible BFP.

oh man you have nothing better to do do you? obviously your bored, and wtf is up with jealousy over a bfp? I never had one anyway but even if i did why wouldnt you just be happy for me as i would for you if you got a bfp? holy s**t this bored is supposed to be for getting pregnant am i right

This is why I don't want to be your friend.

Why in the world would I feel happy for a BFP of someone who could say such mean things to people just because they're "internet strangers"?

Andplusalso, you are the one who accused us of jealousy, it wasn't my idea.

theholmanherd · October 2014

@BunnyBerry, don't let her get to you. Obvious troll is obvious. We all love you and have your back

yepitsme215 · October 2014

GinnyJones82 said:

kellygurl24 said:

ok im sorry, i probably jumped to conclusions to fast, i shouldn't have lost my temper. i hope that we can just get over this i didn't mean to offend anyone, and i hope we can just all get along.

is this serious or have I had too many glasses of wine?
---------------quote fail! Speaking of, I stopped at a local winery today that I never knew existed. They have a sweet wine made with apples and grappa! OMG that was some good strong stuff!

Oh, that sounds tasty. I just went to my first winery this summer and got pretty tipsy in front of a bunch of old rich people with my DH; it was the best time of my life. (Yes, I'm a bit of a lightweight).

BunnyBerry · October 2014

@theholmanherd Thanks!

Yeah, there were just so many rude little remarks made by OP that I didn't even notice that one directed against me until after the "apology." But I just saw that you had already stood up for me...thanks, man!

theholmanherd · October 2014

@BunnyBerry, anytime!

jessimi06 · October 2014

Man, you know you've crossed the line when you piss off @BunnyBerry‌, she's like the sweetest person on the board. Move along MUD.

yepitsme215 · October 2014

I just think we should take this as a lesson that people sometimes suck and like to cause trouble. OP is an inconsiderate twat and she probably is just looking to create drama.

You guys have all been wonderful. Don't listen to Kelly.

TTCBabyJ · October 2014

BunnyBerry said:

kellygurl24 said:

BunnyBerry said:

kellygurl24 said:

didn't realize asking about symptoms was such a touchy subject. sorry, but i just think thats silly

Please don't go on an online support board for infertility and tell those women that you think the hurt feelings they get when strangers show up a couple days before the expected menstrual period asking about pregnancy symptoms are "silly." Those of us who are hurt by these kind of posts because they show lack of consideration for the fact that we have been struggling for years to have a child do not need to be told right in our own community that our feelings are "silly" - this is our one safe haven in many ways. Just keep that thought to yourself.

If I had seen only your first post I would have said - "Unfortunately those symptoms could be pregnancy, PMS, or something random, there's just no way to know until you have a HPT+. Although many pregnant women will see a positive test by 12DPO, a good portion will only see one a few days later, so there's still a chance."

god i didn't say that your feelings were silly i was saying its silly that you have to get worked up about every little thing like your doing. i wasn't asking to get you guys mad or jealous or whatever it is im in the same boat, i dont expect a positive because i have been let down so many times before you don't know me dont judge me.

thanks for your other answer though, that was helpful

How were you not calling our feelings silly when you said it was silly that it was a "touchy" subject? What was "touchy" if not our feelings? And how is it "every little thing" when you said such offensive things about our entire community here? Take your own advice - "You don't know me, don't judge me."

The newbie thread says in big letters "Read Before Posting!!!" so if you chose to disregard that, how can you blame anyone else?

And honey (that sarcastic little word is in response to your snotty "god," see how that works?)...no one is jealous of another woman with IF who gets half-assed treatment at an OB's office and doesn't even understand the first thing about hormones and pregnancy tests and symptoms after a year. We feel compassion for women like in that situation and do our best to give caring advice, within the limits of respecting ourselves.

Get her @BunnyBerry‌

mmmKayy · October 2014

murrt said:

Kelly,

By the way, thanks for calling me popular. Maybe now I can run for homecoming queen.

Sincerely,

One of the "bitches" from 3T

Hahahahahahahahahaha.. Love it!!

Ann612 · October 2014

you know what's rude? coming to a board filled with people desperately trying to get pregnant and asking them if they magically know you are pregnant.

If I had magic powers to tell if someone was pregnant or not, I could save myself many a trip to a doctor to get stuck by needle, the 2 hour wait until I get results, and the inevitable break down when it's another BFN.

dominicandreamer · October 2014

kellygurl24 said:
your example was stupid, these are online strangers not real people its way different going to an actual support group and talking to people.

Way late to the show but WOW! Did you really just say that?

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