Just rejected by two clinics

Re: Just rejected by two clinics

• BethKate2 member

  October 2014

  Wow. I've never heard of someone being turned away like that. I'm so sorry you're dealing with this.

  
  

   

  TTC since July 2012 
  BFP 5/22/13. Lap. to remove ectopic and dx with endo. 6/16/13

  RE consult: June 2014

  DX: FVL, endo, hypothyroidism, blocked left tube

  Oct. 2014: First treatment cycle: Clomid+trigger+IUI=BFN

  November 2014: Clomid+trigger+IUI again=BFP!

  BFP 11/28/14 MC discovered 1/14/15
  

  Blogging to stay sane

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• LindseyM2012 member

  October 2014

  I've never heard of that either. I can understand more complex issues probably not being accepted into a refund program, but altogether rejected from the practice? Wow! I'm so sorry!

  Me: 28  MH:35

  Married September 2012. TTC since September 2013

  June 2014 - Dx w/ significant PCOS and referred to RE.

  July/August 2014 - Testing complete: Testosterone & AMH very high, FSH slightly high, Vitamin D low, tubes and lining all lovely. DH SA: A+

  Cycle 1 (Nov 2014): 2.5 mg Letrozole/Ovidrel/TI = BFN

  Cycle 2 (Dec 2014): 5 mg Letrozole/Ovidrel/TI - BFN
  

  Cycle 3 (Jan 2015): 5mg Letrozole/Ovidrel/TI - BFN

  WTF consult scheduled for 1/29

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• mmmKayy member

  October 2014

  Aww so sorry (((hugs)))

  :: Me: 30 ~ DH: 27 ::

     :: TTC since Oct 2013 ~ NTNP since Dec 2010 ::

  :: DX: PCOS Characteristics & MFI ::

  ~May 2014: 1st Consult with RE~

  ~SA #1/#2 (low on all #'s), HSG (found non-threatening uterine fibroid)~

  ~*1500mg Metformin Daily*~

  *June: Medicated Cycle #1: 5mg Letrozole + Trigger + TI + Progesterone = BFN* 

  *July: Medicated Cycle #2: 5mg Letrozole + Trigger + TI + Progesterone = BFN*

   *Aug: Medicated Cycle #3: 5mg Letrozole + Trigger + TI + Progesterone = BFN*

  *Sept: IUI #1: 5mg Letrozole + Follistim + Ovidrel + IUI + Progesterone = BFN*

  Possibly Looking at IVF.. RE Suggested DH See a Urologist Before Moving On With Treatments 

  *Currently on a Break*

  ~*All Welcome*~

   

   

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• emmej313 member

  October 2014

  That really stinks!  Here's to finding the RIGHT clinic for you!
  

  Me: 28 DH: 28

  Married: 6 years

   TTC since: Sept 2010

  Diagnosis: Stage 4 Endometriosis, Hashimoto's

  Treatment: Lupron (3/2010 – 9/2010 & 7/2013 – 2/2014)

  April 2013 - BFP – missed mc confirmed 5/08/2014. D&C 5/22/2014

  Sept/Oct 2014: IUI #1 (Gonal F + HCG) = BFN

  Oct/Nov 2014: Temporarily Benched due to multiple cysts on each ovary.

  Nov 27: IUI #2 (Gonal F + HCG) = BFP

  
  

  
  

  
  

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• Shauntee member

  October 2014

  I am so sorry to hear that. Wishing you luck with the next clinic you go to.

  Me-33 DH-36.

  Married 11/10 TTC 11/10

  06/11- diagnosed with PCOS 

  7/11- D&C and benched for a year 

  9/12-4/13-6 rounds of 50 mg Clomid- no sucess 

  6/13- new doc

  7/13-4/14- 6 more rounds of Clomid. 50 mg and then stepped up to 100mg- no success 

  5/14-7/14- took break waiting for new insurance 

  7/14-new insurance= new doc- actually a RE!!!! 

  7/14-HSG and blood test good-PCOS confirmed by new doc 

  10/14 looking forward to 1st IUI w/ Menopur. Blood Test= Negative
  11/14- IUI #2 w/ Menopur- Blood Test= Negative
  1/15- IUI # 3 w/ Menopur- Blood Test= Negative
  2/15- Self Benched this cycle
  3/15/15-Suprise BFP on natural cycle!!!! EDD-11/16/15
  
  

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• dancerspose member

  October 2014

  That is so crazy!  I'm incredibly sorry you're dealing with that on top of IF in general.  Please, open the wine!

  Me: 31 (PCOS) possible right tube issues DH: 36 (SA normal) 

  Started dating in 2006, Married 2012 

  TTC since November 2013 

  First RE visit due to irregular periods: June 2014

  Lap/Hysto to remove polyps, cyst and tube blockage 11/6

  Cycle 1 (Dec. 2014) TI with Clomid, Trigger, & Progesterone CX due to no response

  Impatiently Waiting CD1 to try again with Fermara Back on the bench due to giant cyst,

  who know I'd ovulate on my own after a cancelled cycle and end up with a mega cyst

  All Welcome

   

  

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• BandM14 member

  October 2014

  That is absolutely horrible, I can't believe they would turn you away! Really hoping you find an awesome place that doesn't put restrictions on who they will or will not help. So sorry what you're going through, good luck moving forward.

  Me: 27 DH: 35

  TTC #1 Since July 2013

  Started RE Testing July 2014

  2 HSG tests: Right tube is blocked, possible endo.

  TSH elevated, started Synthroid 25 mg daily.

  October, 2014: Femara 5 mg + TI ---> 3 follies on blocked tube side ---> BFN

  November, 2014: Femara + Ovidrel + IUI#1--2 follies (on the good side), 46 mil. motile sperm=BFN

  Nov-Dec 2014: Femara + Ovidrel + IUI #2 (1 follie, 76 mil. motile sperm) + Endometrin=BFN

  January, 2014: Femara + Ovidrel + IUI #3 (1 follie, 38 mil. motile sperm)=???

  New RE appt. scheduled for 1/14.

  
  

  3T January Siggy Challenge: New Years Resolutions

  Mine: Lose the weight I put on from booze and cookies over Christmas.

  
  

  
  

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  October 2014

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• emmuffy member

  October 2014

  I'm so sorry. That is outrageous. I hope you find good care with a decent doctor who cares about helping people, and not just stats

  Official diagnosis: Unexplained IF. I am 32. I have low ovarian reserve (low AMH), and poor egg quality. I've also been diagnosed with mild glandular developmental arrest (lining problems, detected with EFT).

  We are using open ID donor sperm. IUIs #1-7=BFN. IVF September 2014 antagonist protocol, 8R,5M,3F, 5 day transfer of 1 morula = BFN. IVF#2 planned for January 2015 (antagonist protocol + HGH).

   

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• TTCBabyJ member

  October 2014

  murrt said:

  Sorry that happened to you. Did they give you a viable reason? I know for me, the RE told me most clinics wouldn't accept me because they have a BMI cut off and the anesthesiologist would be scared to put me under (which I think is bullshit...what do they do for obese people with other surgeries?! But it's good motivation to lose weight). Did they give you any reasonable reason other than being concerned about their stats?

  I personally don't think the reasons were viable, I mean they were the exact reasons why we were there in the first place. The RE said the sperm morphology, unicornuate uterus and the endometriosis were the major reasons. He kind of mentioned my age (36) but not as much as the other reasons. He said something about patients with endo produce "hard" shell eggs and there is more fluid, which makes these types of eggs harder to fertilize. The RE also mentioned that he usually recommends transferring 2-3 embryos but he can't do that with me. And he mentioned the take home baby rates, which I know my UU puts me at risk for preterm labor. DH appreciated his honesty (always the optimist)....but I felt like we were mutants by the time we left. When we got in the car I asked DH, "What do you want for dinner Wolverine?" 
  :-w

  Me: +35 DH: +35

  TTC: Since January 2013 

  DX: PCOS. Severe Endometriosis, Unicornuate Uterus w/only left tube and left ovary, Pedunculated fibroid (on the outside of uterus) and Anovulation. All conditions diagnosed 8/13

  TX: Metformin

  DH DX: MFI - low morphology, low motility

  Ultrasound shows both kidneys in spite of UU. 

  HSG showed clear tube on the left side. 

  Lap Surgery performed 1/9/14 to remove fibroid and endo (Stage 3)

  • IUI# 1 June 2014 started 100 mg of Clomid - 7dpiui Progesterone: 13: BFN
  • IUI#2  July 2014 started 100 mg of Clomid - 7dpiui Progesterone: 5.75: BFN
  • Natural Cycle - so shocked to be in 2WW - 7dpo Progesterone: 15.5: BFN
  • Working with new RE starting injectables in late August.
  • IUI #3 August 2014  w/ Menopur: BFN
  • Finally ovulating on my own!!

  Waiting to start IVF hopefully

  **********All Are Welcome**************
  

  3T January Siggy Challenge: New Year's Resolution

  

  
   

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• jenmcD11 member

  October 2014

  That is so awful! I'm so sorry that you are dealing with this on top of IF in general. What is your next move? Is there a third option?
  
  On a side note, I didn't know that some clinic offer a refund program. That is interesting...
  

  
  
  
  Married and started TTC in July 2013
  "Diagnosed" with unexplained infertility
  Oct 2014 IUI #1: 100mg clomid/HCG trigger/2 mature follicles/18mil post wash sperm count: BFP!!!
  
  

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• theholmanherd member

  October 2014

  Wow. I cannot believe that. I'm so sorry. (((HUGS)))
  

  Love 2010 | Marriage 2011 | TTC #1 since 2012
  PCOS | Anovulatory | Metformin + Letrozole

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• Ann612 member

  October 2014 edited October 2014

  That has to be discouraging. I hope you can find someplace that cares more about helping than stats.

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• BunnyBerry member

  October 2014

  Oh, that is so unfair, I'm so sorry, BabyJ! Those people became doctors to use their expertise to heal those who need it. How can they give up on you because you happen to be in need of more help, just to make people searching the internet think they are more successful? Those nasty, greedy old doctors don't deserve the cool chance to work with you and experience success with you. I hope you find a REAL doctor very soon, one who makes you feel like you deserve to be a mom, and makes sure you understand that your IF diagnosis is THEIR issue to solve, not YOUR issue to feel crappy about!!

  January 3T Siggy Challenge - New Year's Resolutions

  
  

  

  
  

  Me (29), DH (30) TTC actively 54 55+ cycles | All BFNs

  MFI (low everything) | Endo Stage 1 & Stenotic Cervix (treated) | PCO

  Married - July 2008 | Started TTC - Jan 2009 | RE Visit #1 - Mar 2014 

  IUI #1 ICI #1 - June | IUI #1.1 Laparoscopy - Aug

  IUIs #1.2, 2, 3 - Sept, Oct, Nov (Letrozole) - BFNs 

  IUI #4 - Dec (Bravelle) | IUI #5 - Dec/Jan (Bravelle) - 5 follies + TI - BFNs

  IUI #5.1 - Jan (Bravelle) Cancelled 

  Planning to start IVF in March!

  ***All Welcome***

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• BookishMomma member

  October 2014

  This sucks. I'm sorry you are dealing with this.

  

  
  

  DX: I'm a Recurrent Loser

  Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007

  BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11

  BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d

  BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d

  BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 

  BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d

  BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]

  In search of a 

  
  

  
  

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• jessimi06 member

  October 2014

  ((HUGS)) I'm so sorry you're dealing with this crap.

  **********SIGGY/TICKER WARNING**********
  
  ALL WELCOME!
  TTC since 04/12
  Me- 26 PCOS
  DH- 28 MFI
  10/13 IUI #1 (1 follie)- BFP!
  11/13 M/C @9 wk due to tetraploidy, one little boy in heaven
  01/14 IUI#2 (1 follie) BFN
  02/14 IUI #3 (3 follies) BFN
  03/14 IUI #4 (2 follies) BFN
  05/14 IVF/ICSI #1 CXL
  07/14 IVF/ICSI #1.2 6R, 6M, 5F, 2T, 2 frosties!
  Transferred 2-5dt  CP
  09/14 FET #1 BFP! Beta #1 52 Beta #2 152!
  10/20/14- It's TWINS!
  1/15- TEAM PURPLE!
  
  

  

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• loveinkw13 member

  October 2014

  Wow, that sounds completely unethical and makes me angry for you. I'm so sorry you have to deal with that ((hugs)). 

  
  

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• SweetieShellieH member

  October 2014

  That's really unfair. I understand the refund thing, but to be told even without it they won't take you is just wrong. You deserve a shot at a bio child just as much as the next person at their clinic.

  *** If you want to know where I (and soo many others) have gone, click here ***

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• Emma61210 member

  October 2014

  I'm so sorry you're having to go through this =( How awful they would turn you away when that is what they're there for! Hoping you can find somewhere that will help you guys be successful! 

  TTC #1 since November '11
  Sawyer Ryanne due Jan 1, 2017
  
  
  

  
  

  

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• yepitsme215 member

  October 2014

  Honestly the whole fertility treatments/clinics/insurance coverage (pretty much anything to do with fertility stuff) is completely stupid and unfair in this country, we didn't ask to have these problems and it's not fair we have to be punished for them. I have PCOS too, and treament has been fucking hell. 

  I'm so sorry for all this. I'm confident for you that something will come along but what a painful road to have to go down. 

  Me: 24 

  DH:25

  TTC for over a year with PCOS. We'll see what happens. 

  November 3 2014-finally going to see an RE!

  
  
  

  Favorite villain: Alex from A Clockwork Orange

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• Ready4one member

  October 2014

  I'm so sorry that they would do that ... was either one of the clinics a SIRM clinic ?? If not I would highly recommend consulting with them ... they seem to take on much harder cases than most fertility clinics ... I am a SIRM patient in Las Vegas with Dr. Sher himself ... good luck to you I really hope you find an RE that is worth your time and that will do whatever they can to help you ...
  

  Me - 37 DOR
  DH - 44 V/VR ASA
  We have been ttc for almost 2 years ... DH has a 20 year old son from previous marriage.
  Nov 2012 - VR
  Dec 2012 - Start TTC
  Dec 2013 - IUI #1 - BFN
  Jan 2014 - IUI #2 - BFN
  Aug 2014 - IVF #1 - BFN
  Nov 2014 - IVF #2 - ???
  

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