Finding out gender

Re: Finding out gender

• daizedoo member

  September 2014

  Probably by age 3, I would think

  
  
  
  
  

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• 2Swanns member

  September 2014

  oh noooooo!

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• selena61307 member

  September 2014

  My oldest is 7 I have an idea but honestly not 100% on her gender.

  

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• thejucheidea member

  September 2014

  I would think around preschool age, but sometimes there are surprises that lead to gender identity issues much later in life. With expanded knowledge of transgenderism, however, I feel like we'll know much earlier if we have a child who identifies as the gender connected to the sex as which he or she was born or if he or she identifies as the other gender (or is genderqueer) much earlier in life.

  
  

  It's different with every child though!

  
  

  Sex though, we're not finding out until birth.

  

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• sullivansammy89 member

  September 2014

  Not again... X_X

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• ruemorgan member

  September 2014

  We wont know the baby's gender for a few years. Although I did find out the *sex* of my baby at 16 weeks.

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• finallyourturn2 member

  September 2014

  We are hoping to find out Friday (@ 15+6).

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• alexandria22489 member

  September 2014

  How does this keep happening? @-)

  

  
  

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• beatlesgal4 member

  September 2014 edited September 2014

  I have read the sex vs gender post, and all I have to say to you ladies is you know exactly what they are talking about. This community board isn't for making fun of or putting other moms down, it's for encouragement and support. People ask me ALL THE TIME if I found out the gender of my baby. I don't correct them and say, "omg another one??" Seriously. And in regards to your question dear I'm finding out in two weeks the sex/gender of my baby.

  But do you put a sticky note on your forehead when you are talking with these people that says, "sex is not the same as gender and yes it is important to distinguish"?

  

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• blinksmb member

  September 2014 edited September 2014

  I have read the sex vs gender post, and all I have to say to you ladies is you know exactly what they are talking about. This community board isn't for making fun of or putting other moms down, it's for encouragement and support. People ask me ALL THE TIME if I found out the gender of my baby. I don't correct them and say, "omg another one??" Seriously. And in regards to your question dear I'm finding out in two weeks the sex/gender of my baby.

  Yeah guise, this is exactly why I throw racial slurs around like crazy in my everyday life. They know exactly what I'm talking about, so why put in the extra effort to not set society back hundreds of years? My ignorance and fear of change is much more important.

   

   

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• daizedoo member

  September 2014 edited September 2014

  shill101488

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  I have read the sex vs gender post, and all I have to say to you ladies is you know exactly what they are talking about. This community board isn't for making fun of or putting other moms down, it's for encouragement and support. People ask me ALL THE TIME if I found out the gender of my baby. I don't correct them and say, "omg another one??" Seriously. And in regards to your question dear I'm finding out in two weeks the sex/gender of my baby.

  
  STFU. OP hasn't even cared enough to return and read the replies she's received.

  
  
  
  
  

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• Whitfry member

  September 2014

  Where's my popcorn gif?

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• rm2013 member

  September 2014

  Whitfry said:

  Where's my popcorn gif?

  Please! I put out the bat sign in the random thread bc I couldn't remember who had it.

  

  

  
  
  

  
  

  
  

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• blinksmb member

  September 2014 edited September 2014

  Whitfry said:

  Where's my popcorn gif?

  
  Am I doing it right??
  Edit because I did it wrong

   

   

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• JCWhitey member

  September 2014

  Stop feeding the trolls, ladies.  One post, real name as the username, clearly this isn't real.

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• DragonflyDreaming member

  September 2014

  Noobie =/= FTM
  Sex =/= gender
  
  I can see that you're confused ... maybe if you lurked a while, you would come to understand these and more.
  
  This board is extremely supportive when you put in the time to support others (just for clarification, support =/= WK ((white knight))) and get to know the community.

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• blinksmb member

  September 2014 edited September 2014

  Thanks ladies for the support. I'm not a troll, I'm under the impression that women who put others down on a forum are much worse. Yep, I am a first time mom, so yep I am a "noobie" as stated above. All I'm saying is every discussion I have gone on in this site is mean. I was super excited to have you ladies to fall back on when I was in need of some help or questions, but at this point I am afraid to do that because I may automatically be called a troll. Thanks to all you women for all the support.

  Nobody wants you to fall on them for support if you're not going to give it. Sorry. Give and ye shall receive, but so far all you've given is insensitivity to a subject that is very obviously important to a lot of people here. If your response to our discomfort is going to be "stop bitching, you know what I meant" then don't be surprised if you get equally shitty feedback to your questions in the future.

   

   

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• crunchymamaof2 member

  September 2014

  Fuck all this everyone is so mean noise. If you bothered to actually read posts that don't involve the words "gender" or "symptoms" or "wah wah wah woe is me" you'd see just how wrong you are.

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• jnowosielski member

  September 2014 edited September 2014

  shill101488

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  It's cool. If this is how you ladies support each other on this community, then I guess it's not for me. I am all for real life help and support, but I am not for putting people down and this is not the only discussion I have seen that in. I've spent many hours in the bump forums and it all turns to the same. In my mind its not about the little indiscrepencys it's about our babies. And seeing as I went through a child loss not even a year ago, then yeah maybe I'm scared and yeah maybe I'm new at this whole pregnancy thing up to this point, but if that means I can't share my excitement and lquestions with you ladies because I may be made fun of then that's cool. You guys win! I don't have thick enough skin with such a scary time in my life. I at least appreciated the entertainment while I yet again stuff my face for the millionth time today!

  I guess you haven't read any of the threads where the ladies here supported (and still continue to support) our loss mom's or people going through scary symptoms.  

  
  

  Get over yourself.

  
  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• ngolimento member

  September 2014 edited September 2014

  It's cool. If this is how you ladies support each other on this community, then I guess it's not for me. I am all for real life help and support, but I am not for putting people down and this is not the only discussion I have seen that in. I've spent many hours in the bump forums and it all turns to the same. In my mind its not about the little indiscrepencys it's about our babies. And seeing as I went through a child loss not even a year ago, then yeah maybe I'm scared and yeah maybe I'm new at this whole pregnancy thing up to this point, but if that means I can't share my excitement and lquestions with you ladies because I may be made fun of then that's cool. You guys win! I don't have thick enough skin with such a scary time in my life. I at least appreciated the entertainment while I yet again stuff my face for the millionth time today!

  So... Question: If you are so mentally delicate, and need your fragile little feminine hand held through such an overwhelming and emotionally crushing time of your life...wtf are you doing picking fights on an internet forum? No seriously, if I feel the need for support and am devistated, I turn to my family or friends first. Maybe a local support group. I sure as shit don't try to get my rocks off calling internet strangers meanieheads and waiting for the backlash. Like, that's not sane. If you approach any stranger and start lecturing them about how to act, they are going to rightfully tell you to go fuck yourself. You aren't their mother, or some moral authority. You'd be just some snotty crazy mouthing off to people who don't know wtf your problem is.

  

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• jnowosielski member

  September 2014 edited September 2014

  shill101488

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  I just wanna say I'm sorry...I do realize I probably over reacted...I have been irritable the past few days with my morning sickness returning with a vengeance and I jumped on all you ladies... Also I appreciate the idea of changing my username. I have my Facebook on private or so I thought. Not that I have anything to hide but...ya know

  That's understandable.  The ladies on here are very tight and don't take kindly to being told they aren't supportive, because that can't be further from the truth. 

  
  

  Stick around.

  
  

  
  

  

  
  

  
  

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• [Deleted User] member

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• beatlesgal4 member

  September 2014

  I see a different username for you. Try logging out and back in a few times maybe?

  

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• kellbell1982 member

  September 2014

  shill101488 said:

  Thanks ladies. *sigh* in all honesty I can't believe that came out of me. I'm the last person who wants to start a confrontation and I just pressed post instead of thinking it through.
  
  Also I have been trying for the past 2 hours to change my username and it won't work! Any advice on how to do that? You're right I don't need creepos coming in on my profile

  You have no idea how many much loved regs had bad first posts, it's something that can definitely be forgotten and moved past.
  

  

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• ngolimento member

  September 2014

  estamos_tomamos said:

  @peledreamsofrain, you just earned yourself an upgrade.  Hope you like ICE.

  
  

  
  

  Omg squeeeeee! Erm... So... Does it come in a bigger size or.....
  

  

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• ngolimento member

  September 2014

  estamos_tomamos said:

  Are these big enough?  You will notice that they also glow.  I don't want to brag, but it's fairy light.

  
  

  
  

  Oh. Mah. Guh.
  
  Squeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!! Marry me again!
  
  

  

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• ngolimento member

  October 2014

  estamos_tomamos said:

  
  

  Peledreamsofrain said:

  
  

  estamos_tomamos said:

  Are these big enough?  You will notice that they also glow.  I don't want to brag, but it's fairy light.

  
  

  
  

  Oh. Mah. Guh.
  
  Squeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!! Marry me again!
  
  

  
  

  Got the dress and the bridesmaids all ready.  See you at the end of the aisle.  *wink*

  
  

  
  

  
  
  Ahahaha! I love it! That's how we'll look too. Magical tall lady wedding.
  
  

  

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• Ashlee692 member

  October 2014

  Well I won't know the sex until October 13th so I'll find out at exactly 20 weeks

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• AmyCatherine30 member

  October 2014

  shill101488 said:

  I have read the sex vs gender post, and all I have to say to you ladies is you know exactly what they are talking about. This community board isn't for making fun of or putting other moms down, it's for encouragement and support. People ask me ALL THE TIME if I found out the gender of my baby. I don't correct them and say, "omg another one??" Seriously. And in regards to your question dear I'm finding out in two weeks the sex/gender of my baby.

  Right on sister. All this putting people down is really disheartening. Definitely not what I'm looking for in a supportive community. Mean girls suck.
  

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• blinksmb member

  October 2014

  AmyCatherine30 said:

  shill101488 said:

  I have read the sex vs gender post, and all I have to say to you ladies is you know exactly what they are talking about. This community board isn't for making fun of or putting other moms down, it's for encouragement and support. People ask me ALL THE TIME if I found out the gender of my baby. I don't correct them and say, "omg another one??" Seriously. And in regards to your question dear I'm finding out in two weeks the sex/gender of my baby.

  Right on sister. All this putting people down is really disheartening. Definitely not what I'm looking for in a supportive community. Mean girls suck.
  

  

   

   

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• DragonflyDreaming member

  October 2014

  AmyCatherine30 said:

  shill101488 said:

  I have read the sex vs gender post, and all I have to say to you ladies is you know exactly what they are talking about. This community board isn't for making fun of or putting other moms down, it's for encouragement and support. People ask me ALL THE TIME if I found out the gender of my baby. I don't correct them and say, "omg another one??" Seriously. And in regards to your question dear I'm finding out in two weeks the sex/gender of my baby.

  Right on sister. All this putting people down is really disheartening. Definitely not what I'm looking for in a supportive community. Mean girls suck.
  

  Wow, you missed some important parts of the conversation ... I'd suggest reading the rest of the thread ...

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• selena61307 member

  October 2014

  AmyCatherine30 said:

  shill101488 said:

  I have read the sex vs gender post, and all I have to say to you ladies is you know exactly what they are talking about. This community board isn't for making fun of or putting other moms down, it's for encouragement and support. People ask me ALL THE TIME if I found out the gender of my baby. I don't correct them and say, "omg another one??" Seriously. And in regards to your question dear I'm finding out in two weeks the sex/gender of my baby.

  Right on sister. All this putting people down is really disheartening. Definitely not what I'm looking for in a supportive community. Mean girls suck.
  

  
  
  Then fucking leave. See ya.
  

  

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