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  • krysngregkrysngreg member
    I refuse to be your at the center of your entertainment today. I haven't directly called any one a bitch. I said don't be one. That's the difference.
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  • trisharenee0316trisharenee0316 member
    Thank you @MonstoMommy.  Not smoking while pregnant, just secondhand smoke.  But then smoked pot while pregnant.  So basically, even worse when you compare the two.



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  • BreandMikeweddingBreandMikewedding member
    krysngreg said:

    I refuse to be your at the center of your entertainment today. I haven't directly called any one a bitch. I said don't be one. That's the difference.

    Actually, yes! You called me a bitch. Although it is a fact, you can't flat out call me that. I will warn you that I have been nice to you so far and have sugar coated my responses to your bad advice to many posters but I can at any time tell you what I REALLY think of you. Good day princess!
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  • krysngregkrysngreg member
    That is no way judgment. It was my situation and advice. . Y'all just stop I will start flagging the harresment now. I'm not here to engage with the ones who don't like me. Okay. I won't post one your crap. But your not the onlys ones here. And you won't run me off if that's what you think.
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  • trisharenee0316trisharenee0316 member
    BreandMikewedding said:
    Op, she has experience of being in a "relationship" with someone else's baby daddy so take it with a grain of salt. I am not talking out of my ass on this subject and am trying to tell you how to protect yourself and your child. You have said this pregnancy was unplanned and that your child's father has already cheated, therefore you need to protect yourself. Signing a birth certificate doesn't automatically make him responsible for a certain amount of child support. You would still need to go to court to determine what he is responsible for and if he claims he may not be the father, you will have to prove it with a paternity test. I would give the baby your last name and see what happens in the future. You don't have to have him on the birth certificate right away and that can always be changed very easily later. My daughter had my ex's last name when she was born and it was a hassle since he was never involved. He wasn't on the birth certificate, never proved paternity and never paid a penny of child support but when I went to change her last name to mine I had to find him, have him served and get his permission to have it changed. It cost me over $500. If I would have given her my last name and then wanted to change it to his it would have been around $25.
    All of this.

    None of what the other person said.



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  • pnwlover12pnwlover12 member
    scottysgirl77 said:

    I wonder if Jalopy sent her a warning for her first thread, she called us all bitches there too

    That's what I'm not sure about..





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  • krysngregkrysngreg member
    I never called an individual a bitch.

    And she doesnt have to go to court. It's called the attorney generals office. And she can have them do all the work and it will come out of his pocket. Not hers. Unless the paternity test comes back and it isn't his. Is the only way he would not be charged with any of it. This is all Texas. It differs state to state.
    The fact I'm with someone's baby's daddy is irrelavent to all of it. I have went through coustody battles with my child's father and his. I'm not a dumb ass.
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  • krysngregkrysngreg member
    He can't not get the test. The AG is the one who serves him with papers. Not her. And she never said she needed a paternity test or didn't want it to work it out. My advice was along the lines of them staying together. Because they are human like she said.
    To not give her child his name but let him sign the certificate. And have it changed later to his if it does work out.

    If he didn't want to pay, he would then have to get the test and pay for the test and not be the father, to get out of child support on a later date. Signing it is saying the child is yours and you take responsibility of the child.

    If she doesn't let him sign. She then has to go pay for the test herself till he is proven the father, to even get action at the AGs office.
    Not that dumb
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  • BreandMikeweddingBreandMikewedding member
    krysngreg said:

    He can't not get the test. The AG is the one who serves him with papers. Not her. And she never said she needed a paternity test or didn't want it to work it out. My advice was along the lines of them staying together. Because they are human like she said.
    To not give her child his name but let him sign the certificate. And have it changed later to his if it does work out.

    If he didn't want to pay, he would then have to get the test and pay for the test and not be the father, to get out of child support on a later date. Signing it is saying the child is yours and you take responsibility of the child.

    If she doesn't let him sign. She then has to go pay for the test herself till he is proven the father, to even get action at the AGs office.
    Not that dumb

    As you have said this is how it works in Texas. Not all of us are from Texas, thank god! Where I am, this is handled in family court and I was responsible for paying all fees.
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  • krysngregkrysngreg member
    I'm not one to turn the other cheek. I'm still working on that one.

    But it's harresment. When it's all most every thing I post. And it's the same handful of people.

    It's a public site that wants traffic. And you run it off. I have emailed about it today for the first time today.
    This thread was pretty much dead till duck, instead of leaving her advice, Singled my post out (like always) and had something negative to say (like always).

    Just let it go. Ignore me like the good little bumpies do. Why is that so hard. I'm NOT going any where. For the fact the handful of you want it so badly.

    @trisharenee0316‌... I stated it differs from state to state in one of my post. I also represented my self when my ex tried to get full custody to get out of paying the huge monthly payment he pays. His attorney gave me the usual run around since I was five hours away from the county court. I didn't need a law degree to win.
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    I have to check the database to see if there have been official warnings granted @pnwlover12.....  I haven't read this thread, but was the person in question warned here?
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  • pnwlover12pnwlover12 member
    golfingdarwinfish said:

    I have to check the database to see if there have been official warnings granted @pnwlover12.....  I haven't read this thread, but was the person in question warned here?

    Yep.





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  • gooberdoofus95gooberdoofus95 member
    Give your child your last name and if things end up working out and you guys get married or he steps up big time then you can always change it.
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