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  • krysngregkrysngreg member
    edited September 2014
    Nicb13 said:

    pnwlover12 said:

    krysngreg said:

    My DH deserves all the TPs any one could throw. I have been rethinking why I have stayed this long. And it's hard. At least I have all these threads to read, to keep my mind off how big of an unsupportive a-hole he has been. He didn't come in till all most midnight last night. He has been straying since I have been gaining weight. And even said "now that your pregnant the reality of looks fading has become a reality" I'm taking it as he was only ever with me becuase he thought I was pretty. I swear I have more to bring to the table than that. Guessing he isn't coming home again. He took clothes with him. I'm lost. I just want my mom. I know I'm pathetic.

    This makes me really sad. That is really fucked up. Is he just blatantly cheating on you...?

    Part of me doesn't believe what she is saying but I hope she isn't making this up. I'm not sure I'll ever believe her posts BUT if this is true, Its awful, and shallow as fuck. (He is shallow)
    I wish I was lying. I lie to myself. Act like every thing is fine to my mom so she doesn't worry. But he IS very shallow. I just ate the entire bag of kettle cooked lays. Why can't I be one of the girls who can't eat while sad and depressed. Instead I'm filling a hole with unhealthy foods.

    On a better note. My girls keep me going. If it wasn't for my DD I would be torn to pieces. But I have to hold it together for her sake.

    I'm not sure if he is cheating. I don't even want to think about it. Not while pregnant with his baby girl.
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  • krysngregkrysngreg member
    I want no pitty. I'm a big girl and it's my fault for falling in love with an asshole. And not putting my self first. It felt good to get it off my chest. Thanks for being supportive.
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  • pnwlover12pnwlover12 member
    @Cantisa‌ do we have winners yet?! :D





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  • trisharenee0316trisharenee0316 member
    @MrsCunningham22 - Sorry to hear about your pee jug. :(  I hope your BP is under control and you're able to relax and take it easy!



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  • krysngregkrysngreg member
    LightBright515 said:

    I would say switch the locks up on him, but this is the same man who murders small furry household pets.

    The end result might inspire a new lifetime film...

    No joke. But I would just leave while he is at work. And just take my kids and our clothes. Changing locks could result in a huge scene I don't want my daughter seeing.
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  • krysngregkrysngreg member
    @sweetadeline31‌ No physical harm. But if I changed the locks he would just kick the door in and freak out in a yelling attempt to prove how he is right in all of it. But i have left before and then came back. So I'm sorta embarrassed to tell my mom nothing has changed like he promised. And I guess i still have some hope he is just needing to clear his head and feel young before LO is born. But it's super lonely. I grew up with 3 brothers and a sister and I don't do alone very well.
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  • krysngregkrysngreg member
    @trisharenee0316‌ I agree, but boys will be boys. And he is only 26. My daughters real father is great with her. So he has never gotten very close to her. (Should have been a sign I know) and his daughter only comes every other weekend. We weren't allowed to get her over night till after she was 3. So really he hasn't had to take on full responsibility of being a father yet. That's why I said my biggest fear is my DD feeling left out after LO arrives.
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  • krysngregkrysngreg member
    I hurts to bad to not try to justify. But I know your both right.
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  • RavenbabyRavenbaby member
    So glad this is my last week at work. I'm dreading people reminding me that I'm still pregnant, water breaking at work jokes... I think people just feel like they need to say something but don't know what to say. Just say, wow you look beautiful today! That would be great to hear over and over
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  • trisharenee0316trisharenee0316 member
    krysngreg said:
    @trisharenee0316‌ I agree, but boys will be boys. And he is only 26. My daughters real father is great with her. So he has never gotten very close to her. (Should have been a sign I know) and his daughter only comes every other weekend. We weren't allowed to get her over night till after she was 3. So really he hasn't had to take on full responsibility of being a father yet. That's why I said my biggest fear is my DD feeling left out after LO arrives.
    Yes, boys will be boys.  

    I'm sorry you're married to a boy.  It's unfortunate he's not acting like a man, nor do you expect him to.



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  • JJsMumJJsMum member
    sweetadeline31 said:

    I have a silly question:
    Are crib mobiles really important? Do they entertain baby in some kind of magical way?? I have one that I received for my shower but it's so ugly and I can't find any that I like online that matches my nursery theme. Just wondering if it's worth pursuing or if it's one of those frivolous purchases that baby doesn't actually care about.

    i don't think they are necessary. I had one with DS#1, he couldn't care less. Never had one with DS#2, and it was never missed. This time around I made one so that it fit in perfectly with the nursery. It was a fun project :)

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  • jbuck909jbuck909 member
    I had Rice Krispies for dinner. First, right out of the box handful by handful, then actually had a bowl of it lol
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  • sabby2sabby2 member
    I'm back to the party late but..

    I also have no labor buddy because I lurked mostly during 2nd tri and I have only recently been posting more ish so I don't know if anyone really recognizes me. Oh well...

    I wouldn't want to carry a jug of my pee at work either.
    We are so excited to grow our family!
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  • lrobi13lrobi13 member
    jbuck909 said:

    I had Rice Krispies for dinner. First, right out of the box handful by handful, then actually had a bowl of it lol

    I'm only judging you because you should have gone the extra mile and made fresh rice krispy treats! Yummy!
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  • pnwlover12pnwlover12 member
    @MrsCunningham22‌ I'm keeping fx that everything is okay. [-O<





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  • jbuck909jbuck909 member
    lrobi13 said:

    jbuck909 said:

    I had Rice Krispies for dinner. First, right out of the box handful by handful, then actually had a bowl of it lol

    I'm only judging you because you should have gone the extra mile and made fresh rice krispy treats! Yummy!
    I know!!!! I wanted them afterwards, but there's not enough left :( nor do I have the energy to go to the store lol
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  • SaragoeswestSaragoeswest member
    @savagek7‌ my neighbor had that "gotta poop" feeling all throughout her labor, not just at the end
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    I need our BF gurus to tell me how to increase supply
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