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Andrewsgal · September 2014

HBirdie said:

I think buying the brand new iPhone as soon as it comes out despite your older model working just fine is silly.

Brought to you by my friend who "accidentally" shattered his 5s screen the day the 6 was announced. :-?

You have serious issues with how others spend money. Why do you give a fuck. Says the girl getting two new iPhones at 8:00 tomorrow morning and owns two perfectly working 5s.

Andrewsgal · September 2014

auroraloo said:

I think it's silly too, but I also don't care.

Why? I have perfectly good jeans in my closet but will get a newer nicer pair this winter. I have wearable boots but will get a nicer pair that isn't all scuffed up. We are constantly updating things in our life. Why are phones different? And of you didn't care you wouldn't have said anything.

HBirdie · September 2014

Andrewsgal said:

HBirdie said:

I think buying the brand new iPhone as soon as it comes out despite your older model working just fine is silly.

Brought to you by my friend who "accidentally" shattered his 5s screen the day the 6 was announced. :-?

You have serious issues with how others spend money. Why do you give a fuck. Says the girl getting two new iPhones at 8:00 tomorrow morning and owns two perfectly working 5s.

I can think something is silly without judging it. Enjoy your new phones

HBirdie · September 2014

Kimbus22 said:

Andrewsgal said:

auroraloo said:

I think it's silly too, but I also don't care.

Why? I have perfectly good jeans in my closet but will get a newer nicer pair this winter. I have wearable boots but will get a nicer pair that isn't all scuffed up. We are constantly updating things in our life. Why are phones different? And of you didn't care you wouldn't have said anything.

Eh. I don't care if you want two new iphones when yours work fine. I still think it's a silly thing to spend money on when what you have works fine. But I don't give a crap about electronics. I also don't really replace clothes until mine don't fit or fall apart though. But I'm sure I spend money on crap you think is stupid but don't actually care that I spend money on.

Exactly. I'm sure if others knew the amount of money I spent on books or craft supplies, they'd thing that was excessive. It's all about priorities, right?

Andrewsgal · September 2014

Kimbus22 said:

Andrewsgal said:

auroraloo said:

I think it's silly too, but I also don't care.

Why? I have perfectly good jeans in my closet but will get a newer nicer pair this winter. I have wearable boots but will get a nicer pair that isn't all scuffed up. We are constantly updating things in our life. Why are phones different? And of you didn't care you wouldn't have said anything.

Eh. I don't care if you want two new iphones when yours work fine. I still think it's a silly thing to spend money on when what you have works fine. But I don't give a crap about electronics. I also don't really replace clothes until mine don't fit or fall apart though. But I'm sure I spend money on crap you think is stupid but don't actually care that I spend money on.

I believe you don't care. I don't believe those who make it a UO aren't judging an by saying someone is silly you are by default judging, you are judging it as silly.

Andrewsgal · September 2014

I think caring how others spend their money is weird and yes I am admitting to judging. Posting about it two days in a row is even weirder and yes I am judging again.

HBirdie · September 2014

Andrewsgal said:

I think caring how others spend their money is weird and yes I am admitting to judging. Posting about it two days in a row is even weirder and yes I am judging again.

Okay. I'm weird then. :-??

Andrewsgal · September 2014

HBirdie said:

Kimbus22 said:

Andrewsgal said:

auroraloo said:

I think it's silly too, but I also don't care.

Why? I have perfectly good jeans in my closet but will get a newer nicer pair this winter. I have wearable boots but will get a nicer pair that isn't all scuffed up. We are constantly updating things in our life. Why are phones different? And of you didn't care you wouldn't have said anything.

Eh. I don't care if you want two new iphones when yours work fine. I still think it's a silly thing to spend money on when what you have works fine. But I don't give a crap about electronics. I also don't really replace clothes until mine don't fit or fall apart though. But I'm sure I spend money on crap you think is stupid but don't actually care that I spend money on.

Exactly. I'm sure if others knew the amount of money I spent on books or craft supplies, they'd thing that was excessive. It's all about priorities, right?

nope see I just can't get it up to care about what people spend money on. Maybe that's why it's so weird to me.

HBirdie · September 2014

Andrewsgal said:

HBirdie said:

Kimbus22 said:

Andrewsgal said:

auroraloo said:

I think it's silly too, but I also don't care.

Why? I have perfectly good jeans in my closet but will get a newer nicer pair this winter. I have wearable boots but will get a nicer pair that isn't all scuffed up. We are constantly updating things in our life. Why are phones different? And of you didn't care you wouldn't have said anything.

Eh. I don't care if you want two new iphones when yours work fine. I still think it's a silly thing to spend money on when what you have works fine. But I don't give a crap about electronics. I also don't really replace clothes until mine don't fit or fall apart though. But I'm sure I spend money on crap you think is stupid but don't actually care that I spend money on.

Exactly. I'm sure if others knew the amount of money I spent on books or craft supplies, they'd thing that was excessive. It's all about priorities, right?

nope see I just can't get it up to care about what people spend money on. Maybe that's why it's so weird to me.

Guess you're just a better person than all of us, AG.

Andrewsgal · September 2014

HBirdie said:

Andrewsgal said:

HBirdie said:

Kimbus22 said:

Andrewsgal said:

auroraloo said:

I think it's silly too, but I also don't care.

Why? I have perfectly good jeans in my closet but will get a newer nicer pair this winter. I have wearable boots but will get a nicer pair that isn't all scuffed up. We are constantly updating things in our life. Why are phones different? And of you didn't care you wouldn't have said anything.

Eh. I don't care if you want two new iphones when yours work fine. I still think it's a silly thing to spend money on when what you have works fine. But I don't give a crap about electronics. I also don't really replace clothes until mine don't fit or fall apart though. But I'm sure I spend money on crap you think is stupid but don't actually care that I spend money on.

Exactly. I'm sure if others knew the amount of money I spent on books or craft supplies, they'd thing that was excessive. It's all about priorities, right?

nope see I just can't get it up to care about what people spend money on. Maybe that's why it's so weird to me.

Guess you're just a better person than all of us, AG.

shockingly you went extreme again. have and will fully admit I judge a lot. Like a lot but not about how people spend their money. **EDITED BY MOD**

Keeptruckin · September 2014

I agree with the whole if you choose to not vaccinate you forfeit your right to public education. I think any body shaming sucks. Yes, of course the societal pressure is to be thin so fat shaming is way worse. When I was about 30 pounds overweight I never ordered dessert. I always thought the waiter would judge me. Now that I am thin, people tease me in a nice way about my dessert love. It's just different, I wish I could articulate it better.

HBirdie · September 2014

Andrewsgal said:

HBirdie said:

Andrewsgal said:

HBirdie said:

Kimbus22 said:

Andrewsgal said:

auroraloo said:

I think it's silly too, but I also don't care.

Why? I have perfectly good jeans in my closet but will get a newer nicer pair this winter. I have wearable boots but will get a nicer pair that isn't all scuffed up. We are constantly updating things in our life. Why are phones different? And of you didn't care you wouldn't have said anything.

Eh. I don't care if you want two new iphones when yours work fine. I still think it's a silly thing to spend money on when what you have works fine. But I don't give a crap about electronics. I also don't really replace clothes until mine don't fit or fall apart though. But I'm sure I spend money on crap you think is stupid but don't actually care that I spend money on.

Exactly. I'm sure if others knew the amount of money I spent on books or craft supplies, they'd thing that was excessive. It's all about priorities, right?

nope see I just can't get it up to care about what people spend money on. Maybe that's why it's so weird to me.

Guess you're just a better person than all of us, AG.

shockingly you went extreme again. have and will fully admit I judge a lot. Like a lot but not about how people spend their money. **EDITED BY MOD**

Whoa whoa whoa... it was a joke. Seriously. Relax. :-bd

rosesandpetals · September 2014

I think there's a difference between being rude and shaming.

"Wow, you've put on a few pounds!" = rude
"You don't need birth control because you are too fat to get pregnant, come back when you stop being a lazy slob." = shaming

And it's true in the reverse, too.

"Wow, you're skin and bones!" = rude
"I can see your ribs, you're disgusting, go eat a cheeseburger." = shaming

Every time someone makes a comment about your body it isn't shaming. Idunno, this has been bugging me.

magentawarped · September 2014

rosesandpetals said:
I think there's a difference between being rude and shaming.

"Wow, you've put on a few pounds!" = rude
"You don't need birth control because you are too fat to get pregnant, come back when you stop being a lazy slob." = shaming

And it's true in the reverse, too.

"Wow, you're skin and bones!" = rude
"I can see your ribs, you're disgusting, go eat a cheeseburger." = shaming

Every time someone makes a comment about your body it isn't shaming. Idunno, this has been bugging me.

THANK YOU.

notkateanymore · September 2014

HBirdie...you aren't fun.

HBirdie · September 2014

notkateanymore said:

HBirdie...you aren't fun.

What the hell did I do? This whole board judges the weirdest things all the time but because I say I don't understand replacing a perfectly good phone with the newest model, I'm no fun? I was nothing but pleasant in this conversation and am told to f off twice, but I'm no fun. Okay. Can't win here.

Andrewsgal · September 2014

Because it seems to be your thing to be a bitch and when called on it you claim it is a joke. You did it yesterday too. I don't buy it. And evidentially I am not the only one. Oh and I fully own I am judgmental but at least I admit to it, you weren't judging remember?

zbeesma86 · September 2014

AG- are you doing the 6 or 6 plus?!

tell me about it when you get it!

I'm super jealous! I want oneeeeeeee!

edit- posted too soon

Andrewsgal · September 2014

zbeesma86 said:

AG- are you doing the 6 or 6 plus?!

tell me about it when you get it!

I'm super jealous! I want oneeeeeeee!

edit- posted too soon

6. DH made models of them at work and the plus was too big. Really they won't cost is much with the trade in and gift money is how we are

HBirdie · September 2014

Andrewsgal said: Because it seems to be your thing to be a bitch and when called on it you claim it is a joke. You did it yesterday too. I don't buy it. And evidentially I am not the only one. Oh and I fully own I am judgmental but at least I admit to it, you weren't judging remember?
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I honestly wasn't trying to be bitchy. Either time. That's not really my MO. Apparently I should make that clearer.

I guess if it's judgmental to think certain ways of spending money are silly or unnecessary, then I'm judgmental. Okay. I'm not sitting here looking at my friends with new iPhones judging that they bought them. More just thinking I don't understand paying a bunch of money for a new phone when the one you have is perfectly fine and practically the same. Because I wouldn't do that. That's all.

zbeesma86 · September 2014

Andrewsgal said:

zbeesma86 said:

AG- are you doing the 6 or 6 plus?!

tell me about it when you get it!

I'm super jealous! I want oneeeeeeee!

edit- posted too soon

6. DH made models of them at work and the plus was too big. Really they won't cost is much with the trade in and gift money is how we are

My mom JUST gave in and got the big samsung galaxy phone and now Apple has the 6 plus- she was like really?! I told her to give it back, I think she has 30 days to try it and trade it in. I want the 6. DH wants the plus haha.

HBirdie · September 2014

Andrewsgal said:

zbeesma86 said:

AG- are you doing the 6 or 6 plus?!

tell me about it when you get it!

I'm super jealous! I want oneeeeeeee!

edit- posted too soon

6. DH made models of them at work and the plus was too big. Really they won't cost is much with the trade in and gift money is how we are

My H saw a picture and he was like, "I don't want a kindle in my pocket!" haha

Andrewsgal · September 2014

HBirdie said:

Andrewsgal said:

zbeesma86 said:

AG- are you doing the 6 or 6 plus?!

tell me about it when you get it!

I'm super jealous! I want oneeeeeeee!

edit- posted too soon

6. DH made models of them at work and the plus was too big. Really they won't cost is much with the trade in and gift money is how we are

My H saw a picture and he was like, "I don't want a kindle in my pocket!" haha

seriously it wouldn't even fit in my pocket. The kindle comparison is funny.

Aussie45 · September 2014

JellyBellyStarr said:
I didn't have a cell in his but when I started college I did. I remember it was a Nokia with a snake game. I thought I was super cool.

OMG, I totally forgot about that. My best friends mom had that on her phone and I would play it all.the.time.

HBirdie · September 2014

Aussie45 said:

I didn't have a cell in his but when I started college I did. I remember it was a Nokia with a snake game. I thought I was super cool.
OMG, I totally forgot about that. My best friends mom had that on her phone and I would play it all.the.time.

I used to sneak my parents' phone and play the bowling game. And I'd listen to the ringtones over and over and change their background.

HBirdie · September 2014

auroraloo said:

HBirdie, I think you're fun. I'm not sure what's going on in here.

AG, didn't you say something about judging people who shop at Kohl's? (I admit to skimming, so this could be wrong) that's money judging isn't it?

And I really don't care how you spend your money. I can think it is silly without caring.

This is weird. Something weird happened here, I can't quite figure it out.

Thanks, haha.

Apparently some people are allowed to judge some things, but other people are not allowed to judge other things. That's what I got from it. I don't know.

And yes, the bolded times a thousand.

Andrewsgal · September 2014

WTF @auroraloo‌ before you call someone out for something perhaps you should read, and not post if you don't know what you are talking about. I was judging those who think they are getting a good deal at kohls not shopping there actually I said I have bought so,e jumping bean things there in the past. WK is cool if you know what you are talking about. @HBirdie‌ so which one is it? You were judging or your weren't because your story keeps changing. No one said you can't judge, reading fails everywhere. But at least own up to it. Saying something is silly is judging and ind of bitchy too.

Andrewsgal · September 2014

olivegoose said:

I ordered a 6+ and now I'm thinking I might end up trading it in for a 6. I didn't realize how huge it is. If I can't put it in my pocket I will lose it. I don't like HBO. The shows are too graphic for me. I like my TV fluffy and full of happy endings.

it might depend on the case too. We put otterbox defenders on ours so it makes them bigger too.

HBirdie · September 2014

Andrewsgal said: WTF @auroraloo‌ before you call someone out for something perhaps you should read, and not post if you don't know what you are talking about. I was judging those who think they are getting a good deal at kohls not shopping there actually I said I have bought so,e jumping bean things there in the past. WK is cool if you know what you are talking about. @HBirdie‌ so which one is it? You were judging or your weren't because your story keeps changing. No one said you can't judge, reading fails everywhere. But at least own up to it. Saying something is silly is judging and ind of bitchy too. ----------quote fail----------

I'm not changing my story at all. I don't see how saying something is silly is automatically judgmental. Apparently you do, that's fine. Even if it is, I don't understand how it's cool for everyone else to judge but not me.

I made a fairly innocuous statement, you came in guns blazing. I was amused and made a joke, trying to drop it, and you told me to eff off. I think you're looking for someone new to pile on and you've chosen me for whatever reason. That's your prerogative, I guess. :-??

Andrewsgal · September 2014

Oh FFS you are not a victim. Two days in row you have said something odd or bitchy then try to laugh it off. It doesn't work that way. When you get called on it you play all innocent like it was a joke

) since you like smileys and all. And the weirdest thing about today is this crap had died down between you and I until rora WK at a weird time.

HBirdie · September 2014

Andrewsgal said:

Oh FFS you are not a victim. Two days in row you have said something odd or bitchy then try to laugh it off. It doesn't work that way. When you get called on it you play all innocent like it was a joke ) since you like smileys and all. And the weirdest thing about today is this crap had died down between you and I until rora WK at a weird time.

I'm not playing innocent or "acting" like something was a joke. It WAS a joke. Not everyone has rude intentions all the time.

Andrewsgal · September 2014

Just FTR saying something is silly is bitchy when used in certain ways. That kid is silly-not bitchy. Spending $200 a month on clothes is silly-judging and bitchy.

Andrewsgal · September 2014

diapersnwipes said:

Judgmental bitches. All of you. :P

Now you are just being silly.

Andrewsgal · September 2014

HBirdie said:

Andrewsgal said:

Oh FFS you are not a victim. Two days in row you have said something odd or bitchy then try to laugh it off. It doesn't work that way. When you get called on it you play all innocent like it was a joke ) since you like smileys and all. And the weirdest thing about today is this crap had died down between you and I until rora WK at a weird time.

I'm not playing innocent or "acting" like something was a joke. It WAS a joke. Not everyone has rude intentions all the time.

I don't buy it, but in that case you need to work on your jokes because both days they came off as way bitchy and not the least bit funny.

Andrewsgal · September 2014

auroraloo said:

Andrewsgal said:

diapersnwipes said:

Judgmental bitches. All of you. :P

Now you are just being silly.

Don't be so judgmental.

I fully own my judgment it was kind of bitchy too

Andrewsgal · September 2014

I judged my friend who I had lunch with yesterday when she let her 11 month old finish her diet coke then refilled it for her. See I judge a lot.

Aussie45 · September 2014

CnAmom said:
The only person to ever fat shame was my OB and I totally deserved it. I don't know how I even managed to gain 12lbs in 2 weeks.

I know how I gained mine, but I plea the fifth

Andrewsgal · September 2014

Oh an I judge my husband for using Luke's head as an Oreo stand right now.

Andrewsgal · September 2014

CnAmom said:

Oh an I judge my husband for using Luke's head as an Oreo stand right now.
But baby heads make excellent food stands.

but I just gave him a bath and his hair is so light, at least when he did it with Jack the crumbs blended in. Wow I now judge us for having an Oreo problem since this has obviously been going on for 5 years.

Andrewsgal · September 2014

diapersnwipes said:

auroraloo said:

Andrewsgal said:

diapersnwipes said:

Judgmental bitches. All of you. :P

Now you are just being silly.

Don't be so judgmental.

I fully own my judgment it was kind of bitchy too
And this is how you want everyone else to operate. Say something bitchy, get called out and bask in your bitchy gloriousness as oppose to trying to backtrack and explain. I can handle it.

yes! No back tracking it kills me it's just so hav.

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