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3 failed IUI cycles
Oct '15 - IVF 1 - 10R, 3M, 0F
Sept '16 - IVF - 12R, 11M, 5F and 3 perfect day 5 blasts - MMC 7w5d
Jan '17 - FET 1 - BFP, EDD 10/14
DD#1 born June '09
DD#2 born April '11
TTC #3 as of July '14
What Are Your Thoughts on Tap Dancing Penguins?
Me-27 DH-29
TTC#1 January 2013
BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C
Working on our rainbow!
Curious about my ute?
No they are not an OB at all it is the new hope center who only specialize in infertility they are a big help
And your reaction was completely out of line.
3 failed IUI cycles
Oct '15 - IVF 1 - 10R, 3M, 0F
Sept '16 - IVF - 12R, 11M, 5F and 3 perfect day 5 blasts - MMC 7w5d
Jan '17 - FET 1 - BFP, EDD 10/14
3 failed IUI cycles
Oct '15 - IVF 1 - 10R, 3M, 0F
Sept '16 - IVF - 12R, 11M, 5F and 3 perfect day 5 blasts - MMC 7w5d
Jan '17 - FET 1 - BFP, EDD 10/14
3 failed IUI cycles
Oct '15 - IVF 1 - 10R, 3M, 0F
Sept '16 - IVF - 12R, 11M, 5F and 3 perfect day 5 blasts - MMC 7w5d
Jan '17 - FET 1 - BFP, EDD 10/14
3 failed IUI cycles
Oct '15 - IVF 1 - 10R, 3M, 0F
Sept '16 - IVF - 12R, 11M, 5F and 3 perfect day 5 blasts - MMC 7w5d
Jan '17 - FET 1 - BFP, EDD 10/14
OP, getting on a reg's ass for saying something that was a completely valid reaction is not a great start here. I think that you should lurk around a bit and see how we interact. I've also struggled with infertility and loss and it can be very very hard when you don't get something that's supposed to be a basic biological imperative and you see people all around you doing it easily. The thing to remember is that their fertility has no bearing on your own. There aren't a set number of babies to be born, they're not stealing anything from you.
And, one of the main reasons I try very hard not to judge is because, beyond just trying to be a good person, it's not worth the psychological toll it takes on me.
Also, when you've dealt with IF or loss, you get a lot of people telling you that maybe 'it wasn't meant to be' or somesuchshit, which is all about judging whether you are worthy of a baby. There are still arguments (really really stupid ones) about whether certain IF treatments are 'morally correct' or if we shouldn't just learn to live childless. Whether we 'deserve' to have kids. It's a shitty thing to say. Even if you're dealing with people in your life who aren't making good choices (and can you cut them out or at least to a bare minimum is they're affecting you so much?), talking about who deserves kids will get the side-eye on here.
Me-31, H-27
**Loss 1-Cycle 7(June 2013) at 5w6d-CP**Loss 2-Cycle 11(October 2013) at 5w4d-CP**
**Loss 3-Cycle 14 (January-February 2014)-M/C dx 2/10, EP dx 2/24, MTX 2/25**
Beta Hell--hCG finally down to 0 - 6/20/14
SA normal. Genetic testing normal. Hormonal testing normal.
HSG 6/30/14 - found blocked left tube and 2 'bubbles' on uterine wall.
Hysteroscopy/Lap--8/4/14 - Tubes unblocked. Polyps removed from uterine wall. Septum removed.
9/30/14--Off the bench! Unmedicated TI through December 2014
BFP 12/14/14!!! Beta #1, 12/16: 990 Beta #2, 12/18: Over 2000! Beta #3, 12/22: over 8000!
U/S #1, 12/23: gestational sac, possible heartbeat
U/S #2, 12/30: HEARTBEAT! 128bpm, measuring right on at 7w EDD: 8/19/2015
U/S #3, 1/9: BPM in the 180s, IT'S HAPPENING!!!
What Are Your Thoughts on Tap Dancing Penguins?
I showed up late to the party, therefore, I don't know what your posted originally, and since you deleted it, I will never know what you said. Myself or someone else could have learned and benefited from what you had to say, but you deleted it and that is why it is considered rude.
Edit- OP I'm sorry for your struggles, but you made a statement in another comment that ANYONE would get called out on. Just apologize for (or at least recognize) your mistake and move on.