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Guess I should intro

I have a two year old and miscarried twins in May/June (it took a month) of this year. Technically tta now until I ovulate regularly again and heal emotionally/physically from the m/c. I stay home with my son and my husband and I run a marketing business together.

Nice to meet you all! I'm hoping this can be my home board until I conceive. Not sure I fit in on TTCAL since most of them are childless, but they seem great so I'll be on both boards... just won't be mentioning ds over there for obvious reasons. It'll be good to have a place to discuss the unique challenges associated with TTTCAS ... for example when the heck are we supposed to cry? My son is always with me so I have to suck it up a lot.
First Child born 11/27/12
Natural Birth - Water Birth - EBF - BLW - Cloth Diapers - BF Toddler - Montessori

Twins born into Heaven
BFP - 4/6/14, due date 12/8/14. First twin M/C at home - 5/5/14, Second twin D&C - 6/5/14

TTA for three normal cycles per doctor's orders, and not sure of the plan after that. 

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  • Welcome and I'm sorry for your losses <3

    DD 15.07.2012

    BFP #2 01.18.2014, MMC 04.10.2014 15w5d

    BFP #3 07.18.2014, MC 07.31.2014 5w6d

    DX: RPL due to submucosal uterine fibroid. Hysteroscopy 12/16. All clear!

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  • Welcome to the board and I am so very, very sorry for your losses!
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  • So sorry for your loss. The shower is a great place to cry. Even if your ds is there with you the shower water hides your tears. Or the car. He can't see you in the car. I had my m/c before both my girls and those were my 2 best hiding places for crying. Nobody to see or ask questions.
    m/c April '08
    DD#1 born June '09
    DD#2 born April '11
    TTC #3 as of July '14


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  • dmsmth said:

    So sorry for your loss. The shower is a great place to cry. Even if your ds is there with you the shower water hides your tears. Or the car. He can't see you in the car. I had my m/c before both my girls and those were my 2 best hiding places for crying. Nobody to see or ask questions.

    Thank you! That is so helpful!
    First Child born 11/27/12
    Natural Birth - Water Birth - EBF - BLW - Cloth Diapers - BF Toddler - Montessori

    Twins born into Heaven
    BFP - 4/6/14, due date 12/8/14. First twin M/C at home - 5/5/14, Second twin D&C - 6/5/14

    TTA for three normal cycles per doctor's orders, and not sure of the plan after that. 
    dmsmth
  • Welcome and sorry for your loss
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    dmsmth said:

    So sorry for your loss. The shower is a great place to cry. Even if your ds is there with you the shower water hides your tears. Or the car. He can't see you in the car. I had my m/c before both my girls and those were my 2 best hiding places for crying. Nobody to see or ask questions.

    I was going to say pretty much the same thing. DD herd me sniffle in the car once and said "Mommy, why sad?" Broke my heart even more. I've resorted to doing my best to wait until nap, bed time, and showers. Told DH the other day I needed to cry so I was taking a shower. When he looked at me crazy I just replied with 'The water hides my tears' and giggled uncomfortably. I'm normally the one joking off situations that make me uncomfortable. This chapter of my life is posing to be a challenge for me. (((Hugs)))

    DH & I are both 28    Together: 12 years    Married: 09/24/2011

    BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012

    Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12

    BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20

    BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15

  • Hello!  Welcome and I am so very sorry for your losses

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    Monster #1- Hunter Fillmore! 10.1.11
     MC 3.20.14 -- 8w3d
    MC 7.11.14-- 5w4d
    Monsterette #2- EDD  5.9.15

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  • Welcome, and I'm so sorry for your loss of your twins.  I agree that the car and shower are good places to cry.  I've also found that my DS doesn't seem to recognize that I'm crying if there aren't actual tears on my face, so I can quietly cry in the same room with him and just wipe the tears before interacting with him, and he's none the wiser.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

  • Welcome and I'm so sorry for your losses.


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    DS born Oct. '11

    TTC #2 with PCOS since Nov. '13

    Dx: Low Progesterone (3.3) on 8/12/14

    Waiting for RE appointment on 10/28/14

    Surprise BFP on cycle 12 -- 10/19/14!

    EDD July 1, 2015

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  • I am so sorry for your loss! Welcome!

    BFP #1 7/6/2012, EDD 3/13/2013, Delivered 3/14/2013

    BFP #2 1/7/2014: EDD:9/14 MC: 1/9/2014 (confirmed via blood work)

    BFP #3 7/5/2014: EDD 3/11/2015 MC: 7/15/2014

    BFP #4 11/7/2014: EDD 7/17/2015~~Please be my RAINBOW!

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    All are Welcome!

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