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Guess I should intro

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I have a two year old and miscarried twins in May/June (it took a month) of this year. Technically tta now until I ovulate regularly again and heal emotionally/physically from the m/c. I stay home with my son and my husband and I run a marketing business together.

Nice to meet you all! I'm hoping this can be my home board until I conceive. Not sure I fit in on TTCAL since most of them are childless, but they seem great so I'll be on both boards... just won't be mentioning ds over there for obvious reasons. It'll be good to have a place to discuss the unique challenges associated with TTTCAS ... for example when the heck are we supposed to cry? My son is always with me so I have to suck it up a lot.
11/27/12
First Child born

5/5/14 and 6/5/14
Twins born into Heaven 
BFP - 4/6/14, due date 12/8/14. First twin M/C at home - 5/5/14, Second twin D&C - 6/5/14

11/14
Chemical Pregnancy

9/5/15
Second after severe bleeding for 18 weeks due to subchorionic hematoma

Currently
Expecting Number 3 due 10/31/2020
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  • purplehaze11purplehaze11 member
    Welcome and I'm sorry for your losses <3

    DD 15.07.2012

    BFP #2 01.18.2014, MMC 04.10.2014 15w5d

    BFP #3 07.18.2014, MC 07.31.2014 5w6d

    DX: RPL due to submucosal uterine fibroid. Hysteroscopy 12/16. All clear!

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  • Reagan1010Reagan1010 member
    Welcome to the board and I am so very, very sorry for your losses!
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  • dmsmthdmsmth member
    So sorry for your loss. The shower is a great place to cry. Even if your ds is there with you the shower water hides your tears. Or the car. He can't see you in the car. I had my m/c before both my girls and those were my 2 best hiding places for crying. Nobody to see or ask questions.
    m/c April '08
    DD#1 born June '09
    DD#2 born April '11
    TTC #3 as of July '14


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  • BLuvsEBLuvsE member
    dmsmth said:

    So sorry for your loss. The shower is a great place to cry. Even if your ds is there with you the shower water hides your tears. Or the car. He can't see you in the car. I had my m/c before both my girls and those were my 2 best hiding places for crying. Nobody to see or ask questions.

    Thank you! That is so helpful!
    11/27/12
    First Child born

    5/5/14 and 6/5/14
    Twins born into Heaven 
    BFP - 4/6/14, due date 12/8/14. First twin M/C at home - 5/5/14, Second twin D&C - 6/5/14

    11/14
    Chemical Pregnancy

    9/5/15
    Second after severe bleeding for 18 weeks due to subchorionic hematoma

    Currently
    Expecting Number 3 due 10/31/2020
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  • morganlmwmorganlmw member
    Welcome and sorry for your loss
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    Welcome and sorry for your loss.
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  • uromysuromys member
    edited August 2014
    dmsmth said:

    So sorry for your loss. The shower is a great place to cry. Even if your ds is there with you the shower water hides your tears. Or the car. He can't see you in the car. I had my m/c before both my girls and those were my 2 best hiding places for crying. Nobody to see or ask questions.

    I was going to say pretty much the same thing. DD herd me sniffle in the car once and said "Mommy, why sad?" Broke my heart even more. I've resorted to doing my best to wait until nap, bed time, and showers. Told DH the other day I needed to cry so I was taking a shower. When he looked at me crazy I just replied with 'The water hides my tears' and giggled uncomfortably. I'm normally the one joking off situations that make me uncomfortable. This chapter of my life is posing to be a challenge for me. (((Hugs)))

    DH & I are both 28    Together: 12 years    Married: 09/24/2011

    BFP#1: January '12 - DD1 09/16/2012

    Preterm labor 31 weeks. Monitored for Hellp and diagnosed with oligohydramnios July '12

    BFP #2: 06/25 - EDD 03/05/15 MMC confirmed 8/1 - D&E 8/4 retained tissue discovered 8/20

    BFP #3 11/24 - 12/15 Heartbeat detected - DD2 07/29/15

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  • OnceInLoveWithAmyOnceInLoveWithAmy member
    Hello!  Welcome and I am so very sorry for your losses

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    Monster #1- Hunter Fillmore! 10.1.11
     MC 3.20.14 -- 8w3d
    MC 7.11.14-- 5w4d
    Monsterette #2- EDD  5.9.15

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  • CheesyPeasCheesyPeas member
    Welcome, and I'm so sorry for your loss of your twins.  I agree that the car and shower are good places to cry.  I've also found that my DS doesn't seem to recognize that I'm crying if there aren't actual tears on my face, so I can quietly cry in the same room with him and just wipe the tears before interacting with him, and he's none the wiser.
    November 2010 - 10.5 week loss  o:) 
    October 2011 - DS (7)  <3 
    July 2014 - Stillborn DD (24 weeks)  o:) 
    August 2015 - DD (3)  <3 
    April 2018 - 5 week loss o:) 

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  • nittanyllamanittanyllama member
    Welcome and I'm so sorry for your losses.


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    DS born Oct. '11

    TTC #2 with PCOS since Nov. '13

    Dx: Low Progesterone (3.3) on 8/12/14

    Waiting for RE appointment on 10/28/14

    Surprise BFP on cycle 12 -- 10/19/14!

    EDD July 1, 2015

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  • tigerlynx31413tigerlynx31413 member
    I am so sorry for your loss! Welcome!

    BFP #1 7/6/2012, EDD 3/13/2013, Delivered 3/14/2013

    BFP #2 1/7/2014: EDD:9/14 MC: 1/9/2014 (confirmed via blood work)

    BFP #3 7/5/2014: EDD 3/11/2015 MC: 7/15/2014

    BFP #4 11/7/2014: EDD 7/17/2015~~Please be my RAINBOW!

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