@SJohnson829, I hope everything is ok. Sending you T&Ps!
I guess I missed most of this last night since I went to bed at a decent hour. @molassa, I can only assume that you're not talking about me since I have zero idea who you are. That means you're talking about my friends. These ladies have become REAL friends for me. I am amazed to have met such funny, smart, supportive women on the internet. I thought a lot of people on the internet were idiots, spouting off NONSENSE about flu shots (don't get me started!) and flinging random insults around. And then I came here and figured out that hey, there are some really great people on the internet. Unfortunately, it doesn't look like you're one of them. I'm a nice person, I promise you, but I have to stick up for my friends here. Please don't call them names and insult them and their families. That's incredibly rude, and you're the one who ends up looking bad.
I personally LOVE the snarky, sarcastic wit of you ladies! Snarky+sarcastic= my people! Such a refreshing change from the other pregnancy sites I've been on. So, keep up the FUCKING good work ladies!!
PS- I know I'm avatarless, but I can't figure out how to change it with the android app, and my home computer is broken.
To the "girls" who find pleasure in showing us you love the F word and insist on shaming anyone who calls you out for how stupid and rude you act, I really hope you grow up in time to raise decent human beings. Hormones are not an excuse to be a raging bitch to complete strangers. Really, you have the right to be rude and condescending but it makes me feel very sorry for your kids. I hope my own children never encounter this type of non intelligent internet banter as adults because your little kids hear how hateful you are. I don't care how rude you are or will be to me, I'm not leaving because I enjoy the app and I can look away from the shit you spew out of your small minds but some other women take it to heart. Whether or not you think another person shouldn't take you seriously, they do. I just feel sorry for a lot of you. Good luck getting away with these attitudes in the real world. The internet is an uglier place because of you.
A. Hormones are also no excuse to be a troll.
B. It's actually "unintelligent" not non intelligent. At least my kid will be grammatically correct.
C. Please don't feel sorry for me, it makes me feel bad for what I'm about to say (not really).... shut the fuck up....
Lol please stick around. You will be fun!
I really couldn't find a good place to insert "fuck" though. It made me a bit sad. My imagination is lacking tonight.
Lol please stick the FUCK around. You will be FUCKING fun! I really couldn't FUCKING find a good FUCKING place to insert "fuck" though. It made me a bit FUCKING sad. My FUCKING imagination is FUCKING lacking tonight. FUCK ME!
Also, insert is a great word for FUCK. If somebody already did this, I apologise, I just could not FUCKING resist. Are we allowed to use the "C" word?
That's all the FUCK I've got for today.
@saucylittlemonkeygirl - Suggest the above little edit on your reply to help you stay within TOU. She's not worth getting a ban.
I mean, support for another Bumpie is happening in this very thread right.now. How can people not see that and continue to imply that we are a bunch of rude bitches?
Really?!
I truly can't thank you ladies enough for the support!! The baby is good for now and they have various theories but aren't sure why the bleeding occurred so they are running some labs and going to have me on progesterone supplements to be safe. In real life, only 3 people other than my husband and kids know we are having another baby and I definitely didn't want to alarm them because they have been worried enough so I appreciate all the women here and knowing I have a place that shows love and support, no matter what random people seem to think. When I was pregnant with Nora, I wish I would have had a place like this because when we lost her, it was very isolating. Thank you again and I truly mean it!!
Almost every day there is a new loss on this page. Personally, I'm sitting here for the next 4 excruciating hours just crying and waiting, having had bleeding and still have horrible cramping for my ultrasound appointment to see if my baby is still alive. I already buried a daughter last year and this is the last chance for me, but no matter the outcome, it isn't people like you that are going to be there for me with support. It's the same women that you condemn and call names just because you think they may have hurt the feelings of other grown women that will be offering the support.
If people can't understand that this site isn't their own personal blog but an actual community that takes time and effort to integrate into then that's their problem. It also isn't google or a remote OB's office and if people that offer no support to others fail to see that and just want to AW themselves all day long then they shouldn't be surprised by the reactions they get. I know in real life that when I meet people that want to have a one-sided friendship, where they give nothing in return, I don't want them around me either.
Re: Get over yourselves
For suzyq0525
I guess I missed most of this last night since I went to bed at a decent hour. @molassa, I can only assume that you're not talking about me since I have zero idea who you are. That means you're talking about my friends. These ladies have become REAL friends for me. I am amazed to have met such funny, smart, supportive women on the internet. I thought a lot of people on the internet were idiots, spouting off NONSENSE about flu shots (don't get me started!) and flinging random insults around. And then I came here and figured out that hey, there are some really great people on the internet. Unfortunately, it doesn't look like you're one of them. I'm a nice person, I promise you, but I have to stick up for my friends here. Please don't call them names and insult them and their families. That's incredibly rude, and you're the one who ends up looking bad.
TTC #1 May 2014
BFP 7/4/14 ~ EDD 3/17/15
My Chart
Married: 10/04/2014
DD1: 03/02/15
DD2: 08/04/16
Baby 3 Due: 11/23/18!
PS- I know I'm avatarless, but I can't figure out how to change it with the android app, and my home computer is broken.
@Sjohnson829 - T&P that you get good news.
To OP... oh who I am I kidding, I won't waste my keystrokes responding to that kind of spewing.
Married the love of my life: 5-17-14
BFP:6-27-14
EDD:3-11-15
Step Mom to Z: 4-11-06
IT'S A BOY!!!!!!
Surprise! Baby #2 EDD 7/28/17
MC: 2/19/14
@saucylittlemonkeygirl - Suggest the above little edit on your reply to help you stay within TOU. She's not worth getting a ban.
"Serious is only something you have to be until you can be silly again."For suzyq0525