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October 2014 Moms
windwithfingers
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Hey, all. Remember me?
windwithfingers
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Hi, everyone. It's been 3 months since I last posted here. My last post was on the day of my wedding back on May 10. I don't know how many people will remember me, but I remember most of you. At first, I was only on hiatus from the board because of wedding stuff, then honeymoon stuff, then we moved the third week of May, and everything was very hectic. I just didn't have much time to connect. And then, in June, when everything started to normalize, my DH passed away suddenly and unexpectedly. That was June 16 when I was ~25 weeks pregnant.
So I'm now 33 weeks along, back to living in my parents' converted attic bedroom with our cats, trying to figure out how to be a single mom, I guess. I think I'm ready to socialize with others again, even though everything still sucks and is really hard. I just want to be able to focus on something other than my new circumstances and connect with other pregnant women and moms again. I hate to be a downer. I promise not to post about being widowed or bring it up all the time. I just want some normalcy again.
Thanks for reading. I'm glad to be back. I missed everyone I was starting to get to know this past spring, and it makes me happy to read the posts here again.
Me: 30 | DH: 4/12/85 - 6/16/14 | Quinn Patrick born 9/28/14
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Re: Hey, all. Remember me?
I am unbelievably sorry to hear about all that has gone on. We are all here for you and your pregnancy.
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Hope all is going well with your pregnancy!
This is a great place for distraction, support and commiserating! Glad you're back!
Please feel free to ease back in! Post about whatever you'd like. If you want to post about being a widow, please do that. If you don't, we won't talk about it. If you change your mind day to day, change your mind.
We're here in whatever capacity you need.
Sydney Elizabeth born 9.24.14
Married 8/27/2011
BFP #1 9/28/2011 DS born 5/22/2012
BFP #2 4/24/2013 m/c 4/25/2013 at 4w
BFP #3 1/31/2014 DD born 10/14/2014
BFP #4 1/20/2016 m/c 2/12/2014 at 7w2d
BFP #5 8/19/2016 DS2 born 4/29/2017
BFP #6 3/7/2018 EDD 11/18/2018
And I'm not a super regular but I do post and remember you!
I'm so very sorry for your loss and the struggles you've been facing of late. We're here for you! I hope you are able to find great sources of support in your community, and some really nice moms to connect with.
Piper Jo: October 14'
Sorry to hear about your husband. I agree with PP in saying that if you need to vent go ahead.
Me: 34 DH: 34
TTC since Jan '13
BFP#1 - EDD 3/24/14 - d&c 7w5d
BFP#2 - EDD 6/14/14 - cp 4w2d
BFP#3 - EDD 10/28/14 - It's a BOY!!! - Born 10/26/14
My close friend lost her husband (my husbands best friend) 7 months ago but they had no children and I'm sure that adds a very different element to the situation.
Anyway, please feel free to post whatever you want to, my friend found it very cathartic to start a blog about dealing with being a widow at a young age.
BFP #1 05/16/10 EDD 01/13/11 natural m/c 11w1d (unknown cause)
BFP #2 03/24/11 EDD 12/06/11 missed m/c D&C 10w (Triploidy xxx)
BFP #3 12/24/11 EDD 09/02/12 missed m/c D&C 10w4d (Triploidy xxx)
BFP #4 02/10/14 EDD 10/19/14 - Baby boy made his arrival 10/02/14!
BFP #5 05/08/15 EDD 01/19/16 C/P 05/14/15
BFP #6 06/05/15 EDD 02/18/16 *It's a GIRL!!*
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